relapse is not a moral failure. substance use and addiction are not a moral failure. mental illness is not a moral failure. disability is not a moral failure. you have a health condition. you are struggling. recovery is not mean to be perfect, and if you're not in recovery, surviving is good too. i'm glad you're here, and i hope life treats you better soon. please know this is not your fault. you do not need to feel guilty over your own health.
it takes courage to be kind. it takes effort to be kind. no, it does not cost $0 to be kind. Kindness is a choice. Sometimes, a hard one. But people still make it and that's what keeps the world going.
Not forgiving someone who has deeply hurt you is okay. You can’t force yourself to forgive and forget all those traumatic events that were caused by others, whether last year or twelve to thirty years ago. You can’t put a number on your feelings and your memories.
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06.03.2024 (TW—hospitals, psych units, mentions of mental illness/implied unaliving)
im back in hospital so you best believe i have not very much aesthetic content to post, but this is just your daily reminder to take care of yourselves (and i mean, really. not in the commercialisation of self-care way). no degree is worth your safety. studying with mental illness is hard, but i believe in u. when the internet said yes dark academia aesthetic they did not mean to include us
So much love and recognition to the people who don't know how they feel about recovering. To the people whose scars are fading away, and there's a sinking feeling, despite knowing that it's a good thing. To the people who miss when they were "worse," when they felt "broken." To the people who mourn losing their coping mechanisms, even the ones that were destructive, scary, or unpleasant. To those who feel guilty they're healing because their past self wasn't ready.
Whatever it is, there is nothing wrong with any of those feelings. It's a natural reaction, something you don't have ultimate control over. There is nothing shameful about yourself, and I admire the strength it takes to recognize how you feel, even the parts that do feel like the "wrong" reaction to a Good Thing.
my pride in the people who aren’t proud of themselves.
my love to the people who feel unworthy of love.
my love to the people who didn’t ride the wave but rather were swallowed by it, for they are still treading water even though they can’t see the shore.
you didn’t bring it on yourself. it’s just heavy. and it is not your fault. 🌹🌹
HAVING a mental illness/disability is normalised but BEING mentally ill/disabled isn’t? Like fine you can HAVE severe depression that’s ‘fine’ but start showing symptoms and that’s not? Or with my autism I’ve noticed people are kind of ok with my diagnosis but if I start stimming in public or need to use my ear defenders suddenly it’s my personal failure as a human being.
get in bitches, we're surviving rock bottom no matter how much further we dig. one day we'll put down the shovel and climb out of this for good. we have to. as long as we're still alive there is hope.
I admire people who can share their vulnerability. It shows that they’re emotionally strong and eager to grow. Many people think that vulnerability is a sign of weakness, but in truth, it’s a sign of strength and resilience.
10 Things To Remember if You're Chronically Overwhelmed
Feeling chronically overwhelmed may be a trauma response. Trauma activates the flight or fight response in our bodies. This activation engages the sympathetic nervous system. Sympathetic nervous system activation releases stress hormones like cortisol and epinephrine. In the presence of danger, these hormones help us survive. When danger is not present, these hormones can cause you to feel overwhelmed and can lead to physical symptoms of stress to include increased heart rate, sweating and digestive issues. After experiencing trauma, it is possible that your sympathetic nervous system may be hyperactivated. This hyperactivation may culminate in chronically feeling stressed, on edge, hypervigilant, jumpy or on guard. It may be difficult to relax. The good news is that you can reset a hyperactivated nervous system through trauma healing.