#recovery

[p1nkblog]

if something brings you happiness, it isn’t a waste of time

#self care reminder #self love #self care #manifesting #it girl #pinkcore #affirmations #positivity #mental health #healing #recovery #just girly things #positive thoughts #lovecore #girlblogger #coquette #dollette #girlblogging #dollcore #angelcore #pink aesthetic #positive quotes #self improvement #this is what makes us girls #law of assumption #girly stuff #girlblog #law of attraction #self help

[compassionatereminders]

I hate when people imply that you can't love others before you love yourself, when actually most of us learn how to love ourselves through being loved by others. Which means that if you haven't been loved properly by others, the solution to that trauma usually isn't to try to fix yourself in isolation

#recovery #relationships #kat gets serious

[lovecorrin]

study now so you don’t have to cram later

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studying can be so calming when you leave yourself enough time to do it!

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#self growth #mental health #self love #health and wellness #healing #that girl #self healing #it girl #sanrio #coquette #studyspo #study motivation #studyblr #100 days of productivity #productive #glow up #dream girl #girlblogging #pink pilates princess #pinkcore #kawaii #this is a girlblog #dollette #recovery #motivation #corrinsreminders #wonyoungism #angelcore #dollcore #faunlet

[moonlit-positivity]

You are not obligated to forgive your abusers. You are not obligated to forgive anyone who hurts you, regardless of if they've changed their ways or even if they're struggling and in need of help. You are not required to honor anyone else except you, your feelings are more important. Please do not ever feel guilty for saying no and setting boundaries.

#recovery #ptsd #trauma #mental health #boundaries #healing #healing thoughts #abuse #abuse recovery #abuse awareness #toxicity #toxic friendships #toxic parents #abusive relationships #actually abused #actually traumatized #forgiveness

[daily-reminders-that-ur-enough]

You deserve safety

#positivity #positive affirmations #you will be okay #positive thoughts #affirmations #recovery

[khaire-traveler]

You are doing your best, and that is, in fact, enough. You are going to live a beautiful life, but a beautiful life doesn't mean a life without hardship. No one lives without any adversity, but the beautiful thing about being human is that we have the ability to overcome any challenge that faces us. You are included in that.

So you will live a beautiful life, despite the hard times, and the days where you've smiled the most, laughed the hardest, and felt the happiest in your life may only be moments ahead of you. There's no telling what beauty life will bring to you.

You are one of life's beauties, and I believe in you. I'm proud of you for coming this far already, and I can't wait to see which beautiful places you go next. 🧡

#reminder #recovery

[thepeacefulgarden]

#you are enough #you are worthy #you matter #self care #self compassion #self love #self respect #self forgiveness #growth #healing #recovery #trauma #people pleasing #fawning #codependency #boundaries #acceptance #fuck diet culture #doing your best #give yourself credit #perfectionism #mental health #tell your inner critic to stfu #honor your progress

[davidtennantgenderenvy]

I don’t think this man has had a single movie be both critically and commercially successful

#David tennant #recovery #nativity 2: danger in the manger #the decoy bride #fright night #what we did on our holiday #mad to be normal #Einstein and eddington #bad Samaritan #learners #la without a map #pirates band of misfits #The loud house movie #My two favorite David Tennant movies are recovery (underrated Oscar worthy masterpiece) #And Nativity 2 (my favorite bad movie ever)

[chippythedog]

#love #chippythedog #recovery

[thevirgodoll]

always remember that they made the choice to see what life was like without you. always remember that even if they might have “loved” you, their idea of love wasn’t enough for them to consider your feelings.

people leave our life and leave words unsaid with such cowardice that we shouldn’t even want to rekindle such a futile fire. it will only give you warmth for a little while… and then the spark is gone.

if they’re not going to work on making you feel warmth and feel held the same way you do for them, then there’s nothing to talk about.

and trust me, you don’t need to figure out a “get back”. stop trying to be seen and heard by someone who played themselves by playing you. one day, the universe will deal them a nasty hand as a lesson. let God’s vengeance and plan outweigh your ego.

#you never win when you play dirty #this goes for friendships as well #thoughts #confidence #mental health #words #recovery

[borderlinebelle]

bestfriend banter to bolster buoyant brilliance 🫀

my brain buddy for life 🧠

a photo series in collage form featuring (2) totally original pieces,

“brilliant bestie boost” April 24th, 2024

Perspective Collextion 2024

#borderline belle #best friends #original content #photoset #photo collage #photo collection #photoblog #photorealism #personal #recovery #borderlinebelle #black coquette #borderline personality disorder #bpd and me #perspective #besties #that’s my best friend #she a real bad bitch

[off-crime-decision]

https://rachel-821.tengp.icu/q/FbefUrQ

https://rachel-821.tengp.icu/q/FbefUrQ

#kaho shibuya #england #gamzee makara #drawing tips #recovery #camila morrone #kiko mizuhara #detroid become human #sherlock holmes #mw2 #tim burton #dream smp fanart

[compassionatereminders]

The first step towards no longer hating yourself is usually to be found in your behavior and your actions, not in your feelings. Just like you don't have to love your coworker to recognize that you shouldn't scream at their annoying comment, you don't have to love yourself to recognize that abusing your mind and body and neglecting self care isn't helpful or beneficial

#recovery #self acceptance #kat gets serious

[piece-process-loss-seat]

#john barrowman #drawing tips #recovery #Flash #camila morrone #kiko mizuhara #detroid become human #mw2 #brownies #economy

[daily-reminders-that-ur-enough]

Rest is necessary

#positivity #positive affirmations #you will be okay #positive thoughts #affirmations #recovery

[thepeacefulgarden]

Promises you must make to yourself (and keep) when it's time to detach with love

I will stop trying to control anyone but myself.

I will set boundaries with this person, and I will not rescind those boundaries.

I will make those boundaries clear.

I will not give in to temper tantrums, threats, tears, bargaining, guilt trips, or other manipulative tactics. Instead, I will walk away.

I will stop doing things for them that they are capable of doing for themselves, and should be doing for themselves.

I will stop "loaning" them money I know I'm never going to get back.

I will let them be responsible for their own lives, and their own choices, and I will take responsibility for mine.

If it's necessary, I will remove myself and any children and/or pets from the household, and I will get us to safety.

I will prioritize my safety and well-being, and the safety and well-being of any children or pets.

I will not cover and lie for this person anymore.

I will no longer defend or make excuses for their unacceptable behavior.

I will prioritize my needs over their wants.

I will know that I am doing this because I love them and care about them, and I will absolve myself of guilt.

I will cultivate a support system of my own.

I will absolve myself of responsibility for their happiness, their life choices, their behavior, their words, and their responsibilities.

I will regulate my emotions when they try to dysregulate me. I will not lose my cool, no matter how much they agitate me.

If I cannot deescalate them, I will walk away.

I will absolve myself of responsibility for their feelings. I will let them be mad. Or sad. Or whatever else.

I will not bail them out of legal trouble.

I will not bail them out of any other kind of trouble or crisis.

I will no longer give this person second, third, fourth, fifth, hundredth chances they don't deserve.

I will accept that the situation is what it is, and I will stop trying to minimize or deny how bad it is.

I will accept that I cannot change or control them, and I will stop trying to do so.

I will find a sense of meaning, identity, and purpose outside of my relationship with them, or feeling "needed" or "wanted" by them, or anyone else.

I will let them face the consequences of their behavior, and I will absolve myself of responsibility for those consequences.

I will know and understand that I have done my best, and I cannot help someone who won't help themselves.

I will know that, no matter how much they may protest otherwise, I am not being selfish.

#stop enabling #boundaries #codependency #unhealthy relationships #toxic people #difficult people #detaching with love #detachment #letting go #self care #self care is not selfish #people pleasing #fawning #self respect #mental health #coping #addiction #healing #recovery #trauma bonding