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autopsyfreak · 1 day

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my anhedonia is eating me alive so i’m making these mental illness memes to cope

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equalperson · 2 days

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perhaps this is a hot take, but i am 100% sure that a large portion of self-identified "narcissistic abuse" survivors are also narcissists.

think about it: narcissism is most often caused by childhood trauma; having narcissistic parents makes it more likely you'll become a narcissist; there's a whole phenomenon in "narc abuse" spaces called "fleas," in which you supposedly take on narcissistic characteristics without actually "being a narcissist."

how many people with "fleas" do you think are just narcissists? they always tell themselves that "a real narcissist wouldn't care/realize that they're self-centered," which is verifiably false.

how many of these people do you think simply use internalized/lateral sanism to deny their own narcissism?

honestly, i wonder if some of these people only gravitate towards "narc abuse" because of this.

they'll talk so much about how narcissists always need to feel special, and yet act as if they're being belittled whenever someone even remotely critiques their "special" trauma that no one else can understand.

of course, i'm not saying that every "narc abuse" advocate is a narcissist, nor that the concept only exists because of narcissism, but it's just...so unlikely that there isn't at least some community of narcissists in self-denial there.

#narcissistic personality disorder #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #ALSO not saying that narcissistic abuse advocates should be excused because they could be narcissists #sanism is bad regardless of whether it comes from a sane or mad person. thus why LATERAL sanism is an issue

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 19 hours

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npd culture is unintentionally treating others like they also have NPD. like oh? you've earned my respect? well this is how my brain works so i will treat you how everyone should treat me

like giving non pwNPD supply n shit instead of however the fuck you're supposed to interact positively with people and offer support

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#oh mood i go around treating everyone like they have narc crashes as well😭#npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b

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92fs · 3 days

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Man it must be such an easy world to live in where every abuser you meet is an "evil narc". You don't even need to fucking think about how to actually protect yourself. Just read a couple of pseudoscientific papers on how to "get the narc!!" half of which is just lies that will not work and half of which is advice on how to cause genuine psychological distress in anyone, not just pwNPD.

It must be so easy to live in the world where abuse comes from narcs alone or majorly narcs, even though the disorder is extremely rare. You can even lull yourself into thinking that “how to catch a narcissist” will secure you, which it won’t.

#NPD #actually npd #actually narcissistic #narc survivor #narc abuse #narcissistic abuse #surviving narcissism #surviving npd #narc abuse isn't real #narcissistic abuse is real

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vixen-angel · 1 day

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purposely putting yourself in danger, or being visibly sad so maybe someone might ask if youre doin alright.. but then nobody bats an eye.

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nyanfever · 2 days

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i take 10hp damage every time i get criticized

#cluster b #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #npd safe #★ mine

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fixingantinpdableism · 22 hours

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[id: a tumblr post. most of the text has been blacked out to say "narcissist abuse isn't real BPD abuse isn't real you should treat those people like humans, Anyone can abuse! It doesn't matter if you're on the spectrum or not! It doesn't matter if they're autistic, have BPD, have narcissist tendencies, schizophrenic or not on the spectrum at all! Should we treat everyone on the spectrum as abusers? No! Treat people like humans and give them respect!" /end id]

this post is made by a transgender person with npd. terfs and narc abuse believers fuck off

#narc abuse blackouts #actually npd #blackout poem #blackout poetry #npd safe #npd #npd positivity #npd posting #actually narcissistic #narcissist #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism

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xkao · 2 days

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I need to know if there are other narcissists who DESPISE discord servers. Everything about them. Yes, sometimes they give you attention supply, but everyone else seems to get more attention than me! And everyone is so fucking annoying about the rules on there, like why does it even matter if I broke some stupid social rule?

#actually narcissistic #actually npd #cluster b #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #cluster b safe #cluster b traits

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cut-n-snared · 2 days

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one side of me wants attention sooo bad and PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME PLEASE PLEASE I NEED ATTENTION I CRAVE IT PLEAAAAAAASE

and the other side i don't want you near me do not touch me if you touch me i will gouge your eyes out and then my own get away GET AWAY GET AWAY do not speak to me do not talk to me do not even look at me pretend i don't exist please

#aspd thoughts #cluster b #aspd #actually cluster b #cluster b safe #aspd safe #actually antisocial #actually aspd #actually borderline #actually npd #actually bpd #actually mentally ill #bpd problems #bpd splitting #bpd #bpd safe

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livingfictionsystem · 5 months

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A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

#pop psychology #love bombing #npd #actually npd #narcissist #trauma bonding #gaslighting

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autopsyfreak · 1 day

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when hannibal lecter’s love for will graham was described as:

‘feeling a daily stab of hunger for you and finding nourishment at the very sight of you’