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bunniibpd · 1 year
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You are not a bother. You are not a burden. You are not a waste of space. You are not annoying every person you talk to. Your existence matters. Your presence makes a good difference.
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hellbrainspeaks · 2 years
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You do not owe your partner(s) sex. I mostly see this passed around in the asexual community, and it absolutely needs emphasis there, but this applies to anyone of any orientation. You never owe your partner(s) sex under any circumstance.
If your sex drive or libido is lower than your partner’s, you may feel obligated to “keep up” with them to make them happy. But you have a right to say no, or not be in the mood, or be too tired, or just not want to right now. Your partner(s) should respect your right to say no and your bodily autonomy.
If your partner(s) try to harass, manipulate, or coerce you into having sex when you say no, they’re an asshole. Having said yes in the past does not mean you can never say no. It is not your responsibility or obligation to provide sex. You do not need to violate your own boundaries to make someone else happy. Your partner(s) should respect your right to say no, and if they don’t, they don’t deserve you.
Your body belongs to you, and you decide what’s best for your sexual health. Happy Pride
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marimeiastories · 5 months
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I don't want to be in love with someone
I want to be in love with life
so fiercely
that I forget all the pain
and all the days in which I thought
I couldn't do it anymore
- marimeiastories
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shy-the-schizophrenic · 9 months
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221bluescarf · 4 months
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My Psychosis Survival Guide
Things from my coping box that might benefit you too. Like any other skill, many of these things can be used to help any other mental health problem. This is just my own list of things I use in addition to seeing my pdoc and taking my meds:
Art
Grounding is my first and most effective coping skill. Among the skills in the grounding category, coloring and doodling are my favorites (bonus if you can color-in doodles you've made yourself) but any art will do, like painting or making collages.
This can distract you from hallucinations and keep your mind occupied to stop dwelling on paranoid or delusional thoughts. Art therapy is known to reduce anxiety and depression too, which is common with psychotic disorders.
Instrumental music
LoFi is my favorite. Something calming can reduce anxiety and help you rest or sleep, which is good for a brain bombarded with the psychotic experience. Lyrics can sometimes trigger unwanted thoughts and some people even find that the lyrics change and suddenly have special meaning, so this is avoided with instrumental music.
Some LoFi music has other sound effects which can help auditory hallucinations to blend in and be less intrusive. Cafe vlogs are excellent for this, as they have a background of people talking and kitchen appliances being used which disguise mild and pesky hallucinations.
Putty
It can be Silly Putty, Thinking Putty, or whatever you can find. Some of them change colors, some of them are even scented. This is excellent grounding. It involves your senses and you can completely turn off your brain and just play with it in your hands. It's also great as a fidget tool.
Letters to yourself
Writing letters to yourself while you're in a good and healthy mindset can be valuable to look back on while in a psychotic episode. Give yourself a pep talk. Remind yourself that this is real life, remind yourself of why these thoughts are irrational and why you really can trust your friends and family, etc.
I find it useful to write about past delusions, so that when similar ones happen, I have "proof" that this is unreasonable and I'm less likely to fall for it (nothing is perfect. sometimes I'll still believe the delusion despite everything, but it helps)
A list of people who can help
Keep a list of friends or family who are aware of your diagnosis and who are ready to help you if you're struggling. Keep the numbers to these people in case you chuck your phone. Also include the numbers to your doctor, therapist, social worker, or anyone else you may need to reach when you're unable to use your own phone. (It's also good to have these listed in case you get hospitalized and are unable to have your phone)
Also if you're dealing with paranoia around your phone, some people find it comforting to use WhatsApp because it's encrypted unlike text messages.
I hope these are helpful
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kiindr · 8 months
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stop letting social media and society set the timeline of your life. you're not too old to go back to school. you're not too old to get married. you're not too old to enjoy playing in the park or filling in coloring books.
you're never too old to just be a person.
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tofuwok · 5 months
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Legspo
(Photos from pinterest)
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pessimisticfvck · 2 months
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pov: u do eyeliner for the first time EVER for shits and giggles but it’s midnight and skincare time🤡
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shiftingforyeonjun · 2 months
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BPD is so crazy
Last night I cried myself to sleep contemplating my life and now its the next morning and I feel like a goddess
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pink-devolve · 2 months
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Hello, welcome to my blog!!
He / It , FTM Gender-Queer
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Ramcoa survivor and programmed system, I will be talking about this on my page.
OCD, Anxiety, Autism, ADHD, C-PTSD, DID
Age-regressor / little heavy system
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I typically use singular pronouns, and alters will typically not identify themselves.
BYF:
- I will be using this page to talk about some transID discourse, because it pisses me tf off
- All potentially triggering and graphic topics will have CWs, but might not be censored. I don’t believe in using CWs for only a word
DNI:
- Radqueers & TransIDs
- Pro-c Paras
- Zionists
- Endos
You all suck <3
Thank you for reading my intro!! <:0)
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bunniibpd · 1 year
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geloyconception on insta
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I admire people who can share their vulnerability. It shows that they’re emotionally strong and eager to grow. Many people think that vulnerability is a sign of weakness, but in truth, it’s a sign of strength and resilience.
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chillwithnea · 1 year
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marimeiastories · 8 months
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First bookshop I saw with a fireplace
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221bluescarf · 5 months
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Disorder: a set of problems, which result in causing significant difficulty, distress, impairment and/or suffering in a person’s daily life
A disorder is determined not by just symptoms but also by how they impair your life
if you're trying to diagnose someone with a disorder because they do something ~weird~ it doesn't mean they have an illness. That goes for yourself too. If you relate to some symptoms but they're a casual experience and you're not impaired by them, maybe don't tell people they should function better because you "have it too" and you can function
I mean hey even if you actually have a diagnosis from a doctor and function well, you shouldn't tell people that. So how much more so if you've never even seen a doctor
I've even heard it said "I have it too but I'm not crazy like the rest of you". Some people need to grow up and learn.
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