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selfhealingmoments · 1 year
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slfcare · 2 years
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You’ll come to find out that it’s hard to believe in things until you give them life. How kindness seems so unfamiliar until you’re the one who’s actively trying to be kind to others. How dreams seem far away until you do your research and try your best. How friends seem like a foreign concept until you start to ask people to lunch more often. The best things in life don’t come find you as you sit and wait. You have to go out there and decide they exist.
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Repeat after me: I do not deserve my trauma.
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femmefatalevibe · 10 months
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Fill up your own cup first. Sacrifice should not be a substitute for having the capability to share. Read that again.
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warriorheartofmine · 11 months
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starryluvs · 7 months
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5 love languages for yourself
Gift giving: Buying something off your wish list. Buy yourself flowers. Order take out. Restock on your hobby.
Words of affirmations: Saying positive affirmations in the mirror. Tell yourself you love you. Write 10 things you love about yourself.
Physical touch: Splurging on a massage and a facial. Follow a yoga stretch. Give yourself a hug after finishing a task. Schedule a nail appointment. Taking a nap.
Quality time: Buy yourself ice cream after a long day. Going on a walk. Meditation. Reading. Taking yourself out for a coffee.
Acts of service: Organising your space. Cleaning. Cooking yourself a nourishing meal. Make yourself a bath at the end of a tiring day.
xoxo, f
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yesninathings · 1 month
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Im so scared/ excited about May and june because in those 2 months i am:
-winning and having 2 award ceremonies
-graduating with my masters degree
-having (hopefully) my undergrad ceremony (that was supposed to be last year but they fucked something up)
-getting into my doctoral programm
-getting my first job with a 6 year contract
I feel like i will throw up i am so excited
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pastel-charm-14 · 2 months
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·˚ ༘·˚ bullet journaling·˚ ༘
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gather your supplies: first things first, gather your bullet journaling essentials. you'll need a quality notebook, pens, markers, stickers, washi tape, and any other decorative elements that inspire you. choose supplies that reflect your personal style and aesthetic preferences.
set up your key and index: start by creating a key and index page to help you navigate your bullet journal. use symbols to denote different tasks, events, and notes, and allocate space for indexing your entries. this will make it easier to find information quickly and stay organized.
plan your layouts: before diving into your bullet journal, plan out your layouts for the month, week, and daily spreads. experiment with different formats, including traditional calendars, habit trackers, mood boards, and goal-setting pages. let your creativity flow as you design each layout to suit your needs and preferences.
add decorative elements: now comes the fun part - adding decorative elements to your bullet journal. use colorful pens, markers, and stickers to embellish your pages and bring them to life. experiment with hand-lettering, doodles, and illustrations to add personality and flair to your spreads.
incorporate inspirational quotes: inject some motivation and positivity into your bullet journal by incorporating inspirational quotes and affirmations. choose quotes that resonate with you and place them strategically throughout your journal to uplift and inspire you on your journey.
experiment with themes: consider incorporating themes into your bullet journal to add cohesiveness and visual appeal. whether it's based on seasons, holidays, or your favorite colors and motifs, themes can tie your spreads together and create a cohesive aesthetic.
stay organized: while creativity is key, don't forget the primary purpose of your bullet journal - to help you stay organized and productive. use signifiers, color-coding, and page layouts to streamline your planning process and keep track of your tasks, events, and goals.
reflect and adapt: regularly take time to reflect on your bullet journaling journey and adapt your layouts and techniques as needed. Pay attention to what works well for you and what doesn't, and don't be afraid to experiment and try new approaches.
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cobotis · 5 months
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All negative actions are motivated by delusions, which in turn arise from self-cherishing. First we develop the thought, “I am important,” and because of this we feel that the fulfillment of our wishes is of paramount importance. Then we desire for our self that which appears attractive and develop attachment, we feel aversion for that which appears unattractive and develop anger, and we feel indifference toward that which appears neutral and develop ignorance. From these delusions all other delusions arise...
~ Geshe Kelsang Gyatso
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emergencylifeadvice · 11 months
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Sometimes, the fear won’t go away.
So you will just have to do it anyway, afraid.
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When you are not on your pedestal you are not interesting.
- Oscar Wilde, De Profundis
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borderlinehot · 8 months
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embrace your full potential: unleashing the best version of yourself
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starting this blog because I want to start sharing something close to my heart – a reminder to never settle for less and always strive to become the best version of yourself.
we all deserve to radiate with confidence, happiness, and love in every aspect of our lives, be it in dating, health, or mental well-being.
a few things i will be touching on
the importance of self-improvement and looks maxxing
the impact of looks on mental health and self-esteem
how looks-maxxing can improve the way you feel about yourself overall
finding balance in self-improvement, mental health, and dating.
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No matter how big or small it is, there is a significant difference only you can make.
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3score11poet · 8 months
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Tea Time Emotiku
HONESTY, 08/27/2023
"One cannot always be a hero, but one can always be a man." Goethe
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Be the one you are / open your heart to the truth / God loves each, all ways. © keefderpoet, 2023
I'm no hero. I have dedicated my life to doing what needs doing. Just because one is scared doesn't mean they can't saddle up and ride toward the sound of the guns. I hopped into a runaway car one day (that had gotten away from an old man who either accidentally left it in Reverse or failed to secure it in Park). I ran across the street as he shouted "Help me!!!" and managed to hop into the driver's seat, step on the brake, and keep it from picking up speed and running into a busy cross street. Was I heroic? No. I was standing on the sidewalk with my secretary at the time, and when I heard the man cry for help, I couldn't stand the thought she'd think me a coward if I stood there doing nothing (and no one else was responding either). I ran to avoid being called a coward. Sometimes that's the best one can do. I could picture the car running over me (if I had misjudged its speed or my skill-set), but I ran to protect my ego more than to save a situation. My job is to be honest with myself, even if the world should count me a fool. keefderpoet
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warriorheartofmine · 1 year
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starryluvs · 7 months
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Why your manifestations aren’t coming to you.
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This was meant for you, open with care ᶻ 𝘇 𐰁
If you have found yourself asking “Why aren’t my manifestations coming to me?” Which leads to… “Am i manifesting wrong?”. Yes, you most likely are. These are the most common reasons why you aren’t receiving what you want and the solution to each of them.
1. Believing that you won’t get it. If you start manifesting for the first time you will have your doubts. Remove those doubts. You will get what you want regardless. How to solve? Any doubt or negative thought appears in your mind. Remove it. Never ever say it out loud. You have to have control over your thoughts here, don’t let them control you.
2. You’re ungrateful. You’re not showing gratitude to what you have currently. Be thankful for what you have and then you will attract better things.
3. You’re not looking at both sides. Once again, you’re depending your happiness on that desire so when you don’t get it you automatically think you manifested wrong. No, it was not meant for you. You’re going to get something more than you even wanted.
4. You have set a deadline. If your affirmations sound like “I will ———“ thats wrong. What you’re doing is not setting a deadline and postponing it to whenever you can get it.
5. Your happiness is dependent on that desire. You do not appreciate what you have right now. “Ill be happy when i get this amount of money” “ Ill be happy once i get XYZ”. You’re never going to get happy. Be happy now and you will attract everything else, like i said.
xoxo, f
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