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narcvampp · 3 months

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I love how almost everyone in the NPD community is connected. All of my npd mutuals are mutuals with one another, or at least the ones I've seen. We pretty much all call each other "one of our fave moots". We're all just one shared brainwave.

#vamp diary #actually npd #actually narcissistic #npd #narc posting #narcissistic personality disorder #narcisst #npd community #actually cluster b #cluster b

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dustybr3ads-tumbl3r · 1 month

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I love narcissists, can I bite them? Biting is my love language. I love narcs, I want to kiss them all platonically or like queer-platonically. God I stan npd ppl. I'm so Narc4Narc..

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vain-creature · 11 days

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I keep feeling like people who know me on one of my tumblr accounts will recognize some of my typing quirks and know that it's me.

Which is. Pretty unreasonable, I guess?

I just can't stop thinking my friends will try to seek out my alt accounts and somehow find this one and others.... through my typing quirks (and some of my interests)

#npd community #not strictly npd stuff ig #vain.posts #I really limit stuff I post sometimes through the amount of self-censorship bc of that irrational fear #like for example ik my friends know I like game 'x' so I will not post abt it on this account etc #but the typing quirk thing is the most prevalent because I have some characteristic stuff going on #and my mind cannot comprehend that it's not that identifying!!!

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moonlit-positivity · 5 months

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Here is my controversial mental health take of the day: your negative emotions are not the problem, its the way you handle them that becomes the problem. You being jealous that your friend hung out with someone else and didn't tell you, is actually not the problem. It's when you choose to get angry with them, yell & lash out, or passive aggressively do something they hate to get revenge, or when you ignore them and isolate and self harm, those are all harmful ways to cope with your feelings. Rather than react, take the time to validate yourself, because it's normal to feel jealous or left out and chances are that there are deeper abandonment wounds that are triggered here, probably from your childhood. Take a moment to pause before you react. Then try a direct and open communication to your friend instead. Because I guarantee you they'll respond so much better to you opening up a conversation with, "hey, I felt left out when you hung out with so-and-so without me, can we talk about that? And maybe hang out soon?" Rather than the now laborious and torturous emotional work of having to feel guilty for your rage when you lash out or get revenge. Splitting is normal, because who doesn't get pissed off at someone you're close with? Your switching emotions from highly affectionate to devaluation are not the problem. Everyone gets disgusted & hurt by someone they love at some point in our lives, especially small offenses, I guarantee you chances are that person isn't doing it on purpose and would gladly like to know how you feel, these emotions and conversations are normal and necessary for humans to have. But the inability to clearly and directly communicate your feelings and needs to that person when you are hurt is what makes it toxic. You can absolutely learn how to handle your reactions in a safer manner, how to identify when you're feeling hurt, and how to communicate and ask for clarity and resolution rather than react and escalate. Communication is the backbone of every relationship you will ever have. This is what the emotional work of most personality disorders looks like.

#recovery #trauma #boundaries #mental health #bpd #healing #borderline personality disorder #splitting #emotions #emotional work #shadow work #cluster b #cluster b pds #npd #toxic traits #toxicity #communication #relationships

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necroticcadaver · 1 month

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Do not claim to be a mental health advocate or a safe space for the mentally ill if you demonise systems, cluster B personality disorders and/or psychotic disorders.

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fragmented-light-sys · 9 months

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does anyone else ever think about how long they've been mentally ill and then notice that you dont even remember what it was like not being sick?

might also just come from my current situation idk.

#did osdd #osddid #actually mentally ill #actually npd #actually cptsd #actually dissociative #actually osdd #questioning polyfrag #osdd community #osdd system #p did #pdid #did community #otherwise specified dissociative disorder #dissoziative identitätsstörung #dissociative identity disorder #complex dissociative disorder

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recollections-of-a-seraph · 5 months

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normalise wanting non-physical aspects of your kintype back. yes, whilst I'd love to have my wings and countless eyes and many forms back, I crave the status I used to hold. I crave the respect others used to have for me, the power I had. that I no longer have

#seraphim's thoughts #this might just be the npd/hpd #but at this point i just dont know #nonhuman #actually angelic #angelkin #seraphimkin #seraphkin #otherkin #seraph #angel #divinekin #seraphim #alterhuman community #alterhuman #kin

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syko-raccoon · 2 months

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Makes sense. After all, not every autistic person has autism bc its a spectrum /j

whole ass google showing was like “oh its because some are lower on the spectrum” as if that changes shit

#autism #autistic #autistic community #npd #npd safe #npd positivity #narcisst #narcissist #narc #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism #ableism #ableism tw

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tales-from-syscord · 2 months

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Was in a syscord where a staff member had narcissists on their DNI.. wtf!

The server boasted being cluster b friendly and many of the other staff were cluster b, but when it was brought up to that a staff member had narcissists on their DNI everyone just went "it's because of TRAUMA and it's BOUNDARIES".

They compared it to why they have ENDOS on their DNI.

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I bet you that if we had "systems DNI" on our boundaries it'd be a different fucking story?! Like what the fuck- I get you have trauma but you can't just generalise people like that, it's actually fucked up???

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#tales from anon #tales from syscord #tales from the queue #npd #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #narcissism #cluster b #anti endo #did #c did #discord #community #endos dni #endo dni #osdd

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daffythefox · 11 months

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i feel like people say "abuse is always intentional and a choice" because it helps them believe that they haven't and will never abuse someone so long as they believe abuse is wrong.

Do you think every abuser woke up and thought "today I will abuse someone on purpose"? Probably some of them, but not all. Some abusers genuinely think that abuse is just how relationships work. Sometimes kids abuse other kids before they grow up and realize what they did was fucked.

If you decide that abuse means "person intentionally abusing another", what about people who were abused by people who weren't intentionally abusing them? Is that not real abuse?

I'm not saying that you shouldn't be angry at your abuser. I think you should be angry at whoever you want to be angry at. But I think looking back at your actions and checking "was what I did okay? how did my actions impact the people I love?" is very important, especially for people with NPD, where having issues understanding how your actions impact others is a symptom.

Having NPD makes forming and maintaining healthy relationships way harder. I would know. It's also way harder to control emotional outbursts while you're having one (and emotional permanence issues mean once you stop having one, it's hard to imagine what it felt like).

Introspection about why you did the things you did, if/how you hurt someone you care about, trying to make it up to them, and minimizing the chances that it will happen again, are very important. In "npd abuse" spaces, this introspection is usually shut down by "well, if you think you might be a narcissist, you're not one". But I think this introspection can be very helpful, so long as the introspection doesn't begin and end with guilt/shame.

#actually npd #npd #me when i write massive post rambling about things #i just feel like in the NPD tumblr community we're so focused on 'narc abuse doesnt exist'#which makes sense #that is the wider conception of our disorder #but i feel like we overcorrect #''people with npd dont have issues with being in healthy relationships and are always the victims'' isn't a good perception of us either #i have not had coffee yet today #i want to go to sleep #me when i

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narcvampp · 2 months

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HELLO NPD COMMUNITY!

The server is FINISHED!! You can join HERE!! :3

Honnkk mimimimimi

#vamp diary #actually npd #npd #actually narcissistic #npd posting #npd community #npd blog #npd safe #npd discord server #discord #discord server #narc posting #narcissistic personality disorder #narcisst #narcissism

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ray-of-melancholy · 2 years

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Good night to systems who are still unsure if they are a system

Good night to physically disabled systems

Good night to systems with other mental illnesses

Good night to systems with cluster b disorders

Good night to systems who dont remember their trauma

Good night to systems who do remember their trauma

Good night to systems who vividly remember their trauma

Good night to systems who's alters aren't very defined

Good night to systems who alters are very defined

Good night to systems who are kinda in the middle

Good night to poc systems

Good night to all systems

This is a part one btw

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dyspunktional-revan · 6 months

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A narc abuse believer has reblogged from me so here's your Fucking reminder that no disorder is an abuser disorder. Your abuser(s) did/do not abuse you because they have an Abuser Disorder, they abuse(d) you because they believe(d) in their right to control you and had the means. And no, no disorder fucking creates that.

To abuse is a choice, and it's a carefully protected bolt in all the larger systems of oppression. To have a disability born out of being abused, that fucks You up, is not a fucking choice. And is certainly not a fucking protected bolt in the larger systems of oppression, rather the fucking opposite.

Yes, people with Any disorder Can choose to abuse. As well as people without that disorder! And people with that disorder are not fucking More Likely to abuse! And don't fucking armchair diagnose other people!

And the fucking case of parental abuse. You were not "raised by narcissists", you were raised by people whose literal societal role is to abuse you. Which Very Much does not absolve them. Parents are cops, and more. Read up on youth liberation and stop throwing *other survivors* into the fucking meat grinder.

And the fucking nerve to put anti-narc shit into the *npd* tags. You know well it's a Disorder, not an Abuser Personality Type that the abuser Chooses, and still demonize us.

#leviathan.txt #leviathan yells at folkel #leviathan argues #ableism #saneism #diagonal ableism #blame shifting #anti-npd ableism/saneism #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #abuse #swearing cw #disability posting #disabled community #mental illness #personality disorder #abuse survivor #cluster b

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gendergardener · 4 months

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i finished all four of them finally!

in order:

narcaro - an arospec label that involves your romantic attraction being affected by npd in some way

narcace: - an acespec label that involves your sexual attracted being affected by npd in some way

aroborderline - an arospec label that involves your romantic attracted being affected by bpd in some way

aceborderline - an acespec label that involves your sexual attraction being affected by bpd in some way

you don't need to be diagnosed with npd or bpd to use these labels and it doesn't matter why or how you identify with them, anyone can use them

ID under the cut

[ID: four horizontal flags with six stripes. colors are as follows, from top to bottom:

flag 1: dark reddish brown, light brown, light greenish brown, yellow-green, a yellowish gray, and eggshell.

flag 2: dark indigo, violet purple, puce, clay orange, grayish yellow, and light yellow.

flag 3: light yellow green, lime green, greenish gray, red violet, dark violet, and an almost-black purple.

flag 4: pale lavender, grayish purple, periwinkle, violet purple, dark purple, and an almost-black purple.

end ID]

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sslowdeathh · 4 months

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not requested. hypero is hyper (meaning above, more than normal) and hypo (under, less than normal) put together lol

A type of empathy (or lack there of) where one's empathy changes drastically without warning.

It often goes from no empathy to hyper empathy. The user may not know the difference between the two, or may not be able to differentiate between them.

this is intended for those with NPD or other disorders that affect empathy, but anyone can use it.

[PT: Hypero empathy. Not requested. Hypero is hyper (meaning above, more than normal) and hypo (under, less than normal) put together lol.

Definition: A type of empathy (or lack there of) where one's empathy changes drastically without warning. It often goes from no empathy to hyper empathy. The user may not know the difference between the two, or may not be able to differentiate between them.

This is intended for those with NPD or other disorders that affect empathy, but anyone can use it. /PT END]

#hypero empathy #theme:#npd #mad pride #empathy term #empathy #mogai #mogai coining #mogai blog #mogai friendly #mogai label #mogai identity #mogai term #pro mogai #mogai flag #mogai community #mogai safe #🎀 ✦ life is filled with vanity #🌸 ✦ just awake : info ，she h>r

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ametistapp · 2 months

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Want to be part of a group blog on how to write neurodivergent characters?

[Large text: "Want to be part of a group blog on how to write neurodivergent characters?"]

I've found Tumblr blogs on writing physically disabled and POC characters, but nothing specifically for neurodivergence.

Maybe there is something I just haven't found yet, but even if so, I think the most resources the better.

So, hi! I'm Amethyst — amateur writer and neurodivergent, and now looking for people to help me out with this project.

I could try this on my own, but I would rather have other neurodivergents with me (especially with different conditions from mine)

Does anyone want to help me make a change?

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