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mlmshark · 2 days
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One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much
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Sorry to all the A's I couldn't fit on here!
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feelingthedisaster · 16 hours
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atraction is just a lie made by the goverment, hope that helps
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gray-ace-space · 2 days
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happy lesbian visibility week to acespec lesbians!
💜 to gray asexual lesbians
❤ to demisexual lesbians
🧡 to aceflux lesbians (and all lesbians whose sexuality is fluid)
🩷 to trans, nonbinary, and multigender acespec lesbians (transfem, transmasc, and those who are neither!)
💜 to bi, pan, and all mspec acespec lesbians
❤ and specifically mspec lesbians who are acespec in different ways/to different degrees for different genders
🧡 to intersex acespec lesbians
🩷 to acespec lesbians of color
💖 to disabled and neurodivergent acespec lesbians, and especially those of you who are autistic - happy autism acceptance month! ❤🧡💖🩷💜
💜 to acespec femmes and butches and gnc lesbians
❤ to acespec lesbians whose sexuality is influenced by trauma
🧡 to sex repulsed acespec lesbians, sex favorable acespec lesbians, and everyone in between
🩷 to lesbians who feel alienated from lesbian communities due to their asexuality
💜 and to acespec lesbians still figuring themselves out!
i see you. you are appreciated.💖
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reallifeparacosee · 3 days
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As an aroace I would love a relationship where they are just my best friend and then they give me soul crushing hugs every once in a while and cuddle
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voxxy1950 · 10 hours
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i like this character! . . . aggressively shoots with the aspec and trans rayguns
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flowersofadoration · 14 hours
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I was telling my friends about how I want to have a baby without a partner and they replied with “it’s going to have so many gay aunts around it. It’ll grow up perfect”.
I love my friends 🥹.
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paladinofmidnight · 15 hours
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I'm aroace. Always have been, always will be. And you know what ticks me off the most about it? It's the sentiment from allo people, that tell aces/aros/aroaces that the love they feel "must be platonic!" Or that if the have sex or date they aren't a real ace/aro/aroace.
This is wrong. It is wrong now, it was wrong then, and it will always b wrong.
Aros are defined as people without any romantic ATTRACTION. They can date, fall in love, or maybe they never will, and they find happiness in that.
Aces are defined as people without any sexual ATTRACTION. They can fuck, fuck around, make dirty jokes, or maybe they never have sex, or are uncomfortable with even the idea being brought up.
Ik this, because I'm aroace, and I'm in a poly relationship. I love my two partners, my boyfriend AND my girlfriend, but you wanna know what? I was never romantically or sexually attracted to them. I, oh so simply, just fell in love with them. I trust them completely, and I love them more than myself.
If I was not in love with them, I would not be in a relationship with them. It's as simple as that. I am not allo, I find no meaning in pretending to be attracted to someone. I've dated before, although it was more from societal pressures than any feelings, and that is why I'm so certain.
I never got a crush phase, never got the butterflies in my stomach or the fantasys about someone I was not close too.
Many aros/aces/aroaces will probably never want or find such relationships with a person. And that's okay, but it does not mean all are like that. People under the A-umbrella are 1000% valid, regardless of their wants/needs to have or not to have a relationship.
The Acespectum is always one of the hardest things to figure out if you are, because it is impossible to teach what the absence of something feels like. So, if you think you are, take it slow. Figure it out at your own pace, and don't be afraid of someone else's anger that you may not fit what they think you should be. In the end it's your choice, your wants, your needs, and your life.
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palatteflags · 2 days
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Vox from Hazbin Hotel based Aroace moodboard! ^^ For an anon!! Hope you like the look!
Want one? Send an ask~ -mod Jay
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mlmshark · 16 hours
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“Omg, I don’t get why people get so mad at a canonically asexual character being sexualized! Just don’t read it if you don’t like it!” Are you fucking stupid? Repeat that back to yourself
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aego-culture-is · 2 days
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aego culture is finding anything ~sexy~ that mentions "you" an immediate turn off
like yeah you look hot, but i do not want to imagine me doing things with you
Mood. I don’t know how some aegos do that
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yagikidd57 · 21 hours
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vislvr · 3 days
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I got happy for a second when I saw that a part of my school work was about the lgbtq+ community, until I read the textbook and they described asexuals as “people more associated with hormonal problems”…
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?!?!?!?!?!
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finnslay · 21 hours
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A reminder for those who simp over Alastor from Hazbim Hotel
Even Niffty, who "loves bad boys", doesn't hit on him
He's ace :) leave him be. Let ace characters be ace 🙌
Thank youuu
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asexualpolls · 1 day
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allosexuals, please refrain from voting on this poll.
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