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redbeardace · 6 months

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It's Ace Week!

#asexual #asexuality #demisexual #demisexuality #aroace #ace pride #ace week #asexual pride #asexual awareness week #lgbtq #lgbtqia #ace flag #demi flag #gray asexual #gray-ace #gray-ace pride #gray-ace flag #demi pride

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gray-ace-space · 2 months

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interested in sex the same way you can be a sports fan without ever playing a single sport

*reading absolute filth and humming thoughtfully* fascinating.

#og post #asks #humor #ace #acespec #gray ace #aego #asexual #graysexual #gray asexual #aegosexual

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miss-americanbi · 2 years

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Token Straight Friend™️ strikes again

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yourfavisamilf · 1 year

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Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!

~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur

#inky speaks #asexual awareness week #asexual week #asexual spectrum #ace spectrum #acespec #asexual #aceflux #aegosexual #demisexual #cupiosexual #fraysexual #greyasexual #gray asexual #aroace #reciprosexual

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queerspectral · 4 months

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Shoutout to aspecs who have dated/had sex but don't want to do so again.

Whether you thought you wanted it but later realised you didn't...

Whether you knew at the time you were just giving in to societal pressures but tried it anyway...

Whether you genuinely did want it at the time but don't any more...

Whether it was a great experience at the time or a terrible one...

Whatever the reason, it's okay to just. Stop.

You can always, always change your mind about whether dating or sex are things you want in your life. Maybe they once were. Doesn't mean they have to be now.

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goddammit-sam · 1 year

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#not me thinking I spelled happy ace week wrong bc I've been looking at it for too long and the words don't look real anymore #ace week #ace week 2022 #ace positivity #ace pride #asexual #acespec #asexual spectrum #asexuals are valid #demisexual #demi #greyasexual #gray asexual #grey ace #ace spec #other kinds of aces also #all y'all aces are valid #muggleborn-loser #goddammit-sam

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skully-64 · 1 month

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so a twitch streamer i like (PecuniaPie on twitch) commissioned me to make emotes, giving me full creative freedom. his followers decided that we are all rats. he also has a very queer following. naturally, i made a bunch of rats with pride flags. unfortunately he can't use them all, but thought some of my mutuals, as well as others on tumblr would appreciate them.

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scretladyspider · 10 months

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It really shouldn’t matter if aces do or don’t have sex or masturbate. Like yeah some of us do and learning that helps a lot of aces figure out they’re ace, but the people obsessed with our sexual activity or lack thereof are always TERFs. why do you care. it does not matter.

It doesn’t invalidate our aceness if we do. It won’t change your mind if we don’t. So why care so much? Or rather, why are you bothered by people being secure in who they are? It really just reveals your insecurities when you get so angry about it.

It reminds me of how in middle school one girl would share an insecurity and another would get angry because “she’s clearly talking about me!” when she was never even mentioned. It wasn’t about you. and that’s okay.

#lgbtqia #queer #asexuality #asexual #gray asexual #gray ace #demisexuality #demisexual

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genderqueerdykes · 13 days

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happy international asexuality day!

April 6th marks International Asexuality Day, a day meant for recognizing, validating, educating and embracing the asexual umbrella of identities, including, but definitely not limited to asexual, aroace, demisexual, greyasexual, aceflux, pomosexual, quoisexual, and other aspectrum identifying people.

i began identifying as asexual as well as aromantic in the early 2010s before silently dropping the label as tensions around whether or not asexual people were "truly" queer/lgbt rose. i felt ashamed of that part of me and stopped talking about it, but as time has passed, the asexual community has started to rebuild, and the entire queer community owes it to the asexual community to help us rebuild and establish ourselves.

we have been the butt of many jokes for years and its time to get rid of the stigma this identity has once and for all and accept that in a society that demands sexuality from each and every person, asexuality is undoubtedly queer. to stand in the face of a society that barrages you with sexuality and sexual imagery, innuendo and conversation almost 24/7 and say that it is not for you, or that you do not approach sexuality in the same way as it has been forced upon you is extremely queer.

cishet or not, every asexual spectrum person falls neatly into the queer community. throwing us under the bus isn't acceptable. we struggle in cisheteronormative society just as much as other queers and it's time to acknowledge and embrace that. it was safer and easier for me to talk about being a gay man than it was for me to talk about being asexual. it was easier for me to talk about being transgender than it was for me to talk about how i don't like having sex with people and don't experience sexual attraction very often and when i do, i have no plans to follow through with it unless it is to meet the other person's needs in a logical fashion.

i have been guilted and forced into sexual relationships that i did not enjoy multiple times over the years. i do not enjoy having sex with people. it's not for me. i've done it many, many times and the conclusion i come to every time is that i don't enjoy it and i come out the other side feeling worse than if i just hadn't done it at all.

i don't really experience the drive to do it in the first place, so why should i force myself to? even if i occasionally find people attractive, if i don't want to follow through on it, i shouldn't have to. nobody should have to engage with sex at all if they don't want to. sex is morally neutral, but it can be very bad for some people to interact with, and this is okay.

whether you're sex repulsed, neutral, favorable, or something else, happy international asexuality day to you! be proud to be yourself, there's no shame in being asexual or asexual spectrum. let's get rid of the stigma around aspec identities once and for all

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moraent-keys · 11 days

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I know this is really late but-

A bunch of asexual headcanons for national asexuality day!

Ignore that Alastor is just straight up canon

Closeups

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spoonful116 · 5 months

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I remember senior year of high school, people asking if they were a top or bottom. My asexual ass thought it was about bunk beds because we were going to dorms soon.

My answer was bottom because I was always afraid of falling off

#ace memes #ace spec #ace #gray asexual #asexual spectrum #asexuality #asexual #high school #true story #funny story #embarassing story #definitely fit in with the allos

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gray-ace-space · 1 month

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you know what? this is for dark gray aces. this is for gray aces who have only felt sexual attraction a couple times in their entire life. for gray aces who have no desire to act on their attraction. sex repulsed gray aces. gray aces who don't have sex and don't intend to, who want nothing to do with it. you guys are valid and awesome and i don't say that enough.

#og post #positivity #gray ace #dark gray ace #sex repulsed #sex averse #ace #acespec #lgbtq+#lgbtq #lgbt+#gray asexual #graysexual #dark gray asexual #dark graysexual #asexual #ace positivity #asexual positivity

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universe-of-peoples · 21 days

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Does anyone else on the aroace spectrum ever feel like

I’m in my twenties and I WANT these big epic romances I see in movies and tv and books and even in my social circles but

I literally feel no attraction to anyone

Like I feel like I’m missing out on this life experience but I can’t help it

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palatteflags · 1 month

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Spider-Man based Bi and Gray Ace moodboard~ ^^ For an anon!! Hope you like this~

Want one? Send an ask!! -mod Jay

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novamayhem · 13 days

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Happy International Asexuality Day! You're all valid and I love ya!

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den-stims · 14 days

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ME-THEMED STIMBOARD

fun little one before bed :] wanted to express my transspecies & greyace identities … plus this is how i view myself/my favourite kinds of things (but not all my favourites)

🐾 🔮 🫐

🫐 🐾 🔮

🔮 🫐 🐾

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