#aspec

[bloggingboutburgers]

Yeah, I know "not all aro/aces" and all, but please don't use "not all aro/aces" as an excuse to not explore anything exclusively aro/ace ever. Otherwise any trace of aro/aceness might end up effectively lost to fandom osmosis.

To sum up... If you wouldn't be homophobic that way, please don't be aphobic that way.

#no one can know i don't like sex #aspec #asexual #aromantic #tw aphobia #aspec erasure #my art #nonburger #am i gonna get bazooka'd for this #i think i'm making a good point others also have made before but i'm bracing to get bazooka'd for this #because... experience #anyway here goes nothing

[scrumptiousfoxglitter]

In hindsight, maybe an early sign that I'm allon't was viewing romance as a somewhat equivalent to dragons in fantasy. Yes I love the hypothetical of taking a dope flying fire breathing beast out for a joy ride, yes I would have a literal heart attack and facking die if I was inserted into the situation. Yes this is basically also my stance on romance, your point being?

#aroace #actually aromantic #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #ace ace baby #aspec #shitpost #lgbtqia #queer

[aromantic-allosexual]

aromanticism deserves to be celebrated outside of the context of asexuality.

aromanticism deserves to be accepted and discussed without even mentioning asexuality.

aromantic allosexuality deserves to be celebrated.

aromanticism, on its own, with nothing else added, is fucking awesome.

#aromantic #aroallo #aro #arospec #aspec #alloaro #non sam aro #aromid #neu aro #aromantic allosexual #non-ace aro #aromanticism

[morgaine-la-reveuse]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but:

It is absolutely fine to use a label, only to realise it doesn't suit you anymore. Labels aren't there to bind you to them. They serve as a way to better describe how one feels and what ones lived experience can be like.

I had two pipelines of relabeling myself simultaneously.

From bi to lesbian, and back to bi.

From asexual to demisexual (because I thought, that one day, maybe I feel this kind of attraction, as sex-ambivalent and oscillating were terms I related with, and still do), and back to being asexual.

Does that make me less sapphic or a-spec? Absolutely not.

And to be honest: I still haven't figured out if I'm demiromantic or aromantic. And that is perfectly fine. We don't own anyone an explanation, but ourselves.

If the label felt good at that time, but doesn't anymore, let it go and take the one that feels more fitting. ♡ We are human beings. We are allowed to grow. You are valid, no matter which label you choose.

#lgbtqia+ #lgbtq+ #lgbtq community #lgbtqia positivity #queer #asexual #ace #aromantic #aro #aspectrum #aspec #lesbian #sapphic #gay #pansexual #bisexual #trans #non binary #some positivity #queer labels #personal ramblings

[just-trying-my-best-everyday]

Allos can also have QPRs. Btw. In case you thought it was an aspec-only event. Or romance light. It's neither. And you can have one if you want.

#*oprah voice* you get a qpr! and you get a qpr! #qprs can be anything you want them yo br #pls pls.pls remember that #aspec #aromantic #aromanticism #asexual #asexuality #aroace #lgbtq

[yagikidd57]

#oversexualization #wtf #lgbtqia+ #asexuality #asexual #asexuality is valid #ace community #lgbtqia community #ace space #tiktok #acespec #aspec #aromantic #aromanticism #queer #queer community #aroace #arospec #lgbtqia #tw acephobia #tw aphobia

[breaking-news-the-aroace-has]

The AroAce is protesting this vehemently. They can absolutely be trusted near massive heavy-duty machinery that can completely demolish things. They would never, EVER put important government documents or a transphobic state legislator into an active woodchipper. No way.

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aspec #breaking news #brought to you by ^him #arospec #what has the aroace done today #aroacespec #aro #ace #aro ace #asexual aromantic #they can be a little silly sometimes. they admit that. #but everyone should have basic rights! #and sometimes those rights include messing around with woodchippers #trans rights

[lokiiied]

as an asexual - the fact i was created by sex is pretty acephobic tbh

#asexual #ace #aspec #wednesday is typing…

[trickstersaint]

it really is fine, but i'll take a lollipop anyway // april 25 2024

#poems about aromanticism #still in my long poem title era. forever #sorry about no escapril poems lately everybody! i got depressed lmao #my april tradition... #poetry #aro #aro pride #aromantic poet #aromantic poetry #aromanticism #aromantic #arospec #escapril #poem #poems #poets on tumblr #napowrimo #poems and poetry #poetsandwriters #aspec

[feelingthedisaster]

atraction is just a lie made by the goverment, hope that helps

#aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #arospec #acespec #aspec

[daydream-aroace]

Yes I'm STRAIGHT.

S - Severely

T - Touch

R - Repulsed

A - AroAce

IGHT?

#aroace #asexual #aromantic asexual #aromantic #ace #arospec #aspec

[radiopookie]

the day aroace characters stop getting shipped constantly with the entire cast is the day i will be in peace

#aroace #aspec #aromantic #asexual #saiki k #alastor

[voxxy1950]

i like this character! . . . aggressively shoots with the aspec and trans rayguns

#aro #ace #agender #aspec #aroace #arospec #acespec #trans #transgender #queer

[paladinofmidnight]

I'm aroace. Always have been, always will be. And you know what ticks me off the most about it? It's the sentiment from allo people, that tell aces/aros/aroaces that the love they feel "must be platonic!" Or that if the have sex or date they aren't a real ace/aro/aroace.

This is wrong. It is wrong now, it was wrong then, and it will always b wrong.

Aros are defined as people without any romantic ATTRACTION. They can date, fall in love, or maybe they never will, and they find happiness in that.

Aces are defined as people without any sexual ATTRACTION. They can fuck, fuck around, make dirty jokes, or maybe they never have sex, or are uncomfortable with even the idea being brought up.

Ik this, because I'm aroace, and I'm in a poly relationship. I love my two partners, my boyfriend AND my girlfriend, but you wanna know what? I was never romantically or sexually attracted to them. I, oh so simply, just fell in love with them. I trust them completely, and I love them more than myself.

If I was not in love with them, I would not be in a relationship with them. It's as simple as that. I am not allo, I find no meaning in pretending to be attracted to someone. I've dated before, although it was more from societal pressures than any feelings, and that is why I'm so certain.

I never got a crush phase, never got the butterflies in my stomach or the fantasys about someone I was not close too.

Many aros/aces/aroaces will probably never want or find such relationships with a person. And that's okay, but it does not mean all are like that. People under the A-umbrella are 1000% valid, regardless of their wants/needs to have or not to have a relationship.

The Acespectum is always one of the hardest things to figure out if you are, because it is impossible to teach what the absence of something feels like. So, if you think you are, take it slow. Figure it out at your own pace, and don't be afraid of someone else's anger that you may not fit what they think you should be. In the end it's your choice, your wants, your needs, and your life.

#aromantism #aromantic #aroace #arospec #aro pride #acespec #ace pride #asexual #asexuality #asexual issues #aroace issues #aromantic issues #aspec #aspec pride #aspec positivity

[maggoteatz]

sick of hearing "you'll find the right person someday" whenever i tell someone im asexual

or either they reply with "WHATTT?? SEGGS IS AWESOME YOU'RE CRAZY" these horny mfs 😔

#ace #asexual #aspec #lgbtq

[why-am-i-always-hungruy]

I've been seeing a lot of "hot people can be aroace too!!" and we all knew that. But what about ugly people, or people who aren't considered attractive? What about us? We say we're aroace, and it's assumed that we're aroace because we're not attractive, which is not the case. Just because we're not as good-looking as other people doesn't mean that we close off sexual or romantic relationships. I personally don't think that's fair.

#asexual #aromantic #aroace #aspec