daily reminder that:
you can be a manly gay man.
you can be a girly girl lesbian.
your sexuality does not have to define your aesthetic or self expression.
You know what I absolutely hate? Waking up horny. I can’t be horny on some leisurely afternoon when I have nothing to do and can ~address the situation~. Oh no, it has to come when I have to get up and work and do things other than *myself*
I've got it a hundred millions times,
But this is one hundred million and one.
When I'm with you,
It's just me and you.
My baby says I'm hot like apple pie
‘Symphony of the Water Nymphs’ | Hans Zatzka | 1859 - 1945
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"I don't do it very often;
It's fallen from an obsession to a ritual to a habit to a distant memory of all we could have been that sits collecting dust on my bookshelf.
But sometimes the sound of cars rushing by on the street below my window reminds me of sand beneath my feet and you sitting next to me."
-Thinking of My Time Spent With You, E.M.L
Genya has been putting off gay vibes this whole time. You mean to tell me she likes men? A flaw
𝘐'𝘭𝘭 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘰𝘯 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶 '𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘮𝘺 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴
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I gotta eat but idk what to eat though
I hate my life
im not allowed to be rich AND have a girlfriend because my top two love languages are quality time and gift giving, meaning shopping sprees can and will happen, and there will be nothing to stop me from blowing ALL of my cash
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do you ever see butches and just like...
I Wanna KISS YOUR FACE GODDAMMIT.
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Y'all, my super pretty co-worker and I were working together and i accidentally bumped arms with her and my heart nearly exploded, am I a Touch Starved Queer™ or what
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I dunno who will read this, but I want to say it.
To any butches who felt a sense of loss when Elliot Page came out as transgender... I'm really sorry. Y'all are erased and silenced within the LGBT+ community as it is, and to lose one of your main role models to the transgender label must be really hard.
It's always been the case, that LGBT+ people move between labels as they come to know themselves better, but that doesn't make Page's announcement any less painful for lesbians in 2021.
I know that many of you are butches who feel pressured to come out as trans, because society increasingly does not validate the feelings and experiences of people who are female-identifying, but do not match what society says female should be.
There's a lot of hate between our communities online, and I really wish that wasn't the case. I wish the unique gender experiences of butches were more appreciated. I wish you wonderful women weren't erased, all the way back to Stonewall and Stormé DeLarverie. The whole LGBT+ community owes so much to female-born masculinity, not that you'd know it from the way people talk.
I hope you're taking care of yourself. If you're still in mourning, please protect your mental health. I love you.
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is it lesbophobic to say "i wanna be your girlfriend" by girl in red is a Shitty/Lardo song
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Wouldn't it be nice if she actually called me.. ?
Yes, because I almost did so many times but the more time would pass and the less confident I became..
And guess what
I never did
*raises hand* can aroace wlw reclaim the d word too?
I believe so, only as long as you ID as a lesbian, because the d-slur was used to shame lesbians for their lack of attraction to men and sole attraction to women. there is some gray area around who is allowed to reclaim it (like sapphic non-lesbians who have been called the slur), so you really just have to do your research about the history of the word and really think about why it's important to you. here's a resource that kind of explains who can use it. again, there's not a final agreement about who all can use it, but if you're not a woman/fem-aligned person who is attracted to women, you can't use it period. a lot of lesbians are adamant about only other lesbians using it. I myself have been in that category a few times, but I'm still just not sure. I don't think it's gatekeeping not wanting non-lesbians using it, but excluding other sapphics from using it when it can potentially be used against them doesn't seem totally fair. so idk, i keep going back and forth and i haven't come to a final conclusion yet. I'm leaning toward it being a lesbian-only word, but idk.
anyway, sorry for taking a detour, but definitively, if you are a lesbian, yes, you can reclaim it.
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Todays festivities 💕
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This Karen is really out there trying to have debate on why I put Muslim lesbians hastags, maybe cause that's my identity dumbass.
I forgot the only thing you get to think about is why chewing gums are being stuck under tables, excuse you.
White people will always fail to amaze me fr.
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Whites trying to gatekeep hastags now lmao