#aroallo

[aromantic-allosexual]

aromanticism deserves to be celebrated outside of the context of asexuality.

aromanticism deserves to be accepted and discussed without even mentioning asexuality.

aromantic allosexuality deserves to be celebrated.

aromanticism, on its own, with nothing else added, is fucking awesome.

#aromantic #aroallo #aro #arospec #aspec #alloaro #non sam aro #aromid #neu aro #aromantic allosexual #non-ace aro #aromanticism

[kirkland-brand-witch]

*likes aro posts*

Tumblr: so you want aroace posts? You're aro ace? You're ace? Your entire dashboard is exclusively ace now you're welcome

#aro #aroallo #alloaro #lgbtq #queer

[daybringersol]

need some people to start examining why they get so upset seeing aroallos stand up for themselves

#aroallo #arophobia #aroallo pride #aromantic spectrum #aromanticism #aromantic #aromance

[lady-phasma]

I often wonder about closeted arospec celebrities. When I was a kid, it wasn't easy for celebrities to be openly queer. My friends and I would speculate, as middle schoolers do, about celebs.

On the rare occasions that I pay attention to a celebrity outside of their profession, I play a mental game of "are they arospec?" It probably stems from the same need for representation we had when I was growing up, but sometimes I wonder if there are significantly more public figures who are arospec than we realize.

#I don't have a list but I feel like I know 'em when I see 'em #aro thoughts #aromantic #arospec #aro #aroallo #auntie prattles #txt post #personal

[ugly-anarchist]

Even if I wasn't trans and bi my aroness would make me so extremely queer

Romantic relationships are the norm, not wanting them ever and not being romantically attracted to people is seen as literally inhuman. Especially when you're afab.

When you're raised as a "woman" everything in your life, every decision you make, 24/7 365 days a year is dictated by potential romance.

"Don't dye your hair or get a tattoo, your future husband won't like that"

"Don't get that job, men don't like women who earn more than them"

"Don't work out too much, your future boyfriend will feel emasculated"

"Dress like this to attract a man"

"Men like this kind of personality"

"You'll need to learn these skills so you can be a good wife someday!"

"You need to dedicate time to putting yourself out there! You can't spend all your time doing [thing you actually enjoy]!"

And yeah, it's linked with misogyny and women have been choosing to be single and childless for centuries despite the norm but the fact that it's not my choice is what makes me queer.

I didn't choose to not feel romantic attraction. I didn't choose to be averse to romance. I didn't choose to be aromantic.

I didn't choose to oppose the norm, I was born outside of it. And that's what queerness is all about.

(And yes, cisgender heterosexual aromantic men are 100% queer, I'm just speaking from my own personal experience)

[This post is about aromanticism, do not derail or tag as ace/asexual/aroace]

#aromantic #alloaro #aro #arospec #aspec #aroallo #aromanticism #arophobia

[voxxy1950]

I need

I need more aromantic allosexual rep

Please 🙏

#aro #arospectrum #arospec #aroallo #aromantic #aromantic spectrum

[thetisming]

not all aces are aros, not all aros are ace, not all apls are aro or ace, not all afams are aro, apl or ace, not all aspec identities go with another one

#aromantic #asexual #aroallo #alloace #aspec #aspec community #this goes for all other aspec labels too!

[aroace-confessions]

i agree with the aro and ace arent the same posts, but for some reason i keep getting them on my dash and it kinda hurts after a while. I'm a pretty sensitive person and seeing aro and ace are different 50 times over is starting to hurt. also saw some aroace ppl are whiny and annoying and it just makes me feel bad. I know i'm being dramatic but idk. I want more aroallo and alloace characters, but i also want aroace characters. I feel like i'm part of the people shoving aro people out of the group. This isnt blaming anyone and i think that they still should make these posts, but i can't talk about this with really anyone irl.

Submitted 23/04/24

#aroace #aromantic asexual #aromantic #aro #ace #asexual #alloace #aroallo

[sirompp]

hi. i made some images.

feel free to take them and use for whatever you may need them for. no credit required

#me tag🍭 #i might make more if anyone asks for them #EDIT: no im not lol #aro #aromantic #aroallo #alloaro #aroace #aromantic asexual #ace #asexual #<-WOWIE!! thats a lot of tags!!!

[aroplatonic]

it's time for me to share this cake I decorated for valentine's day

DO NOT TAG AS ACE

#aromantic #aro #aspec #aro memes #aroallo #for cake fans this was a vanilla cake with ermine frosting

[pinnakoladda]

hey as a local aroace, i want to specify something.

were no strangers to love. you know the rules and so do i (do i). a full commitments what im thinking of. you wouldnt get this from any other guy. i just wanna tell you how im feeling. gotta make you understand. never gonna give you up. never gonna let you down. never gonna run around and desert you. never gonna make you cry. never gonna say goodbye. never gonna tell a lie and hurt you

#asexuality #aro #asexual #ace #aromantic #aromantic asexual #aromantic spectrum #aromanticism #aromance #aroace #aroallo #asexual aromantic #arospec #acespec

[fagbearentertainment]

I wanna see how much of the tumbr user base is queer so I made this 😋

Reblog for larger sample size! ☺️

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #mogai #lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #queer #intersex #aromantic #asexual #aroace #pansexual #demiromantic #demisexual #alloaro #aroallo #alloace #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #omnisexual #lithromantic #cupiosexual #gif #flame text #flickering

[romancerepulsed]

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

#barking #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aroace #aroallo #queerplatonic

[fun-k-boards]

Things friends can't do according to allos!

(these are all things I have been told with 100% sincerity, and not stuff that I myself believe. Also I know not all allos are like this.)

Give each other meaningful gifts

Pay attention to the others likes and dislikes

Look at one another in a 'certain way' (???)

Match clothes or accessories

Hold hands for 'too long' (???)

Hug for 'too long' or hug 'too close' (???)

Cuddle because it's 'too intimate'

Not want to pull away during a hug or holding hands

Lean onto the other emotionally and physically

Smile in one another's presence

Laugh at each others jokes

Give genuine advice

Text each other 'good morning' 'good evening' 'good night' 'happy birthday' 'happy new years' 'merry Christmas' etc, etc

Ask how the others doing

I'll add more once I think of things I've forgotten

#aromantism #aromantic #aro #aroace #aroallo

[thermodynamic-comedian]

"i love complex queer identities" you guys can't even handle aroallos.

#aroallo #aromantic allosexual #don't tag as asexual

[krvolok]

so funny how people on this website are like "how is celibacy sweeping in this poll you guys are all virgin losers. casual sex is awesome you should fuck your friends" until the person having casual sex and fucking their friends is aro. then they start pissing and shitting themselves.

#aromantic #aroallo #big hits