#narcissism

[autopsyfreak]

‘you just think you’re better than everyone’

yes. yes i do.

#actually aspd #actually npd #aspd #npd #clusterb #actually bpd #actually mentally ill #actuallyaspd #actuallynpd #cluster b #actuallybpd #actually cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #actually narcissistic #actually antisocial #actually borderline #antisocial personality disorder #narcissistic personality disorder #borderline personality disorder #npd safe #npd posting #npd traits #npd things #npd culture is #npd positivity #npd vent #narc abuse isnt real #narc abuse isn't real #narcissistic abuse #narcissism

[plutonus]

I love Diet Coke and cock!!!

#narcissism #gay

[holierthanth0u]

the npd urge to be cool and mysterious vs the npd urge to flaunt all of your difficulties for pity and validation

#npd #actually npd #npd safe #cluster b #actually cluster b #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism #npd traits #narc posting #npd things

[indeosperamus]

OMG THE NARC TRUCK‼️ NARC TRUCK SPOTTED‼️‼️‼️‼️

#npd traits #actually narcissistic #cluster b #fictive #narc posting #narcassist #npd things #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #npd posting #actually npd #grandiose narcissist #narcisstic personality disorder #narcissism #npd culture is

[corvinarc]

idk if its okay to dm so i will ask here. im trying to educate my self on NPD be cause my father is diagnosed with it.

he is also my childhood abuser. so my mom and a lot of people call him a narcissistic abuser.

but im wondering , if that isnt real, is he just a shitty persons? or is something else used for the term. sorrry if this comes off as like mean or rude im not trying to be im just trying to understand.

please educate me. what would be a better term to use for him ? so i can correct my mom and others when they fuel the narcissistic abuse bullshit. 

I appreciate you asking!

So to put it bluntly, narcissistic abuse doesn't exist. It's an ableist misnaming of other abuses. Someone doesn't abuse others because of their disorder. It's a choice they make, which can be influenced by other factors.

What happened to you is really unfortunate. I'm sorry your dad chose to be shitty to you. I've reposted another post about abuse and the power that enables abuse. You can read it here.

In my opinion, the better term to use is to just call him abusive (because he is). When others try saying narc abuse truther rhetoric, you can educate them on how it's a misnaming. An example I'll use is describing the naming system for abuse. The names describe victim (child, animal, domestic), type of action (sexual, verbal, physical, emotional), or if substances are involved (substance abuse). Notice how none of these center around disorders? And they're very specific to describe the situation.

Hopefully this helps!

#narcissistic personality disorder #npd #npd positivity #npd safe #actually cluster b #actually narcissistic #actually npd #cluster b #cluster b safe #narcissism

[mirroringshards]

sorry for being mentally ill and actually having symptoms it will happen again xoxo

#actually borderline #actually bpd #borderline personality disorder #bpd #bpd problems #bpd fp #bpd safe #bpd shit #bpd splitting #bpd stuff #npd positivity #actually npd #npd culture is #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism #actually narcissistic #npd things #npd #npd safe #npd vent #borderline problems #borderline blog #borderline pd #borderline thoughts

[gayvampyr]

the linguistic appropriation cycle

#meme #ish #i guess #dissociating #hyperfixation #narcissism #ptsd #ocd #intrusive thoughts #compulsive tendencies #flashbacks #stimming #2 spirit #masking #gaslighting #special interest #i could go on #top posts

[ineffectualdemon]

#cluster b #personality disorder #narcissist #narcissism #you've all latched onto the latest buzzword #but in honesty most of abusers are just assholes #this is coming from someone with cptsd from abuse #my parents are really just assholes

[draculian-accomplishments]

Reminder for people with Personality Disorders:

You can be in therapy for years to be able to cope.

You can mask the difficulties you have.

You can cope well with your disorders.

You can function in daily life.

But the day you have a bad day, the day you're so overwhelmed that the mask slips and you simply say one thing, the neurotypicals will use it against you and use it to abuse you.

Abuse is a choice. Abusers make the choice to abuse someone. Not every abuser has a personality disorder. There are plenty of abusers that are Neurotypical. Plenty of neurotypicals will abuse those with PDs due to the stigma and misinformation around them.

Quit using terms like "Narcissistic/Histrionic/Borderline/Anti-Social Abuse"

Quit using "Narcissist" and "Anti-Social" as insults.

Quit justifying abuse towards people with PDs.

Quit armchair diagnosing abusers and assholes with Personality Disorders when you don't know the lived experience of people with them.

Stop fucking appealing to Neurotypicals.

#npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #pwnpd #narc abuse #narcissistic abuse #actually bpd #bpd #borderline personality disorder #actually cluster b #cluster b disorders #actually hpd #hpd #actually aspd #aspd #aspd safe #hpd safe #npd safw #bpd safe

[flashy-mf]

Pro tip: if you know a narcissist who tends to oscillate between “I’m upset, why the hell isn’t everyone rushing to my side?” and “I don’t want to talk to you, I’m upset” a good solution to this is to talk to us, but as if we’re not upset.

Ignoring us while in a fragile state is narc language for “look how much fun I’m having while you’re busy crying. Look at me being so not concerned about you at all. You don’t even affect your surroundings, because if you did the world would stop until you felt better, but you’re basically nothing and everything is moving on without you.”

Trying to help or comfort us is narc language for “I think I understand what’s going on better than you do, and I’m making it your problem. My advice is to stop being upset immediately and do whatever I think you should. I’m now going to explain things you already know about the situation as if you’ve never known a damn thing in your life.”

So please for the love of god, just come over and talk to us like you wanna hang out. Don’t ignore us. Don’t attempt to solve or even acknowledge our emotions. Just say hi and ask if we want to hear a song or something. Make a joke or a compliment. Talk to us like everything’s going normally, and we’ll more than likely start to go along until we feel fine.

Nine times out of ten, what we actually need is just some basic company and supply.

#flashy ✨ thoughts #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #actually cluster b #cluster b safe #npd safe #narcissist #narcissism

[witch-of-the-creek]

Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead

#I’m not npd but the stigma you all face is horrible #narc abuse does not exist #narcissistic abuse is not real #npd positivity #narcissist positivity #cluster b positivity #narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissistic positivity #reblog bait #reblog bait cw

[autopsyfreak]

living with NPD is having an internal struggle with who you are, how you look, how you’re being perceived, etc. that doesn’t match the way you act externally.

it’s having debilitating crashes over your own appearance and other aspects of yourself, whilst simultaneously trying to make sure others still know you’re better than them, that you’re still superior to them.

this condition hurts us more than a lot of people seem to think. if you seriously believe that those around us suffer more from our condition than we do, then you’re severely uneducated about the internal sufferings of having NPD.

#actually aspd #actually npd #aspd #npd #clusterb #actually bpd #actually mentally ill #actuallyaspd #actuallynpd #cluster b #actually antisocial #actually narcissistic #actuallybpd #actually borderline #narcissistic personality disorder #narc abuse isnt real #narc abuse isn't real #narcissistic abuse #narcissism #narcissists #ableism #stop being ableist #npd traits #npd safe #npd posting #npd things #npd positivity #npd culture is #npd vent #narcissistic traits

[a-sip-of-milo]

NPD Resources Masterlist

[BPD]

The official resources masterlist for NPD. Includes all the links I've shared in the past and stuff I haven't.

Any posts I've linked about supporting those with NPD have been put in the misc section because I do not want to take away from what this post is really about, which is helping people with NPD, not the people around them.

Diagnostic criteria

NPD diagnostic criteria, rewritten by someone who has it

Official diagnostic criteria

An explanation of the diagnostic criteria

Recovery resources FOR the narcissist

NPD recovery resources

How to find therapy for NPD, common types of therapy and signs of an abusive/toxic therapist

Narcissist supply

What is narc supply?

Things that can give a narcissist supply

NPD stigma

The perception of NPD symptoms vs. how a narcissist might actually experience them

Why those with NPD have a hard time seeking help (spoiler alert: it's not because they're unaware)

A plea from someone with NPD (and some resources debunking common misconceptions)

Narcissism is not abusive / abuse is abusive

Debunking common myths on NPD

Common disproven myths about NPD

Miscellaneous

How to support someone with NPD

NPD Carrd (What is NPD, dpt skills and self-help)

Unravelling the connection: npd as a trauma response

NPD terminology (do's and dont's)

NPD safe blogs

@empath-abuse-awareness

@enigma-in-reality

@loverofmirage

@the-npd-culture-is

@nicepersondisorder

@theegosystem

@mischiefmanifold

NPD positivity so you don't have to go looking

Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead

Reblog to tell your local narcissist that they're the best ever

Happy NPD appreciation day

Positivity for systems with NPD

Be normal about narcissists unless it's to give them love

NPD should be EPD (Epic Personality Disorder)

Of course I have a praise kink, I have NPD

Narcissists are so beautiful and handsome and wonderful

Positivity for narcissists who like sex

I love my narcissists

Aromantic narcissists are amazing

Narcissists I love you

Easy ways to spot a narcissist (it's not what you think <;3)

Narcissists deserve to be loved

As usual, if something needs to be deleted because it's wrong/comes from a toxic author/etc. please let me know. I tried to look on Google but all I found was ableist shit, so these are all found by your fellow narcissists on tumblr :)

Edit: If you have any resources, please send them to me through an ask or DM and i'll check it out/add it!

#npd #npd safe #cluster b safe #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism #npd positivity #npd stigma #npd resources #npd things

[marshmallow-biscuit-blog]

Can we please normalize some people not having empathy, or having low empathy.

Sorry that the low to no empathy neurodivergent person doesn't understand why they should apologize for your dog dying. Sorry that they don't see how it's their fault. Maybe you should've asked to vent too, because I know your ass didn't.

#neurodivergent #no empathy #low empathy #narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #bipolar I disorder #bipolar II disorder #bipolar disorder #borderline personality disorder #bpd #antisocial personality disorder #autism #autistic

[indeosperamus]

(I’m working on it)

#actually narcissistic #cluster b #fictive #narc posting #narcassist #npd things #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #npd posting #actually npd #grandiose narcissist #narcissism #npd safe

[corvinarc]

Everyone is all for celebrating neurodiversity until you're the "wrong" kind of neurodivergent.

#cluster b #npd #npd safe #npd positivity #actually cluster b #cluster b safe #actually npd #actually narcissistic #actually borderline #actually bpd #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism