people need to understand that once you go through your worst time alone, you really don’t care who stays in your life anymore.
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It took me days of spiraling over the fact “what did I do wrong?” “Where did I lack?” “When will I be enough ?” And many other such questions to realise people can LIKE something and still not WANT it. People can WANT something and still not MAKE THE EFFORTS to get it. So it’s okay to not have the guy who you thought for a moment loved you , it’s okay to not have some things because with people it’s always a two way effort. Even when you give your 99percent to have them , there will still be 1 percent effort of them just saying yes to have them. So let it go, you have a lot waiting ahead for you. If you won’t move you’ll never discover those. So STOP MARINATING IN YOUR WHAT IF’s , and SHOULD’VE’s.
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A relationship should be 50/50. You send her a hoodie and she take slutty pictures in it for you
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I’m upset. Upset and feeling pity for you. For the way you make good things seem bad and like everyone but yourself is at fault. I feel pity because you cannot seem to see how much I’ve grown and everything I’ve done and have has been because of myself and no one else. Yet, you make it seem like a bad thing that I am enjoying life, that I keep growing and my family keeps getting bigger. You make it seem like I’m the bad guy when all I do is put boundaries to hat I am able to help you and I feel pity that you still think you can get your way and manipulate others into what you want. But I am not the same little girl you remember, and furthermore, I am not the same girl that used to let people walk over her and talk about her.
I’m sorry things are not fully turning out the way you planned or wanted, but you should be proud of what you have. Stop comparing our lives and stop being envious of what I have. Cause if to you, having kids is not enjoying life, then tell me why does it seem like I am having more fun now than I have ever before?
I honestly wish you the best and hope that you can stop comparing and looking into my life so that you can live yours.
I wish and hope that one day can get past this and use be proud of each other and the accomplishments we’ve made.
I hope and wish more than anything that someday soon you can simply be my brother again and not a dictator or boss trying to control my life the way you’ve done for many years.
-M.
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We shouldn’t see people for their actions but for what happened to them.
-Dr. Gabor Maté
⭐️ I believe that people come into our lives for three different reasons, representing a mirror, a lesson, and a door. What I mean by this is that every person you encounter in this lifetime serves a specific purpose. This could manifest as spiritual growth, personal development, or even an ego transformation.
⭐️ Consequently, people who come into your life as a mirror reflect back all your pain, darkness, and trauma that you repress, avoid, or deny within yourself. In other words, everyone is a mirror reflecting just another aspect of yourself, providing an opportunity for growth and deeper self-exploration.
⭐️ People who come into your life as a lesson are the ones who will teach you something new, and perhaps something valuable as well. You may already lack or need what is being taught to you, such as boundaries, compassion, patience, accountability, love, or self-love, among many other things. These individuals are here to guide you toward your higher self.
⭐️ Lastly, people who come into your life as a door are welcoming you into the unknown. You intrinsically know that you are taking a risk by stepping through that door, but you understand that as soon as you enter, you will be a different person on the other side.
~astrosoul.divinity
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Attract what you expect, reflect what you desire, become what you respect, and mirror what you admire 🙏🏿
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