#ask for help

[nyancrimew]

ok so stupid beginners independent journo/writer questions... go if i have an idea for a pice i wanna pitch to some magazines, how do i like go about that? do i just sketch out my ideas for it or can i like already write it? and if the latter how well pre-edited does it already need to be? and ! is there anything important i should keep in mind when writing pitch emails? i have no idea how to do any of this but i have some stuff i wanna publish elsewhere and collect some bylines and where i think a different audience than the one on my website blog would be cool.

#journalism #ask for help #this wont really change anything about the stuff i publish on my webiste #there is also just some additional cool culture writing i rly wanna do

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They can't rescue you if they don't know you need it. Ask for help to fight another day.♡

#suicide prevention #mental health #ask for help #you're not alone #mental illness #health support #depression #anxiety #self love #recovery #hope #mental health support #dumblr

[starchaserdreams]

There was a post like this, can anyone find it for me?

Regulus and James get into a habit

Regulus: "piss off, Potter"

James: "awww, love you too, Black"

And then one day when James is angry

James: "piss off, Black"

Regulus: "love you too, Potter"

And he leaves James STUNNED and SHOCKED and really emotional about it

I would really appreciate a link to that post, please and thank you.

#ask for help #ask #request #marauders #marauders era #dead gay wizards #starchaser #jegulus #sunseeker #regulus black #james potter #james potter x regulus black #james x regulus

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

#ask for help #accept help #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #positivity #self love #healing #recovery

[sing-you-fools]

came across this and

it's funny. but it's also just good advice! if you have a problem of any kind, if you don't know how to solve it, or don't even know how to start, go to a librarian!

libraries are full of resources that you wouldn’t expect. and if they don't have the resources or information you need immediately available, they're really good at finding it! even if it's something like, hey this thing in my house is broken and i don't even know who to call to get it fixed? they can figure that out!

if anyone has been following my kitty saga, we spent a month trying to figure out what to do with mama kitty. i mentioned the situation to one (1) librarian, she happens to volunteer at the shelter we've been phone tagging with, and it's all taken care of within two days.

libraries aren't just for books, libraries are for whatever you can manage to use them for

#libraries #librarians #ask for help #sing-you-fools #id in alt text

[positivelypositive]

🌼

if you've ever...

...helped someone out of the goodness of your heart, then know that it is just as okay for you to accept help too.

did helping someone make you think less of them? if not, then extend the same kindness to yourself.

asking for help only makes you self aware and open hearted. let yourself get the help you need, without judging yourself ✨

#positively positive #positive affirmations #mental health #daily affirmations #affirmations #self love #self care #love yourself #mental health tips #mental health support #asking for help #mental help #helping #helpful #self help #help #asking for advice #ask for help #it's okay #it's ok to not be ok #it's okay to relax #help yourself #don't judge yourself #don't be harsh on yourself #be nicer to yourself #be nice to yourself #you deserve kindness #you deserve rest #you deserve peace #you deserve to be happy

[mariposas8494]

Damn straight

#actually bipolar #bipolar disorder #bipolar mania #bipolar1 #mental heath support #bipolar depression #disabled #mental health #mental health matters #infp #ask for help

[ekrubynaffit]

Gonna get things off my chest post

So I haven't been very active in almost a year, and I can say because it's been a really horrible hard year for us. My eldest who is nearly 16 was attacked in June last year by a group of kids while he was out with his girlfriend celebrating their one year anniversary, he had his shoes stolen right off his feet and was whacked round the back of his head and one of the kids (there were 12-14 kids around just those 2) tried to force him up so they could all take a turn trying to beat him up. Since then he's been suffering from anxiety and depression and ptsd. He's gone missing in the dead of night twice and has said on multiple occasions he wants to end things. We are still in court proceedings as because of his footage the police were able to itendify these kids as the same group that have been doing calculated gay bashings to adult men and almost leaving them for dead at times. So far they have been charged with 11 of these hate crimes plus my sons, so it has been a very long stressful process for us! We are still waiting on counselling for him and are getting really desperate for help from the mental health sector.

Then just before christmas my husband had COVID and now has been diagnosed with long COVID, has been having heart and lung problems and a lot of lack of sleep and then to top it off, diagnosed with high cholestrol, and now they want to send him for tests for colon cancer. So thats a whole lot of new stress as we were told this at the start of the week.

Because of the stress my mental health has taken a toll and the final straw came for me when I sat watching a show and started bawling like I'd lost my best friend when a character died. So I went to the docs for medication which has been helping. To top that all off I have really bad back problems lately that I was sure was siatica but tests have shown absolutely nothing wrong, but yet the pain is indeed real!

So long story short, life is shit right now, and if anyone reading this feels like they are suffering mental health (or any health problem) please get it checked! If you have a lot on your plate and feeling the strain the first thing needed is to help yourself so you can be there for others!

So today I've finally had a chance to sit down and open my sims, its been almost a year and I found this build in the works, which is a reno of one of my first builds I ever uploaded to mts! Hopefully I can work on this more and get it finished!

Sorry for the big long story, I don't usually talk about my personal life here, but opening up the game made me realise I haven't used the sim as my stress relief in almost a year just wanted to share why I haven't been very active.

#Thats life #mental health is real #take mental health days #ask for help #you are not alone #its ok to not be ok #sims 2

[agirlswritingblog]

Something I never realized when I was younger was how much I related to Tails.

Ever since I played Frontiers and saw how much Tails was doubtful of himself (rightfully so after the mess of Forces) I’ve realized that I relate to Tails the most.

People are often upset that I apologize so often and how when I am given a compliment I just remark on how I’m not very good at something else, like how tails says he’s wildly inconsistent. I’ve been interested in being a pilot or doing something with computers for a while.

When I was younger (and dumber) I looked up to Sonic as a role model, which sounds silly but I was so self-conscious and he had all the confidence in the world but was still kind.

It just hit me really hard when Tails asked if he was a burden, because at the time I felt like that to a lot of people I knew.

I hope if whoever is reading this and is struggling right now, just know that it will get better I know everybody says that. Ask for help. I started taking meds for my anxiety and depression because I could barely talk about my issues without sobbing. Ever since then it’s like I remembered how to have a positive mindset. I don’t take my pills for a good portion of the year now because I’ve learned how to be happy with myself and how to look on the bright side and I’m so happy I started taking meds.

It’s not the same for everybody but please, if you’re struggling seek help from somebody you trust. It hurts me to think that others have been through similar things that I have, where they couldn’t go a day without having a panic attack in public. Please if anyone needs someone to talk to or listen, reach out to me, I’ll be here.

Sorry for the long rant, stay safe out there.

#dont give a fuck what others say about you #you’re going to be okay #ask for help #sonic the hedgehog #idw sonic #sonic au #sonic fandom #sonic prime #sonic fanart #sonic fanfiction #sonicboom #sonic the hedghog fanart #the murder of sonic the hedgehog #mentalheathawareness #mental heath support #mental health #tails the fox #miles tails prower #sth tails

[loveyourlovelysoul]

I think insisting on trying to do things on our own without sharing or asking for help, is still somehow a way to try and keep things under control, on showing ourselves (and the world) that we are good enough and fearing others may leave/not trusting them for what we need to do (especially if we were let down the only time we opened up: don't give up after the first try, try again).

This includes trying and heal on our own at all costs. Ask for help if you need, please. Share where you're at, at least. Communicate your needs, your boundaries, your overwhelming feelings. And if others go away, turn to the other side until you find someone ready to listen, respect you and possibly, even help you (professional figures do exist for this).

#words #healing #important #positivity #self love #thoughts #positive thinking #self healing #healingjourney #love yourself #self care #self help #relationships #sharing #ask for help #control issues #self worth #trust issues #abandonment issues

[afoxespalette]

“I really want to say that everyone in the world is lonely and everyone is sad, and if we know that everyone is suffering and lonely, I hope we can create an environment where we can ask for help, and say things are hard when they're hard, and say that we miss someone when we miss them.” -Min Yoongi (Suga) of BTS

#bts #min yoongi #ask for help #yoongi #agust d #bangtan #bangtan sonyeondan #bts army #quotes #quotes to remember #inspirational #tell them #say anything #bts suga #bts quotes #lonliness #motivating quotes #motivational #love yourself #happiness #i purple you 💜 #you're not alone #lit #literature #life quotes #quotations #love others #kindness #teach peace #going through a lot

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"To anyone out there who's hurting - It's not a sign of weakness to ask for help. It's a sign of strength."

— Barack Obama

#quotes #mental health #barack obama #wise words #ask for help #you're not alone #weakness #strength #hurting #support #dumblr #help #suicide prevention #mental illness

[prettyboyporter]

I know it's been forever since I posted, and I hate that this is the reason I'm back on Tumblr, but my cat Hopper (YES, named for THAT Hopper), had a blocked bladder because of crystal formation in his urine. He's at the emergency vet and will come home Thursday night.

His vet bill is $4700 😭

If you can, please consider helping.

#ask for help #sick cat #vet bill

[mstudi0s]

Attention Seeking

It was never wrong that you wanted a connection and help from people around you. To avoid asking for help all together is only a sign of hyper independence and lack of trust from having to deal with adults you could never rely on as a kid. The idea that we've weaponized needing help or asking people for advice in general and seeing it as wrong is beyond me. 🤍

Human beings are social creatures, and we always will be. You also get things done faster through the assistance of others anyway. There is nothing wrong with asking for help or needing a new set of eyes for something. You never know. The advice that you may get from that individual may be the answer you've been looking for all along. 🤍

Ask For Help

#manifesting #affirm and persist #affirmyourlife #affirmdaily #loa #manifesation #loassumption #law of assumption #mentalhealth #positive mental attitude #mental wellbeing #mental wellness #ask for help #pettalk #psychological #psychologytips #psychology #socialism #sociology

[positivelypositive]

🌱

if you've shared...

...your troubles with someone and found yourself feeling more stressed after their response or simply not as relieved as you thought you'd be, then you're not alone.

sometimes, even the people who you think can help you out in an anxious situation might not be able to relate or understand what's troubling you.

sharing with intention helps in such cases. before you begin sharing, let the other person know whether you need them to just listen OR offer advice OR help you relax.

help others help you. both of you deserve some guidance ✨

#positively positive #positive affirmations #mental health #daily affirmations #affirmations #self love #self care #love yourself #mental health tips #mental health support #get help #mental help #helpful #self help #asking for help #ask for help #help #helping #help if you can #intentional living #trust your intuition #inspirational #clarity #problems #problem solving #rant #ranting #friendship problems #sharing is caring #sharing

[mbilmey]

Was at a place with friends and we were worried our car might get towed after the last train, and I was like, man what would we do hang out until morning or something?

And then one friend looked at me funny like, we would just call someone to pick us up?

(A thought that would not have occurred to me)

So anyway, that's apparently how strong my middle-child forced sense of independence is apparently

#middle child #weak independent woman #ask for help #the social anxiety does not help #most shocking part of this post tho is the mention of irl friends but i assure you this is rare