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dangerousatobeyduck · 2 years

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Vent about how some authors put June x Jack in their stories.

Recently I've been seeing many stories in which June is cruel to Jack to the extreme, even hitting him a few times.

And both in the series and in the books it can be seen that their relationship is just the opposite of that, but what I saw in the stories is a completely distorted version of June.

June would never hit Jack like I've seen in some stories, in the books she herself says that Jack is one of her best friends, and many of these stories people still put June as an abusive person,Especially with Jack.

Honestly it's absurd how they put June as an abusive person with Jack, and still put #Junexjack.

And seeing their relationship as love or friendship as something abusive and just awful, and worst of all and when they just start a "love relationship" later

I was very upset with this view that some people are having of June, and her relationship with Jack.

Just clarifying, this is a RELEASE, I'm expressing what I'm feeling in relation to a situation that I've been seeing repeated in some fanfics.

ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT HEALTHY!

#the last kids on earth #jack sullivan #tlkoe #june del toro #netflix tlkoe #sullivatoro #tlkoe jack #quint baker #dirk savage #sullitoro #relationships #abusive #abusiverelationships #this is not healthy

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xx-webfoxxez-xx · 6 months

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the things we do for love.

i used to be in a abusive relationship. had absolutely everything i've ever said and did being used against me, i was threatened, stalked, abused in every single way.

I was manipulated in every single way possible as well, bad to the point i was physically ill in many ways in the end. I had this partner distancing me from family and friends, he wanted to marry me and move out to another state, small and conservative. I had to wear what he liked, paint my nails in the only color he'd let me, dye my hair in his favorite color only.

I was tricked into thinking that i was 100% sure there wasn't a life worth living without this person. I gave him my favorite childhood plushie to him because "i'd never stay away from this plushie, i know i'm gonna marry you."

He'd keep it in his wardrobe. He barely cared. When i've decided to end it all and he freaked the fuck out, i finally had some peace of mind. But the plushie was with him. We live in the same neighbourhood. I was scared. He kept calling. He kept leaving gifts. He sent his mother to my house. He kept creating multiple accounts on social media to stalk and try to contact me (he never had any socials). He stopped my parents (he hated them) in the middle of the streets and fell to his knees crying. I was scared to death.

But i let the plushie there.

I couldn't fucking rest.

I called him after being in a cage for so long, knowing how desperate he was to have his little trophy back and how badly i could be fucking it all up: i've been feeling so sad lately. Could you please send me that plushie? I promise i will meet up with you to give it back so we can talk.

I was scared. I was so fucking scared. But i couldn't leave that piece of me there. Not that one.

He called me over 30 times on new years eve. He managed to get another number to text and call. I had to block him on spotify. I avoided going out on my own for months.

Did i ever met up with him to return the plushie? Absolutely the fuck not. I was lying.

I couldn't lie to keep myself safe in this relationship for 3 long years for the death of me. But for this one i could.

the things we do for love.

#its been nearly a year but i still need to talk about it.#abusiveboyfriend #abusiverelationships #childhood trauma #relationship #toxic relationship #toxic love #tommie speaks #mine

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tzotsi-blog · 1 year

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TW:abuse

This is something serious.This is something you need to pay attention.

Love is great.And every person loves in a different way.But pay attention if

His worls are a little bit to cruel

If his getting cold really easily

If he is threatening you that he is gonna hurt you physically (even if he said it was a joke)

If he doesnt let you to decide freely about the clothes you are wearing,the people you speak to,the subjects that you can talk about (even if you does it differently,for example if you know that he is gonna explode really bad if he do any of this things so you dont do them anyway because you re scared of his reaction)

If he is shouting to you,and not feel bad at all.If you calls you names ,and then say he didnt mean it. If he is grabbing you ,forcing you to do anything at all,enen just leave with him when you dont want to because you had a fight.

If he cant manage his emotions ,and especially his anger.Anger issues can be treated with therapy and if the person wants to help himself .Till then ,till he realises he has a problem and be willing to solve it ,you re on your own and you re in danger every time he gets angry.And the plot twist is that you cant tell when he is gonna be angry,so you re never safe.

Last but not least,its never too late to leave.No matter how much you love him,no matter how good is his good side.Its never too lts to decide you wanna protect your body and your piece .I know its hard to accept that this person that you love with your whole heart can be dangerous for you.But as soon as you ,please take care if yourself.You deserve the same love you re trying to give him.Save it for yourself

#relationships abusiverelationships #abusiverelationships #abuse #toxic behavior #toxic love #relationship #mentalheathawareness #abuse awareness

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madgemadigan · 2 years

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What is Love Bombing? If it Happens, Run!

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justmyhumanexperience · 5 months

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#emotions #feelings #quotes #abuse #abusers #accountability #experience #relationship #relationships #abusiverelationships #toxic #toxicpeople #toxicrelationship

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chicachuqueen711425 · 2 years

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Does anyone have family members that love to gaslight, and be emotional, physically, and mentally abusive, and has other members of the family blindsided to their lie and not believe you when you're telling the full blown truth. On top of that they don't even try to understand or remember that you have worse mental and physical health issues then them. It really does baffle me that not only is this country turning away from me and so is my family. Why can't anyone just listen and be more appreciated towards me. I feel like no matter what I do it's never good enough for myself or for my family, and when I tried to do something good and productive for myself or my family, I always get shit for something. It's just been one blow after another, I feel like I'm not good enough for this family and I don't know why they act like that when I have done nothing wrong. It's like everything I touch goes to shit, no matter what I do it's like.....uhh I don't even know anymore, most days I am strong and proud but when you get abused as much as I have been abused the PTSD is too much some days I just wish God would strike down the lighting and bring me home to God. Because no one deserves to be abused. The reasons why I haven't ended my life is because my cats had some family members, friends, and pets need me here. But at the same time I #godhelpme #godhelpus #ptsd #2021crisis #2021drama #struggling #someonesaveme #savemefromevil #wantchangequick #gaslighting #help #helpme #abusiverelationships (at Albuquerque, New Mexico) https://www.instagram.com/p/CgVhMIusV19/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#godhelpme #godhelpus #ptsd #2021crisis #2021drama #struggling #someonesaveme #savemefromevil #wantchangequick #gaslighting #help #helpme #abusiverelationships

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bisexualaliennut · 2 years

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A Terrible Circus

Andrys knew me in and out. He knew me like a book. He knew things that I did not even know I knew about myself. In the beginning of a relationship things go smoothly. Your happy, the sex is good and you get butterflies. But then things take a turn for the worst. All the trauma both of you had just get smushed together in some unhappy circus

You should be happy its a circus! The worst part is you become in love with the sickening parts of the circus. You start to love the person who falls from the trapeze and you don’t help them, you admire there pain and leave them on the dirt. The crowd hates it people leave in disgust. You start to abuse the elephant despite knowing the elephant is very much alive and has feelings. They don’t go away. And your partner in the circus is the one causing you to feel all the evilness in the world. The darkest places. But you’re not actually at a circus. You’re in a bedroom in New Jersey where the blinds are always shut and there are no pictures on the wall.

#abusiverelationships #abuse

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demitriwylde · 2 years

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⚡️Hey Boo-boos! ⚡️There’s a new episode of @tarotlovedoctors with @blueangeltarot and @demitriwylde out now! We’re deep diving into #johnnydepp vs #amberheard and Amber Heard’s testimony on Johnny Depp’s alleged abuse. The scandal continues on our YouTube channel. #depp #depphead #amberturd #johnnydeppisinnocent #johnnydeppisanabuser #amberheardisanabuser #amberheardisinnocent #johnnydeppisanalcoholic #johnnydeppisanaddict #depp #depphead #deppheads #abusiverelationship #abusiverelationships #abuse #abuseisabuse #abusesurvivor #abuserecovery #toxicrelationships #toxic #toxicrelationship #abuseawareness #addiction #addictionawareness #addictionrecovery #addictionisreal #borderlinepersonality #borderline #poopsie (at 𝓣𝓱𝒆 𝓤𝒏𝒊𝓿𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒆) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cdb6P8Yp2qD/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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typicals-stuff · 2 years

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Yes I talk about my ex being abusive and how I lived through an abusive relationship openly. Not because I’m looking for attention or for your pity. But because of the numerous women who live through it and can’t or aren’t able to talk about it openly. I talk about it for the women who didn’t survive those relationships. For those who feel shame from allowing such things to happen to them. For those who are still living through it. For those that are just coming out of it or are about to come out of it. I have friends that say they don’t understand how a woman would stay in such relationships, and honestly, I’m overly jealous of them. I hope they never go through one of those relationships. I hope they never want to get into a new relationship filled with doubts and insecurities and fear that it will just happen all over again. I won’t hide it. I’m jealous. But I’m also aware of how much that relationship changed me and my perspective on things. I no longer see just the good in people. I second guess people’s intentions towards me. I doubt their presence around me. On good days, all is great. But on those bad days, one small thing can set me off. Yes talking about it for the women is great. But we also have to remember the men that go through the same thing. Not only does society not believe them, but we also don’t give them the opportunity to be heard and listened to. We don’t give them the chance to express their experiences. Yes I talk openly about my abusive relationship. But it’s in hopes that it can help someone realize they aren’t alone and that they shouldn’t feel shame in regards of what happened.

#AbusiveRelationships #let’s talk about it #open up #different perspectives #men and women face this #it’s time we don’t hide it anymore

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paraphraze615 · 2 years

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All that unnecessary aggression gon' make me have an anxiety attack... #BlackTikTok #BlackTikTokCommunity #BlackTikTokCreators #FYP #ForYou #ForYourPage #AreYouThatFuckingDumb #AreYouThatDumb #CutHisFuckingMic #CutHisMic #Narcissists #Narcissism #NarcissistSurvivor #NarcissistSurvivors #NarcissistAwareness #AbusiveRelationships #ToxicRelationships #ToxicGirlfriends #ToxicWomen #ToxicWives #NarcissisticAbuse #Manipulationship #VerbalAbuse #VerballyAbused #MentalAbuse #MentalAbuseAwareness https://www.instagram.com/p/CdB5OowjeTg/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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veronicamalatesta · 4 months

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Duemilaventitrè, si è pianto assai. Nel male ma per fortuna anche nel bene ⭐

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haunted-whisperings · 1 month

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when i look in the mirror i never trust what i see having trouble realizing me told what to do, what to feel where do i begin to find what is real i said no, “you mean yes” i guess not so sure anymore an uneven score wanting more do i deserve such i feel i have been missing much caught in a web of lies unheard for years, my many cries chains stay the course do you think he feels remorse overactive emotions dysfunctional neurotransmitters i’m not a quitter not even bitter i just need to know how do i go from here to there care self-distrust do i matter much it’s not a crutch i’m struck by a twist of fate stalemate maybe someone help me figure this out untwist my brain serotonin lost my mood the cost depressed on a quest to find my true mind real emotions presynaptic collapse my body reacts self-harm moving to my arm sound the alarm imperfections now found on my body’s sacred ground tell me the truth show me what to do is this true as tears drop shocked mediating tension hand is wrenching stainless steel again appeals to the theory of invalidation

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katieolney · 2 months

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🎭"Tough Pill to Swallow"💊

Man from my nightmareHaunting me in my sleepYou’re selfishness is unfairYour presence makes me weep You are everything I wantYet you are nothing at allThe definition of bluntHere only to make me fall You are never there for meYou only take take and takeI can’t stand you’re vanityHow do I get this spell to break? You are my fears and goalsYou are my reason for lifeYet the reason for all these…

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#abusiverelationship #addiction #anxiety #Borderlinepersonalitydisorder #Bpd #bullying #codependency #Depression #grief #poem #poetry #Ptsd #selfcare #toxic relationships

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madgemadigan · 2 years

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Gaslighting. What is it and Where Did it Come From?

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degrating · 3 months

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cried on my birthday every year for 14 years, cried on valentine’s day every year of this relationship. i’m so tired. why can’t one specific day i plan for ever be special or important

#abusiveboyfriend #abusiveness #abusiverelationship

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abhapoetry · 1 year

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God Presence is Always There

I trace the face that I remember, Red-blond eyebrows above Those drawn out eyes and pink lips.

You were scared I would leave you yesterday When you showed me how you live now; Piles of dishes travelling from the kitchen to the shower, Stacks overflowing in the bathroom sink.

You tell me your boyfriend is a hoarder And how he takes apart everything you bring home. We try to make some sense of the mess so we can sleep tonight And find nuts and bolts, beer cans, old phones That still ring even when they’re dead.

You tell me how he has taken you apart too, How the neighbour complains to the police Every time you cry, how he leaves you on the floor hurting yourself Because he does not believe in compassion.

He told you he thinks people have to force themselves to be good And that he believes there is a singular reality, occurring there externally. Perhaps this is the worst for you, being trapped in one reality When you inhabit so many — when you experience All the perspectives at once and commune with deities.

You told me you chose to love him to prove you can love anyone, You told me you’re staying because of your sins And the bad karma that has caught up with you.

We talk about your psychosis eight years ago, And you tell me Aya tried to warn you. We remember how you went silent for a year after.

You are still afraid of ambulances Because they restrained you on that bed Where you couldn’t reach your glass of water, Gave you electroshock therapy so bad You now have gaps in your memory.

You still take the meds and get your shots But you haven’t stopped wondering What the sounds are trying to tell you And what the angel numbers mean when they appear.

You beg me to remember the ‘old Tina’ And I tell you she’s right there, in front of me. We run around Vienna like we own it, And paint our nails red on the train, Talk about all the boys whose hearts we broke, And make peace with our recklessness.

#poetry #prose #poets on tumblr #friends #abusiverelationship #mentalhealth #depression

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