#abuserecovery

[sionainnthewise]

abuse recovery

abuse is horrid at what it does to the mind. we can be in the thick of it and struggling to understand why it's happening but entirely blame ourselves. like we aren't good enough or worthy enough of decent fucking treatment. breaking free of it takes courage. and learning to love and be loved again takes courage. there are so many wonderful people on this planet who can absolutely love a formerly abused/recovering person the way they deserve to be loved. and formerly abused/recovering people have SO MUCH LOVE to give. but recovery is a mind-body-spirit thing. you have to feel safe, comfortable, and protected to be open, heal, and connect again in meaningful ways.

btw, recovery is also a mental journey of self-understanding. relearning what kind of behavior is okay and what isn't. recognizing that YOU DIDN'T DESERVE THAT BULLSHIT, and what they did to you was NOT okay is part of that. you always deserved better.

what's agonizing is that even though we know all these things and we want to believe them, we can still set ourselves up for failure in future relationships. recovering hearts are prone to self-sabotage, especially in beautiful and loving relationship(s). its like, it wasn't enough that the abuser fucked us up in that relationship, it has to stick to us like superglue.

my darling ones, you deserve better. it is okay to believe that.

if you have moved on, remember: the person/people you are with now aren't the people who hurt you, used you, manipulated you, or tried to destroy you. give yourself space to shed off those slimy layers of toxicity and learn what love REALLY looks like. be patient with yourself. recognize your fight/flight responses in relationships. be open. be honest. find people to support you. as formerly abused people, we have to UNLEARN relationship norms and RELEARN them. this can be any kind of relationship, not just romantic. i can't stress this point enough.

for the fantastic people who love formerly abused and recovering people, thank you for being patient with them as they learn to accept what everyone else knows as normal fucking behavior as the norm. when they ask for assurance a zillion times because they were used to being gaslit and mentally tortured, please don't hold it against them. when they need more time or comfort or hugs or space, it isn't you. trust me, they know you have them. it just takes time. healing takes time.

together we can get through this.

#abusesucks #afterabuse #abuserecovery #findingloveagain #itsokaytobefuckingupset #recovery #love #relationships #adviceforreallife #peoplelovingpeople #formerlyabused #trauma

[onlinebookclub-org]

Book of the Day, August 25th — Nonfiction

Temporarily Discounted! Get your copy below:

Get Out of My Bed by Shirley Wooten Rose

This book has earned a PERFECT 5-star rating on Amazon!

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More than likely you have socialized/dated someone who was a potential abuser. Did you recognize any red flags? Or were you blinded by that new love syndrome?

From the Author:

I want to help everyone recognize those red flags when entering a new relationship. If I can help one person avoid the disappointment and misery of an abusive relationship, then I have accomplished my goal.

"Shirley Rose has lived through an abusive situation and came out a stronger person. She writes her story clearly, without wallowing in self pity or excuses. This book is a guide for anyone who is in a similar situation, with resources and, most of all, hope." ~ Amazon review

#nonfiction #abuserecovery #5starsonAmazon #selfhelp

[ccarriganphotos]

Medical intuitive healer Catherine Carrigan interviews psychotherapist and author Beverly Engel about six steps to heal from childhood sexual abuse. To watch the video please visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0hCozrtTZ8 Questions addressed in this interview include: Why do you feel shame is the most damaging result of child sexual abuse? Statistics show an estimated 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 5 boys experience childhood sexual abuse. How can we develop the inner strength to face the truth of what happened? In your experience, what is shame? How does shame hurt a survivor of child sexual abuse? What are the major components of the program you recommend for recovery from child sexual abuse? The 6 steps to heal from childhood sexual abuse include: 1, facing the truth, 2, acknowledging our feelings, 3, stop blaming yourself and get angry, 4, tell someone safe, 5, forgive yourself, and 6, stop shame inducing behavior. What are the details of each step? This is the Natural Healing Show for UK Health Radio. What natural healing methods helped you the most in your recovery from child sexual abuse? How can grounding our energy help us reconnect with our mind, body and spirit and stop the pattern of dissassociation? What steps do you feel is hardest for victims to tackle? What are common triggers that may remind people of their abuse? What are some common myths that make it difficult for people to heal from child sexual abuse? What is a Truth Book and how can it help people heal? How can making a list of our triggers help us connect the dots? How can victims of child sexual abuse stop the cycle of blaming themselves? As we know, both boys and girls are victims of child sexual abuse. Why do you feel men suffer more shame from child sexual abuse than women? The shame caused by child sexual abuse can affect a victim’s sexuality as they mature. What are some of the specific ways this can occur? #abuserecovery #childhoodtrauma #childhoodtraumahealing #childhoodtraumarecovery #naturalhealing #naturalhealth https://www.instagram.com/p/CmXmHZbu3HV/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#abuserecovery #childhoodtrauma #childhoodtraumahealing #childhoodtraumarecovery #naturalhealing #naturalhealth

[shellhawk]

Victims of abuse, particularly narcissistic abuse, will understand this! The narcissist's greatest fear is exposure. But if you're silent their version of the story is the ONLY version. .. . . . . #abuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #financialabuse https://www.instagram.com/p/CkomvJrS8yV/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#abuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #financialabuse

[cuddlewithpurpose]

#abuse #abusesurvivor #domesticviolence #verbalabuse #mentalabuse #physicalabuse #courage #abuseisabuse #abuseawareness #narcissisticabuse #abuserecovery #emotionalabuse #emotionalabusesurvivor #emotionalabuseisstillabuse #emotionalabuseawareness #emotionalabuserecovery #mentalabuse #mentalabuseawareness #verbalabuseisstillabuse #physicalabusesurvivor #trauma #traumarecovery #traumahealing #traumabonding #traumabond #traumasurvivor #emotionaltrauma https://www.instagram.com/p/ChqNbp6sbGj/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[onlinecounselling4u]

⚠ Beware of our children! 👇 1: Warn your daughter or son not to sit on anyone's lap, no matter the situation, including uncles. 2: Avoid dressing in front of your children from the age of 2. 3. Never allow an adult to refer to your child as "my wife" or "my husband" 4. Whenever your child goes out to play with his friends, be sure to find a way to find out what type of game he plays, because young people abuse themselves sexually. And this is not new... 5. Never have your child visit an adult with whom he is not comfortable, and also consider whether your child becomes a big fan of a particular adult. 6. Once, a very cheerful child suddenly becomes shy. You may need to be patient and cautious, as well as clear up a few questions about why you are behaving. 7. Educate carefully about the correct values ​​of sexuality. If you don't, society will teach you the wrong values. 8: It is always advisable to review any new material, such as cartoons you just bought from them, before you start watching them. 9. Make sure to enable parental controls on your cable networks and advise your friends, especially your children's. Visit frequently. 10. Teach your children from 3 years to wash their private parts well and warn them never to allow anyone to touch them (remember, caring begins at home and with you). 11: Keep away any associated materials that you think could endanger your child's mental health (this includes music, movies, and even friends and family). 12: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet. Remember, we are the parents who raise future parents. #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #abuse #abusesurvivor #abuseisabuse #abuseawareness #abuserecovery https://www.instagram.com/p/Celyx0Tvtl6/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #abuse #abusesurvivor #abuseisabuse #abuseawareness #abuserecovery

[demitriwylde]

⚡️Hey Boo-boos! ⚡️There’s a new episode of @tarotlovedoctors with @blueangeltarot and @demitriwylde out now! We’re deep diving into #johnnydepp vs #amberheard and Amber Heard’s testimony on Johnny Depp’s alleged abuse. The scandal continues on our YouTube channel. #depp #depphead #amberturd #johnnydeppisinnocent #johnnydeppisanabuser #amberheardisanabuser #amberheardisinnocent #johnnydeppisanalcoholic #johnnydeppisanaddict #depp #depphead #deppheads #abusiverelationship #abusiverelationships #abuse #abuseisabuse #abusesurvivor #abuserecovery #toxicrelationships #toxic #toxicrelationship #abuseawareness #addiction #addictionawareness #addictionrecovery #addictionisreal #borderlinepersonality #borderline #poopsie (at 𝓣𝓱𝒆 𝓤𝒏𝒊𝓿𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒆) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cdb6P8Yp2qD/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[dbqigongtrainer]

Merry Christmas Peace and Enjoy ! Practice is Your best gift that you ca...

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[designerdork]

Day 3: Recovering from Abuse

@garseeyart’s Besties in Trauma

RoseGold therapy session in the human realm

#bestiesintrauma #owlhouse #theowlhouse #rosegold #amityblight #hunter #abuserecovery #goldenguard #badbutsad #belos #emperorbelos #badgirlcoven #artkid #designerdork #designerdorkart

#the owl house #amity blight #hunter noceda #toh hunter #human realm #besties in trauma #rosegold

[neglected-damaged-graced]

Each event must be processed in-depth in a safe setting, to both validate the damage done and eliminate the emotional confusion that occurred during the abuse or neglect. While I practiced this for years it wasn’t until I wrote the book about what happened to me that I was able to completely release all those knots. While telling the story I explain each and every event while shedding psychological insights on how my thinking was distorted by my experiences. My hope is that many of you who have the same knots will find yours loosening as you read and that those knots will loosen even more by simply seeing how I untied mine.

Emmanuel

#traumasurvivor

#traumahealing

#traumarecovery

#trauma

#abusesurvivor

#abuserecovery

#ComplexTrauma

[intuitiveanthony]

Stay connected

Intuitive Anthony on YouTube motivational changes #narcissismandgod #abuserecovery #love https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_XEPpIX2DD8

[mirandamckenni1]

How to Protect Yourself from "Revenge Porn", with Kiara Lord - LustCast Ep 29 Support my content: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEKteOSLNpSoCNvYUILZfBQ/join In this episode, we discuss the recent Stephen Baer and Georgia Harrison revenge porn conviction in the UK, as well as the devastating impact revenge porn can have on its victims. My guest, Kiara Lord, shares her personal experience with revenge porn and reveals how she once threatened to share homemade sex tapes with her boyfriend's acquaintances. We also provide important information for those who have been victimised by revenge porn, including how to have the content removed from the internet. If you or someone you know has been impacted by revenge porn, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we delve into the disturbing reality of revenge porn, and explore what can be done to combat this deeply harmful behavior. Also, victims that need help removing videos from the internet can contact me and I will show you how to do it quickly and effectively. Please DM me on social media if you need help or contact revenge porn charities in your country. Follow LustCast's social media: Instagram - https://ift.tt/CgqzXW9 Twitter - https://mobile.twitter.com/getlustcast Apple, Spotify, etc - https://ift.tt/ZSuWUbj #revenge #metoo #abuse #abuserecovery #abuser #internet #revenge #breakups #sexuality #trauma #traumatized #relationships #relationship #dating #datingadvice #stephenbaer #georgiaharrison #deepfake via YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svJEE53a6w8

#IFTTT #YouTube #Youtube

[ccarriganphotos]

Medical intuitive healer Catherine Carrigan interviews author Jennie Weaver about the nine childhood traumas and how to recover from them. To watch the interview please visit this link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHdAdmZVuaI Questions addressed in this interview include: What do you mean when you use the term "childhood trauma?" What are the nine primary childhood traumas? Can you describe the lifelong impact of experiencing childhood trauma? How can siblings help each other in healing from childhood trauma? What does it take to “break the cycle” of intergenerational trauma? What are the primary survival roles a person may have learned in childhood? How can we develop a healthy relationship with our parents after childhood abuse? When is it healthy or ok to cut off an abusive parent? How can someone establish healthy boundaries with an abusive parent? Why is it essential to stop the cycle of abuse for true healing to begin? What natural healing methods have you found most helpful in recovering from abuse? #abuserecovery #adversechildhoodexperiences #childhoodtrauma #childhoodtraumarecovery #childhoodtraumahealing #naturalhealing #naturalhealth #medicalintuitive #medicalintuitivehealer https://www.instagram.com/p/CkdgK93uPZ_/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#abuserecovery #adversechildhoodexperiences #childhoodtrauma #childhoodtraumarecovery #childhoodtraumahealing #naturalhealing #naturalhealth #medicalintuitive #medicalintuitivehealer

[nicolyboo]

Exciting news, everyone! 📚 My book, "RECORD OF WRONG," is now officially available for preorders at www.recordofwrongbook.com! 🎉 I poured my heart and soul into this project, and I can't wait for you all to read it. Join me on this emotional journey as we delve into the complexities of life and the power of resilience. Your support means the world to me, so don't miss the chance to secure your copy today. Let's embark on this incredible adventure together!

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Again that link is: www.recordofwrongbook.com

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[anapacquiao]

👍 on @YouTube: So scary. This girl uses sign language for help! 😳 #abuserecovery #abuse #abusesurvivor #scary https://t.co/tktLzlcHeP

[m-ill-k]

Watch "So scary. This girl uses sign language for help! 😳 #abuserecovery #abuse #abusesurvivor #scary" on YouTube