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rotten-innocence · 1 year
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I'm rotting
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Oc ok to RB
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It's hard to curse you, I better forget you, But I won't forgive you.
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anushkasthoughts · 4 months
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Eternal Desires - A Dance of Blood and Passion - Chapter 28: Unwelcome Discoveries (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1400528677-eternal-desires-a-dance-of-blood-and-passion?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=anushkaraina23&wp_originator=9x%2BAtPSGTN2SbgJqsMPXDuwQyNV%2Ba8wSC7z%2BfcXRy21pq5fuBvy%2FqTJ%2B2mxOHtwRNmjtkYqUIyPDZEYDHTqEyh9sJ1%2F5Om7dXd1aMX4znIJBC5t4bIreR3KbT7crZhz1 In the enchanting town of Evercrest, darkness conceals ancient secrets and supernatural beings roam in the shadows, a riveting tale of love, danger, and redemption unfolds. Meet Damon Salvatore, a strikingly handsome vampire, & Elena Gilbert, a compassionate & resilient young woman whose life takes an extraordinary turn when she meets the charming & charismatic werewolf, Jacob, on the first day of high school. As their connection deepens, Elena finds herself entangled in a toxic yet committed relationship with Jacob when she later crosses paths with Damon. Drawn together by an inexplicable force, Damon's initial attempts to seduce Elena prove to be challenging. Will Elena fall for Damon's dangerous charm or remain loyal to Jacob? Fate has its own plans for Elena & Damon. Will they be the endgame, or will someone else enter the picture and change their destinies? Amidst the complexities of love and relationships,one cannot forget, Klaus Mikaelson, the powerful hybrid feared by many. His heart has never known love or care, making him the most dangerous supernatural creature alive. Will he embrace love, or will he remain a formidable villain? Stefan Salvatore, Damon's little brother, has always had a love-hate relationship with him. Love will also play a role in Stefan's life, but who will be his soulmate, & will he find his happy ending? The story also revolves around Elena's best friends, Caroline & Bonnie, as they experience complicated love, true friendships, and challenging situations. As Evercrest faces dangerous, ruthless villains, how will these characters navigate through the challenges & surprises that lie ahead? Prepare for a thrilling journey as the dance of blood and passion unfolds, testing the depths of love and loyalty. Join this mesmerizing tale of romance, adventure, and suspense, where answers to all your questions await in this mysterious and thrilling world.
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haninabz · 1 year
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A sip of you
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ca-8 · 8 months
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“But, as you said before, they’re strangers, and therefore have no real place in your life.”
“Yes, but it’s still about me. He told them what wasn’t true. He told them how I was to blame for a mess he created. And I’ll never know if he’ll undo those lies.”
“I know it’s frustrating to have no control over a situation such as the one you’re telling me, but you need to accept that reality in order to move on. We can’t have any control over other people’s thoughts and feelings about us, but we do have control over how we react. We need to keep that control in order to avoid getting ourselves into worse situations.”
“I know that. I don’t want to get involved with him ever again. I just can’t stop thinking about it. It’s just so unfair.”
“That’s what everyone faces as we proceed through life. And getting over the trauma you have experienced will take time. You need to give yourself the patience you have always deserved.”
“But what if I never get over it? What if those lies spread and more people know things that aren’t true about me? What if he never fixes himself?”
“Why should that be your concern?”
“What?”
“Why should you be worried over whether or not he improves his character?”
“Because if not, more and more people will be affected by his actions.”
“And why should you care about those other people?”
“I don’t like knowing that people have gotten hurt because of him or are at great risk to undergo his usual treatment.”
“But you are not his parent. You are not anyone’s parent. You are responsible for you, and you alone.”
“I just want to help make the world a better place.”
“Which is a fine goal, but it seems that the stress of constantly caring about others has caused you nothing but misfortune.”
“miaYsn, your sensitivity towards other people is admirable, but your lack of restraint has caused you to constantly bend over backwards. In this case, if you let it continue to hold your mindset, it may cause your downfall. Take more time to think for yourself - what is good for yourself.”
“But what about them?”
“What about them? It’s cruel what they did to you, it’s true. But you can’t do anything about it anymore. You can’t force a change to their minds and you can’t force a change to his heart, no matter how good your intentions are. Don’t forget about the situation, but use it to learn and better yourself.”
“You need to move on.”
I don’t remember having this conversation or who spoke to me, but I can’t get it out of my head.
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youknowyouwantthat · 2 years
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She‘s toxic right ?
But was she toxic before you lied to her about another female? Was she toxic before you took advantage of the trust she had for you? Was she toxic before she kept forgiving you for hurting her over and over? She wasn't toxic. You drained tf out of that girl, you hurt that girl, you lie to her and continue to hurt her and make her question her worth, then you expect her to be the same person she was in the beginning? now she's "crazy" for being the person that you single handedly destroyed. Before you go telling everyone how toxic she is make sure you add in the parts that you played a part in. The pain of cheating doesn't just go away especially after you do it over and over again, ask yourself did she deserve that? Was it necessary to rip her heart out for a pig? Was it worth 100% destroying your relationship over? She's not the toxic one you are you and all of your bad habits that she begs you to break every time. You and all of your baggage are the toxic ones you and your bad past. You're so selfish that you can't even release the hold you have on her and walk away and you have the nerve in your mind to say she's toxic? You don't deserve her so why stay? Wouldn't it be easier to just walk away and let her be happy? You destroyed everything about her and you can't even do the right thing? That's selfish. That's toxic. Do you know how many nights she's cried herself to sleep? Do you know how many times she's cut her legs open and bled all over the bathtub? Do you know how many times she's begged God for a way out? Do you have any compassion for her feelings? Or are you too toxic to care? Ask yourself where was she born? What's her dream or goal? Why is she always taking care of you? Can you even tell when she is sick? When she is depressed? When she has given up? What flaws does she see in herself because of you? Maybe you should look at her more. Maybe you should ask her what she hates most about you. What does she love about you? You have no clue what she's thinking because you're selfish and toxic. You hurt her but yet you blame her. You love her but yet you hurt her. You lie but accuse her of lying. You cheat but accuse her of being a whore. You have issues and you put them on her shoulders. You care about her but force her to carry your weight. You're a man but she's the one doing it all by herself. You give her no support but want hers? You can't even handle thirty seconds of her telling you the truth. You have more secrets than a diary yet she stays real and honest to you. Does she have secrets? Would you even know if she did? You know nothing about her yet you think she belongs with you. There is so much inside her mind that you don't know because you are too good to ask, you are too selfish to care and too toxic to think of anyone but yourself. The things she doesn't say are the things you need to hear the most and probably things you could never handle hearing. She has given you so much of her time and effort and proved to you over and over again that she loves you but yet you still stay stuck in your toxic selfish ways. So which part of this is fair to her? Which parts of you are good enough for her? Why does she have to continue proving herself to you? She doesn't even feel confident in her own body or in her own skin thanks to you. She doesn't feel she has a purpose in life because of you. Yet she still puts you on that pedestal in hopes someday you might change or might show her how much she means to you. But you never will. You have no plans of changing or proving yourself to her because in your mind you have nothing to prove to her she's not the one who deserves better you are right? Was she ever really enough? Or was she just an object to fill that dark void inside of you? A void that you know won't ever be fully filled. Not with her not with anyone, but you for some reason feel she is the one who owes you. The things she wants for you are so different from the things you want for her. She wants nothing but happiness and success for you, she wants to see your heart finally filled with love.
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drmarr · 1 year
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“If you ask people in a toxic relationship, “Why do you love this person?" And the answer is… “I don’t know… I can’t describe it. It’s just like… magical. I can’t put it into words. We just have this connection. They just, feel me… you know?” They can’t articulate it. But when you ask a person in a healthy relationship, “Why do you love this person?”, the answer is very clear. “Because I respect them, and they respect me. We share the same values. We have incredible times together. I feel safe with this person.” They give you concrete evidence. But when someone's “like… magical”, and you can’t describe it, it’s because it’s a trauma bonded connection. A confusing space. This ain’t magical. It’s dangerous to go exploring, to stick around and find out . And it’s a wake up call. And opportunity to choose differently. How do you know? Go with the energy. Energy doesn’t lie. Your gut knows. Does this relationship help you grow? Does it fill you up? Does it feel nurturing? Do you feel safe? Genuinely loved? Or does it shrink you? Cause you to to be unstable, unsafe…? You don’t need words. You feel threatened, you don’t feel like yourself, you feel yourself reaching for old toxic behaviors…” ~ I wish I could remember who said this (it wasn’t me) Energy doesn’t lie. The energy says it all. (Run) #relationship101 #toxiclove #toxicrelationship #unhealthyrelationships #unhealthyrelationship #relationshipcoach #breakupcoach #cantdescribeit #dating101 #datingadvice #selflove #selfprotection #selfawareness #thingstoknow #thingstoknowinadvance #internationallifecoach #healthylove #healthyrelationships #relationshipgoals https://www.instagram.com/p/CkQkCdmunCW/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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askwholehearted · 2 years
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Love this quote!
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Distort and deny, you do it every time.
It comes so naturally.
Call me petty, unsteady, but I'm betting that you're already spreading another lie about me.
Honestly, fuck you. I spent so long blaming myself for what you did to me. I spent years breaking myself down over insecurities that YOU projected on ME, and I'm so done. I'm living my life, taking back my power, rebuilding my connections and making new ones, and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. I'm loving relentlessly, embracing myself unapologetically, and enjoying TRUE freedom and fulfillment. Enjoy your fake, hollow existence. You won't hold me down anymore.
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aldamostert · 2 years
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#mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #codependence #boundaries #narcissisticabuseawareness #emotionalpain #narcissistabuse #smearcampaign #toxicrelationship #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuseadvocate #abusiverelationship #redflags #narcissisticabusesurvivor #gaslighting #domesticviolenceawareness #narcissism #mentalheathjourney #mentalhealthadvocate #nooneisperfect #mentalhealthcoaching #practicemakespermanentlybetter #flyingmonkeys#mentalhealthcommunity@mentalhealthcommunity https://www.instagram.com/p/CcOeAAXDuYF/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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moneyhusltergrowth · 8 days
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5 Ways to Detoxify Let Go of Toxic People
Life is a journey filled with connections and relationships. Some lift us up, while others weigh us down. Toxic people fall into the latter category—they drain our energy, sow negativity, and hinder our personal growth. But fear not! In this blog post, we’ll explore five effective strategies to detoxify your relationships and create a healthier, more positive environment. 1. Recognizing Toxic…
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rotten-innocence · 21 days
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Wow I abandoned this blog.. oops.. life update I guess.
✨️I left my abusive relationship quite some time ago. Was in and out of psych facilities for months at a time. I'm now on the right meds and dosage and I'm doing incredibly well. I'm now engaged to a beautiful loving human and we are shopping around for our first home! I started a course to get my certificate in Mental Health so I can help others! Things are going well! Unfortunately I'm still haunted by the trauma of what happened to me and most nights I stare into the void and think back on all the horrible shit that happened to me.. but at least I'm safe now..✨️
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We text again. She wrote me I look good and confident. It scares me how much I care about her saying that after such a long time.
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freemeagain · 1 month
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F*ck dich! Jeder Schmerz, jedes Gefühl von Einsamkeit ist besser als deine Manipulationen, deine Lügen, dein zerstören meines Bauchgefühls, dein mich verhungern lassen, dein Liebesentzug, dein Hass mir gegenüber. Ich ertrage das oder sterbe daran, aber vermissen tu ich dich nie wieder.
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sarahoctavie · 1 month
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LUCIE'S CRINGE DREAM EPISODE 1
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pebbfingers · 3 months
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So many why
yesterday I talked to a counselor. There are so many questions that I can't answer. I feel so fragile and broken. I can not take it anymore. there were so many questions why in my head that made me feel tight and my eyes couldn't control the tears. I'm not going to lie, it feels really disgusting. I'm angry, I'm sad, I'm disappointed. There are so many questions why that I can't answer. why am I so naive. why do I have to accept all this. why do I feel it is wrong to expect tender affection from others. why do I have to repeatedly think about forgiving even though I know everything ends the same. why am I not lovable enough to love. why does it seem like everything happened because I was at fault. why does everything feel so tight and even I myself don't understand why I can be this fragile.
I just want to be loved as I deserve. I just want to be hugged without having to feel guilty because I cried. I want to be someone who can make other people feel valuable when they have me.. what's wrong with that?
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