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moonlit-positivity · 4 months

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Somebody might need to hear this: hey. That was a really scary thing you had to go through. What an awful feeling to be carrying around. So deep inside where no one can hurt you like that ever again. If no one else has ever told you this before then I'm glad you're here. I'm glad you made it. And I'm so fucking sorry you had to see it to begin with. You absolutely did not need to see that. Not ever.

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annasellheim · 4 days

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knifewieldingenby · 10 months

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If I have to read one more "I hate picky eaters, they have the taste palette of a 5-year-old" post, I WILL actually start killing people. You don't want to be around "picky eaters?" Fine, then get the fuck away from us. We're better off without your judgment.

"But wahhhh why won't they just try something new" Shut. Up. Look up how things like adhd, autism, depression, and many more affect eating. Look up food allergies, intolerances, and general sensitivities. FUCKING LOOK UP ARFID. Seriously I am so damn tired of people not knowing shit about arfid, refusing to research even when I tell them about it (most of my doctors don't even know anything about it even though they've known about my struggles for over two years!) And then you have the nerve to shame us for dealing with an eating disorder that is fuck all hard to work through cuz, again, no one knows fucking shit about it and they don't want to learn! My therapist reached out to an eating disorder clinic to find help for me, and the only goddamn one who even knew it existed was the director.

Stay the hell away from so-called "picky eaters" if you're gonna make post after post complaining about how annoying you find us, or how you just so badly want to go to restaurants with your friend but they eat like a child! Go alone, asshole.

#arfid #autism #actually autistic #not a fan of that tag but it finds a good chunk of the community #avoid restrictive food intake disorder #actually adhd #adhder #eating disorder tw #and I know like all my other serious posts this will hardly get notes but I hope someone even one damn person #sees this and takes it to heart

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aesthetic-otd · 1 month

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Today's aesthetic is waif

#aesthetic #aesthetic blog #aesthetics #aesthetic otd #aesthetics blog #aesthetic community #aesthetic blogs #waif #waifspo #femcel #this aesthetic is controversial due to its romanticization of depression; eating disorders and drug use #tw cigarettes #tw weed #tw marijuana #tw drugs #tw eating disorders

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earthmoonz · 28 days

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WIFEY. | EPISODE SEVEN (7.7)

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On the way home, the two drove in heavy silence while traffic mounted. Rain had resumed and Max’s anxious unease had given way to pained exhaustion. They retreated into their self, mind overrun with memories of their mother, and the bubble of grief they often swallowed was forming a lump in their throat.

Meanwhile, Lena was at a loss. She knew that nothing she could say would improve things. She was hesitant to cross the lines of a newly formed dynamic. She’d tried her best not to listen back at the house, but from what she did hear, it was clear Max loved their mother. Her death had been a great loss. The loss that Lena knew was different. Her father’s passing felt like a gift. She wondered if her brother’s disappearance was a curse.

Eventually, Max’s growling stomach broke the silence. They realised that aside from a croissant at breakfast and crisps from a petrol station on the way to Sandra’s, they hadn’t eaten today. Suddenly, all they could think about was food. Thankfully, Lena echoed their sentiment. The pub they found seemed like well earned mercy. Food fixed most things, with any luck it would provide a useful distraction.

(transcript below)

(MAX): Can we get something to eat?

(LENA): Course.

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thesewingmachine · 2 months

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the combination of eating disorders and emetophobia (the fear of vomiting).

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vvvampiredoll · 9 days

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I was cursed with being wide 🥹

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excap1ng-rea1ity · 3 months

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im so excited to shift tonight because when i wake up im going to a fun fair with my freinds and getting candy floss for the fist time in 2-3 years

#reality shifting #shifting #desired reality #shifting community #shiftblr #reality shift #shifting script #i havent had candy floss because its pure sugar and yk... disordered eating things #aesthetic summer DR

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girlzwfun · 4 months

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✩°｡⋆⸜ basics.

birth name ﹕cheryl lee

korean name ﹕lee chae-rin 이채린

nicknames ﹕chae , cher , cc, chaeprincess , kkoch , bangtan’s barbie

birthday ﹕april 20, 1996

zodiac ﹕aries-taurus cusp & rat

sexuality ﹕unlabeled

birthplace ﹕san francisco, california

hometown ﹕san francisco, california

ethnicity ﹕korean

nationality ﹕korean-american

languages ﹕english, korean, japanese

family ﹕

yang hae-sook / hannah yang ( mother )

lee yo-han / david lee ( father )

charlotte lee † ( sister )

✩°｡⋆⸜ physical.

face claim ﹕park sooyoung

height ﹕168 cm / 5’6”

blood type ﹕a

body modifications ﹕

double lobe ( both ) , orbital ( right ) , helix ( both ) , tragus ( left )

cherry blossom ( rib cage ) , cherry tattoo ( back of arm ) , ‘444’ ( inner arm ) , angel wings ( nape ) , infinity ( pinkie finger ) , ‘j’ ( wrist ) , taurus constellation ( behind ear ) , lotus flower ( shoulder ) , two koi fish ( spine )

✩°｡⋆⸜ persona.

traits ﹕

positive traits ﹕ good-natured, fun-loving, confident, charming, hard-working

negative traits ﹕ petty, hot headed, overly sensitive, nosy, naive

mbti ﹕ENFP

moral alignment ﹕neutral good

enneagram scale ﹕ type 3

✩°｡⋆⸜ career.

stage name ﹕cheri

occupation : idol

years active ﹕2013 - present

label ﹕bighit music

group : bts

position ﹕main vocalist, lead dancer, sub rapper, visual, face of the group

representative emoji ﹕🐶 / 🍒

individual fandom ﹕beotkkot

✩°｡⋆⸜ background.

tw. mentions of death, eating disorders, mental health issues

cheryl lee was born in san francisco, california to lee yo-han and hannah yang. cheri is the older sister to charlotte, who unfortunately passed not long after she became a trainee.

cheri was homeschooled and had a lot of free time. she convinced her mom to let her start piano lessons on top of her guitar and voice lessons. hae-sook did not argue as she wanted her daughter to find what suited her best. during a family trip, cheri was scouted by a bighit representative. she was unsure if she truly wanted to be an idol so far from her family, but her sister begged her to take the opportunity. after extreme consideration, her family moved temporarily to south korea in 2010.

due to her sister’s untimely death and the effects it had on her, cheri considered quitting and moving back to the states. she persisted, not handling her emotions properly. cheri was dubbed a monster trainee and was known to be quite intimidating. in 2013, cheri debuted in bts as the only female member.

she brought a lot of attention to the group domestically and internationally — unfortunately, she paid the price for being the only girl. cheri never took particularly good care of herself. in 2018, she was placed on hiatus due to her mental health and physical health. in her career, she has been faced with scandal upon scandal, rumor after rumor. her most noteworthy being a dating scandal with seventeen’s joshua hong immediately after her return to group activities. cheri and bighit confirmed the relationship in a letter from the artist.

she is widely known for her songwriting and has over 100 songs copyrighted to her name. her work is a testament of her life and feelings. cheri is often criticized for being to “open” and for not being careful enough with her idol image.

#˗ˏˋ new romantics ⟶ ❛ cheri ❜#˗ˏˋ new romantics ⟶ ❛ development ❜#ficnetfairy #tw death #tw eating disorder #tw mental health #kpop oc #idol oc #bts 8th member #bts female addition #bts female member #bts female oc #bts addition #fictional kpop community #fictional idol soloist #kpop au #kpop addition #fictional idol community

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daenystheedreamer · 4 months

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some coquettes internalised misogyny is so bad it's downright hilarious. i said that i loved gnc women this one time and i was labelled “not a girls girl” by multiple people. feminism is when we only support feminine women and their right to be feminine 🫶🏼

its so insidious!! my main problem with the community(ugh i hate that word) is the roots it has from 2014 proana EDtumblr yknow? and how that informs so much of the discourse. there's so much judgemental hatred towards other women, DEEP hatred of fat women, euro-centric beauty often bordering on racist standards (if black or asian women are posted theyre often button-nosed waifs!), and an uncomfortable level of bio-essentialism and trans exclusionary tradfeminism (refusing to call it terf cos its not radfem at ALL)

and i dont mean to insult the community cos i know you and many others are just having fun and enjoying an aesthetic btw!!! and most of you do love women and engage in feminism and are there to uplift and love other girls especially supporting those in recovery. but ive just seen so much bitterness and cruelty from the uglier corners of the community

and i think it comes from how its an online space that yes has appearance and emotions and female trauma as huge themes/aspects. and this can sometimes really unfortunately devolve into a romanticisation of pain and guilt in a way that mirrors incels/femcels (NOT CALLING YOU A FEMCEL 😭) and how it often rejects or judges pro-recovery, as if one isnt 'dedicated' to their pain and suffering, as if to recover is to reject those still suffering. i di

#ask #i-know-you-wanna-kiss-me #hi bluebell!!!! ily just wanna make sure u know i dont hate the whole thing and my disagreements stem from my own experiences #with people in the community and esp as someone with an eating disorder who isn't thin #eating disorder tw #ed tw

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tss-whumper · 2 months

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You are actually so annoying. If you want to eat yourself to death leave us out of this. You are not oppressed you are not special

um what LMAO

first of all! i'm going to assume this is about all my most recent posts about fat whumpees! so i will preface by saying there are multiple reasons somebody could be fat. overeating is one of them. whether or not someone overeats or how much someone eats is nobody's business except for theirs. and there are other reasons why someone is fat besides the conscious choice to overeat. diminishing all fat people to one stereotype is kinda fucked.

also, i'm literally 105 pounds, and i am in active recovery from an eating disorder. so thanks, you fucking dick!

#body positivity #body neutrality #ed recovery #eating disorder recovery #whump community #responding to hate #fatphobia #idiots

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motherfuckingbrad · 7 months

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contrary to popular belief (i don’t actually know what people believe) i think the person brad bakshi would get along best with from the study group is mr jeff winger. they’d 100% be bros together that talk about money (brad) and women (jeff) for the first few hours until they get too drunk and start talking about the ways in which society/growing up made them feel like in order to be loved they must be skinny

all i’m saying is if all the closest male friendships revolve around trauma bonding, jeff winger and brad bakshi would be bffs for life

#tw eating disorder mention (kinda)#like … they both have eating disorders #they both were raised in kinda fucked up situations with fucked up father figures or lack thereof #they both keep themselves so insanely guarded #they’re perfect for one another #and britta would have a FIELD DAY #community #mythic quest #crossover episode!#idk who (if anyone) people typically say brad would get along with #i just know people will write about like brad and abed meeting or brad being a character abed is playing #but we never talk about the similarities between jeff and brad! and that ends today #brad bakshi #jeff winger

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thatadhdmood · 11 months

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