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paraphraze615 · 2 years
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A lot of y'all mamas shoulda swallowed you. 🖐🏾🎤 #ToxicUpbringing #ToxicParents #ToxicParenting #ToxicMothers #ToxicFathers #ToxicFamily #ToxicFamilyMembers #NarcissisticParents #NarcissisticParenting #AbusiveParents #AbusiveParenting https://www.instagram.com/p/CgKv2IJBEYE/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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wingstothought · 8 months
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Toxic parenting practices: The epidemic silently destr0ys lives
Parenting is often considered one of life’s most rewarding and challenging experiences, but Toxic Parenting is something most destroying. It shapes our children’s futures, shapes their character and gives them the tools to navigate the world. However, not all parenting activities are positive and rewarding. Toxic parenting is a term used to describe harmful and destructive parental behaviors that…
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mypsalms · 8 months
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My father longs so much for a son when he has so many children. I wish he thought of all of us the same way and now that his only son is recalcitrant he searches for a son in me; I cook, clean, attend to his laundry and wash his car. If only he thought of us as just children, I wouldn’t be assigned mundane gender roles of the gender he perceives I am and the other he wants to create me to be. Now I have to be everything without choice so much that it fills my heart with sickening anger.
You wouldn’t imagine how much hate I hold in my heart whenever I hear my name in this house.
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filmspeak · 1 year
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Inside Johnny Depp's Troubling Relationship With Mother Betty Sue Palmer
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When I was younger it was so easy to bitch about my mum. Don't get me wrong she WAS difficult and abusive, when I finally left at 14 the police, social services and my school were involved. It would have been so easy to keep blaming her for everything in my life I was unhappy with. But that day 2 years after I left, standing in that messy shared kitchen of the hostel I was staying in, when I knew this wasn't enough for me, that I wanted MORE, I realised: MY LIFE, MY RESPONSIBILITY! 💔 Blaming wasn't getting me anywhere 💔 Neither was my anger 💔 Nor my fear They kept me stuck and feeling sorry for myself, I was a victim still... Just trying to survive. 💔 If I was going to heal I needed to stop blaming others and see the part I played in being a victim because: 💣 The world didn't owe me 💣 I disempowered myself 💣 I was sabotaging my life to be a martyr to my mum's issues It was hard to face that not going to lie. But there was a song lyric that I found inspiring. You may not like Def Leppard but the lyric goes: 🎶 Living is the best revenge, you can play Surviving is not the same as living and being emotionally free. Now it took time and effort to move past my pain, to become someone who has experienced a difficult mother, rather than someone who is defined by it. And I know you are here because you are looking for solidarity, support and validation. <3 But there's a reason I ask if you are ready to start your healing journey in my groups and that's because: 🚫 They are NOT victim support groups ✔ They are HEALING spaces A place to explore and to start to feel better. And maybe if it's right for you, to tap into my other services to help you explore this more deeply. Because this is what I was looking for and needed at 14, when I left home. It's my mission to make sure the right help is available when you are ready to heal. If you want to dig deeper just DM me a heart <3 or check the link in my bio, and we can talk it through. So many other women are benefiting from working with their mother wounds with me. #healingthemotherwound #hereandnofurther #Daughtersofdifficultmothers #narcissisticabuse #narcmum #toxicparenting #healing (at Tring, Hertfordshire) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ced50iVIEji/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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nmolesofadrenaline · 8 months
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At what age did your parents stop bandaging the wounds and start creating them?
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parted-ways · 2 years
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white noise 
ist ein gleichmäßiges rauschen regelmäßiger tonfrequenzen und soll einen beruhigenden effekt auf menschen haben. ich habe mal ein roman gelesen, wo eine figur vorkam, die sich white noise angehört hat, weil ,,es hilft, die anderen fernzuhalten´´ 
ich habe mich daraufhin reingelesen und erfahren, dass es einen dabei helfen soll sich besser auf etwas konzentrieren zu können. ich habe es dann während dem lesen ausprobiert zu hören und habe direkt gemerkt, dass ich mich besser auf das buch einlassen konnte. 
ich leide in letzter zeit auch etwas an schlafstörungen, 
die sich bei mir so auswirken, dass ich einen unregelmäßigen und vor allem unruhigen schlaf habe - auch da hat es mir geholfen white noise zu hören. ich konnte viel schneller einschlafen und habe die nacht durchgeschlafen. 
generell habe ich das gefühl, dass bestimmte sounds - also auch musik - eine sehr positive auswirkung auf mich haben können. das ist der grund warum ich es mir bis heute zur angewohnheit gemacht habe im bus oder in der bahn musik zu hören. so kann ich eine gewisse distanz zu meinem umfeld schaffen. sei es zu den vielen menschen um mich herum oder eben den störenden geräuschen,
der grund warum ich heute darüber schreibe ist auch,  
weil meine eltern mich heute ziemlich getriggert haben - ich mir daraufhin meine kopfhörer geschnappt habe und white noise gehört habe und es mir danach besser ging.
ich persönlich benutze immer das video ,,studying with white noise´´ auf youtube. der sound ähnelt dem, wenn man sich in einem flugzeug befindet und hat für mich zumindest irgendwie etwas beruhigendes. 
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sunshineriptidexxxx · 2 years
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damn why do some people got to be so rude? idk what i did to deserve this.
"i have a migraine and i am worried about driving home from an appointment that i know causes a bad migraine from triggers" mom: "oh you'll be fine! lol" dad: "its not that far away, what the hell jill? you cant drive yourself?" cool. k. thanks.
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oddthoughts-ofmine · 2 years
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It sucks when you have strict and toxic parents and can't go out whenever you want to, so studying is the only escape from them.
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kuptemikravu · 2 years
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the fact that my parents fight so much
the fact that they tear the other person’s heart apart with all the ugly things they do not even mean while they’re saying them
and all i can do about it is nothing because there’s nothing more i could say to them
everything was already said
the love that had once hold our ceiling, painted walls and ticked in the clock has simply blown away 
somewhere where people deserve it and where they’re ready to fight for it
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nmehra997 · 2 years
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What is your take on this? let me know #parents #toxicparents #peacelovehealinggratitude #lifecoach #mentalhealthsupport #mentalhealthadvocate #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mentalhealthmatters #parentingtips #parenting #parent #kids #relationships #relationshipproblems #advice #onlinecounseling #therapistsofinstagram #dailyguidance #relationshipadvice (at Mohali, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ce30S9apcvK/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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artninja · 18 days
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aventaccount · 5 months
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If I wasn’t likely to cut contact one day, then you bet I’d be leaving them in a nursing home.
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iwannabefreefromyou · 9 months
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Yung di ka na marunong magsmile na mukang genuine kasi di mo naman na-experience dahil sa trauma.
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nmolesofadrenaline · 8 months
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