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dumblr · 1 year
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Learn to live without the person you can’t live without.
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humapkehaikaun · 1 year
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Most of the time, we don't have anything to say but we want someone to listen to us..
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mel-loly · 1 year
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-“The best Christmas present is this, being with the one you love! Whether family, friends, boy/girlfriend, son, it is a much more important and valuable gift than just any material or clothing..”
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isaiahwomack13 · 1 year
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FNAF Security Breach tickle. Forgotten
It was 4:30 am in the pizza plex freddy was wandering around the storage. Suddenly freddy heard crying coming from the storage hall.
Freddy:What was that? Who's there?
Voice:[sobbing] Why would I be left forgotten from the band? I thought I was family.
The voice sounded very familiar to Freddy. He could make out on who it was.
Freddy:That voice. You sound familiar I haven't heard from in years.
Freddy walks by the storage hall and found glamrock bonnie crying.
Freddy: Bonnie!? Non of the glamrocks have seen you for years. What happened?
Bonnie: Well it was years I was very unpopular with the kids unlock roxy, chica, monty and you. Once the company found out it was out with me. I was not shiped off to anywhere so the company decided to leave me in the storage to drain all by battery energy and die.
Freddy:They had no right in doing this to you buddy you are still part of the family. Come on smile you'll feel better if you smile buddy.
Bonnie:Thanks but I don't fee-.EEEEEAAAAHHH!
Freddy poke bonnie side in order to check if bonnie was ticklish or not. Freddy grabbed Bonnie's arms with one hand held them up and then started showing no mercy. He tickled bonnie check belly armpit silly.
Bonnie: HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA FREDHEHEHHEEHE PLEHEEHE STAHAHAHAHAHP.
Freddy:Not until you say you are happy super star.
Bonnie: HAHAHAHA OKHAHAHAHA OKAHAHA IM HAPPYHEHEHEHEHE JUST PLEHEHEHE MAKE IT STAHAHAHAHP.
Freddy let go of Bonnie's arms then Gabe him a hug.
Freddy:Bonnie I want you to know you are not alone no matter what you will always be part of the family and I promise I won't let a thing like this happen to you. Me, chica, Roxanne and Monty accept you as a glamrock. Nothing will ever change between you and your family.
The end
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thegothicviking · 1 year
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Saying I am looking forward to a new year is a huge understatement.
The last 6-7 months have been nothing but bad luck and heartache. The dude who I saw as a BROTHER and who I had known nearly half of my life, decided to ghost me for this entire year without as much as an explanation. 10 months later I had to drag/haul out what I secretly suspected since about last year; that the one girl who I dedicated my passion..my time..so much money...so much enthusiasm....That girl that I dedicated an entire written universe to...told me what I already knew all along.. that she had lead me on. Lied about why I couldn't call her. And slowly, bit by bit ghosting/ignoring me too. Like my filipino "brother" did all year.
I had to make her admit that our friendship was dead because "she wasn't the same. She had a different way of life now".
What she actually meant was;
"I am such a grown up now and you are still so childish! We can't be friends!" Or
"We've grown apart. Sorry."
Well here is a great tip to all my FELLOW grown up mutuals and followers (who also find themselves at the end/edge of a relationship/friendship they don't want to be in anymore) ;
Be more like a child! (Yup you read that right!) Children are direct! They are blunt af! If they don't like someone anymore at least they tell them this! "I don't like you anymore. We can no longer be friends."
I would have actually prefered that direct/blunt approach from the getgo than for her to LIE and be falsely polite and try to save a friendship she knew all along was dying. NO! I say to hell with that shit!
WHEN you feel a relationship/friendship is dying..you TELL the other person/s! You have the testies/tatas to say;
"We don't have the same interests anymore. I don't feel like this relationship/friendship is going forward. It seems we have grown apart. Sorry!"
And then say bye bye.
And y'all will TELL them this AS SOON as they are wanting to keep contact and YOU want out of the relationship/friendship and can't stand their nagging/constant reach out for contact.
So yeah to all my fellow grown ups here is a new years resolution that I think you should follow; be more direct like children and tell people (if) you don't like them anymore/want them in your life anymore! Don't play the guessing game with them and/or slowly ghost them/keep leading them on just for the sake of "politeness". The other person WONT benefit from this as it will only leave them confused, angry and hurt about why the hell you are distancing from them!?!?
Ya'll know what? I dare you to be more direct and honest (Like a child) with the people in your life (instead of leading them on/slowly ghost them!) If you are saying goodbye to the relationship/friendship let it be a two-way goodbye and give them a reason for it. Even if its only that "you have grown apart". You don't want someone in yout life anymore? Tell them!
For 2023; I dare you to do this!
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bits-of-wit · 2 years
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shironezuninja · 2 years
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There will always be OOC fan art out there that I may not agree with. The important lesson that I need to keep in mind is that I shouldn’t be in charge of other artists’ free wills. If anything, the NSFW scene in Vox Machina’s 5th episode is nothing compared to the childhood scarring stuff that I’ve stumbled across online.
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termiken · 4 months
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eggwhiteswithspinach · 9 months
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🌟 Important lesson, thank you for writing!
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forestpixies · 1 month
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no actually you’re either gentle parenting your child or you’re being emotionally and/or physically abusive to them, whether or not you’re aware of that.
because the term gentle parenting already includes discipline and teaching your kid right from wrong. gentle parenting doesn’t mean you can’t tell your kid no. it means you can tell them no when they do something they shouldn’t, but instead of punishing or yelling at them, you’re explaining and giving them reasons why they can’t do that, you are helping them learn and encouraging them to be better. gentle parenting means you’re using reasons built on mutual respect instead of anger. because yes, no matter how young your child is, they deserve respect too.
I’m sorry but most of the times when someone says they’re a strict parent, what it means is that they give their child childhood trauma that’ll last a lifetime, whether or not they’re aware of it. especially parents who brag to other people about how strict they are and how they punished their children.
and I’m sorry but saying you have a short temper is never an excuse to be emotionally and/or physically abusive towards your kid either.
“I yelled at you because I have a short temper” then why am I the one suffering? if you can’t control your anger, then get help. work on it. do better. be better.
also… your child standing up for themself against you, when you’re being abusive to them, isn’t them being disrespectful towards you. it means they are defending themself because you wouldn’t do that for them and so they had to step in and be their own protector.
if you’re a parent and can defend and stand up for yourself when you feel like you need to, but at the same time punish your kid when they stand up for themself against you, then you are the problem.
I was that child and I’m gonna make it as simple as I can for any parent out there — because no kid deserves to go through what I went through — imagine yourself owning a dog. really. you can either
a.) beat that dog whenever they do something wrong and simply take your anger out on them until they’re fully submissive and are terrified of you
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b.) train them with love and gentleness and earn their love and loyalty in return
now imagine both A and B dogs on leashes and imagine them no longer being on leashes one day. which dog do you think will run away as far as they can and never look back, and which one do you think will stay because they love and want to be with their owner?
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selfhealingmoments · 1 year
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Arthur keeping tabs on Merlin day 1 so they can “accidentally” run into each other at the market
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mel-loly · 1 year
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-Hey everyone! Hry'all?
I'm stopping/passing by to give you guys a message that's quite important not only for me but for anyone too.
Not all the time I will be willing to answer comments, asks or messages.. It's not wrong for me to at least take a break for that, and I promise that then I'll definitely try to answer at least most of them!
Like- I just want you guys to know that I won't always be willing to do that, we won't always have what to say or answer or maybe we won't always be in the mood to do that..
And it's really good sometimes to give that time, because forcing yourself to answer or do something that you are not in the mood for, doesn't lead to anything and doesn't even reach a response made with the heart. So please bear this in mind. Well that goes for anyone reading this! Be kind to yourself, it's important to know the right time and moment for everything, like: time to take a break and time to go back to “work”. If you want to take some time to think and put aside messages or other things you want to do a little bit, no problem! It is very good that you do this, it is very good for your mental health. It doesn't matter if later you're too late to do that or something, as long as you take care of yourself first and then think about it, it's a big step forward <333 (I say this from my experience)
So.. Be patient when I'm not very active around here, I'm a little complicated and I have other responsibilities besides just answering asks, comments or messages. I'm going to do this in my time, and if I take such a long time to answer, don't worry, I'll answer/talk about it at some point.
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Thanks to those who read this far, I hope you understand me and also understand the other people who also want sometimes to take time for this! It's an important message and it's for anyone.
-Hope you have a wonderful day/night💛
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loveyourlovelysoul · 8 months
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If you grew up needing to keep everyone happy and content in order to avoid excessive negative reactions or behaviours, chances are you need to bring this habit also in the other relationships you join. So anytime the other person is feeling down, you may start stressing over what you can do to make them better, if it was your fault (you may think this even if it objectively isn't possible -eg. this person has had a bad day at work and you don't even work with them- cause you were often accused or blamed for everything in the past), and may stress them even more to get answers to your doubts.
If it happens, try to remind yourself that it's okay to have bad moments and to feel sad: it's part of life as much as feeling good and happy. It doesn't have to be your fault (and very likely it's not) and you don't have to be responsible for everyone's feelings. The person you're dealing with is just a person as you are, and they cannot always be happy and hyped, they do deal with stuff aside of your relationship too (not to say that even if it was something about the relationship, you still can give them space and the ability to process the situation at their own conditions). Let them know you're by their side if they need support or to talk or anything, and then let them deal with anything the way they rather. You don't have to make anything better for everyone, it's not on you. Sometimes people don't need to be saved by you and that's fine.
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 4 months
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Turtle Takedown Teamwork.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#tulu xuanwu#Something about changing the action sequence to something gentle is hilarious to me.#The lesson here is “Be nice to turtles. They are gentle creatures. And many are very endangered.”#don't get me wrong here; I love this scene a lot. LWJ's string technique is one of my favoyrite things.#We do get a fair amount of LWJ fighting but I always loved how the theme of strings comes into play.#There is actually a lot to unpack with LWJ being associate with 'strings'.#The musicianship: Of dedication and rigor in one's practice.#The tension between following along a path or composing your own way forwards (playing what has been written vs composing)#A string is a tightly coiled/taunt entity; The same tension that makes it sing so beautifully can be it's downfall if pushed too hard.#And as a non-musical string - something that binds. Be it to his sect and family or how he binds his fate to WWX -#LWJ cannot exist without his binds. It is not something which ties him down though. It keeps him together.#And he himself *is* a bind. He 'ties wwx down' in ways that are initially negatively viewed ('come to gusu' - feels like: come be trapped)#But later it is shown how (despite being introduced as a free spirit) WWX truly wants to be bound to something and someone.#Marriage is a bind he wants. He wants to be tied and grounded by LWJ.#It's starting to sound like innuendo. Let's call his fondness for being literally tied up smart thematic writing.#Finally. Sex scenes that are important to the plot and characters
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the-data-files · 23 days
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Mission: put that lizard baby to bed
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