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haninabz · 1 year

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A sip of you

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livingfictionsystem · 5 months

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A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

#pop psychology #love bombing #npd #actually npd #narcissist #trauma bonding #gaslighting

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journalmystory · 4 days

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#narcissistic love

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lyrajellycat · 6 months

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will never get over the way william knew he was dying and so used his last breath to be as arrogant as possible one final time then proceeded to fursuit up so he could be even more annoying in the future. would expect nothing else

#fnaf movie spoilers #fnaf #fnaf movie #five nights at freddy's #matthew lillard #william afton #I love him he's such a narcissistic loser #but he's my narcissistic loser #springtrap

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iamhowiseeit · 7 months

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"Rehab For Love," metaphorically explores the link between unhealthy love and substance abuse, intertwining a self-help workbook with a story written in poetry. As the pages turn, the story unveils the mesmerizing allure of falling into a narcissistic relationship, guiding readers towards profound self-discovery and healing. The poetry beautifully illustrates how, like the ever-flowing waters that make up most of our being, we often forget that we are, at our core, beings of love. We chase after external sources to quench a thirst that perpetually resides within us. "Rehab For Love" is a reminder that we are not just in pursuit of love; we are love itself. Immerse yourself in this journey of remembering your connection to the infinite wellspring of love that dwells within.

#ad #rehab for love #addicted to love #narcissistic love

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fella-lovin-fella · 4 months

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hey i just wanted to give a shout out to people with personality disorders real quick. your disorder doesn't make you evil, it doesnt make you an abuser, and it doesnt make you unlovable. you're just as deserving of respect, care, and support as people without personality disorders. stay safe, i love you and i hope you have a happy holiday season. we're in this together <3

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witchyykitten · 1 year

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everyone talks about cutting off a toxic parent

but no one ever talks about the pain of wanting a parent but knowing yours cannot love you the way they should

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dead-core · 4 months

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i know people love me but i am a black hole and it's just not enough. hope this helps!

#bpd #actually bpd #bpd thoughts #bpd feels #bpd vent #bpd mood #interpersonal relationships #love #i always need more #eta: a lot of people are tagging this as npd i see you i support you this blog does not demonize narcissists #i have subclinical traits soooo

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chaosdisorganized · 1 year

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I just discovered a narcissistic abuse believer in my followers. So friendly reminder:

I love people with npd. People with npd deserve compassion and understanding. People with npd are not inherently abusive just because they have a disorder. No disorder is "abusive person disorder" and people with npd deserve so much better. I love narcissists and I hope they have a lovely day.

#follower vibe check #npd positivity #i love narcissists >:) fight me

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dollystuffs-chiori · 1 month

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hi friendly reminder if u believe in narcissistic abuse you're fucking stupid ^_^

#actually npd #npd positivity #npd safe #npd #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissistic abuse isn't real and never will be #narc abuse truthers dni #narc abuse believers please die in a hole :3 #narcissists r the best #i love them #narcblr #cluster b #actually cluster b #cluster b safe

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dailydiarynquotes · 5 months

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littleoddwriter · 2 months

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this is exactly why it's so important to educate. this is why we "police" language and tell you what words to use instead. because this is how you actively perpetuate stigmas and demonise a whole group of people. and this is how it keeps spreading because within three days this first comment has received 25 likes, which may not seem like much now, but those 25 people spread this "knowledge" to 25 other people and so on and so forth.

again: narcissists are people with narcissistic personality disorder. a cluster B PD that is usually developed through abuse trauma (and genetic predispositon). gaslighting is a term used for the act of knowingly making somebody doubt themselves and their sanity (how they perceive events, their memories, etc.). being self-absorbed and not taking responsibility for certain behaviours is something every person is capable of. it's not "narcissistic abuse". it's emotional abuse. every person is capable of it.

stop calling everybody a narcissist because they've done something like this. it's not right. it's just another term y'all picked up on the internet without ever doing research about what it means or where it really comes from. and of course it's just another way for y'all to demonise people and stigmatise mental disorders you think make somebody abusive and unworthy of being part of disability and mental health activism...

#stumbled across these comments while simply scrolling through reels and stupidly enough i always read the comments...#this was one of the very top comments like the fifth or so maybe so it's safe to say that more ppl will read and believe it.#narcissistic personality disorder #npd #npd safe #ableism #cluster b #stigma #i love my NPD siblings (i have BPD with maybe some narcissistic tendencies)#jesse.talks

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lousydrawingsforgoodpeople · 1 year

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