#fake trauma

[wompwomf]

kids these days will want anything to be a trauma story for them

"my dad groomed me" and "im a ramcoa survivor"

and then when you ask them about it they end up describing their dad being a normal loving parent and they just left a church because the pastor was mean once (he was probably pointing out bad behavior in sunday school)

and as a survivor of grooming, i can't say anything on the ramcoa bit, its fucking disgusting how many kids will call me a groomer for wanting to be friends, or for calling them a nickname, you can be friends with people of other ages and not be romantic

and im sorry if this part specifically offends you, but 2-3 year age gap IS NOT GROOMING, grooming is 5 or more years apart when one or both is under the age of 18!! and 17 year olds, stop trying to make every adult out to be a groomer for trying to help you

ive met people who are actual groomers, and people who have been groomed, if an adult inconveniences you YOU ARE NOT BEING GROOMED, being groomed is when the intent is specifically and clearly romantic and or sexual INITIATIVE FROM SOMEONE OLDER, if you are making advances on an adult, youve been groomed or your fucked up, but that is on the adult to stop or block you!!! YOU making advances and them stopping you IS NOT GROOMING and im tired of people acting like it is!!!

stop pretending to have actual trauma from something non traumatic, when you ACTUALLY get groomed i will listen and console you, if you say your groomed i will believe you UNTIL i hear your story, if your story is just a normal encounter with someone 2 years or older and YOU interpreted it as romantic or sexual, im leaving you and your trauma at the door because I couldn't care less

here are the definitions if grooming and pedophilia, YOU ARE NOT BEING GROOMED!! if your experience does in fact fit into these definitions, i recommend getting help from a friend or a professional to get out of this problem, whether you are a pedophile, or are being victimized by one, and i sincerely hope everything gets better, my prayers are being sent to you and to a safe recovery 💜

#tw vent #vent post #vent #tw grooming #tw ramcoa #small mention #fake trauma #trauma #this is mostly directed at minors in the plural community #putting endo tags because they are also responsible for doing this #my ex LoreandCo (name dropping yeah) was convinced someone was a groomer when in reality it was just a power dynamic #a power dynamic is not grooming #its just abuse #stop adding more onto something that doesn't need it #endogenic #traumagenic #plural #system #faking #its getting to the point im ashamed to be a system #minors are getting closer and closer to my DNI #rant post #personal rant #rant into the void #ranting #rant #venting #vent incoming #anti endo #stop watering down the words “pedophile” and “groomer” THEY HOLD MEANING FOR A REASON dont ruin it to validate your system

[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

Can we please for the love of god stop telling teenagers they’re too young to have aches and pains. Can we please stop being dismissive about these things. Fakeclaiming is disgusting period, but it is exponentially harmful to youth. Just because you didn’t start hurting until your 20s or 30s or 40s doesn’t mean every teenager complaining of chronic pain must be lying. I learned the hard way that if kids are invalidated enough about this, they will just learn to accept constant pain as a fact of life. And then they will need surgery they can’t afford in ten years bc it turns out constant pain is NOT a fact of life. At any age.

p.s. same goes for mental health

#chronic pain #chronic illness #medical trauma #tw fakeclaiming #fake claiming #anti fakeclaiming #childhood trauma #complex trauma #physical disability #disability advocacy

[undertheredhood]

bruce 'tired single dad' wayne: *lecturing jason once again on something he did during a fight*

jason 'theatre kid extraodinare'' todd who immediately starts fake crying on the spot: do you just not love me anymore?

#dc comics #dc universe #dcu #batman #red hood #batfamily #batfam #bruce wayne #bruce thomas wayne #jason todd #jason peter todd #jason was never the angry robin #yeah bruce is weak to his children crying but especially jason #if jason can puke on command you best believe he can convincingly fake cry too #what's the point of having trauma if you can't use it to stop your dad from lecturing you? #bruce folds on the spot when jason cries which is why jason doesn't cry that often (jason doesn't want his secret weapon to lose effect) #most of the time jason just owns up to the things he did #so there really isn't any point in lecturing him because jason doesn't care about consequences #the first time jason fake cried in front of bruce after his death he was shocked at how it still worked #the reason why it works so well is because bruce thought jason was dead for around four years and grieved him for so long

[bizarrelittlemew]

calling it right now that season 3 starts like this

#so confused about people saying the season finale feels like the end because to me it didn't at all #there's like 5-10 issues immediately set up for another season #they're in a happy place at this point because they've both realized their love is bigger than anything else #and makes it worth working on their problems together #the problems are still very much there #both of them have deep self esteem/self loathing issues that haven't been resolved in the week since ed woke up #ed doesn't know about stede's trauma #they haven't talked through anything #and they'll be shit at starting/running an inn lmao it's not gonna go well #and those are just some of the internal issues #then there's prince ricky and all the authorities that would very much like to get their hands on both blackbeard and stede bonnet #because stede just full-on kept using his government name after faking his death. nice one #the crew are not “gone” they're more like off to college for a bit but will probably run into trouble immediately #again because while they escaped to the ship they didn't eliminate the threat (the british empire) #it's not a forever goodbye #ok this got super long already anyway i have a whole fic marinading in my brain until i've finished these 4 wips i'm in the middle of ✌️ #hope we get a renewal soon because i want to see the rest of their story!! #ofmd s2 spoilers #ofmd s2 #ofmd #our flag means death

[wearenotjustnumbers2]

I cannot breathe. These are the children of gaza, utterly obliterated by Israeli bombs.

I remember when a father said on live tv last month that if his son died may he rest in peace, but he shouldn't have to witness him dying that way, with his brain spilling out and his little tiny arm missing. That was a month ago. Now, israel is dropping more brutal missiles, using Palestine as a testing ground for all kinds of horrible weapons.

Under the cut, a video. Massive trigger warning. Remember that there are more than 7000 kids killed by Israel, not very different from this child here.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Czy2bOpt2BR/?igshid=MzY1NDJmNzMyNQ==

#no parent should see their kid like that and no kid should see their sibling like that #trauma one above one. this gencoide targets the Palestinians physically and mentally #never stop speaking up. please #how the fuck did the world go feral over 40 fake babies but we've seen 7000 maimed ones and nothing... #palestine #gaza #israel #important #current events #free palestine #ethnic cleansing #free gaza #gaza strip #gaza under attack #gaza under genocide #joe biden #human rights #save the children #israel apartheid #israel is an apartheid state #israel is a terrorist state #america #usa #we are not numbers

[bodega-catto]

I love that Gojo is so pathetically obsessed with Geto that he never moved on, he never allowed anyone else in idc I love it thank you gege thank you

#jjk #gojo satoru #satosugu #geto suguru #jujutsu kaisen #sugusato #gego #some people would say is sick because he was never happy #well he’s sadly some pixels on t he screen and k actually don’t care about fake trauma I’m here for the entertainment #I need that pixel guy obsessed with that other dead pixel guy

[maicrowave]

dnp literally bought a house together and still every time they compliment each other on camera we're like omgggg they like each other in real life guysssss it's not just for the cameras

#dan and phil #dnp #is this like faked celebrity duo trauma #where ppl wanna prove that duos/groups are 'actually friends' #it's giving that one dan liveshow where someone asked dan 'do u like phil' and dan thought it was the funniest question ever #and he was like yeah lol fs guys i actually dont like phil. definitely

[rfxn-emulator]

A Tuesday headhunting

#pizza tower #peppino spaghetti #fake peppino #pizzahead #tuesday #something about tuesday or whatever #satow #oh damn this is actually intimidating #aw fakey trauma #when will i make pt:ap as an actual game or animation or something

[foxpile]

i need a scene in tsc2 where neil and jean meet up to discuss their fake “childhood best friends” memories so they can keep their story straight if pressed about it

#drop some fake memories i think it’s funny #personal theory that there was a lake near jeans house that him and neil would go to #(<- they could also use this to explain jeans water trauma but this is supposed to be HAPPY and SILLY) #neil josten #jean moreau #tfc #aftg #tsc spoilers #tsc #the sunshine court spoilers #the sunshine court

[littleittyburger]

you wouldn’t last an hour in the asylum where they raised me <33

#generation loss #genloss #ranboo #did anyone do this yet??? #anyways chat #im perfectly normal and i definitely wasn’t drugged every day for trying to escape😃 #and yeah i ofc have no trauma #amazing childhood #would recommend 10/10 #also i was the one kid who yall saw on tv being tortured til they were unconscious #it was all fake and for clout chat trust me

[moonpool-system]

Your disability is real even if it's not causing you suffering 100% of the time. Your disability is real even if you don't bare your suffering constantly to the masses to gain acceptance. Your disability is real even if you wouldn't trade it for being abled. People on the outside cannot see you, and cannot see how the intricacies of your disabilities affect your daily life. They can't see all the details of what makes your disability real because, quite frankly, they don't want to. You needn't debase yourself at the altar of public opinion in order to treat your disability as real. You know your body and your mind best, and your experiences are real. You are allowed to understand and accommodate your bodies and minds for yourselves.

We don't need to be their suffering idol in order to be disabled.

#disability #neurodivergent #plurality #osddid #cdd system #autistic #epilepsy #me/cfs #intersectionality #neurodivergent pride #disabled pride #unitypunk #neuropunk #got an anon in our inbox claiming we've never been hospitalized or unable to drive from disabilities and that we're faking shit #bitch we've been hospitalized at least once a month for the past year and only was just recently allowed to drive after YEARS #it's really pathetic how these people just don't bother to care #also yes this person also decided to completely ignore our stating that we have DID and trauma and assume we're completely endogenic #so that's why this post is slightly catered towards that as well #disabled positivity #neurodivergent positivity #plural positivity #system positivity

[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

Nobody is “too young” to be cynical or jaded or hate their life. There is no appropriate age for that. If someone is experiencing that at any age, their mental health is at risk. Doesn’t matter how young they are, or how easy their life seems. Just because existential dread didn’t hit you until later in life, doesn’t mean everyone else gets to be so lucky.

“You think life sucks now? Just wait until you’re grown” okay grandpa what if they don’t make it to adulthood? What if it gets worse until they only see one way out and they take it? Stop being dismissive. Stop forcing your problems onto young people and start taking them seriously about things. Period.

(Inspired by this post)

#childhood trauma #adverse childhood experiences #depression help #childhood depression #late diagnosis #child advocacy #neurodivergent #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #autistic kids #emotional abuse #tw sui implied #tw sui talk #complex trauma #depression anxiety #childhood emotional abuse #childhood emotional neglect #kids are people too #anti fakeclaiming #fake claiming #comorbid conditions #comorbidities #mental health matters #mental health representation #mental health education #intersectionality #child health #depression tips #mental health rant #actually autistic

[milkbreadtoast]

some more cookie doodles... 🤧

#clotted cream cookie #prune juice cookie #pure vanilla cookie #cookie run #cookie run fanart #cookie run kingdom #crk fanart #my art #my 2 fav poor little meow meow cookies #who r smiley and fake and shady #and have trauma #and r twinks

[penguinsayswhat]

Ya'll gotta watch where you're booping...you could take an eye out

#CLAMP #X #X/1999 #happy fake birthday sei-chan #it's CLAMP Day and boop day so i had to come up with something after my looong shift at work #this is the best it's gonna get this year #trigger warning #body horror #eye trauma

[nowheresamsaucex]

So I, an actual professionally diagnosed autistic, took the bullshit Pooh test. Note how Roo has only 60%.

I have really bad anxiety as a result of my autism, and this has been noted by PROFESSIONALS.

Everyone taking this test and claiming that it's proof of "the tism" or shit like that is NOT PROFESSIONALLY DIAGNOSED. SELF DIAGNOSIS IS NOT A MEDICAL DIAGNOSIS. IT DOES NOT SHOW ON MEDICAL RECORDS.

This has been a problem on this site in particular. Autistics actually trying to find people with the same problem as them instead find shit like this.

Autism isn't a cool little aesthetic thing. I have suffered through psychological and mental trauma due to how people treated me due to my autism. I have attempted sewerslide multiple times due to the depression caused by this. It's not a thing you'd want to have.

Tumblr, you better stop this fucked up trash and leave actually autistic people alone. /srs

#important #autism #autistic things #autistic community #neurodivergent #its the neurodivergency #pooh test #actually autistic #neurodiverse stuff #actually neurodivergent #tumblr what is wrong with you #important psa #PSA #tw trauma #tw sui talk #tw sui ideation #tw abuse mention #fake disorders

[devildomwriter]

Some spoilers in tags

#obey me shall we date #obey me vote #obey me poll #obey me polls #obey me lucifer #obey me diavolo #obey me satan #obey me solomon #obey me leviathan #obey me simeon #obey me raphael #solomon still can’t talk about the death of his friends that occurred nearly a million years ago #Simeon went from the top of the angels to not even being one and still has war trauma #Lucifer still holds himself accountable for everything in the war #Satan has a huge complex #leviathan isn’t able to love himself #Raphael almost died to stay in a fake reality where the brothers were forgiven #Diavolo is lonely and was neglected as a child