I need to say a thing to maybe do a little bit to dispel some stupid ass stereotypes. My son’s best friend is autistic and she is the BEST KID. We like her so much. It is a genuine and equal friendship. She’s kinda literal and doesn’t like loud noises OK FINE this kid is a delight.
Autism is not a sentence to a life or childhood of isolation. Someone will like you. Someone will play with your kid. It’s going to be ok.
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A little kid on the bus this afternoon came up to me and said he loved my shirt (It has a big pink skull on it) and gave me a hug while his mum was like 'I swear he's not being creepy.', obviously worried I was going to freak out. Which, first of all, he's like six. Six-year-olds as a general rule can't be creepy unless they're slowly singing nursery rhymes in extremely posh English accents. Second, he'd been vocal stimming and popping and happy flapping the whole trip and we started popping to each other. When I happy flapped in response to his hug, his face lit right up.
I understand why his mum was worried, though. I was the only white-ish person on the bus, so she must have been thinking I was going to pitch a fit, and I hate that that's something she needs to worry about. Black autistic kids are already expected to regulate their behaviours a hell of a lot more than even NT white kids to stay safe. I'll be damned if I'm going to help perpetuate the idea that a little Black kid is scary or dangerous for any reason, least of all because they were just doing what autistic kids do. Whether that's having no volume control when they loudly tell someone on the bus that their shirt makes them happy, or having a meltdown because they're overstimulated in a mall.
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Roblox Has A Problem
Hey everyone, sorry for the more serious post today, but I have an important issue I really need to talk about and bring attention to.
Recently when I was trying to upload one of my autistic pride designs to make a t-shirt on Roblox, I was sent a moderation warning saying this:
(And this was the image I uploaded btw):
Obviously I was annoyed and frustrated by this, so I contacted Roblox and sent an appeal message.
Today I received a response from Roblox Support saying this:
Does this action seem fair to you? Because it doesn't feel fair to me. I ranted to one of my autistic online friends about it after, where we discussed it in more detail and you can understand more of the context around why this is so messed up. (I got permission to share these screenshots.)
I know Roblox moderation has never been great, it's always had its issues. But as annoying as that is, in this case I feel like it's crossed a line. This isn't just about Roblox either, this is about how society views autism and the lack of autism education in general. I'm not just upset because I can't post something on Roblox, I'm upset because my voice as an autistic person is being silenced while other products on that platform are clearly mocking autism, and I'm trying to teach people about us. This is completely unjustified, and it sets a scary precedent when marginalized groups get censored for talking about their own experiences. Yes, Roblox is for all ages, and we should keep conversations appropriate, absolutely. But autistic people's existence, disability in general, is not inappropriate, kids should be learning about it. We don't need to discuss eugenics and hate crimes towards disabled people on Roblox, of course not, but I should be able to mention my identity without fear of being punished.
Basically, censoring the word autistic doesn't protect autistic people from hate, bullying, and discrimination, that is still happening regardless. What it does do is make it harder for us to fight back and stand up for ourselves, teach people about the realities of autism and normalize us as human beings. It's doing more harm than good, and that's what I hope Roblox can start to realize.
If you agree with me and want to make a difference, please reblog this and share it as many places as you can. We need to send a message to Roblox, and show them that silencing autistic voices is not ok. Obviously, be civil and respectful though, I just want to have a peaceful conversation about this problem, and hopefully Roblox will care enough to hear us out.
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autism acceptance month is for all of us.
it's for the autistic kids that are being abused in ABA, and for all autistic kids
it's for the undiagnosed autistics that are wondering what is wrong with them, and for all undiagnosed autistics
it's for the autistic people of color that have faced increased trauma and violence for their intersecting identities, and for all autistic people of color
it's for the autistic afabs and women that faced difficulties with getting diagnosed, because people only think of little boys when they think of autism, and for all the autistic afabs and women
it's for the autistic lgbt people, who feel othered within the lgbt community because of ableism they've faced within it, and for all the autistic lgbt people
it's for the autistic trans people who feel that their gender intersects with their neurotype, and for all autistic trans people
it's for the autistic people who have been abused at school
it's for the autistic people that have been alienated and othered
it's for the autistic people that have been abused and othered by their families
it's for the autistic people that have been hated by neurotypicals because they are different
it's for lonely autistic people
it's for autistic people that fear and hate neurotypical people for what has been done to them
it's for the nonverbal autistics, who are treated like they understand nothing, and for all nonverbal autistic people
it's for the autistics that are working on unmasking, and for the autistics that still must mask for their safety
it's for the autistics who use mobility aids, and for those who need them
it's for the professionally diagnosed autistics, and the self-diagnosed autistics
it's for the autistic picky eaters
it's for the autistic people that have high support needs, and are dehumanized by others for it
it's for the autistic people that have low support needs, and are seen as less autistic because of it
it's for the autistic people who have been infantalized and dehumanized
it's for the autistic people with trauma from how they have been treated for their autism
it's for the autistic people who have meltdowns and the autistic people who shut down
it's for the autistic people recorded having meltdowns
it's for the autistic people who have been treated inhumanely during meltdowns
it's for the autistic people that self harm during meltdowns
it's for the autistic people that lash out during meltdowns
it's for the autistic people who feel empathy and for those who do not
it's for the autistic people who have taken their own lives
it's for the autistic people that have been killed by their caregivers and parents
it's for the autistic people who have been assaulted and harassed
it's for the autistic people that have been bullied
it's for the autistic people who are ashamed and for those who are proud
it's for the autistic people that are loud and for the autistic people that are quiet
it's for the autistic people that are hypersensitive and for those who are hyposensitive
it's for all the autistic stimmers out there, who stim in every way there is
it's for the autistic adults that have a hard time finding the support they need
it's for autistic boys, autistic girls, autistic enbys, autistic women, autistic men, autistic people of all genders, trans autistic people, nonbinary autistic people, gay autistic people, queer autistic people, autistic people of color, autistic people of all races and nationalities and ethnicities, autistic disabled people, fat autistic people, thin autistic people, mentally ill autistic people, and every other autistic people I could list
it is for all of us, because all of us live in a world that does not accept us
and we deserve to be liberated
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