#autistic queer

[star-princess-princess]

pillow princess sexy time with autism

stimming during sex (I squeeze my hands into fists and release them)

holding on to my studs clothes when I’m anxious/overwhelmed by my orgasm (usually rubbing/hiding my face on them too)

being super eager to kiss (almost bonk teeth or nose, accidentally miss lips and kiss teeth or too high)

lots of eye contact or no eye contact

going in between super confident/almost bratty to really really shy and extra submissive

Super sensitive everywhere my stud touches with lots of jolting and shaking really quickly

crying during an orgasm/lots of shaking and crying afterwards with numbness in my fingers because it felt a bit too good

occasional nausea afterwards

preferring penetration over having my clit touched because it’s way too sensitive and hurts

sex in the dark because lights hurt

getting distracted with background noises unless it’s music

my wife reminding me to breathe

not able to talk much because my brain is empty

Loving missionary or anything I can be held close and feel vv secure in

#sapphic lesbian #pillow princess #sapphic love #autistic nsft #autistic lesbian #femme nsft #sapphic nsft #lesbian nsft #femme4stud nsft #autistic queer #autistic adult #autistic couple

[eatingrosescollab]

Transmasc as in strength in gentle touch.

Transmasc as in I’d rather you not see me as man or woman, but man is better if you HAVE to “choose.”

(Transmasc as in I’ll never pass as a man so why not live in the space between so it doesn’t hurt as much).

Transmasc as in my identity is my own and I wish you would just see me as a person first.

Transmasc as in not accepting cishet white male “androgyny” as the only acceptable aesthetic.

(Transmasc as in my father would never call me his son, even if he were alive).

Transmasc as in striving to be a man he’d have been proud of, anyways.

Transmasc as in queer, as in my relationships, as in my approach to life, as in anyone in my close circle.

Transmasc as in my autistic way of seeing things absolutely affects the way I view gender and myself.

(Transmasc as in it hurts).

Transmasc as in it’s beautiful.

#transmasc #transmaculine #trans masc #trans #trans hrt #trans pride #transgender #poetry #queer #queer pride #queer identity #identity #queer poetry #autism #actually autistic #autistic queer

[lovingbeingbutch]

i love being butch and autistic i do masculinity in my own way without social expectations its so freeing

#butch feels #butch positivity #actually autistic #autistic butch #autistic lesbian #autistic queer #trans autistic #my post #crow caws

[amihungryorbored]

If you are autistic PLEASE VOTE

(I'm trying to learn something. research if, you will. pls help me out:)

If you DON'T HAVE ASD PLEASE DO NOT VOTE this is not for you i want to hear autistic voices if you want to see just use the answers option

please please REBLOG to reach more people please and thank you

#actually autistic #asd #autism #the tism #autistic adult #autistic things #autistic experiences #autistic brain #autistic stimming #autism spectrum disorder #autistic special interest #autistic spectrum #autistic masking #autistic memes #autistic posting #autistic poll #autistic positivity #autistic culture #autistic community #autistic characters #autistic hyperfixation #autistic humor #autistic inertia #autistic life #autistic meltdown #autistic pride #autistic problems #autistic oc #autistic queer #sensory input

[cpunkwitch]

dont force yourself to be palatable for others. dont force yourself to water things down and mask for other peoples comfort

if they cant handle you for who you are as you are they arent worth your time, theres so many other things you could be doing with your time instead of wasting it on people who cant "digest" how you are.

that goes for disabilities, neurodivergences and lgbtq things.

"you cant use neopronouns or xenogenders, youre why terfs think us trans folk are a joke." no, they dont care they hate us either way, changing my identity for them to like me is not how we win.

"cant you just not do that, leave your aid at home and be normal like us?" we are normal, using an aid is normal, youre the one being weird about it.

"can you keep quiet/talk more/sit still?" i do what my body asks of me, what i am comfortable with for my body and myself, not for you.

dont let anyone dictate you. no one has a say on your behaviours, your identity, what things you use but you. its your body, your self, your voice, your will. you arent for them, you are for you.

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#disabled #physical disability #disability blogging #physically disabled #actually disabled #cass rambles #cpunk blog #cripplepunk blog #cripple punk #cpunk #cripplepunk #queer #queer cripple #disabled queer #autistic queer #cass rants #cane user #crip punk #cripple punk blog #disabilties #disabled witch #chronic illness #disability #disabilities

[nd-polls]

Noise Canceller Poll!!

All the time, people call my Ear Defenders "headphones" and I *hate* it. I dislike it because it feels like they are calling them are want instead of the need they are and, as I need them for education and work purposes and this misnomer makes people think they have batteries (when they don't) and leads to people trying to make me remove them, however, I can also understand someone liking this term as it can help normalize your device and make you feel less "odd" or like you stick out. I wanted to see if many of the latter exist before making a post about this subject. I would love as much data as possible, so please share.

#actually autistic #autism #late diagnosed autistic #adhd struggles #undiagnosed adhd #adhd stuff #neurodivergencies #anxitey #sensory #sensory issues #overwhelmed #autistic community #autistic problems #autistic adult #autistic poll #autistic queer #noise sensitivity #ear defenders #noise canceling headphones #noise cancelling #headphones #neurodiversity #its the neurodivergency #actually neurodiverse #neurodivergence #actually adhd #adhd #actually neurodivergent #neurodiverse stuff #neurodivergent

[lifeonkylesfarm]

autism acceptance month is for all of us.

it's for the autistic kids that are being abused in ABA, and for all autistic kids

it's for the undiagnosed autistics that are wondering what is wrong with them, and for all undiagnosed autistics

it's for the autistic people of color that have faced increased trauma and violence for their intersecting identities, and for all autistic people of color

it's for the autistic afabs and women that faced difficulties with getting diagnosed, because people only think of little boys when they think of autism, and for all the autistic afabs and women

it's for the autistic lgbt people, who feel othered within the lgbt community because of ableism they've faced within it, and for all the autistic lgbt people

it's for the autistic trans people who feel that their gender intersects with their neurotype, and for all autistic trans people

it's for the autistic people who have been abused at school

it's for the autistic people that have been alienated and othered

it's for the autistic people that have been abused and othered by their families

it's for the autistic people that have been hated by neurotypicals because they are different

it's for lonely autistic people

it's for autistic people that fear and hate neurotypical people for what has been done to them

it's for the nonverbal autistics, who are treated like they understand nothing, and for all nonverbal autistic people

it's for the autistics that are working on unmasking, and for the autistics that still must mask for their safety

it's for the autistics who use mobility aids, and for those who need them

it's for the professionally diagnosed autistics, and the self-diagnosed autistics

it's for the autistic picky eaters

it's for the autistic people that have high support needs, and are dehumanized by others for it

it's for the autistic people that have low support needs, and are seen as less autistic because of it

it's for the autistic people who have been infantalized and dehumanized

it's for the autistic people with trauma from how they have been treated for their autism

it's for the autistic people who have meltdowns and the autistic people who shut down

it's for the autistic people recorded having meltdowns

it's for the autistic people who have been treated inhumanely during meltdowns

it's for the autistic people that self harm during meltdowns

it's for the autistic people that lash out during meltdowns

it's for the autistic people who feel empathy and for those who do not

it's for the autistic people who have taken their own lives

it's for the autistic people that have been killed by their caregivers and parents

it's for the autistic people who have been assaulted and harassed

it's for the autistic people that have been bullied

it's for the autistic people who are ashamed and for those who are proud

it's for the autistic people that are loud and for the autistic people that are quiet

it's for the autistic people that are hypersensitive and for those who are hyposensitive

it's for all the autistic stimmers out there, who stim in every way there is

it's for the autistic adults that have a hard time finding the support they need

it's for autistic boys, autistic girls, autistic enbys, autistic women, autistic men, autistic people of all genders, trans autistic people, nonbinary autistic people, gay autistic people, queer autistic people, autistic people of color, autistic people of all races and nationalities and ethnicities, autistic disabled people, fat autistic people, thin autistic people, mentally ill autistic people, and every other autistic people I could list

it is for all of us, because all of us live in a world that does not accept us

and we deserve to be liberated

#autistic pride #autism pride #autism acceptance month #autism appreciation #autism activism #autism acceptance #fuck autism speaks #fuck aba #autism is not a disease #autism blog #autistic kids #autistic people #autistic spectrum #autistic women #late diagnosed autistic #autistic queer #autistic experiences #autistic rights #autistic representation #autistic trauma #autistic tumblr #autistic trans #autistic thoughts #autistic unmasking #autistic positivity #autistic acceptance #autistic and proud #actually autistic #red instead #autistic and queer

[elisbookworld]

Sorry, Let me just...

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Anyways...

#chronic illness #autism spectrum disorder #autism #autistic queer #autistic teen #actually autistic

[glitter-and-strangle-hugs]

Bro its so fucking wierd that france JUST added their version of gender neutral pronouns and they didnt even add a fucking them???? Just they???? And most french people i know dont even know abt this???? And there is no gender neutral way for words that can be more than one gender (they gave a fucking tree 1 gender and sports balls 2??) so i talked abt this with my french frends (who go by they/them) and they say they add “.e” which is just like adding a (e) to a word that can also have ‘e’ and ‘ ‘ I remember telling my french teacher that i went by they/them when they said “Conjuge cette verbe avec tes pronoun” (conjugate this verbe with your pronoun) and i wrote ‘.e’ bc thats what i was taught. HE CALLED ME IN AT THE END OF CLASS ASKING “ca veux dire quoi, ca?” (what does this mean?) and i said “Ca veux dire que je ne suis pas une fille ni garcon” (It means im not a girl or a boy) and he switched to speaking jn english and said “Oh ok. But why ‘.e’” and j said “because this is the most voted termination for gender neutral subjects in french” and he just looked at me like bitch u follow up with french news? anyways thats my favorite way ive told ppl that i use they/them.

#queer #queer stuff #autistic queer #french #france #true story

[kingoftheblacksun]

I got my first ever tattoo at 53. Pretty cool, eh? It's a portrait of my Mother.

Did it in one sitting. Almost four hours. It stung a little. We do it for love.

#daciandraco #tattoed girls #vishnu #sun dragon #spiritual awakening #autistic queer #queer artist

[eatingrosescollab]

Vine was made for the autistics. I still got a million vine vocal stims.

#ayitspnayo #mostly #autistic queer #actually autism #actually autistic #autism #autistic #vine #humor #stims #vocal stimming #say ‘warm worm’ #that’s not a vine it’s just my stim rn

[r0dentluverr69]

need a tone indicator for this

#t4t #queer #gay #nd4nd #/j #autism #autistic queer

[musically-mlm]

neurodivergent mlm dream apartment :3c

- lotsa pillows + blankets + plushys + soft stuffs - plants all over the damn place - posters + pictures + paintings covering the walls - rugs n stuff coz soft - sensory hammocks  - those foam-y tiles you see at kid’s centers - stuff for auditory stim - shelves and bookcases crammed with all sortsa trinkets + knick-knacks - more books than can be reasonably consumed - sketchbooks , pencils , canvases , markers , highlighters , watercolors , etc - scrap papers n random charms n chains n stuff for makin stuffs - kandi beads  - bathroom counter full of makeup n hairclips n jewelry n such - ridiculous amounts of hairdye cozzzz y’know , queer lol - dorky posters & figurines mixed among like , science n literature stuff - a ton of stuff related to all of our seventeen thousand special interests / hyperfixes - concert merch + event posters + similar - random matching items laying around - alt decor mixed with like ,,, academia and goblincore and cryptid and decora...

song of the post :: make out in my car by moses sumney + sufjan stevens

#mlm #mlm thoughts #mlm posting #neurodivergent mlm #autistic mlm #mlm yearrning #mlm t4t #nblm page #nblm t4t #nblm posting #autistic queer #Spotify

[pridewishes]

♔ || MAX BRINLY ICONS

250x250 || autistic queer || bordered circle

like / rb + credit + read dni if using

requested by anon !!

#max brinly #the quarry #icons #pride edit #pride icons #autistic #queer #autistic queer

[vizthedatum]

What to do when someone feels some sort of way in a relationship of any kind (some thoughts from a neurodivergent and chronically ill person who is a recovering codependent):

Yes, I understand that people will deflect blame onto their diagnoses - I know this because I’ve done it a lot.

But I don’t care. I don’t care if you’re autistic, chronically ill, traumatized, etc. I don’t care if the diagnoses are from a healthcare professional or from yourself.

Your diagnoses are part of how you heal and cope with whatever you have going on. That’s beautiful, and I hope it works out for you (more on how to medically advocate for yourself later in this blog).

What I do care about when it comes to our dynamics (you and I OR you and a group of people):

Do you know what you did or said?

Can you tell me what your intention was?

Do you acknowledge how I felt about what you did or said?

Can you tell me what I did or said? And how you felt about it?

Can we both take accountability for what we did or said, regardless of our intentions?

Can we take accountability of the hurt, love, pain, joy, etc. the other person felt as a response to whatever we did or said? Keeping in mind that the individual responses we have are our responses but it is still human and reasonable to be affected by other people’s behaviors especially when we are in a relationship with them.

How would you like to move forward?

How do you feel after? Do your feelings persist after we talked about this?

Is your behavior a pattern, despite multiple attempts to talk about it - and is your behavior affecting me?

Is my behavior a pattern, and is it affecting you?

Is the patterned behavior in question the actual problem or is there something else underlying it?

If you’re not willing to be honest or even cooperate with these discussions, then how do you propose on repairing the relationship?

What do you get out of this relationship at this stage and why do you want to continue being in it?

It’s ok if you do not have the capacity for empathy, romance, affection, or other things that the other person may need - do you acknowledge your limitations and communicate what you can do? Or do you manufacture these qualities in order to appease? Or do you lash out or become avoidant when you think you cannot meet those standards instead of talking about it? What is your reaction and have you investigated why you behave that way?

Even though it can be difficult, are you willing to end the relationship if you (or I) don’t feel aligned within it anymore? What does that look like?

#healing #trauma #love #neurodivergence #queer #harm #self love #relational love #relational hurt #self and relational love #relationship #relationships #prose #thoughts #journaling #relationship repair #blame game #communication #autistic queer #autism #it’s not just an autistic thing though #sustaining relationships #repair #transparency #fawning #vulnerability

[elisbookworld]

Listen. I can only speak for myself and not other disabled people. But babying is not helping autistic people. Just because someone has needs that seem familiar to the needs of a toddler doesn't mean they aren't a fully grown adult. And the next person who tries to "comfort" me by saying "don't worry everything's going to be okay uwu" in a baby voice when i tell them im scared to ride the train to stops i haven't seen before will get punched in the face.

Have a nice day.

#actually autistic #autistic queer #autism #autistic girl #autistic teenager