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thegirlmirage · 3 months
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Transfem to Transmasc solitary must exist as much as any trans solidarity must exist.
Protect my boys.
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fixing-bad-posts · 3 months
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You DEFINE YOU and thats enough.
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we as a queer community don't talk enough about the reality that some people are forcibly outed.
i was forcibly outed and it is jarring and uncomfortable and i wasn't ready for it. it's emotionally violating, and you cannot ever go back into the closet.
the reality is, some people are just not safe, just not trustworthy, and don't actually value your well-being.
it shapes your experience in the world, especially for a young child to learn that someone they thought was trustworthy is not actually willing to protect them. it sets up the basis for fear, and denial, and repression. it cements in someone's brain that no one is to be trusted with your identity, and that you are somehow wrong.
it's never a good thing to tell someone to repress their identity, but the reality is that some people do not have queer safety in their minds. some people do not care.
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fella-lovin-fella · 10 months
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"people are okay when cis people choose to go by nicknames but when it comes to trans people it's 'too hard'" is so real because i haven't gone by my legal first name since preschool and no one had a problem with it until i was a dude
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desultory-suggestions · 6 months
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I love queer people who define themselves in unconventional ways. I love queer people who define themselves very specifically. I love queer people who refuse to define themselves at all. I love queer people who feel their definition of self has changed and will continue to do so. I love queer people who don’t know how to explain their identity, whether they want to or not. I love queer people who love other queer people and support their journeys no matter how different from their own.
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drcrispy93 · 1 month
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queerism1969 · 1 year
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mrmaxdragonx3 · 1 year
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I feel like we can all agree that labels can either bring people comfort or make people feel like they are being put into boxes. So on that note, I wish you all a good day, and I hope you find comfort with yourselves whether or not you identify with a label.
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beefybluewerewolf · 1 year
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she-is-ovarit · 11 months
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It's all connected. Corporations began marketing gay pride themed merchandise. An increase in "I-identify-as" populations began to flood gay bars and events, where outward appearance (marketed as "gender expression") became heavily emphasized.
Commercial visibility and marketability does not equal human rights progress.
Ability to consume does not equal citizenship to an oppressed group.
Biology, (referring to sexual orientation and sex) is not a brand you can buy into or boycott out of.
Corporations selling rainbows do not reflect our values.
The churning out of new "all inclusive" pride flags to pledge allegiance to is not indicative of liberation.
A historical homosexual slur being sold by the multi-billion dollar media obfuscates predominantly lesbian relationships ("queer women", "queer relationship") and retraumatizes many gay and lesbian people.
Gay pride only extending to people able to purchase detracts from the meaning of gay pride and distracts from the struggles of the most vulnerable. It positions the most privileged within marginalized and oppressed groups as those who represent the whole.
And associating body modification, aestheticism, and "expression" with self identity turns the lived experiences and material realities of entire subgroups of people into niche market categories that people who aren't even a part of these groups can identify into and out of based on social trends.
Biology becomes devalued, overshadowed by the social and manufactured "genders". Infinite genders means infinite target audiences. Lived, material realities of certain groups of people become materialism.
Human rights movements are becoming human rights industries, with the wealthy more directly capitalizing off of the exploitation of the poor, of the homosexual, of the female, of the immigrant, of the dark skinned, of the mentally ill, of the disabled, of the sick, of the marginalized and oppressed.
Don't buy into it.
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a-study-in-bullshit · 2 months
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"i wish you were a girl"
"fuck a girl then"
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fixing-bad-posts · 5 months
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the lice say, "quit yourself. act like us."
but they have nothing to abash me theyre a sect of tired air
and this is who i am i can breathe forever
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im nonbinary agender and not trans because i didn't trans my gender i deleted it
call that gendern't
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bizarreaizen · 6 months
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bro i love being cringe, i love pissing people off with my hundreds xenogenders, i love pissing people off with my overly complicated and complex gender identity and sexuality, i love pissing people off by identifying as non-human, i love pissing people off by being neurodivergent, i love pissing people off by being a furry, i love pissing people off by not caring about discourse and debates, i love pissing people off by using cringy words and i love pissing people off by doing self insert ships.
cringe is me and me is cringe !! >w<
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mystical-cinnamoon · 7 months
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HAPPY OCTOBER FIRST!!!!!!!
I consider October the gayest month, it has those vibes
it's also LGBTQIA+ History Month and has many queer days (Lesbian Day, Pronouns Day, Intersex Awareness day, Asexual Awareness Week, and Coming Out Day)
and ofc
🎵we fell in love in october🎵
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fella-lovin-fella · 9 months
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