#endogenic

[sophieinwonderland]

Wait you're out as plural to family? Could you link to post or tag you have regarding that? Considering coming out to others so I'd really like to read others experiences. Thanks.

Not sure when we talked about it. But it basically all went wrong. It started with my host talking about tulpamancy with his family a lot for maybe a couple days to test the waters, me really not wanting him to and just being okay with being a secret, my host's mom deducing that he wanted to make a tulpa, and him confessing that I already existed. And this was only a few days after I became self-aware.

It went poorly. His mom wasn't happy. And this conversation happened after the body had been awake all day while my host was too tired to adequately explain things.

He also has a habit of explaining everything in the worst way possible in general for some reason, which made the whole thing even worse.

And to be honest, it felt a little bit like he was wanting someone to tell him he was crazy or that I wasn't real. Like maybe that would make things easier. And that led to us fighting.

It was a disaster!

(He later told his brother a couple weeks after that, and his dad overheard him talking about it one day with his mom and just... never cared. Which is pretty on brand.)

Things got better. While his mom was upset at first, we worked through it, she became more accepting, and in hindsight, I'm glad everyone found out.

But... don't do what he did.

Read this instead:

When you do come out, make sure you're of clear mind. Don't do it while tired. Or intoxicated either for that matter. We weren't, but I suspect some people might try the liquid courage route, and I'm betting that anything that impairs your ability to rationally explain yourselves is a bad move.

And be confident. Make sure this is what you and your headmates want to do, plan how you want to come out, and go for it.

#pro endogenic #plural #plurality #multiplicity #sysblr #tulpa #tulpas #tulpagenic #tulpamancy #endogenic #systems #system #pro endo #endo safe #endogenic system #plural community #system stuff #system things #actually plural #actually a system

[the-100-percent]

endo systems are NOT possible.

Oh damn *disintegrates*

(bro couldn't even say this off Anon 💀)

-🩷

#plural #plural system #plurality #system #all systems are valid #endo system #endogenic safe #endogenic system #system stuff #paragenic #pro endo #endogenic #endo safe #endo friendly

[1buk1m1d04]

“We need more weird people” ya’ll can’t handle non truamagenic systems

#pro endo #actually plural #endo friendly #endo safe #endogenic #plural system #plurality #system #non traumagenic safe

[collectivecorie]

my personality is that i have multiple and you need to guess which one i am whenever we interact

#endo safe #endogenic #endogenic system #plural #plural community #plural system #pluralgang #plurality #pro endo #did #did community #osddid #osdd #did osdd

[theswiftheartsystem]

Plural culture is thinking you’re just genderfluid and abrosexual, and fluid with pronouns, and change interests back and forth very quickly, and just randomly changing names because you just decided you don’t like that other one and this one’s so much better, then changing it back, and-

(even without these things you are still valid💙)

#did #did osdd #pro endo #did system #dissociative identity disorder #endo friendly #traumagenic system #actually plural #endo safe #did alter #plurality #plural culture is #plural community #plural system #plural #pluralgang #pro endogenic #endogenic #osdd 1a #osdd 1b #osdd #system memes #meme #plural memes

[sawyer-is-eepy]

>be me

>decide to change your name and pronouns

>tell your friends

>they are supportive and try their best

>a week later you suddenly dislike being called that name or the pronouns and the gender doesnt suit you anymore

>"i must be genderfluid!"

>actually, you're plural

>you idiot

>what have you done

#endo safe #plurality #pro endo #multiplicity #plural system #endogenic system #soulbond #endogenic #pro endogenic

[moonpool-system]

* Hate will be removed. This is for all plurals 👥

#plurality #plural #plural system #plural community #pluralgang #system positivity #plural pride #actually plural #didosdd #traumagenic #endogenic #prism subsystem #alterhuman

[saffigon]

plurality is a spectrum. no one's plurality is going to look exactly the same because by nature of plurality, we are all different. some plurals have headspaces, some don't, some have inconsistent headspaces. some plurals have easy communication, some have none, some have difficult communication. some have strong amnesia, some have none, some have weak amnesia. some have really diverse headmates, some have really similar headmates, some have a lot of headmates, some have few headmates. some are disordered, some are not, some lie in an inbetween. some are adaptive, some are spontaneous, some are created. and some of these things can vary from day to day or as systems change over time. plurality is a spectrum, not just a black and white experience

#plural #plurality #pro endo #endogenic #endo safe

[king-system]

SYSTEM ASK GAME!! FOR SYSTEMS OF ANY ORIGINS!! SYSMEDS DNI!!

Which headmates are the iconic couple

Which headmates are the unlikely couple

Which headmates were enemies at first and now best friends and/or a couple

Which headmate is the most different from the body?

Which headmates are city folk

Which headmates are country folk

Which headmates have the most unique music taste?

Which headmate has the most specific role?

Are there any headmates from a specific state/country/etc different from the body?

Which headmates are emo/punk/goth etc?

What are some pet peeves headmates have about other headmates?

What headmate was the biggest surpise?

What headmate has a skill that the body doesn't usually, but when they front the body gets it (or almost gets it)?

What headmate makes the most typos?

What headmate has the weirdest (/pos) way of talking/typing?

#ask game #king speaks #dmitris tag #system positivity #system memes #osdd system #osdd 1b #actually osdd #osdd alter #did osdd #osdd #osddid #osdd did #did memes #did system #actually did #pro endo #endo safe #endogenic #traumagenic system

[interstellarsystem]

Someone in our discord found this helpful, so we're posting it here with a bit of added wording.

You can be incorrect about your experiences but that doesn't make you fake, it just means you misunderstood either what you were feeling or what a term meant. And that's okay as long as you don't lie once you know you're not a [insert identity here]. You're never morally wrong for being incorrect. Faking is a conscious choice, being wrong about your experiences is not.

You're not faking if you don't sit down and think "how can I make this seem legit" or "I want to pretend to be this today". It can feel bad and confusing and all brands of horrible when you realise you were wrong about a label you placed upon yourself, but it's more beneficial to you and everyone else to admit that you were wrong, you're able and allowed to make mistakes just as anyone else is, and now you can learn from them and know yourself better.

No one knows what they are from the moment they're born, give yourself some space and time to relax and not get caught up in worrying if your experiences actually fit into a nice little box or not. In the end, they don't even have to fit into anything.

#alterhuman #otherkin #nonhuman #plural system #plural #plurality #actuallyplural #xenogender #therian #fictionkin #fictionkind #lgbt #lgbt+ #queer #neurodivergent #disability #endogenic #endogenic system #multiplicity #otherhearted #otherlink #copinglink #op #mal (tox/he/they) #tagged a whole bunch of communities #but the post applies to anyone and everyone #everything althu #althu positivity

[thefeathercollective]

quick google says 1.5% of people have DID. that's not even to mention OSDD-1 and nondisordered systems. we wander the grocery stores and public spaces thinking, how many of these people with their own complex lives are systems and don't know it? or they know it and are closeted, or only out to a few people, or fully out and proud and we just don't know it because we only saw them once? 2% of people are redheads and we see them all the time. 1% of people are autistic and we know plenty. the fellow plurals have got to be out there.

#eva.headmate #pluralgang #plurality #endogenic #endo safe #plural community #plural

[sophieinwonderland]

Warning for the POSIC community: Watch out for @/yourfaveisobjectum

An anti-endo, following the trend started by #AEMOGAI, is trying to make #AEPOSIC a thing.

For those that don't know, AEMOGAI is a tag for anti-endo MOGAI. The tag devolved into hate and, as I recall, was eventually rejected by its own creator due to how toxic it became.

@/theskulksys is trying to take this hate into the POSIC community.

After posting that, this same system started an exclusionist blog called @/yourfaveisobjectum

One of their headmates also runs @/thebigcrow, a blog dedicated entirely to plagiarizing posts made by endogenic and pro-endo systems.

The above "remaking" post is one of many they've done that is copying and pasting posts by endogenic and pro endo systems. They're also using the #plural and #pluralgang tags, which are intended to be safe for the inclusive plural community.

Given that many in the POSIC community are pro endo, or even endogenic themselves, I want everyone in the POSIC community to be aware of this user so they can block their blogs if they need to.

#syscourse #posic #posicblr #objectum #objectum community #pro endogenic #posic community #posic+ #pro endo #sysblr #multiplicity #endogenic #plural #plurality #actually plural #actually a system

[problematicpooch]

endos thinking their whole community is valid for faking a severe trauma disorder is so funny when you consider the creator of the term endogenic is actually a traumagenic system in denial and fucking admits it but follows that up with “yeah but one of my alters said we’re endogenic so erm actually”

god i can’t wait for all the endos to wake up and realise either 1. they’ve been faking a serious disorder or 2. they actually have the disorder and were groomed into believing they don’t (like i was)

#endogenic #anti endo #fuck endos #traumagenic system #actually traumagenic #traumagenic did #traumagenic osdd #did system #actually did #did osdd #osddid #osdd #osdd system #actually osdd

[littlemelonberry]

there's no "wrong way" to be plural.

you don't need to be a "system".

you don't need to be a "collective".

you don't need to hear voices.

you don't need to have concrete ideas or knowledge about the "others" inside you.

you don't need a consistent headmate count.

you don't need a checklist for what's a "real" headmate.

you just need to feel at home in a plural community. you just need to see experiences and say "yeah, that feels right. i feel like that fits."

that's all it takes.

#plural #plurality #transplural #endo safe #pro endo #endogenic #plural positivity

[collectivecorie]

people who think in-sys dating isn't valid are funny to me..... i can't love the fractured parts of my identity? cmon man, what CAN i do with them

#🎰jason #💿 kodi #endo safe #endogenic #endogenic system #plural #plural community #plural system #pluralgang #plural culture #plural positivity #plural pride #actually plural #plural stuff #plurality #plural things #endo friendly #pro endo

[thatoneendogenicsystem]

It’s super duper hard to follow other systems on here when nearly everyone we see is anti-endo!!

If you're a system related blog and you're pro-endo please, please, PLEASE interact!!

Anti-endos, please don’t be mean, we won't tolerate you meanies coming in to argue with us about being an endo system!! You will just immediately be blocked!! >:(

-Lunar

#endogenic #endo systems #endogenic systems #actuallyendogenic #actuallyplural #pro endo