#codependentnomore

[vizthedatum]

Codependent no more (2023)

I did what I could, and I’m sorry that wasn’t enough.

I don’t need to prove all that I am made of.

You’re hurting, and I love you; I always will.

I have a right to be angry and to choose myself even still.

Wasn’t it so beautiful when our realities fused?

Happy to be entwined, I didn’t notice when we both felt used.

I would have pled and done anything to make it better.

While you lashed out or withheld out of uncontrollable anger.

Justifying my limitations, boundaries, and intentions, even if I shout,

Will do very little to appease the monstrosity of your doubt.

Enabling is as toxic as tearing someone down.

It’s something I’ve learned when learning how not to fawn.

It is up to us, a pair frozen in time,

To repair misalignments when we cannot rhyme.

Is it so idealistic to wish for a better ecosystem?

To grow alongside our hurt - our love - and our egoism?

Leaving is loving when one of us can’t repair.

By that, I mean, our capacity and willingness to share and not compare.

So, all I can wish for is for us to find peace.

Separate or together, I will never again let myself decease.

- Rose the artist formerly known as she her Pri

~ গোলাপ্রী

#poem #poetry #prose #healing #codependency #peace #loving #love #hurtpeoplehurtpeople #hurting #learning #jade #enabling #peoplepleasing #fawning #harmreduction #rose #rosetheartistformerlyknownassheherpri #codependentnomore #trauma #neurodivergence #queer #harm #self love #heartbreak #codependent no more

[ms-meredith-caine]

Her heart was made of Gold. It grew each time she saw someone else smile. It softened when she saw someone else’s pain. She gave a small piece of it away to everyone who needed it. Sometimes someone else would just take it with no regard to her. Somehow she thought it was just part of her soul’s purpose and so she just continued on her journey. There came a time when she didn’t have anything left to give and she asked for someone else’s time, there was no one else like her, and she felt alone., hurt and rejected. In time, tired of the constant aching for someone to love her the way she loved them, she learned to hold a big piece of that golden heart of hers for herself. She learned to use that heart of gold to love herself just as much as she loved others. When she Learned how to do this, her heart was never to be disappointed by anyone else again. For she had found that the magic so many thought she had was just focused in the wrong direction.

#codependency #self worth #self love #codependentnomore #journeytoself #boundaries #loveyourself #peoplepleasing #healing #self care #know your worth #worthiness #inner strength

[reframingyou]

#youtube #traumarecovery #codependencyrecovery #traumaawareness #relationshipadvice #personalitydisorder #addiction #relationshiptherapy #personalitydisorders #codependentnomore #therapist #therapy #therapists #therapyworks #therapysession #mentalhealth #counsellor #counselling #relationships #relationship #attachmentstyles #attachmentstyle #attachmenttrauma #attachments #codependent

[talktoangel2]

what is a codependent Relationship?

A codependent relationship is a dynamic in which one or both partners are excessively reliant on each other for emotional validation, self-worth, and a sense of purpose. This can lead to an unhealthy and imbalanced connection characterized by enabling behavior, low self-esteem, and an inability to set and maintain boundaries. TalkToAngel offers counseling services tailored to individuals and couples struggling with codependent relationships.

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[quantumconfidence]

Remember Who You Are 🔥 Peptalk

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#self love #codependentnomore #self confidence #self control #mindset #human design #manifestingdreams #feminine #manifestingreality #Youtube

[renewyourheart]

Remember, standards and expectations are not the same thing. ⠀ Perfectionist expectations only keeps people out and you disappointed. ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #amychanwrites #standards #bekind #motivationalwords #motivationalpost #motivationalspeakers #fyp #expectations #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #emotionalintelligence ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ (at Vancouver Convention Centre) https://www.instagram.com/p/CnfDN2nvEU5/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[theselfcaremaven]

Time is more valuable than money. Time heals all wounds and deminish old scars, but cannot be replaced changed or get back! So be careful on how you spend your time.

~SocialButterfly79

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Indeed! I agree!

My life coach and I just spoke at length about this topic today.

Our bodies are literally a physical manifestation of our emotions. We are what we think, speak, and dwell upon. A long life is not promised to us, but the quality of our day to day lives- our daily interactions, activities, choices to “react or act” when people annoy us, or reach out in love and compassion, these things are within our reach.

Living in a state of grace and Emotional intelligence is where
I choose to live. I’m not monetarily rich, nor is my health tip top, but I still feel abundantly blessed. I am living my best life, one day at a time. I’m grateful.

Life is a journey of changes; we can struggle or choose to look at things as opportunities for growth and evolution.

Life is a precious gift. Choose your words and companionship wisely.

😇Thank you for sharing this!

#thrivingsurvivor #theselfcaremaven #one day at a time #choosegratitude #whyiwrite #mystoryisntoveryet #nomorenarcissists #codependentnomore #cptsdrecovery #we are all connected #comeoutofthedark #time is precious #life is short #emotionalintelligence #just say no to toxic relationships #healthiswealth #thrivingismychoice #thriving survivor

[crossnnshadow]

#Repost @psychologiststephanie with @use.repost ・・・ Yesterday's post on the 'Good Guy Abuser' stirred up a lot for many. Also it raised the question: 'how about female abuse?' So I decided to post on what common female abuse looks like. I’m posting on both genders separately because they look a bit different. The signs are only abuse when the underlying intention is to control, demean or punish. People will abuse often to regain an inner sense of control when lacking Inner Security and emotional empathy and when they may feel entitled. It's important to identify the signs, especially for men who might tend to deny the abuse more than women due to taboo/ shame/ .. It's important to identify when it might be happening in order to Self- protect (self-esteem, self- trust, freedom, etc). An abused man can be: · Afraid to tell anyone · Depressed or humiliated · Afraid he has failed as a lover and partner · Guilty about leaving her or scared of coping alone · Furious she could do or say the things she did · Confused because sometimes she acts loving & kind · Frustrated and sad because he has tried everything · Afraid of continued abuse if he leaves · Panicked he may lose his male identity if people know what has been going on · Worried about his financial security · Believes he deserved it When a (fe)male abuser: it’s good to remember that by abusing someone we actually are abusing ourselves. It ‘kills’ our spirit since it’s unnatural to hurt others. We’re worth finding out when our need for control developed, since this kills the possibility for us to (receive) love (= vulnerability). We heal by going to that inner wounded space (within a safe attachment) and process, re-evaluate our sense of entitlement (we’re often not aware of), learn to regulate our emotions and how to get our needs met in a way that will leave us fulfilled + connected (control =) #selfhealers#lifecoachingforwomen#manipulation#narcissisticabusesurvivor#narcissisticabuserecovery#narcissisticabuse#codependencyrecovery#codependentnomore#codependency#gaslighting#emotionalabuse (at Lismore, New South Wales) https://www.instagram.com/p/CmACobzBZg7/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#repost #selfhealers #lifecoachingforwomen #manipulation #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuse #codependencyrecovery #codependentnomore #codependency #gaslighting #emotionalabuse

[karanscottcoaching]

The definition of codependency can be briefly summarised as the excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, where you outsource your happiness, and endeavour to make your partner responsible for it. As you can tell from my most recent blog article (link in bio) entitled ‘It Wasn’t Love, It Was A Codependent Trauma Bond’, I am a recovering codependent, and the biggest lesson I have learnt is that happiness isn’t a constant. You can never reach "happiness" because it’s not a place. You actually have to create happiness for yourself because it comes from within you, from your mindset and the way you perceive the world. It all comes from within you, so your job is to find it, love it and let it out, and I can help you with that. Karan 💕 Author | https://amzn.to/2Y4sC0s KaranScott.com | CBT Life Coaching Blog Article | https://www.toorelievedtogrieve.com/post/it-wasn-t-love-it-was-a-co-dependent-trauma-bond #codependency #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #codependent #codependence #traumabonds #traumabonding #traumabondingisnotlove #traumabonding101 #traumabondsurvivor #traumabondhealing #healing #breakupcoaching #divorcecoach #divorcecoaching #lifecoaching #karanscottcoaching #karanscott #karanscottcognitivebehaviouraltherapist #cbtcoaching https://www.instagram.com/p/CjumeEGgxyh/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[rfarrokh]

Also can be viewed as enabling versus supporting ❤️ thoughts ? 😘💝🥰💞❤️ #codependency #enabling #enabler #enablers #support #supportive #codependentnomore #codependent #codependencyrecovery #selfhelp #selfhealing #healthyboundaries #boundaries #boundariesarebeautiful #boundariesarehealthy #empaths #empath #supportivefriends #empathproblems https://www.instagram.com/p/COhUgkpntSL/?igshid=362086ygnku

#codependency #enabling #enabler #enablers #support #supportive #codependentnomore #codependent #codependencyrecovery #selfhelp #selfhealing #healthyboundaries #boundaries #boundariesarebeautiful #boundariesarehealthy #empaths #empath #supportivefriends #empathproblems

[traumaticallyeverafter]

How many of y'all ever feel this way?

#acoa #cptsd #cptsdwarrior #complex ptsd #bpd #bpdawareness #bpdwarrior #childhood ptsd #codependentnomore #generalized anxiety disorder #ptsd #bipolarawareness #bipolar 2 #cptsdawareness #cptsd memes #bpdmemes #cptsd thoughts

[devinetheory-2]

I wish you understood

what I meant when I talk.

How you gonna try harder

the farther that I walked

I wish I didn't feel

like a martyr to our cause

I wish... I wish ....

I wish I would I could have held on longer

I wish I was stronger

I wish I had more wisdom

And we didnt become victims

to all of the shit thats hidden

In our thoughts

I wish happiness

didnt seem so far off

Heart hardened and starved

From the pain of our wrongs

I wish we practiced

Loyalty and honor

in our walk

I wish I could find peace

From the weakness

We brought

From all the secrets

that she seems to be keeping

In her vault

Mysteries

That arent solved

Regardless of our loss

A real mother fucker

Not afraid of the hard talks

Heartless and scarred

From the darkness of our flaws

And It gets so dark

And I don't know what it means

I can hear God calling me

As Im falling apart at the seams

Cuz I no longer see you

in my dreams

Cuz our stars are so far off

Caught off guard

by the darkness

And maybe we didn't handle

Things the smartest

And Im still feeling like a target

And its never been harder

To face all our flaws

Nobody that I know

Is sewn from our cloth

Im In a zone with my loss

And she on social media

Trying to show off

And im alone at home

With this chrome

trying not To go off

Tears drop from a blank face

While I listen to our songs

at the bar gone

I cant breathe

As im crushed by the weight

Of our wrongs

That's nailed to the cross

I been carrying for so long

But im frozen

Crack the sky open

When I unload my mind

Trying to focus

But im blind

Ready to turn my lights off

and ive been MANY things

But Id give anything

for just 1 more moment

With my mom

Been grinding and surviving

So long

my minds gone

As I hold on tight

To this cliff that I'm on

And all the shit

life has to throw at me

I can feel your pain

Even when youre not close to me

And I can still heal the pain

Thru thru the poetry

...and im not grown yet

But im right where im supposed to be

Too much weight on my shoulders

To many things looming over me

Cant help myself

I'm Fallin

waiting for her to notice me

Before Im lost....

Sign off

Anything to turn these

thoughts

in my mind off...

- Devine Theory

#writerscreed #13cupsofteareblog #spilled poetry #twcpoetry #atlascreations #writeblrina #poem #love #bad love #relationship #codependent #codependentnomore #trauma bonding #writeblrcafe

[ifaabeyo]

Morning realness It’s time to #sethealthyboundaries I read this whole post an was taken back because most of my relationships be it friendship partnership just plain family life , has been like this , once I started setting boundaries and distance I became a problem or called crazy . Yet I felt free and happy leaving space for new experiences Thanks for this message confirmation and reminder Repost from @thetrapwitch • Message from spirit today. I’m going to leave this here ! This applies to all relationships that we have to recognize are abusive. In light of what happened last week with TS, this is highlighting idolatry, giving too much of yourself and to one sided relationships. There is a reason why the past few years also cults have risen back into the limelight. Watch the documentaries the Vow, the Way Down, Wild Wild Country, or just anything that makes you understand Dark Psychology. Please study narcissistic abuse and also codependency. The current climate is highlighting how we at times give ourselves as Tribute (hunger games reference). Listen. Two years ago I started implementing heavy #healthyboundaries with people I felt expected me to give myself as tribute! May your #ori continue to protect and guide you from what decisions need to be made on behalf of your destiny so you are not trapped in inner conflict or conflict with another that takes away your #innerpeace ! Ase 🙏🏼 thetrapwitch.com . . #bruja #brujas #brujasofinstagram #intuitiveguide #intuitiveguidance #intuitivehealer #intuitivehealing #mentalabuse #emotionalabuse #spiritualabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #codependency #codependencyrecovery #codependentnomore #selfsovereignty (at Queens, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWFqlSbLIVi/?utm_medium=tumblr

#sethealthyboundaries #healthyboundaries #ori #innerpeace #bruja #brujas #brujasofinstagram #intuitiveguide #intuitiveguidance #intuitivehealer #intuitivehealing #mentalabuse #emotionalabuse #spiritualabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #codependency #codependencyrecovery #codependentnomore #selfsovereignty

[lefruitloop]

You. Season 3, episode 2 (i think. lol)

#you tv show #love quinn #you season 3 #relationship #codependency #codependentnomore

[talktoangel2]

Some examples Relationship Addiction of these actions are:

However, if you're experiencing relationship addiction and seeking help, consulting an “online counsellor” or therapist can be a beneficial step towards healing and addressing your concerns.

Feeling lacking in companionship without one

Frequently chatting about falling in love 

Showing less interest in maintaining a good relationship than they do in being in love. 

Most people think of addiction when they think of alcoholism or drug addiction, however behavioural addictions are also becoming more and more accepted by professionals. Addictions to activities like gaming and shopping are among them. Some claim that relationship addiction falls under this heading.

It's not enough to just want to be in one relationship after another or to want to be in several at once to qualify as "addicted." The same is true for falling in love too fast, wanting to start dating again very away after a split, or simply enjoying the sensation of being in a committed relationship.

If you are suffering from relationship addiction so best psychiatrist near me consulting

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[quantumconfidence]

The Pillars Of Self Confidence 🔥💝✅

#self love #codependentnomore #self confidence #self control #mindset #manifestingdreams #Youtube