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icanseethefuture333 · 3 months

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PAC: What your pretty self needs to hear for Valentine's Day ♡

Your heart's message to you + a message from your secret admirer 💌

They say the truth ain't pretty, but coming from that pretty mouth

The truth is fitting, cause you ain't ever talkin' loud

And you know plenty

Yeah, you know what I'm talkin' about

Cause you just get me

Yeah, you so pretty... ♡

Pile 1:

Your heart's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Girl by Destiny's Child

Far by SZA

I MISS YOU SO BAD by iKON

The Lovers, Seven of Cups, & Three of Cups

So what your heart wishes to tell to you is that there is still love out there. You may have previously gotten over an ex, a past crush, or you are in the process of recovering from a break up. In the song "Far" SZA asks Sadhguru how to deal with rejection, in which he responds, "That's great! If nobody wants you then you're free." You have to look on the bright side of things. You also have to know what your worth is. No one else can define your worth but you. You have to be secure with who you are as a person. No one can love the parts you need to heal from. Once you feel fulfilled with who you are as a person. That is when you can form healthy connection with others. I believe you still are hoping for you and this person to get back together but you are hurting yourself even more by obsessing over this person (was going to say focus but instead I heard obsess). Reflect on your current situation and ask yourself, "What wound is this person triggering in me?". What do you need to move on from? To take care of your heart you should do some self reflection. Journaling and shadow work would help provide some clarity. Your heart asks you to not fall back into old habits. Self love is important for your growth, pile 1!

Your secret admirer's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Time To Love by Red Velvet

Changes by Jeff Bernat

I Think I'm Falling by KOHH

Wallflower, New Love, & Union

There is a new love coming in for you! This person could be shy and likes to admire you from afar. They could be self conscious about some things about themselves as well. The feelings seem to be mutual here. There could be a new crush that you like and wish to speak to, but are to nervous to ask them out of fear of rejection. Don't fret! Confessing your feelings helps build courage. If the person rejects you, then that just means there isnsomeone else better out there for you. It is not the end of the world just because you got rejected. Have a little more confidence in yourself, you are great, pile 1! Regardless, I see you and this secret admirer actually being intimate. Things could develop into something more serious with this union card. So make sure to be open to this energy and give them a chance at love ♡

Pile 2:

Your heart's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Mine by Slayyyter

ANTIFRAGILE by LE SSERAFIM

Post To Be by Omarion ft. Chris Brown & Jhené Aiko

Four of Cups, Eight of Wands, & The Fool

Your heart does not want to be tied down at the moment! I believe it has plenty of love to give lol. You also have no problem with turning people down or vice versa. You are looking for a fling and just wish to have a casual relationship! You could have a lot of options in love and would like to explore things romantically, maybe even sexually. Your heart suggests that you focus on your happiness and learn what pleases you. Love does not always have to be serious. Sometimes short lived romances have the best stories to tell! You will be feeling very confident and sexy in your romantic endeavors.

Your secret admirer's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Boys Wanna Be Her by Peaches

No Flex Zone by Rae Sremmurd

STUCK IN MY HEAD by Twice

Open Relationship, Mature Woman, & Fun Times

This secret admirer of yours is honestly hilarious 😭. I kept getting meme songs and I hs to shuffle again to get a proper message. This could be my queer pile as well 🏳️‍🌈. I'm getting Renee Rapp vibes from your secret admirer, Pile 2 😋. They could suit the 'girl crush' aesthetic or if it is someone who identifies as masculine, they have a very pretty face. They are open minded, flirtatious, and exciting to be around. This person wishes to tell you that you are stuck in their head! They find you to be "so fine" 😜! They would like take you out soon. I'm getting it will be a bar date or they will take you dancing at a night club.

Pile 3:

Your heart's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

More Than Enough by Alina Baraz

Bluffin by Brent Faiyaz

Mona Lisa by Naji ft. Monter Booker

Death, Six of Swords, & Six of Pentacles

Oh, pile 3, bless your heart 🥹. You are someone who has such a kind, gentle heart. You have the purest intentions and for that people can tell how geniune you are as a person. You could be selfless and caring towards others. You have so much love to give that it is obvious to others. I don't see any bitterness in your heart and I feel like your heart wishes to tell you how proud it is of you for being able to find forgiveness. You are leaning to let go of the people who have hurt you in the past. The essence of your spirit is so soft and it's very beautiful to witness. Your heart's message to you is that anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. So don't ever feel like you are not enough because you're more than that. You are this cup that is overflowing with love and sincerity.

Your secret admirer's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

At Your Best (You Are Loved) by Aaliyah

Freaky Deaky by Tyga ft. Doja Cat

LOVE by Kendrick Lamar ft. Zacari

Dating, True Love, & True Gem

Your secret admirer absolutely adores you, pile 3. They see your value as a person and they know that there is no one else like you in this world. You have so much love to give and they do as well. I am getting that they want to literally treat you like a princess/princess - just overall royalty. Their have geniune intentions as well and they would like to spoil you this Valentine's day ❤. (Channeled song: Kiss It Better by Rihanna 💋) for a few of you, you and your specific person could be separated. I see that things will turn out for the better soon. So have faith in yourself and in this person for things to work out. They could offer you some sort of proposal, love offer, or a token of their gratitude to show how much they love you. I see things would be passionate, flirty, and romantic for you and your secret admirer 🎆.

Pile 4:

Your heart's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Green Light by Beyoncé

Standing Next To You by Jungkook

God of Music by SEVENTEEN

Two of Pentacles, Page of Wands, & The Magician

You are such an optimistic person, pile 4! You could be someone who often gives advice to others and help others look on the bright side of things. You radiate such positive energy and it makes you a joy to be around. You could be someone who knows what they want and goes after it. You know how to balance your heart with your brain. Intuitive but also logical. People wonder how you are able to turn your ideas into reality. Your heart's message to you is to keep going after your goals and not let anyone distract you from your dreams. As long as you are happy that is all that matters. Your heart also wishes to tell you that whatever makes you light up inside is meant for you. Whatever your heart is set on whether that's a new job, house, etc. You have the ability to manifest whatever you desire.

Your secret admirer's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Phone Me by Che Ecru

Novacane by Frank Ocean

Own It by Drake

Passion, Friendship, & Communication

For some of you, you could be currently in a "situationship" or have a FWB with someone. While for others, your secret admirer is possibly a friend of yours. This person is conflicted on how to approach you. You may receive a text or phone call from them soon where they ask you about your relationship with another. They could ask you how you feel about them or drop hints that they are attracted to you. The ball is in your park, pile 4, if you decide to be more than just friends with this person.

Pile 5:

Your heart's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Girl Like Me by Alexa Demie

Fulfillment? By Kilo Kish

Baddie by IVE

Eight of Cups, Two of Cups, & Seven of Swords

I am getting like "manic pixie dream girl" vibes from you, Pile 2. Something about you is hard to pin point to others. Mysterious but also so enchanting. You know you are someone who is complex but also so beautiful. You have these interesting quirks that makes you stand out and memorable to others. You are comfortable with who you as a person and it could have took you a long time to get to a place of being this self assured. You could have a child like wonder as well and it is admirable to others. You could be questioning what direction to take in life and could find "adulting" very hard but don't give up, pile 5! Everything will be okay in the end. Your heart's message to you is to learn what gives you emotional fulfillment in life. Also to not take shit from no one. What's interesting is your face could look quite sweet but you are actually feisty and have a firey spirit. There is a duality to your personality and its attractive. I am getting like Song Jia, Alexa Demie, Wonyoung, & Taylor Russell vibes from you, pile 5. Your heart wants you to embrace your confidence and focus on the abundance in your future. Do not let people drag you down and dim your light. Your heart believes it is time for some self pampering. Set your standards high in love and know that you are deserving of everything you desire. I also believe it is time to burn bridges with people who no longer serve you. How can you live the life of your dreams if other people only acknowledge the version of yourself that no longer resonates with you? If you wish to be the girl of your dreams, you have to learn to put yourself first.

Your secret admirer's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Lilith by Halsey

Ditto by NewJeans

High Fashion by Roddy Rich ft. Mustard

Triangle, Travel, & Spiritual Growth

What is this Single's Inferno?! You have options, pile 5. You could have more than one secret admirer. You could be observing your current options in love and feeling "Well! Let the best person win☺️!" I see people wanting to fly you out and pay for your trips, oh my🫠. One of the people you will date could be popular or have a well known social status. You give people butterflies and some of you may know what affect you have on people, while some of you are innocent to the fact. You could receive love confessions or you may even already have. I feel like you are the type of person who receives love letters, jewelry, candies, and box of chocolates, if not you are going to be spoiled for this Valentine's day! You could meet your secret admirer(s) while traveling or when going on vacation. Your secret admirer's message to you is that they "like you" and hoping you feel the same 💕. They want to understand your love language and words of affirmations / gift giving could be one of their love languages in particular.

Pile 6:

Your heart's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Rose by Miyeon

Honey Dew by Lion Babe

Chanel by TiaCorine

King of Pentacles, Five of Wands, & Queen of Cups

I feel like you are at odds with your heart and brain right now, pile 6. You seem to feel confused about a decision you have to make. I believe you could think things are "sweeter" in other people's lives but that is not necessarily true. I know sometimes we can want what other people have but if it gets to the point of comparing yourselves to others then its not healthy. You have to remember to be grateful for what you have in life. It's okay to want the finer things, but what are you overlooking when you are doing that? Your heart's message to you is to not worry about what other people are doing in life and instead focus on what makes you great of a person. You are just as lovable, sweet, and beautiful.

Your secret admirer's message to you:

Shufflemancy -

Congratulations by Mac Miller ft. Bilal

Little Things by Sunni Colón

Aura by Mariah The Scientist

Work, Money, & Long Distance

I believe you and this person are already in a relationship. If not, your secret admirer will be the next person you end up in a romantic relationship with. This person could live further away from you and has a high paying job. They prefer to take on a traditional role of a provider. This person could have a hard time discussing their feelings though and shows their love through acts of services. While you, I feel you are more of an emotional person. You both could have a hard time expressing your feelings and thoughts properly to each other, which would cause conflict. Things might be tense for Valentine's Day. You and your secret admirer could have strong feelings for each other, but there needs to be an important conversation had in order for this relationship to progress. Both of you could be disheartened by this but there's hope! Try to appreciate the little things in your relationship and not focus on being the "perfect couple", for that does not exist. Every relationship has its flaws and all that matters is that you and you partner love each other very much. If it's meant to be, it will be, it won't be something you have to force, it'll come naturally.

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tarotwithavi · 3 months

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3 things you need to let go of in order manifest your dream life

1. Fear of Rejection

Do you realize that your fear of rejection is holding you back from doing so many things? Also why do you fear rejection ever thought about that? Yes we all fear something and rejection is a really scary word. Nobody likes rejection but the truth is the fear of rejection is what is holding us back and those who have let it go of this fear have achieved great things. Everybody is afraid of rejection so to say but what kind of rejection? Societal rejection that the society won't accept you for who you are, romantic rejection that your crush won't like you back or rejection from your own self? Why do you reject yourself? Why do you reject your thoughts? Why do you think that you are not capable of what you desire? This may not be a big thing but in order to evolve and grow you need to go through these questions and ask yourself why you fear rejection.

3 things to do to let go of this fear

Understanding Impermanence: Recognize that rejection is a part of life, and it doesn't define your worth. People's opinions and circumstances change, and rejection doesn't necessarily reflect a permanent state.

Focusing on Growth: Embrace rejection as an opportunity for personal growth. Learn from the experience, adapt, and use it as a stepping stone towards self-improvement.

Building Resilience: Develop resilience by realizing that not every rejection is a personal attack. Building a strong sense of self allows you to withstand setbacks and move forward with confidence.

2. Expectations

Sometimes you expect too much from people and from yourself too and when you cannot fulfill those expectations you feel upset. You have a great heart and there is no doubt about how pure and innocent your energy is. You do your best in everything you do, if you love someone you love them from all your heart and you will do everything for them. You expect others to do the same for you, expecting is not a bad thing but being upset over others not fulfilling YOUR expectations is not good. You need to let go of those expectations. And you don't have to live up to others expectations also. As a human we always expect others to do something for us or we just expect something in return. It's in our nature. You don't have to fulfill others' expectations and others don't have to fulfill yours. So you just need to let go of “expectations”.

Mindful Awareness: Be conscious of your expectations and question whether they are realistic. Sometimes, expectations can set you up for disappointment if they are too rigid or dependent on external factors.

Embracing Flexibility: Cultivate flexibility and openness to different outcomes. This doesn't mean lowering standards, but rather being adaptable to the twists and turns that life may bring.

Communicating Expectations: Clearly communicate your expectations to others when appropriate. This reduces the chances of misunderstandings and aligns everyone involved.

3. Self-Doubt

We've all been there, right? Dealing with self-doubt is like a universal thing and is a common human experience. But, let's be real for a moment, when did we let that self-doubt become the boss of our lives? Like, where did it even come from? Because, let's face it, it's not like self-doubt runs in the family or is scribbled into our DNA. Nah, it's more about what others toss at us. I used to doubt myself and still do actually(sometimes). But hey, I'm putting in the work. The more I do, the clearer it gets why the wise ones always say, "Who cares what anyone else thinks?" It's like, do you, be you, and forget the noise from the peanut gallery.

Positive Self-Talk: Challenge negative thoughts with positive affirmations. Focus on your strengths and past successes to counteract self-doubt.

Setting Realistic Goals: Break down larger goals into smaller, achievable steps. This allows you to build confidence gradually and see tangible progress.

Seeking Support: Share your concerns with trusted friends or a mentor. External perspectives can provide valuable insights and encouragement, helping you overcome self-doubt.

#pick a card #manifestation #spirituality #loassumption #loa tumblr #law of attraction #law of assumption #law of manifestation #love yourself #self concept #manifesting #happy life #tarotwithavi

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halemerry · 8 months

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Thinking about how the 1941 minisode really sets the stage for the following two episodes. It establishes the mutual trust between them. It establishes Aziraphale finally coming to terms with calling Crowley friend. It establishes Aziraphale as someone who is capable of deceit under pressure and, frankly, as someone who works better under it. It nods at the idea of Crowley's angelic status being potentially returned and rejects the idea in the same sweep with Aziraphale's failure to turn a turnip into an inkwell. It even presents the whole crux of the way Aziraphale and Crowley interact as summarized by the aim for my mouth but shoot past my ear thing. And then there's the whole shades of gray conversation.

There's something interesting in that conversation in particular I wanna draw attention to specifically because. Look what happens in the conversation after they have discussed Aziraphale's magic and verbalized the trust Crowley has in Aziraphale.

Doesn't it sound familiar?

It sounds a lot like the least charitable takes on Aziraphale's actions at the end of this season doesn't it? But Crowley rejects the idea pretty much immediately. Saying nah, that's the trouble with you lot. You see something and think it's black or white. He presents the idea, just as he has in all three minisodes, that sometimes the edges need to get blurry.

And Aziraphale agrees. He out loud starts speaking of gray areas in morality and how Crowley's right here. It once again emphasizes this idea that all three minisodes have gone out of their way to emphasize - that Aziraphale is capable of growth and change and most importantly of stepping into that middle space, knowing sometimes it is the right thing to do.

The fact that this blunt verbalization of the lessons of all three minisodes happens right after Aziraphale muses about a potential scenario where someone leaves tells us a lot about Aziraphale's actions in the end. It's drawing stark attention to them and tying those concepts directly together. It doesn't matter which theory you favor either - whether Az is lying to Crowley in the end or acting to protect him or doing what he thinks is right - it doesn't matter because they are all morally complex choices. They all exist in the gray spaces and Aziraphale knows it and that's such a fascinating angle to consider with his decision making here.

#good omens #good omens season 2 #aziraphale #crowley #good omens meta #finishing this so my brain will let me focus on literally anything else oops #hilariously this is arguably another example of Crowleys temptations having a tendency to blow up in his own face #but i think that detracts from the point im making so in the tags itll live

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cupidlovesastro · 5 months

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𝔞𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔬𝔩𝔬𝔤𝔶 𝔬𝔟𝔰𝔢𝔯𝔳𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫𝔰 #7

♢ pisces moon, venus, or mars tend to bring up assumptions they’ve had, as facts when they’re upset. like for example, if they have had the hunch that you’ve been doing something sneaky, in an argument they’re going to tell you how your a sneaky person even if that’s not true at all

♢ similar to what i said about pisces, aries sun, moon, venus, or mars can also bring up assumptions as facts. aries are impatient, witty, and often jump to conclusions because of their impulsive nature. they can also get extremely hostile extremely fast, mainly if it’s in mars or sun

♢ ascendant, sun, or venus aspecting pluto can mean you change your style often. like this week you may be hippie vibes and next week your could be grunge lol

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♢ mercury in the 10th house, or 10th degree can mean this person has a hard time explaining things or talking in general. they may stutter, slur their words, have a lisp, or thick accent

♢ lilith aspecting your moon can mean your dark side comes from within your emotions. your emotions can become destructive and ugly. they can also lead you into doing bad things that you’ll regret later on. you act on your emotional urges

♢ jupiter opposite, square, or conjunct mars can mean your anger is explosive, bold, and obvious. they could be the type to scream and throw things if they’re angry enough and it’s hard to calm them down

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♢ capricorn in the 2nd house can mean this individual is extremely money driven. this person could want to live the rich luxury lifestyle and care about their possession and materialistic side of things. they definitely do not play around about their values, and their coworkers could admire them for their work ethic

♢ where libra is in your chart can mean that’s where you need to focus on balance in your life

ex: libra in moon can mean you need to balance your emotions

libra in sun can mean you need to balance your ego or your self expression

♢ mercury in 9th house can make a great modern day philosopher. this person could do speeches or books on these topics as well. they could also go traveling and spreading their word too, or speak on a platform with a large audience

♢virgo/gemini risings are probably often told that they are baby faced because they are! they will always look younger than their actual age. mercury aspecting rising can enhance this feature

♢leo chiron can mean that you need to heal your ego. you need to find your self expression, or remember what parts of yourself are truly you. you struggle with your identity , and you need to find yourself again

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♢sedna(90377) aspecting sun can mean that your rejection to growth and change, can cause you do not find your identity and who you are. it can also mean that there are parts of yourself that you refuse to look into because your scared of what you might see and remember

♢sedna(90377) in aquarius can mean you rebel quite extremely. you could’ve done really destructive things that could’ve lead to you having more wounds that you need to heal. you could’ve had trauma on the internet or from a group of people. when you needed a certain community, they weren’t there, or if you vented/ ranted on social media, your community did not support you

♢fire sign in cupido(763) can mean you have crushes that come and go pretty fast. one week your into this person, the next week your into that person 😭

♢mars square, opposite, or conjunct mercury can mean that when your mad, you say the harshest things you can think of. it’s also their completely impulsive or something you’ve been thinking of for a long time

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writingquestionsanswered · 26 days

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How do I plot a romance story?

Most advice and plot structures I have found seem to be focused on quest-type stories. Do you have any advice or templates that are mpre easily applicable to romance stories? Do I need to include another major plotline?

Basic Romance Structure

Like most stories, there are different theories and methods about structure, and you can find these by Googling "romance story structure." However, let me walk you through a basic romance structure to show you the differences and similarities with the kind of structure you'd use for something like a quest story or an adventure story.

Introduction/Normal World - Like most stories, romance stories usually open with a peek at the protagonist's "normal world" as a means of introducing who they are and what their life is like. And, as with other stories, this also introduces us to the both characters' internal conflicts. In romance, rather than resolving the internal conflict with growth in relation to the story events, the internal conflict will be resolved via change/growth in relation to the romance. [Example: Sandi is a florist with a four-year-old daughter, navigating single parenthood after her husband filed for divorce and ran away to chase a dream.]

The "Meet Cute" - This is essentially the inciting incident... the moment the two characters meet for the first time, or the first time in a long time. All in one moment, we see how undeniably right they are for each other, but due to their individual internal internal conflicts, they're butting heads big time.

[Example: Sandi meets Brent, the new flower supplier who is adorable, sweet to Sandi's daughter, but infuriatingly inept at doing things the way she likes them.]

Forced Proximity - After the "meet cute," something will inevitably force them to spend time together. They get partnered together on the same job, stuck together in the same place, keep coincidentally bumping into each other... whatever. All that matters is that they're forced to get to know each other despite their head butting.

[Example: they get roped into working together on the town's rose festival.]

Resistance/Rejection - Now that they're forced to interact for whatever reason, they're going to spend a lot of time resisting their mutual interest/desire for one another due to whatever obstacles exist, like being from warring factions or one being in the middle of a divorce. But despite this resistance, we can see the sparks flying between them, even if they can't or don't want to admit it.

[Example: Sandi wants to focus on running her business and raising her daughter; Brent just got out of a long relationship and isn't ready for romance.]

Waning Resistance/Giving Love a Chance - Eventually there's a breakthrough... the obstacle gives way... they have a really fun time hanging out at the Christmas market and almost kiss... they move past the misunderstanding between them... or maybe they just slowly get over their issues and start to fall in love. Either way, they decide to give the relationship a go.

[Example: as they get to know each other and bond through working on the rose festival, they can't deny how compatible they are and an unexpected first kiss gives Brent the courage to ask Sandi out on a date, to which she agrees.]

Three Steps Forward, Two Steps Back - This is essentially the first date, then another one, then another one... though it doesn't have to be actual dates. It just needs to be some interactive scenes when they're in relationship mode. Each of these interactions will deepen their feelings for one another while at the same time raising new obstacles or re-raising the old ones.

[Example: the first date goes well except that Sandi is preoccupied with the fact that her daughter is staying with a new sitter. The second date goes okay, except Brent is in a bad mood after his ex came to town to pick up the last of her things. Then they pull an all-nighter to make some final preparations for the upcoming rose festival, which leads to a philosophical conversation about the future, wherein Sandi says she sees herself getting remarried one day and having another kid or two, and Brent says he can't ever see himself getting married or being a father.]

This Isn't Going to Work - This is the midpoint crisis... the "all is lost" moment where one or both put on brakes and say, "I can't do this," citing whatever obstacle/s that now stand in the way of their happiness. Sometimes this follows their biggest act of intimacy yet, whether that's simply their first kiss or going all the way. It could even be the first declaration of love, being introduced to family, or some other important early relationship milestone. But then it all falls apart... maybe because one or more of the obstacles become too much, a fear-based retreat, or some other external force

[Example: the rose festival has arrived... Sandi is there with her daughter and parents, Brent is there with his mom and sister. Everyone meets, Brent continues to be great with Sandi's daughter... it's obvious Brent and Sandi belong together. But then Sandi's wayward not-yet-officially-ex-husband shows up and wants to get back together. Although she's ambivalent, seeing him interact with their daughter and her parents makes her realize giving him another chance is what's best for their daughter. Meanwhile, Brent witnesses this from far away, thinks, "I'm not good enough for a family like that," and he and Sandi go their separate ways.]

On Second Thought... - This is the moment when something happens that makes one or both characters realize they belong together... that the obstacles aren't real or don't matter... [Example: Brent finds a drawing Sandi's daughter made of the three of them together that makes him realize he really is worthy of their love. And Sandi sees that her husband hasn't changed, that he's still focused on chasing dreams that aren't what's best for their daughter... or herself, for that matter. ]

The Moment of Declaration - This is where the one character finds the other, or they find each other, and one or both declare their love and commitment to the other, despite whatever obstacles there may be. This is the run through the airport to catch the other before they fly away to a new life. It's the objection at the wedding before the other can go forward with the less-than-ideal marriage. It's the boombox on the shoulders, the kiss in the rain, the "I love, I love, I love you. I never wish to be parted from you from this day on" declaration in a foggy field at sunrise. [Example: Brent hears from a friend that Sandi's husband left again. He goes to the last night of the rose festival, finds Sandi, and tells her he wants all of it... her, the daughter, her quirky parents, the flower shop, marriage, more kids... he is ready to take on the world with her, and she couldn't be happier.]

The Happily Ever After or "HEA" - This is the story's denouement, where we flash forward a few days, weeks, or more and see the happy ending. This is the jump ahead a few months to see the happy couple living their lives together, the one year leap ahead to the wedding, or a leap ahead to a moment even further down the road when the couple is firmly established in their HEA.

[Example: two years later, Sandi and Brent have been married almost a year, and are at the rose festival with the now six-year-old and their newborn twins, Sandi's parents, and Brent's mom and sister, one big happy family.]

Now... like I said, there are a variety of different structure templates for romance as there are for other genre stories. Don't feel like you have to pick one, and if you do, don't feel like you have to stick to it exactly. Story structure is just a guideline to help make sure you hit the important points to help the story unfold.

Happy writing!

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prettieinpink · 2 months

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How do I stop procrastinating getting my life together. I'm not sure if you understand what I mean....as in how do I stop procrastinating getting out of my comfor zone to do better

GUIDE TO DEALING WITH PROCRASTINATION

Procrastination is delaying a task because of fear or anxiety about doing it. If you frequently procrastinate, it may result from your current mindset. In this post, I will discuss the reasons behind procrastination and how to overcome it by getting started.

AVOIDANCE MINDSET

If you’ve been in their comfort zone for quite a long time, you may be familiar with this term. An avoidance mindset is when we focus more on preventing possible negative consequences, rather than pursuing positive outcomes. This leads to procrastination, avoiding risks or challenges and generally staying in their comfort zones to avoid discomfort and failure.

This mindset usually stems from a fear that is holding you back which is keeping you ‘safe’, which is why we feel discomfort when trying new things. Fear of failure, wasting time, rejection and change are a few common ones.

Doing self-reflection or quizzes are the most efficient way to identify your fears if you haven’t already. Challenge negative beliefs that cause that fear to grow.

The recommended way to shift your mindset from an avoidance one to a growth mindset is by focusing on the benefits that you’ll get from it. E.g.

‘Exercising is too hard’ -> ‘I’ll feel good about myself after’

‘Studying is boring’ -> ‘I’ll be proud of myself after achieving high grades’

‘Meeting new people is scary’ -> ‘I can’t wait to have a new friend’

PRODUCTIVITY WITH PROCRASTINATION

BREAK TASKS INTO SMALLER CHUNKS, and if it seems too difficult, do it over a week/fortnight. When tasks are smaller, they seem simpler and easier, so we don’t feel the need to delay them. For example...

Deep clean my room -> Wipe down all surfaces & put new bedding OR Monday I’ll wipe down surfaces, then Wednesday I’ll put new bedding.

MAKE THE TASK SPECIFIC. If the task is vague, it can seem too daunting to start because we have no idea how to start. For example, instead of saying studying for my science test, say do 3 rounds of science flashcards. We know exactly what to do, so it doesn’t give reason for us to delay it.

HAVE A ROUTINE. Having a consistent daily routine helps us to stay on track because our brains love routines and familiar activities, and it pushes us further because our brains will feel discomfort if that routine is not done.

However, if you are someone who procrastinates, avoid micromanaging your day. It can seem way too overwhelming, but even if you do it, it can lead to being burnt out.

KEEP ORGANISED. Being in an environment which is constantly cluttered, or having no way to remember everything that goes in your life, will make you have a cluttered mind, A cluttered mind will influence your actions to also be out of place.

DEVELOP A GROWTH MINDSET. I do have a post on this which is linked on my masterlist. The whole idea of a growth mindset is to embrace the idea that failure further improves us, instead of setting us back.

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Thinking about one sided Vox/Alastor has also made me think about Huskerdust, and it’s kind of interesting the way they mirror each other.

Both Vox and Angel (both people who have some kind of relationship with Valentino) push the boundaries of the guy they’re interested in. Both guys turn them down. Both times they react poorly to being turned down. The difference is how the stories begin and ended.

Husk was forced after Angel, jumped in to protect him and made the first step. He started a dialogue that Angel reciprocated in, not because Angel thought Husk would finally return his feelings, but because he was happy to finally have someone who understands him. Their relationship is then created where they care about each other. Whether or not romantic feelings are reciprocated isn’t the point, they formed genuine connection.

Then we have Alastor and Vox, where they were friends BEFORE the confession happened. Alastor must have been willing to be vulnerable to some degree to form attachments with the man, and for a while it was reciprocated, until Vox confessed and pushed. This caused Alastor to leave and then we see the fall out later with Alastor and Vox’s battles.

Huskerdust and radiostatic have the same pieces of the story, just told in very different orders:

Huskerdust: Push boundaries- needle each other- fight- one reaches out- they bond- friendship

Radiostatic: One reaches out- they bond- friendship- push boundaries- fight- needle each other

The difference between the two is not just the order but also the fact with Huskerdust they recognize they needed to stop. Husk was in no way obligated to take the first step because Angel kept pushing him, but he did, because he recognized something in him. Then with Angel’s treatment of Husk later Angel recognized he needed to stop. What Angel was doing was a persona and self-defense mechanism, yes, but that explains why he did it, not excusing it. And to change he must be able to recognize that.

With Vox though, he doesn’t recognize it. We don’t know exactly where Vox’s feelings from Alastor stem, they may not be a persona like Angel’s but they’re certainly unhealthy, and he refuses to recognize it. Focusing only on his own comfort and hurt, which Angel similarly did until he was pulled out of the loop.

I want to again reiterate the reciprocity of these feelings isn’t my point of discussion. Radiostatic isn’t “more toxic” than Huskerdust because Alastor is aroace and doesn’t reciprocate Vox’s feelings, while Husk potentially grows to have feelings for Angel. Alastor isn’t in the wrong solely because he denied Vox. That’s not the point. The point is their similar reactions to rejection and how their relationships changed from it.

In Huskerdust we have the creation of trust and forming of a bond.

In radiostatic we have the loss of trust and fracture of one.

(Literally just exponential growth vs decay)

(Also im just comparing the relationships. I am in no way saying Angel and Vox are the same person or Husk and Alastor are. Everyone has their own separate fucked up shit going on and different degrees of fucked uppedness. Husk and Angel don’t seem near as sadistic as Vox and Alastor are, I’m not equating them to “villains” in that sense. The whole point of this is the fact that their relationships have such different end results BECAUSE Husk and Angel are able to recognize their faults to a degree and WANT to change. With the other two we don’t really have that.

Angel could have continued down the whole “incel” route and told Husk to fuck off every time he tried reaching out. Too snubbed by the fact that he rejected him. Husk could have decided to leave Angel out to try and not help him at the bar. Hell, he could have watched the whole thing happen and fucking enjoyed it. But he didn’t.)

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Moon in Signs, Houses and Aspects

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SIGNS

Moon in Aries: signifies an emotionally charged and impulsive nature. Individuals are assertive, driven, and eager for new experiences. Their emotions can be intense, quick to surface, and just as quickly dissipate. They're natural leaders who seek challenges, but may need to balance spontaneity with sensitivity to avoid conflicts.

Moon in Taurus: signifies an emotionally stable and grounded nature. Individuals seek comfort, security, and routine. They value material comforts and possessive attachments, often displaying a calm demeanor. While patient and reliable, they may struggle with change. Nurturing and sensuous, they express affection through practical gestures and a strong connection to nature.

Moon in Gemini: signifies a curious and adaptable emotional nature. Individuals are communicative, witty, and easily engage with others emotionally. They seek mental stimulation and variety, often juggling multiple interests. However, their feelings can be changeable, making depth in relationships a challenge. Playful and versatile, they find emotional expression through words and connections.

Moon in Cancer: signifies a nurturing and sensitive emotional nature. Individuals are deeply connected to family and home, seeking security and comfort. Intuitive and empathetic, they feel others' emotions strongly. They may battle mood swings and a fear of rejection. Expressing love through care and support, they value emotional bonds and nostalgia.

Moon in Leo: signifies a dramatic and expressive emotional nature. Individuals seek recognition and validation, often displaying confidence and flair. They possess a generous and warm heart, but can be sensitive to criticism. Dramatic and creative, they enjoy being at the center of attention and express affection through grand gestures and enthusiasm.

Moon in Virgo: signifies a practical and detail-oriented emotional nature. Individuals are analytical, seeking order and perfection. They may struggle with self-criticism and worry. Attuned to helping others, they express care through practical assistance. Reserved in showing emotions, they value reliability and intellect, often finding solace in routine and organization.

Moon in Libra: signifies a harmonious and diplomatic emotional nature. Individuals value relationships, seeking balance and fairness. They're skilled communicators, striving for peace and avoiding conflict. Indecision can be a challenge, as they weigh options carefully. Expressing love through companionship, they value aesthetics and social connections, aiming for mutual understanding.

Moon in Scorpio: signifies an intense and secretive emotional nature. Individuals possess deep passions and a probing curiosity. Emotionally resilient, they may struggle with trust issues. They seek profound connections and transformative experiences. While intense and complex, they show love through loyalty and profound emotional bonds, embracing both light and shadow.

Moon in Sagittarius: signifies an adventurous and optimistic emotional nature. Individuals value freedom and seek personal growth. They're enthusiastic and open-minded, often exploring diverse perspectives. Restlessness can arise, and they may struggle with emotional depth. Expressing affection through shared experiences, they thrive on exploration, humor, and a quest for meaning.

Moon in Capricorn: signifies a disciplined and reserved emotional nature. Individuals prioritize practicality and achievement, seeking stability and authority. They may battle with vulnerability and detachment. Expressing love through acts of service and responsibility, they value long-term commitments. While ambitious and cautious, they find emotional fulfillment through accomplishment and structure.

Moon in Aquarius:signifies an independent and innovative emotional nature. Individuals value uniqueness and intellectual connections. They can seem detached, valuing personal space. Embracing change, they may find it challenging to express deep emotions. Affection is shown through friendship and shared ideals, as they seek progress, inclusivity, and unconventional bonds.

Moon in Pisces: signifies a compassionate and dreamy emotional nature. Individuals are highly empathetic, often absorbing others' feelings. Imagination is strong, but boundaries can blur, leading to emotional sensitivity. They express love through understanding and support, valuing spiritual connections. Intuitive and artistic, they find solace in creativity and emotional depth.

HOUSES

Moon in the 1st house: signifies a strongly visible and emotionally expressive presence. Individuals wear their emotions on their sleeve, often projecting sensitivity and intuition. Their identity is closely tied to feelings, leading to heightened empathy and responsiveness. Others perceive them as approachable and nurturing, inviting emotional connections and relationships.

Moon in the 2nd house: signifies an emotionally attached and security-oriented approach to finances and possessions. Individuals find emotional comfort in material stability. They may have fluctuating income and a tendency to overspend for emotional fulfillment. Expressing love through practical gestures, they seek comfort and emotional value in their belongings.

Moon in the 3rd house: signifies a communicative and emotionally responsive mindset. Individuals express feelings through words and connections. Curiosity is strong, but emotions can fluctuate rapidly. Sibling relationships are significant, and they thrive in nurturing conversations. Learning and sharing ideas play a pivotal role in their emotional fulfillment.

Moon in the 4th house: signifies a deep emotional connection to home, family, and roots. Individuals seek comfort and security within their personal space. Strong family ties and childhood memories shape their emotions. Nurturing and protective, they create a safe haven for themselves and loved ones, prioritizing emotional stability.

Moon in the 5th house: signifies a creative and emotionally expressive nature. Individuals find emotional fulfillment through self-expression, often gravitating toward the arts, romance, and leisure activities. They radiate warmth and playfulness, but emotions can be dramatic. They value joy and authenticity, expressing love through creativity, passion, and fun interactions.

Moon in the 6th house: signifies an emotionally attuned and nurturing approach to work and health. Individuals find emotional satisfaction in service and routines. They may experience mood fluctuations related to daily tasks. Their caring nature shines in helping others, and they seek emotional balance through practical habits and well-being practices.

Moon in the 7th house: signifies emotionally significant partnerships. Individuals seek emotional fulfillment through close relationships and may experience emotional ups and downs in partnerships. They value companionship, empathy, and harmony, often attracting nurturing partners. Their emotional equilibrium relies on finding balance and mutual understanding within their connections.

Moon in the 8th house: signifies deep emotional intensity and transformation. Individuals are drawn to the mysterious and psychological aspects of life. They may face emotional challenges related to shared resources and intimacy. Seeking profound connections, they express love through loyalty and vulnerability, navigating their emotions through inner exploration.

Moon in the 9th house: signifies an emotionally expansive and philosophical nature. Individuals seek emotional growth through exploration, travel, and learning. They value diverse perspectives and may have a strong connection to spiritual or cultural beliefs. Expressing love through shared ideals, they find emotional fulfillment in broadening their horizons and seeking truth.

Moon in the 10th house: signifies an emotionally driven and ambitious nature. Individuals are concerned with public image and reputation. They may experience emotional fluctuations in their career path and authority roles. Expressing love through achievement, they find emotional fulfillment by integrating personal and professional life, aiming for recognition and influence.

Moon in the 11th house: signifies a socially oriented and emotionally connected nature. Individuals prioritize friendships and group activities. They seek emotional support through a wide network of friends and social causes. Their nurturing qualities shine within communities, expressing love through camaraderie and shared goals, aiming for mutual growth and understanding.

Moon in the 12th house: signifies a deeply introspective and sensitive nature. Individuals may experience hidden emotions and subconscious struggles. They find emotional solace in solitude and spiritual practices. Expressing love through empathy and compassion, they seek to heal and uplift, often navigating their emotions through self-discovery and inner reflection.

ASPECTS

Sun:

Conjunction: gives a harmonious blend of emotions and identity. Individuals have a strong sense of self and emotional clarity, aligning their inner feelings with their outward persona.

Trine: signifies a harmonious alignment between emotions and identity. Individuals are self-aware, emotionally balanced, and radiate warmth, enhancing personal growth and nurturing relationships with ease.

Sextile: represents a harmonious connection between emotions and identity. Individuals display empathy and creativity, fostering personal growth and positive relationships through their emotional intelligence and expression.

Square: indicates inner tension between emotions and identity. Individuals may struggle to balance personal needs with external demands, leading to conflicts and challenges in self-expression.

Opposition: signifies a tug-of-war between emotions and identity. Individuals may experience inner conflicts and external challenges, requiring balance and compromise to harmonize their feelings and self-image.

Mercury:

Conjunction: signifies heightened emotional intelligence and communication skills. Individuals express feelings eloquently, making them adept at understanding and articulating their emotions and thoughts.

Trine: indicates easy emotional expression and communication. Individuals effortlessly convey feelings, thoughts, and intuition, fostering harmonious interactions and understanding in relationships and personal growth.

Sextile: signifies emotional receptivity and effective communication. Individuals blend feelings and thoughts adeptly, fostering positive interactions and enhancing their emotional intelligence for personal growth.

Square: indicates potential conflicts between emotions and thoughts. Individuals may struggle to express feelings clearly or misinterpret their own emotions, leading to communication challenges and inner turmoil.

Opposition: signifies tension between emotions and communication. Individuals may experience challenges in expressing feelings or have difficulty reconciling their inner thoughts with outward expression, leading to conflicts.

Venus:

Conjunction: indicates a harmonious blend of emotions and love. Individuals are affectionate, empathetic, and value relationships, finding emotional fulfillment in close, nurturing connections and shared pleasures.

Trine: signifies emotional harmony and affectionate nature. Individuals express feelings lovingly and find joy in relationships and artistic pursuits, enhancing their emotional well-being and attracting positivity.

Sextile: indicates ease in expressing emotions and cultivating loving relationships. Individuals possess emotional intelligence, fostering harmonious connections and enjoying the pleasures of life, promoting personal growth.

Square: implies challenges balancing emotions and love. Individuals may experience conflicts in relationships or struggle with self-indulgence, seeking harmony between their feelings and desires.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and love. Individuals may grapple with balancing personal feelings and relationships, requiring compromise and self-awareness to harmonize their emotional and romantic lives.

Mars:

Conjunction: indicates heightened emotional intensity and assertiveness. Individuals are passionate and assertive in expressing feelings, sometimes leading to impulsiveness and emotional conflicts.

Trine: signifies emotional harmony with assertiveness. Individuals express feelings passionately and assertively, channeling their energy constructively, fostering confidence, and enhancing personal growth.

Sextile: indicates a balanced blend of emotions and assertiveness. Individuals express feelings energetically and constructively, promoting positive interactions and personal growth.

Square: suggests inner tension between emotions and assertiveness. Individuals may experience emotional outbursts or conflicts when expressing feelings, requiring self-awareness to manage impulsiveness.

Opposition: indicates potential conflicts between emotions and assertiveness. Individuals may grapple with balancing their feelings and desires, requiring self-awareness to harmonize their emotional and active energies.

Jupiter:

Conjunction: signifies emotional expansion and optimism. Individuals have abundant feelings, often feeling lucky and generous. They find emotional fulfillment in growth, abundance, and broadening horizons.

Trine: signifies emotional harmony and optimism. Individuals are naturally cheerful, generous, and emotionally expansive, finding fulfillment in growth, abundance, and harmonious relationships, promoting personal development.

Sextile: signifies emotional balance and optimism. Individuals possess an innate sense of joy, generosity, and emotional growth, fostering harmonious relationships and personal development.

Square: implies inner tension between emotions and optimism. Individuals may grapple with excessive emotions or overindulgence, requiring moderation and self-awareness to balance their feelings and desires.

Opposition: indicates potential conflicts between emotions and optimism. Individuals may struggle with balancing their feelings and expansive tendencies, necessitating self-awareness to harmonize their emotional and philosophical outlooks.

Saturn:

Conjunction: indicates a disciplined and reserved emotional nature. Individuals experience emotional stability through structure and responsibility, but may struggle with expressing vulnerability or experiencing emotional detachment.

Trine: signifies emotional balance and discipline. Individuals express feelings methodically and responsibly, fostering long-lasting and stable relationships and enhancing personal growth and emotional maturity.

Sextile: implies emotional stability and responsibility. Individuals manage feelings adeptly, fostering disciplined, long-lasting relationships and promoting personal growth and emotional maturity through practicality and empathy.

Square: indicates inner tension between emotions and responsibility. Individuals may experience emotional struggles or face obstacles in expressing feelings, necessitating self-awareness and perseverance to overcome challenges.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and responsibility. Individuals may grapple with balancing their feelings and obligations, requiring self-awareness and effort to harmonize their emotional and practical lives

Uranus:

Conjunction: signifies emotional unpredictability and uniqueness. Individuals experience sudden changes in emotions and may be unconventional in expressing their feelings, fostering an eccentric emotional nature.

Trine: indicates emotional harmony with a flair for innovation. Individuals express feelings uniquely, fostering open-mindedness and adaptability, promoting personal growth through unconventional emotional experiences.

Sextile: suggests emotional balance with a touch of originality. Individuals express feelings in unique ways, fostering adaptability and promoting personal growth through open-mindedness and unconventional emotional experiences.

Square: implies inner tension between emotions and unpredictability. Individuals may experience sudden emotional outbursts or conflicts, requiring self-awareness to manage their unconventional feelings.

Opposition: indicates potential conflicts between emotions and unpredictability. Individuals may grapple with balancing their feelings and the urge for radical change, necessitating self-awareness to harmonize their emotional and rebellious tendencies.

Neptune:

Conjunction: signifies a highly sensitive and dreamy emotional nature. Individuals are empathetic, artistic, and may struggle with boundaries, seeking emotional fulfillment through creative expression and spiritual connection.

Trine: signifies emotional harmony with strong intuition. Individuals possess deep empathy, creativity, and spiritual awareness, fostering meaningful emotional connections and personal growth through art and spirituality.

Sextile: implies emotional balance with heightened intuition. Individuals are empathetic, creative, and spiritually inclined, fostering meaningful emotional connections and personal growth through artistic expression and spirituality.

Square: suggests inner tension between emotions and illusions. Individuals may grapple with emotional confusion or escapism, requiring self-awareness to manage their sensitive and potentially deceptive feelings.

Opposition: indicates potential conflicts between emotions and illusions. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings and idealistic tendencies, necessitating self-awareness to harmonize their emotional and dreamy inclinations.

Pluto:

Conjunction: signifies intense and transformative emotions. Individuals experience emotional depth and power, often leading to intense, even obsessive, emotional connections and a profound desire for emotional renewal.

Trine: signifies emotional harmony and transformative power. Individuals navigate their feelings and relationships with depth and intensity, fostering profound emotional connections and personal growth through self-awareness.

Sextile: implies emotional balance and transformative potential. Individuals possess depth and intensity in their feelings, fostering meaningful emotional connections and personal growth through self-awareness and resilience.

Square: suggests inner tension between emotions and power struggles. Individuals may grapple with intense emotions or control issues, requiring self-awareness to manage their transformative feelings.

Opposition: indicates potential conflicts between emotions and power dynamics. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings and control issues, necessitating self-awareness to harmonize their transformative inclinations.

ASC (Rising):

Conjunction: signifies a strong emotional presence. Individuals project their feelings and instincts prominently, and their emotional nature strongly influences their outward appearance and first impressions.

Trine: signifies an emotionally balanced and harmonious demeanor. Individuals project their feelings and instincts naturally, fostering positive first impressions and emotional authenticity in their interactions

Sextile: indicates an emotionally receptive and adaptable presence. Individuals project their feelings and instincts with ease, promoting positive first impressions and emotional rapport in their interactions.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and outward projection. Individuals may struggle to align their feelings with their appearance, requiring self-awareness to balance their inner and outer selves.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and outward projection. Individuals may grapple with aligning their feelings with their appearance, necessitating self-awareness to harmonize their inner and outer selves.

IC (Imum Coeli):

Conjunction: signifies a deep emotional connection to one's roots and family. Individuals often experience intense emotions tied to their home and heritage.

Trine: indicates emotional harmony with one's roots and family. Individuals experience a balanced emotional connection to their home and heritage, fostering stability and emotional fulfillment.

Sextile: implies an emotionally adaptable connection to one's roots and family. Individuals experience ease in expressing feelings tied to their home and heritage, promoting emotional stability.

Square: suggests inner tension between emotions and one's roots and family. Individuals may grapple with unresolved emotional issues related to their home and heritage.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and one's roots and family. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings with their home and heritage, necessitating self-awareness.

DC (Descendant):

Conjunction: signifies a strong emotional connection to relationships. Individuals may project their emotions onto their partners, emphasizing the importance of emotional harmony and balance in partnerships.

Trine: indicates emotional harmony in relationships. Individuals easily connect with others on an emotional level, fostering balanced and supportive partnerships, and valuing emotional rapport.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability in relationships. Individuals form connections easily, projecting warmth and empathy, fostering harmonious and flexible partnerships with a strong emotional connection.

Square: suggests tension in relationships. Individuals may struggle to balance their emotions and partnerships, experiencing conflicts and needing self-awareness to harmonize their emotional and relational lives.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts in relationships. Individuals may grapple with balancing their emotions with the needs and dynamics of partnerships, requiring self-awareness for harmonious interactions.

MC (Midheaven):

Conjunction: indicates a strong emotional connection to one's career and public image. Individuals may express their feelings prominently in their professional life, often seeking emotional fulfillment through their work.

Trine: suggests emotional harmony with one's career and public image. Individuals navigate their professional life with emotional intelligence, fostering success and emotional fulfillment through their work.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability in one's career and public image. Individuals express their feelings effectively, fostering success and emotional fulfillment through their work and public roles.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and one's career and public image. Individuals may grapple with balancing personal feelings and professional demands, necessitating self-awareness.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and one's career and public image. Individuals may struggle to balance personal feelings with professional responsibilities, necessitating self-awareness for harmony.

North Node:

Conjunction: signifies a strong emotional connection to one's life purpose and growth. Individuals experience fated or karmic events related to their emotions and destiny.

Trine: indicates emotional harmony with one's life purpose and growth. Individuals navigate their destiny with emotional intelligence, fostering personal development and fulfillment.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability in alignment with one's life purpose and growth. Individuals connect their feelings with their destiny, promoting personal development and fulfillment.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and one's life purpose and growth. Individuals may grapple with balancing personal feelings and karmic or destiny-related challenges, requiring self-awareness.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and one's life purpose and growth. Individuals may struggle to balance

South Node:

Conjunction: indicates a strong emotional connection to past patterns. Individuals may experience recurring emotional themes from past lives, impacting their present feelings and behaviors.

Trine: suggests emotional ease with past patterns. Individuals navigate their emotions with a sense of familiarity, promoting personal growth through lessons from the past.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability with past patterns. Individuals connect their feelings with past experiences, promoting personal growth through insights from the past.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and past patterns. Individuals may grapple with balancing personal feelings and unresolved issues from their past, requiring self-awareness.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and past patterns. Individuals may struggle to balance personal feelings with unresolved issues from their past, necessitating self-awareness

Chiron:

Conjunction: signifies emotional wounds and healing. Individuals may experience deep emotional pain related to their past, but also have the potential for profound emotional growth and healing.

Trine: indicates emotional healing and balance. Individuals possess emotional intelligence, fostering healing connections and personal growth through empathy and self-awareness, promoting emotional well-being.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability and healing. Individuals connect their feelings with their capacity for healing, fostering personal growth and emotional well-being through empathy and self-awareness.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and healing. Individuals may grapple with emotional wounds or pain, requiring self-awareness and effort to navigate their emotional healing journey.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and healing. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings with their journey of emotional healing, necessitating self-awareness for reconciliation.

Lilith:

Conjunction: indicates a potent blend of emotions and primal instincts. Individuals may confront taboo or suppressed feelings, fostering intense emotional experiences and self-discovery.

Trine: suggests harmonious integration of emotions and primal instincts. Individuals navigate their feelings and instincts adeptly, promoting a balanced and authentic expression of their emotional nature.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability with primal instincts. Individuals connect their feelings with their deeper desires, promoting a balanced and authentic expression of their emotional nature.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and primal instincts. Individuals may grapple with taboo or suppressed feelings, necessitating self-awareness and effort to balance their emotional nature.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and primal instincts. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings with suppressed desires, necessitating self-awareness for reconciliation.

Ceres:

Conjunction: signifies nurturing and emotional bonding. Individuals have a deep connection to motherhood and caregiving, often finding fulfillment through nurturing others and forming strong emotional bonds.

Trine: implies emotional harmony with nurturing and caregiving. Individuals foster warm and empathetic connections, finding fulfillment through nurturing others and forming strong emotional bonds.

Sextile: indicates emotional adaptability in nurturing and caregiving. Individuals connect their feelings with a warm, empathetic approach, fostering positive relationships and emotional fulfillment through nurturing others.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and nurturing. Individuals may grapple with conflicts related to caregiving roles, requiring self-awareness and effort to balance their emotional and nurturing aspects.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and nurturing. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings with caregiving responsibilities, necessitating self-awareness and effort to harmonize these aspects.

Pallas:

Conjunction: signifies emotional intelligence and strategic thinking. Individuals express feelings through thoughtful planning and problem-solving, often finding fulfillment through emotionally intelligent approaches to challenges.

Trine: indicates emotional harmony with strategic thinking. Individuals navigate feelings adeptly, fostering balanced and intelligent approaches to challenges, and finding fulfillment through emotionally intelligent solutions.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability with strategic thinking. Individuals connect their feelings with thoughtful planning, fostering balanced and intelligent approaches to challenges, promoting emotional well-being.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and strategic thinking. Individuals may grapple with conflicts related to feelings and logical approaches to challenges, requiring self-awareness for balance.

Opposition: indicates potential conflicts between emotions and strategic thinking. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings with rational approaches to challenges, necessitating self-awareness for reconciliation.

Juno:

Conjunction: suggests an emotional connection to partnership and commitment. Individuals may place significant emotional emphasis on their relationships, often seeking emotional fulfillment through marital or committed bonds.

Trine: indicates emotional harmony and commitment in relationships. Individuals navigate their feelings adeptly, fostering stable and fulfilling partnerships, valuing emotional rapport and loyalty.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability in committed relationships. Individuals connect their feelings with a sense of partnership, fostering harmonious and fulfilling bonds, valuing emotional rapport and loyalty.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and commitment in relationships. Individuals may grapple with conflicts related to feelings and their ability to sustain long-term partnerships, requiring self-awareness.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and commitment in relationships. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings with their capacity for sustained, harmonious partnerships, necessitating self-awareness.

Vesta:

Conjunction: indicates a strong emotional connection to devotion and focus. Individuals may place significant emphasis on their emotional commitments, often seeking fulfillment through dedicated and disciplined pursuits.

Trine: signifies emotional harmony and dedication. Individuals navigate their feelings with focus and discipline, fostering committed and fulfilling pursuits, valuing emotional commitment and attention to detail.

Sextile: implies emotional adaptability in dedicated pursuits. Individuals connect their feelings with a sense of focus and discipline, fostering harmonious and fulfilling commitments, valuing emotional dedication.

Square: suggests tension between emotions and dedication. Individuals may grapple with conflicts related to feelings and their ability to maintain focused and disciplined pursuits, requiring self-awareness.

Opposition: signifies potential conflicts between emotions and dedication. Individuals may struggle to balance their feelings with their commitment to focused and disciplined pursuits, necessitating self-awareness.

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