#r/fakedisordercringe

[chaos-in-one]

R/FAKEDISORDERCRINGE AND R/SYSTEMSCRINGE ARE BOTH DOWN LET’S CELEBRATE LADS

#r/fakedisordercringe #r/systemscringe #anti fakeclaiming #syscourse #actually plural #actually dissociative #actually osdd #actually traumagenic #osdd #did osdd #did memes #pluralgang

[the-firefly-jar-system]

dear fakeclaimers:

people faking DID/OSDD is not what invalidates our experience as a system.

what actually invalidates our experience as a system is hearing people fakeclaiming so many systems (real and fake) and getting indirectly fakeclaimed when these self proclaimed “saviors” call one of your symptoms a sign of faking (spoiler alert: it’s not actually a sign of faking).

fakeclaiming helps nobody. it makes people with real disorders insecure and anxious, and it gives fakers attention that will only add fuel to their flame

[pt: dear fakeclaimers: people faking DID/OSDD is not what invalidates our experience as a system. what actually invalidates our experience as a system is hearing people fakeclaiming so many systems (real and fake) and getting indirectly fakeclaimed when these self proclaimed “saviors” call one of your symptoms a sign of faking (spoiler alert: it’s not actually a sign of faking). fakeclaiming helps nobody. it makes people with real disorders insecure and anxious, and it gives fakers attention that will only add fuel to their flame /end pt]

#fake disorder cringe #anti fakeclaiming #tw fakedisordercringe #r/fakedisordercringe #tw fakeclaiming #did #did system #actually did #osdd #osdd system #actually osdd #actually traumagenic #osddid #firefly flickers

[sophieinwonderland]

5 minutes??? That's impossible!!!

First thing... I really don't know where the myth that alters always take a long time to switch comes from.

But as far as I can tell, it is a myth.

Second, even if it wasn't, many systems experience co-fronting, where multiple alters can front at once and the body can be controlled by any alter in front.

More than that, there's a practice you can do, tulpamancers call it proxying, where you write things for other headmates.

At its simplest level, people hear voices in their head say things, and then they write down what those voices say. If you understand how journalism this works, this should be easy to understand. I have no idea why this very simple concept seems so hard for r/systemscringe and r/fakedisordercringe to process, but it's one they seem to struggle with a lot.

Something coming from a given headmate doesn't actually mean that particular headmate was fronting at that exact moment!

#syscourse #plural #plurality #multiplicity #plural system #pro endo #pro endogenic #tulpamancy #system stuff #sysblr #systemscringe #fake disorder cringe #fakedisordercringe #r/systemscringe #r/fakedisordercringe #system #actually plural #actually a system

[radsaurus-q]

If Helen Keller was alive today, do you think she would end up on r/fakedisordercringe? I sometimes see physical disability posts on there so I am wondering...

#rq safe #radqueer #pro rq 🌈🍓 #rqc🌈🍓 #rq 🌈🍓 #radqueers please interact #pro radq #rq community #pro radqueer #helen keller #r/fakedisordercringe #fake disorder cringe

[hazedxhealing]

I don't know, I think r/fakedisordercringe is okay, actually.

I spent the worst part of 6 years thinking I had DID, and other things I didn't because my ex-husband fucking Munchausen By Proxy'ed me. FDC not only made me realize that what I was experiencing was likely fake, but also reminded me that even with a fuck ton of research, and self tests, you can still be wrong. I'd spent 4 out of those 6 years looking shit up, self assessing, taking those assessments to my psyche. I was wrong.

I am now seeking diagnosis for BPD, as my best friend, who is a medically certified psych, and literally diagnoses people for a living, has suggested I do, as I meet the criteria for BPD way before DID.

FDC also made me realize how many people fake being autistic. Which I have been fighting for assessment and diagnoses for almost my entire life, despite being quite obviously autistic in my day-to-day life.

Those who fake, those who appropriate - do you not realize you are actively harming people? Do you not realize you are actively making it harder to get proper diagnoses? To get proper resources? To be taken seriously by medical professionals?

#anti endo #anti endogenic #autism spectrum #bpd #fdc #tw fdc #fake disorder cringe #r/fakedisordercringe

[theswiftheartsystem]

The fact that r/fdc's current pinned post is about how they want you to stop saying "as someone with x diagnosis"???? At this point they aren't even trying to pretend they care about "real mentally ill people".... I mean it was always obvious, but why would they be upset about someone who they deem as a "REAL MENTALLY ILL PERSON" when they "set the facts straight"?

Spoiler: It's because they don't care. They just want to harass people. They just want reddit up votes. Ya know attention? What they accuse us of being obsessed with?

-Edward He/They

#r/fakedisordercringe #r/fdc #tw.fakeclaiming #Tw.ableism #anti fakeclaiming #Tw. #dissociative identity disorder #osdd #mental illness #personality disorder #autism #adhd #endo safe #pro endo #endo friendly #endogenic #multiplicity

[satellites-halo]

the fact that r/fakedisordercringe hasn't been removed yet is weird to me since a lot of the content directly violates reddits TOS?? like idk I'm all for freedom of speech but reddit itself claims to be 'against harassment and bullying' yet subreddits dedicated to calling out fakers in which you're allowed to post their faces in callouts are somehow not considered bullying or harassment?? ? ?

I'm actually rlly confused about this does anyone know how it's allowed

#neuropunk #madpunk #cripplepunk #fake disorder cringe #reddit #r/fakedisordercringe #by the way it isnt my place to say if any of these people are faking or not #i think even if they are #the subreddit should still be forced to follow TOS #yk? #doesnt matter if its for or against my personal views #they should have to follow the rules like everyone else

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

fdc users: “look at this person claiming to have a disorder!! lol what a narcissist!! they’re so self-centered and narcissistic!! they fake disorders to get all the attention!!! narcissist behavior!!!”

fdc users when someone is actually a narcissist: “um npd is actually sooo rare so you don’t have it.”

#ableism #fdc #r/fakedisordercringe #npd #narcissistic #narcissist #fakeclaiming

[gipzisays209]

No way! I feel flattered!!!

Remember what I said before? About the sysmed server not knowing I exist? Well! It appears as though that would now be an incorrect statement! (More under the cut)

Let's go at this like it's English class, shall we? Dissect this post for it's contents?

"If you get this server taken down, we'll just make another server. ... If it comes to that, we'll just share the links in private GCs ..."

Well. Ain't that a kick in the head! If one server gets taken down, it's entirely possible to take another one down for the exact same reason! And saying you'll only hand out links privately... hate to break it to ya, but I, the host, am a Theatre kid. Acting is a hobby, and one I'm damn good at. You hand out links privately, only to people you deem trustworthy? Honey, that is my forte. ;)

"You're getting mad and defensive over us calling you out ... Instead of wasting your time reporting our server, maybe focus your energy on reporting servers that are actually harming people?"

Whoa, slow down there, hoss. Take a breather. You ever thought about why we're here? In your Discord? Taking screenshots and leaking them?

It's because, surprise surprise, fakeclaiming is harmful. It doesn't matter what it is, if you're getting fakeclaimed over a unique and individual experience/identity, that can (and sometimes will, sadly) cause a spiral that can lead to some nasty places. Depression. Isolation.

Even places like self-harm and suicide.

We are here because your server is harmful. We are here because you present an active threat to the community. But of course your HIGHNESS can't bear to think they're the problem!

"Addressing the ban claims, at one point we did ban a lot of faker systems from our server while rooting out a mole. Everyone from that event has since been unbanned. If you are still banned, its for a reason. Claims of us 'banning just because we can' are false. I could take a screenshot of our ban list and give a reason for every single one."

*Sips cup*

Yeah, I think we can move on from this one.

And now, the quote I've been so desperately wanting to address...

"Gip, because I know you’re in here, kindly stop sucking Ghost’s dick and get your own opinions, it would do everyone good. That goes for all of his little zombie followers. If your lives revolve around people on an online messaging app screwing around, re-evaluate your life choices."

Wow, where do I start with this one?

Blatant misgendering, bordeline going against their own rules when it comes to naming people on the server- I have 20 followers! And even then, you're still going to drop a version of my username? Just like that? Mmmmm...

I have my own opinions, thanks. I don't need a circlejerk discord to make me feel better about my own shitty fucking existence, cuz I have the balls to outright admit I'm a petty asshole with no fucking life. And my opinion is that people like Sophie, people like Cambrian and Lunastas and Guardian- all of them are fucking right. They have all proven they do their goddamn research, they actually give back to the communities they inhabit, and most of all, they aren't leeching off of people just by fucking existing, as hard as it is for you guys to believe.

(Also, if you're gonna insult someone, get it fucking right lmfao. Ghost is the goddamn host, Sophie is not Ghost. Two different people. Also, I'm fucking Asexual, so um, projecting much?)

Wow. As of writing this, they literally just got worse!

Well. You see, while I personally choose to censor Discord usernames to close loopholes like this, it's actually not the same as if you sent a Tumblr handle. What you're seeing in those screenshots are not identifiers, they are server nicknames. Which are specific to THAT SERVER ONLY. Unlike places like Tumblr and Twitter, where seeing your name automatically means someone can find you, on Discord it's actually not possible (that I know of) to doxx someone through a server nickname alone. So no, actually, Sophie didn't leave your username out there, only a server nickname, and the two are not the same. So yes, actually. Because Discord is it's own site with it's own way of handling usernames, it is perfectly acceptable what Sophie did (although not perfectly ideal), because nobody is going to be able to use those names alone to doxx and/or harass.

And finally, the final update as of writing this post... the almighty @ everyone ping...

Damn. I don't even have to AP English IV this shit, they already did it for me!

To sum it all up, phew... I guess I'm a target now! Which I'm honestly pretty damn fine with! But just know, I don't fuckin hold back. I will be a bitch for the sake of being a bitch, because I don't care how petty I am. I don't care about what people think of me, or whatever the fuck you could ever do to me.

I care about defending people from the likes of you.

So go on. Give me your best shot, then. You have the balls to call me out in front of your entire Discord server?

Challenge accepted, motherfucker.

Challenge accepted, motherfucker.

Challenge accepted.

Let's get 'em, bitches!

#syscourse #sophiecourse #pro endo #pro endogenic #system stuff #endo safe #r/systemcringe #r/systemscringe #r/fakedisordercringe #r/didcringe #I dont care how you interpret this. #Active declaration of war? Sure. #Just an asshole being pissy on the internet? Go for it. #I have my reasons and my motives #cw suicide #cw self harm

[crimsoncosmic]

I feel like we as a society need to come to the realization that the “r/fakedisordercringe” phenomenon was just normalized casual ableism against neurodivergent teens that for some reason, (some) neurodivergent individuals not only let slide, but also condoned and participated in. I can’t help but wonder how different the ND community would be if it wasn’t for this.

#autism #self diagnosed autism #adhd #ocd #npd #bpd #schizophrenia #did system #anxitey #depression #self diagnosis #r/fakedisordercringe #cringe culture is ableist #ableism #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse stuff

[chaos-in-one]

So apparently r/fakedisordercringe has decided npd is the "next faker trend" and are going after people with npd

Fellow people w/npd be careful, because knowing that subreddit (and a lot of people without npd in general), this is probably going to just be another excuse to demonize people with npd and treat us like abusive monsters who are incapable of healing

#ableism #npd #actually npd #npd stigma #actually narcissistic #r/fakedisordercringe #fakeclaiming #psa #cluster b #npd safe

[tic-loud-tic-proud]

r/fakedisordercringe users will seriously post on there 3x a day saying "Look at this person trying to get attention online!" and not understand the irony

#most of the videos they post have less than 100 views #like buddy. pal. u/legendaryskywalker since i know you're stalking my blog. #YOU are the attention seeker in this situation. #r/fakedisordercringe #r/fdc #anti fakeclaiming #tw fakeclaiming

[sophieinwonderland]

Tales From The Dystopia: Today r/systemscringe Casually Suggests Stripping Licenses From Doctors Who Provide Safe Spaces Endogenic Systems

This is just... complete and utter nonsense.

First, we have research into tulpamancy affirming it as a real psychological phenomenon. We have the World Health Organization stating in the ICD-11 that someone may have multiple distinct personality states without a disorder. We have Transgender Mental Health, published by the American Psychiatric Association, stating you can be plural without trauma or a mental disorder.

Current research affirms the existence of endogenic and non-disordered plurality at every turn.

And if someone comes to a doctor experiencing healthy plurality, the last thing any doctor should do is try to gaslight them into thinking their experiences are a delusion or something that needs fixed.

I cannot overstate the pure evil of this comment: If you have a therapist who supports your plurality and provides a safe space for it, r/systemscringe wants them stripped of licenses for it and replaced by people who will treat your headmates as delusions.

We're fortunate that these people don't hold any real power or influence, because this sort of dystopian agenda is absolutely terrifying.

But even though they may not have the power to be able to enact such a thing, it's truly monstrous that they would even suggest it.

#psychiatry #psychology #syscourse #pro endo #pro endogenic #sysblr #multiplicity #plural #plurality #systems #mental health #therapy #r/systemscringe #systemscringe #fakedisordercringe #fake disorder cringe #r/fakedisordercringe #actually plural #actually a system #hate groups #hate group

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

People on Reddit are stupid. 😡

Link to Article

#Reddit #r/fakedisordercringe #people need to research more #autism and gait #feel free to reblog/share

[eggdoesthings]

Fuck r/FDC.

Self diagnosis is VALID. Getting a diagnosis can be hard or impossible for some people. Google is free and I believe it’s possible to accurately self diagnose with enough research. Not having a diagnosis won’t make the symptoms go away, they will still be there.

Fuck r/FDC. I am self diagnosed and proud!

#egg has thoughts #<- new tag for when I have OPINIONS #r/fakedisordercringe #fake disorder cringe #fuck fakeclaimers #r/fdc #abelism

[theswiftheartsystem]

We got posted on r/fdc let’s discuss.

So we knew this was going to happen, and rather then being sad about this, we’d like to point out flaws in the arguments. Obviously warning for fake claiming.

also warnings for: talks about trauma and abuse, splitting, mental health episodes, psyche wards, ableism, making a joke out of exorcisms.

First off, “disorder salad” on that introduction post we only talked about things we were medically recognized as having or diagnosed with. Also the “it’s always the anime ones” it’s a picrew? A lot of Picrews are in a anime style, and if you go to Louise’s actual alter intro she uses not just picrews.

This one is just making fun of us. I don’t think we have ever fully posted why we are so connected to the character, but I’ll explain now. So when we were little we went through a lot of abuse and trauma. We had a lot of DVDs and a couple were CareBears. And we felt safe when we watched silly little characters like that. It brought us relief. We aren’t sure why we are so attached to Swift Heart specifically, but we have a little who is obsessed with the color blue and rabbits that formed around that time. We even own the original 80s plush which we found thrifting and means so much to us, plus a few other things of the character. We named our system this, not only because it represents our trauma, but also it represents safety, a light in the dark.

When did we self diagnose???? Also in that post we state that we intend to talk about the bad sides. We don’t think this is fun. Yes we portray ourselves a certain way, but we actually have constant flashbacks, panic attacks, and BPD episodes. It’s sometimes a daily thing. For around 2-3 weeks we would split at least once a day. We don’t think thats fun. But also sometimes you can enjoy life and enjoy being plural. When you live like this you learn to enjoy what you have and what you are living with. If we didn’t we wouldn’t survive. How parasocial do you have to be to think A TUMBLR ACCOUNT shows how we are 24/7.

Going back to the Self Diagnosis thing, We were being treated for DID before anyone put a label on it. We were talked to about “how when someone has many parts of them, sometimes fusion can help them feel more whole.” And asked when dissociating and acting strange who we were regularly asked who we where. When we we’re 15, we had gone to the Psyche ward for the 2nd time, and they couldn’t diagnose us, because of our age at the time, but they strongly suggested we get tested for it when we were old enough. And to get them to recommend anything, they have to talk to all the therapists, doctors, and psychologists, especially the ones who work with you. It’s been years since then, and guess what? We still have DID!

Finally the last claim out of the first comment, the Sub-System thing, that wasn’t in the original post, and I’m unaware who edited it in, but the reason we are confused if they are a subsystem, is because they are plural as it’s where dormant alters are stored. They speak as one and it’s quite strange. Not sure how to explain it.

Okay, comment 2:

The difference between DID and OSDD-1 in the DSM-5 is it’s nearly DID but isn’t quite. (Bad explanation, but these people need simple explanations) often times, it’s the alters are not distinct enough from the host, or a lack of blackout amnesia. This isn’t always the case but that’s what they were referring to. Also have you read the DSM-5’s entry on DID and OSDD-1?.. We have, many times actually. Guess what? it’s purposefully vague FOR A REASON. Because disorders are complex and wouldn’t be able to fit everyone if it was to specific.

This is just ableism. We have been told this by people and our life (luckily nothing was done), and we have heard stories about systems going through this. This stuff is incredibly traumatizing to the people who go through it. This kind of rhetoric being treated as a joke is disgusting.

We aren’t online everyday (also you, the person who commented this, have posted 10 times in the last 11 hours)

The stuff we are “faking” are often co-morbid with DID?!?!

I’m pretty sure this comment is trying to be like “they are doing it for attention to deal with their trauma that’s so sad 🥺🥺🥺”

If that’s the case, you are adding onto the problem

if you believe us and feel bad for us, thanks, but posting it on that subreddit just boost the post which can lead to harassment.

That’s literally the words that was told to us. By our former therapist. We believe it’s C-PTSD, but we put that instead of that because some reason we struggle to believe we have PTSD more then we do DID at this point.

Anyway, yeah, we’d thought we debunk/explain why the argument they have is stupid, they have a platform, but so do we.

#anti fakeclaiming #did #did osdd #dissociative identity disorder #did system #endo friendly #pro endo #traumagenic system #actually plural #endo safe #tw: fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming cw #fakeclaimers #fakeclaiming #r/fdc #r/fakedisordercringe #tw splitting #tw trauma #tw ptsd #tw abuse #tw. #Tw mental health hospital #Tw psyche ward #tw ableism #tw ableist language #pro self diagnosis