i don't think i'll ever get used to that feeling of pure happiness when the people around me acknowledge my system/plural identity .. in a good way, of course.
it's just not the same as someone remembering things about you collectively. it tells me that i matter to those people enough for them to remember and recognize me as different people.
whether its "subtle" like how my partner tends to greet us by our specific name when we text them, or a friend being able to remember things a specific alter said/did as an individual. or more specific things, like the times our boyfriend/partner sys forgot for a second we aren't in separate bodies. and how he sends us random images near daily captioned "this is so (alter name)"
really, no matter how subtle it is, we do notice. and it makes us just as happy every single time. every little thing adds up and makes us feel happy and comfortable being "we" and not "i."
plural validation matters!! whether coming from a non-system or another plural, it all means a lot.
this has been sitting in my drafts for weeks, oops. i remembered it because another friend specifically wanted to show reffy something because they knew he’d appreciate it (they said “get the goober” lol) and it made us both really happy. so i wanted to add that.
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plural culture is the euphoria of being called your name for the first time. (YOUR name, not the host or singletsona's name!)
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Does anyone else have bad peoples in their systems? Like really bad and violent people? Jus wondering :3
— Lizzy
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when do you think antis will realize we’re pests on a big floating rock and it doesn’t matter if a 16 year old he/xe/it on tumblr identifies as transintersex
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A fun fact to anti endos who I know probably scroll these tags!
Someone you think is anti endo, too, could be endogenic themselves! We would know, we have anti endo friends we made before realizing our origins! We love them deeply though and just play the part instead of losing them. That doesn't make us any less non multigenic now does it? Exactly >:)
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1000 followers
Thank yall so much, really
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plegg culture is having an imaginary friend when you’re 11 and then finding out about plurality four years later and still taking another year and a half to figure out that your imaginary friend was never quite imaginary
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Plural culture is going a few days without switching or hearing from anyone else and thinking you’re faking
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Prompt #1,599
Character A writes fanfiction, often taking experiences from their own life as inspiration for what to write about. While reading the comments on their latest update, they happen to notice a trend... But what on earth is a system, and why are so many readers talking about how the main character sounds like one?
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