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kazanfamily · 3 days
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Any other plural reality shifters out there? We didn't know whether to talk about it in this account, but we've been scrolling a lot of shifting posts lately, and just today we saw a mutual talk about how they accidentally shift.
I know there's certain things that are unique to being a plural shifter, such as wanting to shift to headspace, shifting to be yourself in source, etc. So if this applies to you, we'd like to discuss those experiences!
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jokestersinmyhead · 3 days
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grown-ups want more tattoos, littles want more tattoos (they're like stickers that last forever), everyone wants more tattoos so that sounds like a win-win
time for more tattoos
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collectivewarmth · 19 days
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one of the most important things about dissociative identity disorder and generally being a system that i wish people would understand is that it truly isn’t as cut and dry as it may seem for member count.
you’ll see people who say they have “six alters” and then immediately assume it’s six fully fleshed out equal individuals with no confusion or fuzziness regarding identity. that’s simply not true in a majority of cases, as i have seen.
most systems still VERY much deal with confusion regarding potential splits, go through dissociative episodes where they’re unsure of who they are, sometimes feel no attachment towards any identities, feel like they might have split and then suddenly that person is gone, unsure if alters they haven’t heard from often have gone dormant, not sure how to react when alters do come out of dormancy, etc.
it’s not a fun feeling and it’s genuinely unfair in certain situations to force systems to list every single alter to you with full certainty, as if it will never change. because it will. for so many different reasons, systems will grow, they will shrink, they will fuse, they will develop. you can’t expect the person with the dissociative disorder and lack of core identity to be able to keep up a perfected list of forever, it’s simply impossible. you may have alters who stick with you, but that doesn’t mean changes won’t happen.
and systems who may be reading this — please don’t feel bad. you are not a hassle, you are not a headache, and you are not an inconvenience for simply coping with something like this. it’s out of your control and the only thing you can do is continue to cope to find ways to help yourself retrain from these reactions. please don’t allow yourself to be harmed by others who don’t understand what you are going through. there are people who will accept and love you for who you are, all of you.
past, present, and future.
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acorpsecalledcorva · 5 months
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So much more than "I feel like I'm someone else" , DID is so often "I feel like I'm in someone else's life". Like, this is not my house, these are not my clothes, that is not my cat, you are not my friends, but I've got to carry on anyway as though they're all mine and just hope that no-one notices that I'm walking in someone else's skin
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You are allowed to love being a system, after all, it is what saved your life
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xemmez · 17 days
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weird systems you better GET WEIRDER NOW
HAVE WEIRD ALTERS!!!!! BE NONHUMAN!!!! IDENTIFY AS A COLLECTIVE RATHER THAN A SINGLE SOUL!!!!!! WHO CARES!!!!! THIS IS YOUR COLLECTIVE YEAR AND YOU DON’T EXIST TO MAKE SINGLETS HAPPY OR COMFORTED!!!!!!
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snowyapricity · 3 months
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this is your friendly reminder that faking is a conscious choice. you can’t fake unintentionally.
you can be mistaken, and that’s ok! there’s no shame in that. you chose the label that best fit the information you had at the time. that’s just part of life, and that means you’re growing and learning more about yourself.
it’s ok to be unsure, don’t be too hard on yourself. you’ll figure it out, in time. <3
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razorbacksys · 5 months
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"You are not alone"? Sure aren't!
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theselfishmachiness · 9 months
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alters with… non normal names..
comic by parker (host, he/him)
reminder that alters with names that aren’t considered “normal” are still valid! go be unique and have cool names!
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million-with-a-b · 5 months
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Space themed System ask game based on common fakeclaim "criteria" because these things are valid and cool actually
🛰-Do you have a large headcount?
👾-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?
🚀-Does your system have any Non-human alters?
��️-Is your system neurodivergent?
🔭-Does your system use neo Pronouns?
🌠-Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?
🌙-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?
🪐-Does your system have Angry or "dangerous" persecutors?
💫-Do your littles use 'little-speech?'
🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches?
🌟-Does your system have fairly clear communication?
🌘-Do you have a large or complex headspace?
🛸-Do any alters in your system have exo-memories?
👽Does your system have any tics?
☀️-is your system bad at masking?
✨️-Do any alters in your system have an accent?
🌎-Do any alters in your system speak in a different language?
☁️-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?
⭐️-are you out about being a system?
This will probably flop but!!! I had fun making it<3
Endos and their supporters dni :')
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collectivewarmth · 3 months
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please do not let online system spaces convince you that you need to label and have every single thing in your system figured out. that’s an extremely unrealistic goal and you’re not any sort of faker for not knowing every single thing.
just be.
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wafflecreamcat · 15 days
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( Non-canon accurate art because we can do as we please. This is a personal piece our CatNap fictive made of him and his friend DogDay that's in another system. You may treat this like any other fanart, I don't really care as long as you acknowledge it's of real people. )
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finnslay · 6 days
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Headspace lore is so real
Feel free to reblog with a random, our of context peoce of headspace lore it you want
(No fake claiming please)
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xemmez · 6 months
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plural ppl are literally the best. why have one friend when you can have 27 in a meat suit.
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snowyapricity · 2 months
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systems, you don’t have to stress over labels or if something is “normal” or why something happened or anything else. i know it’s really easy to get obsessive over it, but please, give yourself some grace and accept that you will never have everything figured out. knowing all these answers won’t make you any more plural, just as not knowing them doesn’t make you any less plural.
taking some time away from the plural side of tumblr, discord, etc can be really beneficial if you’re experiencing something like this. take a step back and let yourself exist.
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