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I need to vent to yall rq

BIG TW

(Cropping the user. Don’t go hunting for this person and don’t send them harassment, I’m just using this screenshot as an example. many people have said this)

Maybe, think about this, people have this thing called a backstory. And not every anti-endo is gonna be like “erm actually they hurt my feewings🥺”

I have trauma caused by endos. I’m not even anti-endo but I LOVE anti-endo spaces because they make me feel fucking SAFE. If I vent to an endo about the trauma endos have caused me, the most I’ll get is an ‘erm not all of us are like that…’

Or I’ll get some shit like this. “Where are these systems” maybe I don’t wanna fucking know!! Also trust me endos exist outside of tumblr and discord, not all drama happens online. I’ve met endos irl which I never wanna meet again.

I have friends who have trauma caused by endos. They’ve told me stories of how they got sent gore, rape, etc. Anti-endo spaces make them feel safe.

Also when I interact with anti-endo-safe-spaces, it’s not even about endos. It’s just about life and I don’t have to worry about what endos did to me happening again in that space.

I don’t hate endos. I’m cautious of them.

#syscourse kinda? #syscourse unaligned

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Really big TW for everything basically

“You cannot romanticize anything bad” yep

“Anything I decide is romanticizing is romanticizing. Even if you argue otherwise.” If it’s abuse, gore, mental and physical illness, rape, pedophilia, incest, then yeah probably

“But it's ok if the media I like has a problematic relationship. Because it's not romanticizing, because I said so.” I’ve never heard anyone say this but this is also bad

“You cannot age up that character, they are fictional so they'll always be a child.” Correction, you cannot age up that character so that when you write that rape fanfic it’s only rape and not also pedophilia.

“You also cannot ship that character, you have to treat them like a real person.” Nothing wrong with shipping, but abuse and rape and pedophilia and incest aren’t cute.

“Characters can't consent and we must protect them.” Another correction, children can’t consent. And yes, protect them.

“Proshippers (real humans) we can treat poorly though.” Harassment is bad on both sides.

“Proshippers are sexual harassers.” Sending gore/rape porn to minors is sexual harassment and endangering minor safety, I’m aware not all proshippers do this, this is a personal experience. Not all proshippers are sexual harassers but we as minors are cautious when an ADULT writes a rape fantasy of a minor.

“But also, we can speculate about what their kinks are and if they have paraphilias or other fetish disorders.” Assuming someone has a disorder, kinks, and paraphilias is not okay and minors should stay out of those places.

“Cancel culture is totally cool.” Idk what that has to do with anything

“Don't cancel me for harassing proshippers.” Harassment is bad on both ends.

Hope you likes my Ted talk

#anti proship

[urfavoritesecretadmirer]

i <3 you weird alters. be weirder.

#did osdd #did system #plural system #sysblr #actually plural #system stuff #traumagenic #traumagenic system #system positivity #osdd

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Don’t have to be a genius to know the definition of disorder

Omg no way…this can’t be…multiple definitions..that must drive u up the wall

Also don’t be shy take off ur anonymous everyone knows who u are🎀

This is thefakersystem and I think they’re mad bc I put them on a blocklist lmao

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No 1 c a r e

Hoes mad

[urfavoritesecretadmirer]

“Tell me you know nothing about DID without telling me you know nothing about DID”

You are allowed to love being a system, after all, it is what saved your life

[urfavoritesecretadmirer]

Hey guys new block for yall

@/thefakersystem they a rage bait and apparently some medical expert lmao

#did system

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Erm what the flip tell me why people trying to have sex with animals is normalized now!!

#anti zoophile

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New block for yall

This dude has fed a horse an avocado, avocados are deadly to horses, and is very misogynistic

There is a whole Reddit story of a bunch of fucked up things he did, including wishing death on an unborn (I believe) child which is honestly pathetic.

Here is the Reddit story

His user is @ the-muppet-joker

#free blocklist

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Not guilty!

#gaza #gaza genocide #gazaunderattack #palestine #israel #gaza strip #free palestine #free gaza #stand with gaza #palestine genocide #now #watch

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"Mental Health Matters" until

"Mental health matters" until the victim wants the perpetrator back

"Mental health matters" until they are a sadist or masochist

"Mental health matters" until they are a system

"Mental health matters" until it's BPD or NPD

"Mental health matters" until the autism isn't 'quirky' in your eyes

"Mental health matters" until they have matted hair

"Mental health matters" until they can't change their clothes

"Mental health matters" until they can't take care of their hygiene

"Mental health matters" until they are ugly in your eyes

"Mental health matters" until it's anything but anxiety and depression

"Mental health matters" until you think their deteriorating health isn't "interesting"

"Mental health matters" until it lands them in prison

"Mental health matters" until it disturbs you in any way

"Mental health matters" until they are a yandere

"Mental health matters" until they fantasize rape

"Mental health matters" until it causes them to be violent

Listen.

People who are like this are assholes. You are beautiful/handsome. You are smart. You are gorgeous in every way shape and form. Your health matters, and I'm here for you throughout it all. We are here to heal.

#did system #did osdd #osdd #osddid #osdd system #osdd 1b #system positivity #positive mental health #mental health

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Ty for this reblog ^^ - Luc (Any/All), Cole (He/Him)

You are allowed to love being a system, after all, it is what saved your life

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ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY YESSKABDKSJDJSJF

No way I’m crying over little brother and silly little dead gays

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No way I’m crying over little brother and silly little dead gays

#stenbrough #reddie #the outsiders #the outsiders musical #did system #did osdd #osdd #actually osdd #actually did #osddid #osdd system #osdd 1b #actually traumagenic

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Yesss exactly. I’ve taken acting for four years so I can somewhat mask as other alters <3

- 🧿

If you ever believe you are faking, try this.

Try to act exactly like one of your alters. You can’t, can you? You’re a real system.

[urfavoritesecretadmirer]

If you ever believe you are faking, try this.

Try to act exactly like one of your alters. You can’t, can you? You’re a real system.

#did system #did osdd #osdd #actually osdd #actually did #osddid #osdd system #osdd 1b #actually traumagenic #system positivity

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Free palestine system userboxes !

-> anyone can use these, free palestine

[ Plain text : anyone can use these, free palestine. ]

[ Image ID : Four userboxes with an image of the Palestinian flag on the left and text on the right. From top left to bottom right they read : this system supports palestine, systems for a free palestine, this system wants a ceasefire now, this system supports palestine. End ID ]