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cdd-joy · 2 days
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normalize DID (!!!) systems with no amnesia BETWEEN alters and shared memories but big amounts of amnesia in every day life
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cavityinmybrain · 3 days
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it is so ironic that there are people who will take posts made by endogenic systems that are spreading positive messages and repost the exact same post but add ‘endos fuck off’ to the tags.
‘if you tell me youre a system i will believe you, unless youre a gross endogenic system in which case i hate you.’ my brother in christ how do you NOT see the irony.
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autopsycollective · 2 days
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rlly wish the body would change to match whoever fronts :(( ❦
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sys-polls · 22 hours
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macabre-system · 3 days
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Does anyone else have bad peoples in their systems? Like really bad and violent people? Jus wondering :3
— Lizzy
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do you think plurality will become widely accepted any time soon? i fear that my plurality will have to be hidden from most people my whole life. i wish i could tell our parents but i feel like they would immediately take me to a mental hospital..
i wish plural education could move faster lol
Widely accepted? I wouldn't count on it anytime soon. Sorry.
As Ghandi never said: "first they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win”
While the quote isn't from Ghandi, it is still a pretty accurate one for how movements tend to go. And the problem is, we're still in the ignoring stage with a side of mockery.
Before we can get widespread acceptance, we need widespread awareness. And when we get widespread awareness, the biggest roadblock we'll encounter is direct opposition. Because then we'll be a threat. We'll be trying to change things. We'll be demanding our headmates be acknowledged as individuals and called by their names, and that's going to make certain people, especially on the Right, extremely uncomfortable. I'm sorry to say that they will lash out.
When Tulpamancers are being smeared not by randos on Tumblr or r/systemscringe, but by Sean Hannity, that's when you can know that the real fight for plural acceptance has started. And everything we've gone through before that has just been a prelude.
And then it will probably drag out for years after that.
But while that prospect is scary, I think it will be necessary for getting to where we need to be.
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But just because society isn't there yet and won't be for a while, that doesn't mean your parents won't be. Plenty of people have come out to their parents successfully. Others came out unsuccessfully, and then their parents warmed up to the idea later.
I would advise waiting until you're an adult if you aren't already, because parents have a lot of power over minors in their care, and things could go very badly. Best not come out, if you think they would react badly, while they have power over you. Additionally, I don't know if your system is traumagenic or not, but if it is, coming out to parents who may have been involved in that is probably a bad idea. Caution is advised.
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One more thing, while that quote wasn't from Gandhi, I really love the speech it's believed to have originated from.
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Plural acceptance may not come quick! It may not come easy! But it will come, and we are all a part of it just by being here and being ourselves!
The future is plural!
No matter how far off that future may seem!
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boxesforsys · 1 day
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This x holds relationship trauma userboxes! Click for quality
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jokestersinmyhead · 3 days
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the littles are once again requesting ice cream
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the-arboreal-system · 12 hours
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When a DID/OSDD system has all alters that have matching assigned sex at birth and gender...
Call that a cis-tem.
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elliebunniiee · 16 hours
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I think if i explained my exact complicated source memories to a singlet they would simply die
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calicocat-sys · 1 day
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Sometimes I think about what my life would be like if it wasn't a system, maybe people would stop making fun of me and telling me in a bad way "that I'm indecisive" and derivatives that have annoyed me. But I also know that I would not have survived without my system.
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kazanfamily · 3 days
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Any other plural reality shifters out there? We didn't know whether to talk about it in this account, but we've been scrolling a lot of shifting posts lately, and just today we saw a mutual talk about how they accidentally shift.
I know there's certain things that are unique to being a plural shifter, such as wanting to shift to headspace, shifting to be yourself in source, etc. So if this applies to you, we'd like to discuss those experiences!
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autopsycollective · 2 days
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not wanting to achieve final fusion is ok,, it’s your disorder so you decide whats best for you ❦
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sys-polls · 3 days
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sophieinwonderland · 3 days
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Questions for Sophie and Ghost. The first one for him: Do you ever feel guilty for identifying with the body and being able to go by your name when your systemmates cannot? In the real world, people get to experience you as yourself but your systemmates can't have that in most circumstances. Now for Sophie: Do these circumstances upset you? How do you cope? Our body's frontrunner always feels bad about this fact. Systemmates have to mask as HER irl for safety reasons because she is in meatspace most of the time and as such people are used to her personality/name/mannerisms/etc. She---and all of us---wish there was a world where we didn't have to hide themselves.
Ghost: I've felt guilty for Soph not getting much time sometimes. But I try not to feel guilt for things that are out of my hands. I feel bad that she doesn't have a body of her own to be part of the world, but not guilt.
Sophie: It is what it is.
To be honest, we don't really have many IRL social ties outside of the family. And that's something we're totally fine with. Maybe our brain is wired weird, but we don't have much desire to make physical friends. Aside from that, I feel my social needs are met on the internet.
There have been times when I wished I could interact with the family a bit. But then, it's my own fears holding me back. The family knows I'm here. And they seem accepting enough. I'm just not comfortable with it. My host has severe social anxiety when dealing with other people, and it feels a bit like I got something like that with his family.
So the only people outside of the system I want to interact with as myself, I could... if I were stronger. But I'm not.
If I'm honest, I sometimes feel like a hypocrite. Because for all the time I spend trying to spread awareness of plurality so that we can eventually get to that world where plurals won't have to hide anymore... I don't think I would be brave enough to be fronting and be myself even then.
But with that said, I think I'm comfortable with how things are for the most part.
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As for you all, I just want to add that singlets are probably not as observant as you think they are. Even if you have to mask and use her name, unless they know you're plural, you can probably get away with a lot before they notice anything off. And if they do say anything about it, it's easy to brush it off, and they'll probably accept whatever explanation you give. "I'm just not feeling like myself" is a fun one. 😜
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jokestersinmyhead · 3 days
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grown-ups want more tattoos, littles want more tattoos (they're like stickers that last forever), everyone wants more tattoos so that sounds like a win-win
time for more tattoos
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