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the-real-sasuke-uchiha · 4 months

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Why are people so obsessed with my romantic life, seriously? Arguing with each other about who I should be loving, who should I be banging... What the hell. Have you understood nothing about me? Were you not paying attention? All I care about is REVOLUTION.

#pro Sasuke Uchiha #anti shipping wars #is this something cultural or what #I don't understand #you are worst than Kakashi #I have no reason to love anybody

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pk-sideblog · 5 months

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Y'all realize that BoruSumi is not NaruHina. Not is BoruSara NaruSaku? Y'all realize that they are their own ships and should he treated like that instead of fighting against one because of an uninvolved ship?

#BoruSara #borusumi #anti naruto fandom #Anti Boruto Fandom #anti shipping #Anti Shipping Wars

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gralunaisland · 2 years

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i just wanted to pop in and say it's so refreshing to see another person that likes other ships in the big four (even if they're worthy of their own criticisms) but hates gr//via. most people in the fandom either hate all four or ship all four due to status quo and it's tiring to be forced to be either all in or all out since our thoughts about these things can be complex.

Liking Only Part of the Big Four

Thank you so much for taking the time to stop on by my blog!

I wholeheartedly feel you, Anon! I also find it refreshing to know there are other people like you who don't stick with the group-think or status quo and decide for themselves which ships you'll like or dislike.

I agree with you; it does seem to be the case that many fans are either all-in for the Big Four or are totally opposed. Maybe they have good reasons, but it does turn out a lot of the time that they're shipping (or not shipping) certain things just for solidarity and not because they've analyzed why they feel this way or that about a pair.

I've heard many a horror story on how Big Four shippers will come for the throats of Gralu, Grayza, or Gratsu shippers just on the basis that Gray, according to their Big Four policy, "belongs to juvia". (Nasty).

It's pretty disheartening and disgusting to witness that behavior. If they have real criticisms, then be our guest, please do elaborate. But most of the time when they start attacking people who don't ship the Big Four, it's purely based off of emotion and loyalty to gr///vians, or to other Big Four shippers depending on the situation.

You put it so wonderfully, Anon: "Our thoughts about these things can be complex." We are all complex individuals, with different preferences and biases and opinions, so we should never let a group bigger than ourselves decide things for us, especially if that group is calling for toxic behavior. In the end, shipping wars are just not worth being a nasty human being to someone else and trying to force them to change their mind.

#i say this a lot but just because im wholly against gruvia doesnt mean i condone being rude to gruvians #im not trying to force gruvians to stop shipping gruvia #im merely trying to facilitate a discussion picking apart why i am opposed to this ship #askgraluna #ask #anti gruvia #anti juvia #fairy tail #anti juvia lockser #anti juvia loxar #defend gray fullbuster #gray fullbuster #anti shipping wars #shipping wars

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kevinthebull · 1 year

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I hate shipping wars.

#anti shipping wars

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kittenfangirl20 · 2 years

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Shipping Erehisu doesn’t make the shipper homophobic, in fact pretty much all the Erehisu shippers I have seen see Historia as bisexual and ship her with both Ymir and Eren. Maybe it isn’t the Erehisu fans that are homophobic, but the Erehisu haters that are biohobic since they seem to think that Historia is either seen as gay or straight depending on the person she is shipped with, but can’t seem to grasp that Historia can be attracted to both Ymir and Eren. Also funny how the haters go on about how Erehisu is homophobic, but they also have no problem with pointing out that Historia ended up with a nameless farmer who happens to be a man as a reason why you shouldn’t ship Erehisu.

#attack on titan #aot #erehisu #anti shipping wars #anti erehisu bs #homophobia #biphobia #tired of this shit

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mfshipbracket · 1 year

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#mf ship bracket #mf ship bracket 2023 #bonus round #kylo ren #rey #reylo #star wars #avatar: the last airbender #aang #katara #kataang #anti-reylo

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aprill-99 · 8 months

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How it started *Under the Mountain*:

Feyre: “So that’s the love of my life.”

Rhys: “Really? Tamlin? That guy?”

Feyre: “Yeah. Thoughts?”

Rhys: “And prayers. Girl what-”

Where it went *Early ACOWAR*:

Feyre: “So this is my mate.”

Lucien: “Really? Your mate is that guy?? Rhysand???”

Feyre: “Yeah. Thoughts?”

Lucien: “And Prayers. Girl what-”

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invisible-pink-toast · 9 months

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sneezypeasy · 2 months

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This is why I prefer to let other people take the mic when it comes to fandom/moral critique. Even on my best day, I couldn't publish a fandom-critical take half as comprehensive and coherent as this one.

Reposted anonymously with permission from OP, who understandably does not want to deal with hate comments/hate asks for expressing these opinions.

(Hopefully the screenshots load properly on tumblr, I know the first one is incredibly long 😅)

#zutara discourse #anti anti zutara #the colonizer argument #fandom analysis #anti purity culture #anti ship war #anti kataang #anti maiko #anti aang #anti mai

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allthingswhumpyandangsty · 8 months

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“dni if you’re problematic” is level 95 middle schooler behavior btw. “problematic” by what standards? my brother in christ, you’ve got to be more specific. but I can promise you that you are also “problematic” in some people’s opinions whether it be online or irl, whether or not you know it. unless you’re a literal saint who’s never done anything wrong, ever, in your life, I guarantee you this; you are also “problematic” in someone’s opinions. I am problematic in someone’s opinions. every single one of us is problematic in someone’s story, sorry to break it to you though.

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curiositysavesthecat · 2 months

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starlight-bread-blog · 3 months

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Sometimes I hear Zutarians say something along the lines of "it's not that deep, I just think they look cute together. Leave me alone" in response to harassment from Kataangers. Which is completely fine, say what you gotta say to be left alone. But for some of us it is that deep.

Some of us are genuinely passionate about analyzing the narrative cohesion of Zutara. Some of us genuinely felt wronged when it didn't happen. We deserve to be left alone as well. Because even if you disagree, or think our opinion is shit, everyone are entitled to their own opinion and deserve to be treated with respect. Why do I need to say this.

#zutara #anti fandom #anti stans #anti kataang #ship wars #pro zutara #anti anti zutara #zutarians #zutara meta #atla fandom problems #atla fandom critical #anti atla fandom #atla #zuko #katara #zuko x katara #katara x zuko

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fanfic-lover-girl · 3 months

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Demonization of the Enemies to Lovers Trope

I find it very disingenuous when Zutara antis compare or lump Zutara with problematic ships like Reylo and Dramione. Anyone who makes a claim like this should have not any opinions about ATLA respected. Because they obviously did not watch the show.

There are major differences that set Zutara apart from Reylo and Dramione.

Zutara vs Dramione - Friendship

Zuko and Katara reconciled and became very close friends in season 3. Draco and Hermione disliked each other in canon and the best of their relationship was civility. Dramione could have served the same narrative function as Zutara by representing union after war but Dramione lacked the canon building blocks that Zutara had.

Zutara vs Reylo - Redemption

Zuko has a powerful redemption arc. But even when Zuko was an antagonist, he was never truly evil. And Zuko's actions towards Katara (eg tying her to a tree) were not completely monstrous. Zuko and Katara never crossed any boundaries while enemies. When Katara starts showing compassion to Zuko, it is in season 2 when Zuko is no longer an active threat (eg. offering to heal Iroh and their emotional moment in the catacombs). Compare this to Reylo where there are all these romantic undertones while Reylo and Kylo are still enemies. Kylo also has a worse record than Zuko: murdering his dad, oppressing countless people, killing civilians, and maiming people. And Rey for some reason, before Kylo does anything to deserve it, begins to feel sorry for him. Unlike Zuko, we don't see Kylo truly atone for what he did to Rey. Not to mention the abusive elements in their relationship such as Kylo calling Rey worthless.

The point is that people need to stop demonizing enemies to lovers ships. And stop lumping healthy ships like Zutara with more toxic ships like Dramione and Reylo. It's not a fair comparison.

#anti reylo #anti dramione #zutara #enemies to lovers #enemies to friends to lovers #shipping discourse #star wars sequel trilogy #atla #harry potter series #atla zuko #atla katara #draco malfoy #hermione granger #kylo ren #rey #anti bad faith zutara antis #zutara supremacy

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kevinthebull · 1 year

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Every ship in the Wednesday fandom has to grow up. Like they all have toxic people who seem to forget that this is supposed to be a hobby. I am talking to Wenclairs, Wyler, and Wavier shippers.

#wednesday netflix #anti shipping wars

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pinktom · 5 months

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What do you think pink about tomarry content creators getting abusive tomione asks suddenly? First obsidian, then I saw one more account getting and now seminar arts. Is it only one person doing all this?

Btw my jaw dropped with your no filter answer where you said that whenever harry comes the chemistry between to marry best tomione 🤣. I would love to hear more of your no filter thoughts

I have no doubt those asks were sent by trolls. I, however, am simply a hater—I see an opportunity to hate, justified or not, I pounce. x]

In ascending order, here are the reasons I think Tomione sucks.

PS: If you know this post is gonna piss you off and press "Keep Reading" anyway - that is entirely on you. Send me anon hate and I'll assume you're a masochist who wants me to spank your pert, round hinie and call you a naughty, naughty girl.

“Book nerd loves book nerd uwu” trope does not fit Tom Riddle, and I find it obnoxious.

Like I touched on when I was first sipping on that haterade, Tom Riddle values usefulness. By this logic, you could easily contrive up a scenario in which he wants to use Hermione’s skills for whatever reason.

However, the route that is usually taken in Tomione is that Tom is … impressed … by her intellect. A woman… who is… smart? He’s intrigued. 😏 He’s never once met a smart woman in his life before. And certainly not one so independent and feisty. She doesn’t swoon over him like the other girls do (eye roll).

I never got the impression anywhere in canon that Tom Riddle cared much about intellectual pursuits beyond those which were immediately useful to his goals, so for the very basis of a relationship to be his interest in her brains – to me, it’s tedious and off-base.

And also icky honestly lkjdflkj. Hermione’s two crushes are on a couple of stinky smelly boys (Krum, Ron), where the hell do you go off acting like she wants some mysterious, twisted dark boy? I’m offended.

Absolutely zero chemistry; once Harry steps in, it’s game over

Because these characters lack any common ground, shared values, or compelling circumstances that tether them together, there is zero chemistry. You can try to fabricate those things with a little bit of crack!cocaine, but then you’re forced to contrive a lot of additional personality traits and circumstances that diverge them from their canon selves. (Which yes, you can do, but it only works if you’re gonna do something really interesting.)

As much as people like to har har about how canon doesn’t matter, here’s the truth: yes, it does. Our communities only exist because we’re referencing shared source material. However much you can bend characters around, everyone knows each character has an essence that just “feels like them” on a deeper human level.

As such, we all know Tom Riddle and Harry Potter are intrinsically connected to each other. In Tomione this presents a conundrum. I could cite dozens of fics, but I’ll stick to two very well-written ones I enjoyed.

In one of them, Tom was a criminal and Harry was a detective on his tail; no matter how many times Tom fingered Hermione, he was always more entangled with Harry, because the stakes and intensity between them were so much grander. Same thing with the other fic but amplified by the Horcrux bond. At their very first encounter, when Tom and Harry laid eyes on each other, they both immediately felt an arresting connection, with distrust and intrigue. Hermione instantly paled in comparison in both stories.

It’s just like the moment Harry steps into the frame, you see how transparent and superficial the “commonalities” between Tom and Hermione ever are. Books and cleverness - oh but Harry, there are more important things! Like being spiritually linked! And sharing unique and intimate traumas in common!

Heterosexual Tom is truly disgusting to read about

Look–it’s a matter of taste. We’re all products of our environments. For me, no amount of feminism or fantasy can overrule everything I’ve seen and experienced in my life. ( ಠ_ಠ )

I don’t enjoy reading about women in relationships with men who are controlling, violent, and selfish. Even the way Voldemort treats Bellatrix in canon always makes me wince, because I see it like this … here’s this girl who grew up proud; who was beautiful, rich, extremely gifted and powerful; and she turns into this horrible sniveling creature. Say it ain't so! I wish she'd killed him when he broke her ass out of Azkaban.

But back on the topic of Tomione specifically — I think there’s another layer to it, which is the greasy self-insertion aspect which makes me uncomfortably aware of how much the author’s ginie is tingling at the idea of Tom Riddle lifting a brow and saying, “Is that so, Miss Granger?” while she scowls and tells him to fuck off !!!

It’s of course not the self-insertion in itself that’s icky. It’s more just that the type of person who wants to self-insert into that particular heterosexual scenario is, uhh, too basic for me and my big powerful fujo brain.

And I guess that's gets me to the very core of why I find Tomione basic, trifling, and underwhelming.

Tom Riddle is allowed no faults whatsoever in Tomione

Oh, sure. He’s controlling. He’s mean. He grabs her wrist and says, “What were you doing talking to Malfoy?” 😠

But so... ? Tom Riddle is a deeply embarrassing, mentally unwell trainwreck of a person. He's so much grosser than that. Yet you do not get that feeling at all in most Tomione fics. His worst character traits are often there but they’re made to seem sexy and flattering at all times.

I’m not saying your run-of-the-mill Tomarry fic doesn’t suffer this fatal flaw too—but when it comes down to it, Tomione doesn’t allow for his unsexy fallibility, period. Because the sexiness of the ship really depends on heteronormative romantic tropes and fantasies, which tend to be quite rigid and narrow.

And I understand and empathize with why this is; just look at Reddit, so many women in heterosexual relationships already must put up with mortifying, embarrassing, and unhygienic things (y’all know which posts I mean 🙁).

That’s just not what I’m here for. I love Tom Riddle because he’s a superficial narcissistic lunatic with no self-awareness and emotionally stunted outlook.

I don’t want to hear how he terrified the orphans if I’m not gonna hear about how he pissed the bed and got his bare ass whipped by a mean, toothless matron for chatting in sermon. I don’t care to see him bossing around those wimps at Hogwarts if there’s not at least one student who looks at “ENEMIES OF THE HEIR BEWARE” written in blood and feels tummy-churning secondhand embarrassment.

#tom #server #asks #offensive content #anti tomione #shipping wars

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mfshipbracket · 1 year

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#surprise couple!#mf ship bracket #mf ship bracket 2023 #bonus round #kylo ren #rey #reylo #anti-reylo #star wars #unsure how to tag these i've been relying wholly on amanda's research and fandom experience.#ummmmm #king charles #royal family #camilla parker bowles #parasites in chief in their idiot hats #full credit to amanda messaging me at 4am like “i think reylo could beat king charles and camilla. food for thought”#hope u guys enjoy <3 #like i said. this is my little thought experiment #anti reylo tag here like . do we need anti monarchy too. sorry this one is hateful

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