#please no negativity

[yandereloveraw]

Playlist for me being a yandere's willing darling

Lock Me Up - The Cab

I Wanna Be Yours - Artic Monkeys

I'm Your Puppet - James & Bobby Purify

Dead Girl Walking (Cover) - Ryan McCartan

Stockholm Syndrome - One Direction

You Belong To Me - Patsy Cline

And I Am Telling You I'm Not Going - Jennifer Hudson

Murder - Mako

* The pink songs are my top two for showing how I feel about said yandere

#all songs belong to their creators #willing darling playlist #self insert playlist #I am a willing darling anyway #willing darling #yandere playlist #yandere music #music #minors please dni #please no negativity #self insert #darling self insert

[taichissu]

ok fellow aroace's what are your plans on valentine's day?

personally imma dress super nice and cute and go get myself some good cake and hot cocoa at a cafe :)

#please no negativity #gotta bring some love into being aroace!!!!!! #btw this goes for grays and anyone on the spectrum as well

[thebean-17]

I sometimes wonder if anyone has a strong aversion to something when you are demanded to do something but internally you really don't want to do it and you get annoyed with that person because they demanded something from you?

For example, I love sharing my art with people and I view it as a hobby and something I like doing for fun here and there, but here's the catch, ever since I shared my art, I have more and more people telling me I "should" sell my artwork. Granted, it's not ill-intended but when I get told I "should" do it and they give me a list of how I can get started without me ever asking for such a thing, I end up hating my hobby because of it. I cringe, tense up, get annoyed (even with a cheery and friendly smile), and constantly view my hobby as a job now.

They'd give me suggestions, ask if I do commissions (I don't do commissions because ultimately it's a choice but I love having the freedom to do what I create and communicate to others rather than being a shadow, but I know that's not what commissions are about), sites to go to when it comes to selling my work, etc.

Overtime, it builds up and up and I feel burnt out. This hobby of mine no longer feels fun and it feels rather stressful. Rather it be something I enjoy, I am doing for other people and not for myself anymore. It feels as though it takes away my autonomy as a human being and I now have to worry about what others will think of it rather than how I think of it. What would make the piece sell rather than just doing something I enjoy regardless whether it's on trend or not.

Now, it might not matter to them. It's not like I am forced to do these things, to sell my art, etc. But in my mind, the implication does not matter or the lack of thereof. And it's not like these people intentionally made me hate my hobby, absolutely not, but that pressure and demand, the suggestion, the unsolicited advice is what makes it feel stressful. Now my hobbies aren't the only area that I have this issue. It can go with anything.

And keep in mind, it's not laziness or procrastination, and although it looks like that on the outside, internally it feels much more different than that. I actually want to do these things, but since they have been "demanded" and or pressured from me, I no longer want to do it.

#vent #is this a possible sign to something? #I'm not the only one right? #please no negativity #random #gotta love capitalism amirite?

[thedreadvampy]

people seriously pretending EEAAO is overrated suddenly bc it swept awards? it swept awards largely because it is very very very good. I cried like someone who's just had a religious revelation BOTH times I watched it bc it touched something raw and real and beautiful but it was also just very, very funny. everyone's performance kills and the concept is creative and interesting and doesn't distract from the emotional core. you guys are just contrarian.

#red said #also there are posts and tweets like THIS IS JUST FOR MCU FANS #like please go on demonstrating how you've adopted 'mcu fan' as a shorthand for 'person who likes films i don't' #or 'person who likes films that are popular' #because the defining features of mcu films are that they're high budget irony poisoned derivative works #targeted at a broad audience so aiming to be accessible and inoffensive #and it really seems. like 'accessible' is the part of that you object to #bc EEAAO is a highly original A24 indie film with a 14.5m budget which is NOTHING #it's made mostly with practical effects and sets #and most importantly it's beautifully painfully earnest. it's never trying to shy away or go Hey Look How Silly This Is 😏 #everything is driven by its earnest desire to talk about specific themes #i think the people comparing it negatively to mcu films are stuck on the fact that it's about a multiverse and it's got jokes #and colourful action scenes #but they miss that the referential jokes (like racacoonie) and setpieces aren't the point of the film

[stedebonnets]

RIP Izzy Hands. You did not die alone. You died surrounded by friends and family. Belonging to something.

#listen listen i'm unwell... sad i miss my tiny silly unicorn but i will always love him maybe we are going to see him as a ghost next season #izzy hands #con o'neill #our flag means death #ofmd s2 spoilers #ofmd s2 #ofmdedit #ofmdsource #ofmdaily #usercaptainflint #userkristi #dailypiratemedia #my stuff #mygifs #please no negativity in this post i beg you i am still crying!

[throesofincreasingwonder]

You know what? I want a whole post for this:

Sex Repulsion is not the same thing as, or an excuse for, Sex Negativity

non-negotiable!

I am a sex-repulsed asexual. This means that I am uncomfortable and repulsed by the idea of engaging in sexual acts. This does not mean that I have an excuse to be repulsed by other people's sexual attraction or the right to police how other people engage in or express sexual acts or attraction.

Young queer people need to learn the difference between sex repulsion and sex negativity, and actively work to unlearn sex-negative attitudes. Asexuality, even sex-repulsed asexuality, is and should be fully compatible with sex positivity.

If you are uncomfortable with the idea of other people feeling sexual attraction or engaging in sexual acts that do not involve you in any way, that is not sex repulsion it is the cultural Christianity and you need to seriously work on that.

#we as asexual people have got to have a talk about this because the shit i have been seeing is NOT okay #asexuality #sex positivity #this is largely intracommunity allo people can engage w/ it but don't be clowns #original post #500 #1k #PLEASE STOP TAGGING THIS AS 'CULTS' YOU CAN CRITIQUE A RELIGION W/O CALLING IT A CULT I AM BITING YOU #this barely even mentions Christianity like someone does not need to be in a cult to be sex negative. and also not all religions are cults #please be normal #other than that y'all have actually been very normal abt this one so far thank you #2k #5k

[birf]

I was watching spy x family with friends and one of them went “if this is propaganda to have children and work for a government agency it’s working” and we all laughed but the more we watched we were like “…….oh my god is this propaganda to have children?”

#edit: this is a dumb joke my friend made do not come to my inbox arguing how sxf is not propaganda I don’t not care #please this wasn’t suppose to be serious or conspiratorial #also this isn’t a negative post I really like the show #spy x family

[corvophobia]

i made a fun little shirt because im seeing tmuir in person on friday tee hee

#griddlehark #the locked tomb #gideon the ninth #IF i test negative. please god do not let me down

[ruporas]

vw sketches (id in alt)

#vashwood #vash the stampede #nicholas d wolfwood #trigun #trigun maximum #sorry for how teensies some of the text can be T_T please read the id if you can't see them... #ive been sketching a lot these days - testing out some new stuff... i think I've tested enough though and need to start making #more polished work again orz... drawing is so endless... both positive and also Reluctantly negative #only bc my time management is terrible #ruporas art

[azulsejos]

s2 + golbetty centric episode prayer circle 🍎💝

#adventure time #fionna and cake #golbetty #golb #betty grof #adventure time fanart #art tag #fionna and cake spoilers #(living in my dream world where the apple has to do with betty) #(and we will see her point of view or how she feels about her godhood ill take anything I just want more screentime with her) #(she doesnt even need to speak i dont mind a silent golbetty episode as she does her things. incomprehensible god) #(sorry for rambling i have a lot of thoughts positive and negative. but overall i need a season 2 i need more time with these characters..) #(anyway stay safe every1 please dont start hitting each other with rocks over the finale T_T)

[tesco-finest-aromantics]

To other sex-repulsed people: Please understand that your repulsion towards sex is your own issue to deal with. Understand that sex is important to a lot of people (you don't have to understand why, just simply that it is), and understand that it's not okay to treat sex as a bad thing simply because it exists and you're repulsed towards it.

It's completely fine to vent about your friend talking in great depth about their sex life when it repulses you (and maybe tell them that it makes you uncomfortable and you don't want to hear about it) or for any reason for that matter, but don't talk about how much you hate sex in front of the people who find it a positive thing because you'll just end up being seen as someone who kills the fun. It doesn't seem fair, I know, but there are lots of places you can talk about this without upsetting people who enjoy it.

And to non-sex-repulsed people: Please understand that we need a space to air our repulsion to sex. If anything we say isn't directly aimed towards you specifically and it upsets you, then maybe consider that this space just isn't for you. Not everyone has the same positive feelings towards sex that you do, and we have just as much right to talk about how we dislike sex as you have to talk about how much you like sex.

And everyone needs to understand that it's possible to have negative feelings about sex —and to talk about these feelings— without it automatically being sex negativity.

#pk;m shy #asexual #ace #actually ace #sex repulsed #apothisexual #I'm sex-repulsed too. I get it. but please stop treating sex as some evil just because you don't like it. #maybe I have a different perspective because I'm part of a system and my non-ace headmates are going to have sex anyway #with the same body I use. I hate it but I'm not going to make it their problem because this body belongs to them as much as it belongs #to me. #I'm not saying you need to suffer in silence but just don't involve people who are happy to have sex in your negative feelings about it. #I hope this made sense ^^;

[enlightningbugs]

Laurent, who chose to be like his mother in every way but one Conclusive evidence

These pages were originally for @fetranshub's FE trans week in 2020. They can be taken independently, if you would like to interpret Laurent in the second page differently from the first.

Several people over the years have also told me these are some of my most memorable comics, which makes me glad.

#laurent fire emblem #stahl #miriel #fire emblem awakening #fire emblem #fe trans week #old content october #fe awakening #fe awakening comic #procreate #I hope I don't need to add my usual 'please don't leave character hate' disclaimer? This comic did not originally get negative comments but #parenting is always a touchy subject for people. Regardless please don't leave character hate

[babycharmander]

I feel like the people who are super into character AIs just… really haven’t read enough fanfic. Like, so much of the output of those things is just generic sludge, like, the most basic, boring response to whatever you typed in. It’s not in-character, it’s just an algorithm coughing up the most obvious response it can think of.

If this is the stuff you’re enjoying, I highly encourage you to read literally anything else.

The most poorly-written OOC fanfic is better than a character AI by virtue of it at least having been written by a human. It’s not the most obvious algorithmically generated sludge—it’s something a real person wanted to write.

Or like, if you want to write stuff yourself while playing off another person… maybe join a roleplay group, or find an RP partner? It’s not like they’re hard to find these days. Of course you need to learn basic RPing etiquette, which might seem intimidating, but once you learn it I promise you it is SO much more satisfying than receiving sludge responses from an AI.

Please engage in fandom in literally any other way—I promise you it will be more fun than what you are currently doing.

#anti ai #negative nonsense #I keep seeing posts where people are like ‘LOOK AT WHAT THIS CHARACTER SAID’ #and it is ALL the same generic sludge #please read things written by an actual human I am begging you

[drorey]

It took me a while to come around but genuinely I love the amount of roleplay blogs thats been popping up in the jrwi tag, very funny.

Like. Fucking. The gay bitches from the suckening are playing 5d chess when it comes to pinning. Edyn tidestrider is venting on the main tag. Deacon got kidnapped like a week ago. I think timothy rand is having an existental crisis.

Someone made a horny post and the character it was about responded saying dont drag my name into this. I once uploaded art of old man earl and drey ferin just rebloged it saying smash.

#jrwi #just roll with it #edyn tidestrider please know this is not /neg if someone here deserves to vent in the main tag its you I promise #jrwi rp

[kiwbyy]

i drew larry trainor over gardening stock images

#can we get more scenes of him gardening please #doom patrol #doom patrol tv #larry trainor #negative man

[the-far-bright-center]

Ultimately, he’s just a pathetic guy who’s had a very sad life.

George Lucas on Anakin Skywalker/Darth Vader (from George Lucas and the Cult of Darth Vader, Rolling Stone, 2 June 2005)

#Anakin Skywalker #Darth Vader #George Lucas #PSA: Lucas doesn’t mean ‘pathetic’ in a negative way!!! #he’s saying that Anakin/Vader is a figure of immense pathos #and that we the audience are supposed to have sorrow and pity for him!!! #please stop misinterpreting this post thank you :))))