#tinder advice

[bootleg-nessie]

I’ve recently discovered that you can have infinitely more fun on dating apps if you abandon the goal of getting matches

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[kamikaze-shortbus]

Drew my experience using dating apps. Spoiler: it's not been good.

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[animentality]

Women who go on a first date with a guy they've never met before on a hiking trail are insane.

He's telling you where he's going to bury you.

He's taking you out to the woods and showing you which patch of dirt has your name on it.

But the number one worst first date location for unknown men is like. Their house.

He's got lye in a barrel in his foyer, girl.

Do Not go to his house on a first date if you don't know him.

Obviously that rule doesn't apply if they're like, a school buddy or something.

But internet guys??? You've never met before??? Looking for hot girls on tinder?

FIRST FEW DATES IN PUBLIC. have a bestie watching from behind a plant somewhere. Tell your mom when to expect you back and where you were last.

Also if he fucking objects to any of this or acts angry that you don't just trust him, Some Guy, then unmatch and cast your rod again.

This bitch dank and rotten.

Next.

#dating advice #be careful on tinder ladies

[amoralcrackpot]

"It's not easy dating on a single quarter," he said.

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[anzheshyphae]

i love it when my irl friends are like "you know how some people are just really cringe about liking stuff" and basically just continue to describe me in various ways like lmfaoo if you only knew

#this is why i never talk about my interests #also lmao these same people were like. giving me advice on how to create a tinder profile (bc i'm pathetic) and they were like #“just write whatever there. just be yourself!!!” lmaooo being myself yeah thanks great idea except people hate when i do that

[areyouafraidofdating]

A little bit of an update: I had a really good first date last Thursday. I met a guy off tinder and we really hit it off. Hoping it goes well; almost sure it seems too good to be true, but I’m hopeful that it actually is true. 🙏🤞💗✨🔥 (in retrospect perhaps tinder isn’t all that bad??!)

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[monicafinias]

This where to meet wealthy men in your area

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[briellaarrington]

The best thing is to look natural, but it takes makeup to look natural.

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[gaywatercolors]

give me your opinions about my love life cause i really need advice

i've been seeing this guy for 3 months now, we've travelled together and he's a sweetheart but i'm just not in love with him at all. We have a great time together and he's an amazing guy but i just don't love him like that.

NOW yesterday i was on tinder and i came across an ex situationship and i swear my heartbeat dropped instantly and all the feelings came back. He was an asshole who only used me for sex and free booze but he still rocks my world

#love advice #love life #tinder #exes #poll #give me your opinions

[bootleg-nessie]

Roughly 10% of the time I swipe right on dating apps it’s because I just don’t like how their name is spelled. Sorry Beyonkuh but I don’t think I could ever take you seriously in a relationship

#dating advice #dating tips #tinder #bumble #hinge #r/196 #r/196archive #196 #/r/196 #rule #meme #memes #shitpost #shitposting

[cubbie0852]

trying my first dating app, very nervous. any tips/advice before i dive in?

the main thing i'm looking for is to go on a really nice first date. i'm not trying to, like, get married out the gate or anything, but i want to have one good dating experience since all of my other ones have been less than ideal. i don't know if i'm looking in the wrong place or not. eeeeeeek >~<

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[jellyfishjulie]

Has anyone on here tried feeld and if so what was ur experience

#good or bad #not interested in getting back on bumble or tinder after moving #hate trying to tag these so that people will see them #uhh #dating apps #dating advice #need advice #feeld #tinder #bumble

[wht-tf-iswrong-w-me]

Am I The Problem?

I'm annoyed more than anything... Dating has to be the most annoying thing that my life revolves around and I'm so over it. Actually, I'd like to blame it on online dating a bit more as that's where almost all my dates have taken place from. Tinder, Hinge, it really doesn't make a difference, the people I attract are always (minus like one person) fucking weirdos.

I don't know what it is about me but I attract the most unhinged, low self-esteem, sex obsessed, and sad boy weirdos and I need to figure out what the fuck I'm doing wrong because I'm finding it impossible to find one single person who I can get past the third date with.

It's exhausting dating, and as a 22 year old, it's almost getting embarrassing that I can't find someone. I feel like I'm missing out on so much but I also just can't fathom settling for someone I can't be comfortable with and someone that just gets me...

I'm tired of it, maybe I need therapy lol.

Kat <3

#writing #romance #breakup #heartache #heartbreak #relationship #alone with my thoughts #dating advice #dating #friendship #humans are weird #tinder #hinge #mentally fucked #late bloomer #kiss #whats wrong w me #whats wrong with me #whats wrong with you #self love #self care #love #self esteem

[sapphic-luthor]

i am really on the verge of identifying as a lesbian because i feel like that label really does fit me but what’s confusing me is that there is one fictional tv show character who’s a man who is probably the only man i’ll ever Like but it does really confuse me as to why i feel like i may find him attractive but never any man irl

would just like to generally casually direct you to the lesbian masterdoc just in case you were looking for a bit of a read this lovely friday eve

#i will say i am like attracted to many a man who does not exist #this was part of the reason i was able to affirm the fact that im a lesbian and ignore some of that comphet #is bc i realised i only liked men in theory and not in practice at all #in my early days i’d match men on tinder and flirt w them and run for my life if they tried to meet #i’d make eyes at boys at parties and as soon as they approached me be hugely unwelcoming #like i only liked men who didnt exist or whose traits i could invent myself in my mind #and before i knew i was a lesbian i thought that was me ‘being picky’ #but actually it was me purposely (but not consciously) creating unattainable standards that no man alive could fill #because; reader; as you may have guessed; i did not and do not like men #but it took a while to work that out confidently! a long while #take your time in the meantime like #i always was annoyed by people who were like ‘labels don’t matter!’ bc i fucking wanted one i felt good about #and i got there eventually but all i can offer for advice in the meantime is like #nobody cares tbh. just lie. tell somebody you’re a lesbian then tell the next you’re bi and just fuckin wing it #nobody’s gonna bust your door down for using different labels whenever u feel like it #just . kiss women and have crushes on fictional men and eventually itll work its way into a label you’re comfortable with #answered #anonymous

[arionawrites]

how tf did me facetiming someone i matched with on tinder turn into them giving me unsolicited advice about giving people your full attention after i already let them know that i recently got diagnosed as adhd and it’s hard for me to focus on just one thing/person and then them telling me that “based on my behavior” they think i’m autistic like ?? didn’t ask, we literally started messaging each other like a day ago, even if i am autistic (which wouldn’t be a bad thing if i am) when has it ever been socially acceptable to tell someone you JUST MET that you think they’ve got some kind of mental disorder/illness/disability/etc.

my friends have mentioned that i might be autistic and that’s fine bc i’ve spent a lot of time with them and they actually know me and i take their perspective of me very seriously because they’re the people who see me 100% unfiltered and have known me whenever i’ve been completely unmedicated. i trust their word.

this person from tinder, however, i have sent like maybe 20-30 messages to where we talked about nanowrimo and i was like omg it’d be so cool to meet someone who also writes, whether it’s as friends or as more, i would love that—only for our facetime call to be less than 20 minutes long and for them to try and diagnose me as autistic just because i, after ALREADY TELLING THEM that i have adhd and after them asking about meds and me telling them that i haven’t taken my adhd meds today because i didn’t have work and also i’ve taken multiple naps today which has made my head even more foggy and made it even harder than usual to focus, found it difficult to focus.

like. i wasn’t unresponsive. i wasn’t ignoring them. i was listening and i was responding, i just also was looking between my phone and my laptop screen.

which okay i understand that maybe i’m just frustrated because of the “based on your behavior” comment because an 18 minute facetime call does not give someone enough interaction time to try and fucking diagnose me as anything, and maybe this is more of a we just didn’t vibe and that’s fine, i don’t think they’re like a bad person or anything and if nothing else i’m glad the mismatched vibes were felt before deciding to meet up or anything, but also.

eighteen minutes. literally eighteen minutes and they fucking “based on your behavior i think you’re autistic” and “here’s some advice, when meeting new people you should give them your full attention”

FUCK that.

#idk maybe they’re also autistic and thought it was supposed to be helpful? and again i dont think they’re a bad person #and esp if they are some kind of neurodivergent they might not have realized how that comment could come across #so i’m trying not to take it too personally bc 1. i dont rlly know them 2. they dont rlly know me and 3. it has no heavy impact on my life #but also like idk it just was weird and even if they didnt intend to comment to come across like that #i can still be uncomfortable and upset about it #anyways moving on this is why i barely ever open tinder in the first place lmaooo #aricomplains #also like they probably arent all that wrong to be fair #i know it can come across as rude to not put ur full focus on someone esp someone you’ve just met and that is something i want to work on #it just felt weird that i literally explained i have adhd and its hard to focus and i promised them its nothing personal if i struggle #to focus on them while talking and like AFTER i said that they tried to give me that ‘advice’ like i hadnt already addressed it #idk i understand how my actions might have come across as rude or something but if someone told me they had adhd and struggled to focus #i would immediately know not to take it personally if they’re like fidgeting or on their phone while i talk or smth #which i also get is not something everyone has to do too like no one is required to react the same and #blah i’m overthinking this i need to stop #basically: i understand how my part in the ft call might have come across and i addressed it and tried to focus as much as i could #and if they took my lack of focus as rude i understand why and i also understand my ability to focus on people’s something i need to work on #but also the way they approached it rubbed me wrong and those comments made me uncomfortable and upset #but again i started talking to them yesterday and have no obligation to talk to them again so #take this as a lesson and a reminder of why i need to keep working on my ability to focus on people better when talking to them #and also take this as a reminder as to the kind of people i want to spend time with and thats not people who give passive aggressive advice #or try to diagnose someone they JUST met #and then take those lessons and reminders with me as i move on #ok im done now im gonna unmatch w them on tinder and also maybe just delete tinder entirely bc i barely use it anyway and would rather #try to meet people in more authentic ways #honestly my hope is that now that i’m spending like 3 days a week at the library in between shifts #i might meet another library-going sapphic and that would be VERY lovely 🥰

[doyoubelieveinmonsters]

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#oh my god i have a tinder date for the first time ever in my life i'm gonna throw up #why do they make the kissy face emoji at me #any advice????? please help