#feeld

[feeldco]

Don’t hold it in. Spit out your deepest desires on Feeld—a dating app for the curious. In this space, you can show up as yourself and make meaningful connections with people who get you. Meet via the app, or find your people IRL at our events —a place where spitting your truth is highly encouraged. Download Feeld now to explore yourself through exploring others.

#feeld #standup #stand up comedy #funny #dating #sexpositivity #sexuality

[jadagul]

Excerpts from dating profiles I swiped left on:

"If you're a white man who's lucky enough to match with me, make sure to bring offerings".

"I heal my ancestral trauma by dominating white men and making them do things that improve the environment."

(These were two different profiles, seen within the space of a day or two.)

#online dating #feeld #tinder #from a place of privilege

[ianthoni]

Not Ian admitting to being on a BDSM dating app in the assumptions video

LMFAO BESTIE YOU MISSED THIS??? IAN talked about Feeld app in the open mic video. He counted all the kinks he learned there 💀💀💀 "heteroflexible?" You all need to watch it!!!

#smosh #ian hecox #feeld #Ian's assumptions #anthony padilla #tommy bowe #shayne topp #chanse mccrary #arasha lalani

[milksockets]

this feeld dog is precisely me as i swipe through

#men #me #feeld

[dirty--diary]

Slut Era updates:

Original Feeld man continues to provide fun and quality orgasms.

Had a few dates that didn’t go anywhere.

Two pretty disappointing play dates with the same guy. We actually met through Hinge way back and I decided to give it a chance in this capacity but the actual experience left me wanting.

Over all this has been really fun! I’m not exhausted by the attempts. I’ve enjoyed the change in mindset. I’ve grown sexually. Still have a goal of establishing a regular local play partner.

Upcoming:

Day of fun planned with the original Feeld man.

Plus! A weekend planned with someone new, I’m vvvvvv excited about him.

#dirty diary entry #feeld #life

[pretensesoup]

Queer books, day 21/30

Okay, let's take a detour from romance novels to the world of weird fuckin' poetry.

I stumbled on this book by accident, because the press that published it (Milkweed Editions) also published a book by my sister-in-law, and when I was ordering it I asked her if there was anything else I should get off the website. You know, for free shipping.

Although I am a poet, I am only tangentially attached to the world of poetry, so I can't say this with any surety, but it does seem to me that transness is something that poetry rarely touches upon. Homosexuality in general, yes--poetry has for sure been super gay since like Gilgamesh (see also Shakespeare, Sappho, Whitman, Wilde, Housman, Auden, I cannot list them all in one parenthetical note). And most poetry is not like Charles's poetry anyway, which uses a Middle English-esque dialect that is Charles's own invention. The play of words and puns she is able to create would certainly make James Joyce ecstatic, but the use of Middle English is an interesting choice that might bear some examination.

Off the top of my head, Middle English started to be a thing at the time of Chaucer--by which I mean that our boy Geoffrey was the first one to write down language the way people were speaking, not that he invented the language or something. So writing in this new/old mode evokes a particular type of creation--not of something de novo necessarily (although the language in feeld is of course new), but of potentially bringing to light themes and ideas that a lot of trans people struggle with, as well as a moment in history when the world is shifting, and being out as a trans person is suddenly a thing people do in a way it wasn't when I was younger.

(To be clear, there have always been trans people. We talk about this in the podcast all the time--see for example this episode's discussion of Brother Marinos and a lot of this episode which talks about Eleno/Elena de Cespedes and the Blind Prophet Tiresias who switched genders and, like, a lot of other episodes. However, trans people didn't organize/discuss their experiences so publicly/as a political class until fairly recently. So the parallel of "everyone was speaking this language but no one wrote it down until now" feels apt.)

Another way this language feels appropriate to this book is the way that it forces an interpretation by the reader--when Charles writes, "i ware / & inn a hiv / u r born", does "hiv" mean "hive"? "HIV"? Can we trust that it will have the same meaning the next time it appears (e.g., "befor the wharing / the hiv")? In a way, this recreates the interpretive act trans people constantly experience when they meet cis people--another thing chronicled by Charles when she writes, "how many/ holes would blede/ befor/ u believ/ imma grl." But here, because the language is Charles's, she always has the reader at an advantage.

Here's a poem that struck me:

Anyway. Poetry! Who knew. You can definitely buy this one from Milkweed Editions, which is a small press and so always in need of/deserving of love. 10/10, go read it.

#jos charles #feeld #pride #lgbtq books #weird poetry alright #middle english #hey medievalists don't come after me #i think you're all very cool #thirty days of books #poetry #book review

[trueloveandotherscificoncepts]

queer culture is finding all your old theatre kid friends on feeld

#queer things #feeld #dating apps #personal

[feeldco]

Don’t hold it in. Spit out your deepest desires on Feeld—a dating app for the curious. In this space, you can show up as yourself and make meaningful connections with people who get you. Meet via the app, or find your people IRL at our events —a place where spitting your truth is highly encouraged. Download Feeld to explore yourself and others.

#feeld #community #lgbtq+ #queer dating #human connection #comedy #funny

[nakedcomedy]

#los angeles #jade catta preta #nori reed #eli olsberg #danielle perez #la #the lodge room #live comedy #feeld #feeld social #stand up comedy #free #nightlife

[dumb-doll-lips]

What app do you use ?

I’ve been on the app feeld. So I have no other like dating app or whatever experience to compare it too, but I’ve been liking it a lot. I think it’s like framed as a more non-monogamy friendly app. I went w trying it out bc of that and it felt like it fit in a bit more to not have a face pic right away.

From chatting w guys, I’ve noticed like a couple different types on there, guys who are doing the ethical non-monogamy thing, bulls, guys being non-ethically non-monogamous, and guys who think the app works well for getting straight to fucking. And all of those can be pretty fun so it’s worked out well for me.

#ask #I super love thé term non ethically non-monogamous #it feels cute #feeld

[milksockets]

feeld really out here pulling shit like this when their app has always been and continues to be excruciatingly, fundamentally atrocious

#feeld #BFFR

[jellyfishjulie]

Has anyone on here tried feeld and if so what was ur experience

#good or bad #not interested in getting back on bumble or tinder after moving #hate trying to tag these so that people will see them #uhh #dating apps #dating advice #need advice #feeld #tinder #bumble

[wittylittle]

J’étais dans un party avec de très vieux amis que j’avais pas vus depuis longtemps.

Comment ça va ?

« Super bien, j’ai un nouvel appart de luxe dans le vieux. Oui oui je suis toujours en couple avec le Patron, j’ai juste décidé d’habiter seule. Oh et aussi j’ai un autre amoureux au Pays de Galles. Oh aussi je suis polyamoureuse. Qui est ce mec autour du bbq dans la cour? Est-ce qu’il est célibataire? »

Je me disais que c’était bien de les sortir un peu de leur zone de confort.

Il y avait un chien et un chat, j’avais oublié ma pompe d’asthme. J’ai quitté la fête dès que K a annoncé qu’il rentrait chez lui. Un lift gratuit, ça ne se refuse pas quand on est dans le Nord de la ville.

De retour à la maison vers 22h j’ai ouvert mon app de dating en me servant des Gin Soda.

Un garçon TDAH qui habite près de chez moi était en ligne. Je lui ai demandé s’il voulait aller prendre une marche. J’ai mis des canettes dans mon sac à dos et on s’est fait des cocktails dans le vieux port. Il m’a dit qu’il aimerait m’embrasser. C’était vraiment le fun. On cliquait vraiment trop bien. Il connaît les paroles des chansons de Weezer. Il baise bien. Il est parti de chez moi quand Le Soleil se levait. Il m’envoie des cœurs et des playlists par texto. Je suis ravie. Nous l’appelleront Le voisin.

#mes amants #mes histoires #le voisin #feeld

[domlafou]

Weird Medieval October. Day 17. Unicorn Hunt(ers).

#inktober #wmgtober #weird medieval guys #feeld #polyamory #unicorn hunters #medieval #bisexual problems #marginalia

[rootytootydroppindoody]

I’m case you are wondering, the dating app “Feeld” that is advertised on tumblr was a failed app called “3nder” that had attempted a shitty rebrand.

It’s just tinder with more bots.

Here’s my reply when they asked why I was leaving.

#feeld #tinder

[reductosshrinkgun]

I'm bored aka so here's a list of dating apps I use and my mini reviews:

Feeld - originally the most promising because it's more for polyam people; also the most fun at first. Has since devolved into lots of couples/swingers looking for thirds. Overall as someone who is interested in finding a primary, it hasn't been helpful. 7/10

OKCupid - has excellent identity options but has been paywalling too many features. And not to be mean but everyone I see say they like it best is typically white and a level of nerd that I'm not at. 5/10

Her - so I originally avoided this one because of the name, but this is where a lot of Black trans mascs are in my area which was exciting. The site and interface is cute and I love the banners you can use. But no one reads profiles; and there are too many "no poly" and "no mascs/femmes" comments for me to feel like I belong there. 5/10

Jack'd/Scruff - these are essentially the same cruising app. Like seriously they are exactly the same but color coded lmao. In DC Jack'd (red) has mainly Black queer men and Scruff (blue) has mainly white. I love the tagging system but can't find people in my area using said tags. I bumped it up a point because they're both less overwhelming than Grindr. 4/10

Grindr - has the most trans/non-binary people but finding each other also means opening yourself up to chasers. There's a wild mix on here but I get both the most messages and the most unwanted dick pics. Feels the most chaotic (though apparently Sniffies is worse lmao) but also has a great tagging system. The app also paywalls *a lot* and there are *constant* long ads. I would rate it so much higher without the ads. 3/10

Anywho they all ultimately suck and I hate them but still lurk on them 🤸🏾‍♂️. I'm a sex neutral ace/demi who's kinky af and I have limited time/energy. I look for people who are interested in intentional communication and kink education. I have not found a good app for my needs, at all, and figure I never will lol.

Like, if I was into NSA or FWBs I would be *eating* right now. But since I'm not (and I'm COVID cautious) it's hard as fuck to find good matches. It's all pretty stressful and demoralizing, so I don't take these apps seriously anymore. And they're all fucking paywalled and make us commodity ourselves in ways I'm not comfortable with.

(There are also multiple guides for trans masculine ppl and cruising apps like Jack'd/Scruff/Grindr. They have a lot of possibilities, they just don't work for me right now.)

#dating apps #feeld #her #jack'd #scruff #okcupid #grindr #also the race players are the fucking worst on Grindr #like NO I am not interested in BWC you fucking weirdo