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๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐. ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ "๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐."
๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข, ๐๐ ๐๐๐m๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐.
๐ธ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐(specifically in religions)๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ "๐๐๐" ๐๐ "๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐."
๐ธ๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐:
๐๐๐ chart ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐. ๐ณ๐๐๐๐'๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ like ๐๐๐ ๐๐ก๐๐๐ same ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ have been ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ข ๐๐๐ throughout history?
๐ธ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐.
๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ข๐, ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ข.
๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ "๐๐๐๐๐ข" ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐'๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐. ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐.
๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐. ๐ฐ๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ธ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ข(๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐) ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐.
๐น๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐โ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐โ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐. ๐ด๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข, ๐ธ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐ธ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ "๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐" ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ธ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐.
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐. ๐ธ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ก ๐๐ก๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข. ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐.
๐ฐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐. ๐ป๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐, ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐.
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐. ๐ฑ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐. ๐ฑ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ก๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐.
๐ฝ๐๐ ๐ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ธ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข:
The Divinity Discourse
When God Was A Woman
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Physical appearance of your Future Spouse - mini pac reading โงหยฐ.
pick only one picture and allow me to tap into your energy, please.
pile 01
so! Just before pulling out your cards, i channeled an image of the famous singer "Arman malik" , so your fs may look like them if they are a male or they have those features. I also see that your fs may be blonde and they may have a bunny teeth and a significant jawline too ^^
they are young and athletic, they have a great, muscular figure. They seem to work out a lot or they are well involved in sports. They have a well maintained moustache too. They can be tall to medium height.
they have very soft features, very childike and innocent. They have a fresh look to them, neat and clean. They like to maintain hygiene with their body.
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your fs can be from a foreign or exotic country. they look different from how people usually look in your country, something about their appearance is unique.
im seeing they like wearing baggy clothes, it's just their style that im picking up. they have a silent and mysterious look to them, dark academia vibes is what i feel about them.
they have black curly hair, and may have soft freckles on their face. they are youthful and sensual. they may like showing off their body or sensual features.
pile 03
we have 3 kings straight in a row! They are someone very masculine and dominating. They look VERY masculine! They have fierce and rough features. A well maintained moustache too.
They come from a wealthy and powerful background and it shows in their appearance and style. They like wearing accessories, expensive perfumes and wrist watches.
Their skin color is tan and their hair are straight and brown. They have a strong aura and straightforward look. They are usually expressionless so it's hard to know what's going on in their mind. They look manly.
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Lake Como, ๐ฎ๐น
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Message from your dark feminine side โค๐
Select a pile to check your message.
Pile 1 - The hanged Man and the Fool
Don't take anyone shit and be blunt. The energy is cut throat . You are highly worth, stop wearing your heart on sleeves for the men who belong to streets. Choose who you want to become and give access to your energy to lesser people this is a high form of self care. Learn from the past and leave the past and move ahead. Your higher self and dark feminine both have a vision for you. Choose tasks which are important plan your day and meditate. Sort out your issues and fave bad shit then looking around for someone else to do that.You aren't here to portray or be a saint don't date a douchebag you have enough to support you. Embrace your light feminine side it will bring ideas to life. Trust your higher self more and people less. Give priority to things and people who deserve it. Learn to give yourself first. Stay awaken and away from lower vibrational women . Be a woman of your words, don't force your opinion or lifestyle on a man. What's insulting is you choose to dive deep into guilt and not choose to talk about the issues and use your consciousness. You need to take time and optimize the opportunities you have. Incorrect way of conveying your opinion needs to be looked upon. Awaken yourself, by saying bye to old self and cut ties. Use your logic, write and talk. Upcoming Business woman could be attracted to this pile. High level of potential this pile has and also your inner child is powerful.
Pile 2 - The magician and Knight of cups.
Outgrow, your world could be shaking in one form or another if not now then it fucking will. Your belief system, encounters with situations that will make you feel you and speak for yourself. You are suppressed and with a lot of self beliefs. Your higher self is asking for you to ask guidance. The artistic field people will be attracted to this pile. A lot of you will feel uneasy and will be realising shadow somehow you have this idea. Your dark feminine side is telling you to take a lead. Fuck the rest of the world and it's so angry so that's why it's kinda subtle . Your dark feminine side is fair and shaking the world inside you. You wanna bring life and flowers and love but it can't be without a storm. Stop murdering yourself and letting people step on you. The manifestations could be coming true. A lot of self belief and restoring is coming.
Disclaimer - it's a general message, feel free to leave what doesn't resonate with you.
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PICK A CARD: MESSAGES FROM SHIV-SHAKTI (DIVINE MASCULINE-DIVINE FEMININE)
Left: 111 ; Right: 333
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Justice will be served, itโs been long due for you isnโt it? You have been waiting, praying, hoping and have been hopeless and joyless too. This is your confirmation of justice being handed to you. Especially in relationships, I see someone along thinking they will never find somebody, some people came almost too good to be true, and as you suspected they werenโt, they betrayed you, made a fool of you, but I am being told to tell you, that you were not the fool, how can someone so pure, someone whoโs intent was nothing but innocent is the fool? Why do we think that pessimism is maturity and optimism being naive? Isnโt the true fool the one who betrays? Arenโt they the one who actually lost something good due to their own stupidity. Please go BACK TO TRUSTING YOURSELF. You will find a partner who trusts themselves too, a union of too mature adults, a union grounded in reality, a union till death do you part, a union with kids and family, a union of loyalty and legacy, a union joining two communities. MOST IMPORTANTLY, A UNION OF MUTUAL RESPECT AND UNDERSTANDING. You will be soon tied to your destiny, weather a partner for most of you or life purpose, or the balance of the yin and yang, but its time to go around the sacred fires and take sacred vows. Also the number 7 and 11 popped up, these are soulmate numbers, you could marry your soulmate or for some of you, they could be a friend. YOU or the, could be born on the 7, 16, 25th or 11th , 20th, 29th be a 7 or 11 life-path.
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(There are many messages, take what resonates and leave the rest)
For some of you: you donโt reach the sun from earth on foot, change your plans, you are dreaming big so why is the planย so hurried, you donโt trust this plan either so why are you hurried pushing it further, whatโs yours wonโt get copied, put your own unique touch, but for that you need time, you are a good leader, motivating and charming, but whatโs the need to hurry. LEARN PATIENCE. I am seeing someone overwhelmed, who wants to stop or slowdown but wonโt admit to themselves.ย
KEEP MOMENTUM, but do not be hurried, you get hurried, then frustrated and then nothing seems to work out and then it forms a loop, relax. I AM GETTING VERY FRUSTRATED ENERGY FROM YOU and anxious.ย
Oooo, BIG KING ENERGY! You are a person with intense passion and a solid plan, thatโs rare. You might be the creative type that is logical too. Maybe you never could just fit in one category but like clay kept taking the shape the energy or the activity needed from you. Itโs confirmed, you are not meant to be in a box. The message here is to take the logical, analytical mind take a back seat in the initial stages, donโt critique yourself or your plans too much, let the energy take form, during the course of times, things self correct automatically.ย
SAVE THIS AND RE-READ THIS, take a print or screenshot, but please donโt just read and move on without doing anything about yourself. Hope you feel better, and keep taking deep breathes.ย
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"He said he was attracted to my resiliency."
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PAC - WHY SHOULD YOU FOCUS ON YOURSELF INSTEAD OF YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE RIGHT NOW ?
Just meditate and ask your guides/higher power to provide you insight.
Allow me to tap into your energy. ๐งฟ
My readings are always honest and I don't sugarcoat things, pls read at your own risk. And try to have an open mind. ๐๐งฟ๐
Pile 1
Cards - 7 of wands, 6 of pentacles, 8 of wands
Are you in a hurry to meet them? Your future spouse? You are rushing things and trying to get ahead of your circumstances or the present reality. You know what pile 1? You still have a lot of parts unhealed of your soul. And this is not allowing you to fly freely as you should. You may feel like your fears are greater than you, but trust me they are not. You have all the power over your fears!
In the hurry of meeting them, you are forgetting your own self. You need to love yourself first before loving someone else. You should give yourself more time to think and process things. You should try to ground yourself in the present. Try to do root chakra and sacral chakra healing. Your fears have created some energy blocks which aren't helping you at all.
Don't worry, your desire of wanting to meet the one for you is being addressed by the universe. You will get what you want. But you need to heal yourself first. Clear your karma and self doubts.
Pile 2
Cards - 10 of pentacles, 7 of cups, 4 of pentacles
Pile 2 my loves, are going through a spiritual transformation or awakening right now. You can't miss any steps in the journey right? Please focus on healing yourself more.
Okay, so I can see that you are trying to manifest love and abundance in your life or you are just dreaming and visualizing about it. Let me tell you this one thing, that it definitely is working in your favour but you also need to break the walls of protection that surround you. You are scared to go outside and meet new people. Dear, please understand that you need to get out of your dreams and delusions and actually step out of your comfort zone to meet your future spouse.
Your future spouse on the other hand are too trying to heal their inner child wounds. They are saying that you need to get stable in life. You lack grounded energy and are underconfident about a lot of things. Please try to let go of any insecurities that surround you. Because they are hampering your growth, pile 2.
Pile 3
Cards : Temperance, 7 of wands, 5 of cups
Do you have this tendency to get depressed whenever you don't get any messages from the pick a card readings of? Don't be dependent for love on anyone, not even your future spouse. Love them, but stay away from unhealthy attachments. The reason of their no communication is because they are busy. They are working hard in their career right now. And you too should now focus on your career and goals.
Everything is well when taken in moderation. Balance love and career both logically and like a healthy human being please. You also have this tendency to run away from problems or sadness and indulge yourself in overworking don't do that.
Some of you could be in same sex relationships and you are thinking that things won't work out. Well, things would work out if you make them work out. Try to take bold decisions and stand for that decision.
Don't look back at the past, this is the final step to meet your fs. Just keep going.
Pile 4
Cards : Strength, 9 of cups, 4 of swords
You lack compassion for your own self. You are someone who gives everything to others but feels bad for giving it to yourself. You may connect well with plants and animals or just nature in general. Try to work on your self worth and don't critisize yourself too much.
You have many things to deal with right now. You have many parts unhealed. Try to relax and rejuvenate more physically as well as mentally and spiritually. It'll be good for your overall well being. Try to play with pets or just stroll in nature for sometime to refresh your mind.
You feel like there's so much competition somehow (?) And try to give yourself small rewards for accomplishing tasks. Try to celebrate your small successes please. You need to celebrate yourself more in order to attract the right partner for yourself.
You need to be in the energy of self love and good self worth to attract good partners who emit the same frequency. Do you understand? Lots of love to you.
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A matter of timeโฑ
(A long af ramble)
I donโt care how long youโve known some people, what the bond was, if theyโre relatives, part of a community, childhood friends, best work buddies etc.
Everybody isnโt meant to stay in your life!
During my spiritual journey I realized you canโt โhelicopterโ over the people you care about. Itโs a dysfunctional love language many of us have. I wanted to support and guide my loved ones to the best of my ability. Iโm known as the therapist/fixer of any friend group Iโm apart of.
Iโm the Olivia Pope of this shit. However, I would end up being the emotional trash bag ,while they reject every plausible solution presented. Im the person strategizing how to get them on track and distracting from my own goals to save theirs (ppl pleasing). Silently seething because not only do they seem to care very little about themselves โฆ but also about my time and effort in supporting them! Theyโre turning up while Iโm stressing for them.
I also realized a lot of these actions stemmed from events in my childhood, but I digress!
Then the โAh haโ moment hit!
They donโt owe me shit.
Why? โฆ because itโs not my job to do that! Theyโre not calling for advice. Theyโre calling to vent. Yes, being a good listening ear is part of being a good support as well. We donโt always have to swoop in with โwhat you should do isโฆโ. I also learned my actions of support make me seem like a โknow it allโ with good intentions. It sends signals that I donโt believe they are capable of figuring out their own issues. As if they were mentally challenged. This dynamic breaths life into resentment.
However, for people like me , that becomes exhausting after while. Loved ones complaining about the same bullshit misfortunes over & over without looking for solutions, better discernment, or to establish positive patterns/habits. Constantly returning back into the arms of what has them forever frustrated. Wanting you to hold all of their emotional and dysfunctional baggage. You are being spiritually drained!
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Especially, if youโve done the work for your own lifeโs outcome! With or without therapy! Youโve put in the effort aside from your prayers. Now, youโre reaping the peaceful benefits of the investment in your life. You feel your spirit and life being led to better pastures โฆ.Itโs time to realizeโฆ
Youโve outgrown them.
itโs time to love them from afar!
The dynamic you once shared has expired/changed. The people you were in the beginning, No longer exists now. Itโs no longer serving or fulfilling.
People will always prioritize themselves (as they should). You need to make sure you do the same. Nobody will care about you more than yourself as an adult. You can care for your loved ones, and wish them well. Give them guidance if specifically asked. However, we canโt live for them or force them to take our advice! It doesnโt matter how great the quality of our advice isโฆ. We donโt even have to experience the consequences of the advice we give them! They have the choice of what to take and what to leave! We donโt even know if we have all the facts of the scenario anyway. They have their journey and you have yoursโฆ
Butโฆ.
If their dysfunctional life starts to effect yours just being in their companyโฆyou begin reaping their consequences for their choicesโฆyou notice yourself regressing โฆ you recognize youโve lost sight or esteem of your own life missionโฆ
Fall back.
You are the average of the 5 closest people to you. Choose wisely!
The mental ease you receive for allowing people to โdo themโ and letting go is priceless. Now you have time to dedicate towards your own conquests , continue your own development, and learn from your own choices.
Iโm rambling nowโฆ but one last thing
Beware: When people notice you walking away to a better life, they may morph into your enemy. They may spill your secrets, smear you, they may not even care about your absence. If thatโs the case Itโs all goodโฆ some people can live in your heart but not in your life!
Keep the grass cut๐พ๐๐พ
-KANAAN๐ฑ
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"Kiss"
by Miles Johnston
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The Fixed Cross: Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius.
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