#everyone is different

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

You Can Be Autistic And…

Have a romantic partner

Have a job

Have a social life

Make eye contact

Use sarcasm frequently

Be empathetic

Use facial expressions

Communicate well

Not like trains

Understand emotions

Enjoy being intimate

Have a sense of humor

Not be a what cis male

Not have sensory issues

Struggle with science

Not have a special interest

Look attractive

Make phone calls

Have emotions

Have good hygiene

Enjoy fiction

Have an imagination

Wear make up

Use language well

Positively DBT - BPD, Autism, ADHD Peer Support

#autism #actually autistic #you can still be autistic and do these things #autism spectrum disorder #everyone is different #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #actually neurodivergent #feel free to share/reblog #Positively DBT BPD Autism ADHD Peer Support

[soulinkpoetry]

This year I’ve learned that you can’t force people to stay with you through your hard times, nor can you blame them for not staying. If they could, they would have. Everyone’s cup of love,acceptance and tolerance has different capacities.”

@soulinkpoetry

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#you can’t blame anyone #everyone is different #love #acceptance #tolerance #it is what it is #soulinkpoetry #poetry #thoughts #she writes #feelings #poets on tumblr #writers and poets #poets corner #poets community

[myymi]

ohh if you can i would appreciate some tips!! honestly writers are so admirable we dont give yall enough credit🙏🙏🙏

well, for me to give you the absolute best tips i can to help out, i need to know what exactly you're struggling with when it comes to writing. there are about a million different tips i can give you for about a million different things and some of those tips will be completely useless to you

for now though, i'll give you the things that help me getting into a writing mood + general tips i give to new writers and if you still need further help you can explain what exactly you're struggling with and ill do my best to help out;

1) whatever you learned about formatting essays; forget it.

a common thing i see in new writers is they try to write it like an essay. which isn't a bad idea really, but it is restricting. your paragraphs don't have to be four or more sentences. they can only be one if you want. it's your story, format it however you want. you don't need to follow rules

2) listening to music

this is mostly for when you have that one specific scene in your head but have no idea what to do for the rest of the fic. listening to music and connecting the lyrics to the characters you're using is a great way to get your mind thinking. one song can give you several different ideas depending on how you interpret it

3) make sure you are in a good mood

personally, i cannot write to save my life if im upset or just generally having a bad day. i know some people can use creating as a way to cheer themselves up, but it just doesn't work out for me lol

4) if you don't need background noise, don't use it

it's pretty easy to get distracted when writing, especially when you have something new playing. if you do need background noise of some kind, i would advise playing instrumental music or that one movie/show that you've seen a thousand times and could quote in your sleep. keep your focus on your writing

5) brackets will be your best fucking friend when writing

one of the most important things about writing is keeping your flow going. if you find yourself writing sentence after sentence for a good while and then you suddenly hit a stop because you don't know how to word what happens next; throw it in brackets and write the scene after it. its the same reason why you're told to skip questions you get stuck on when taking a test. let your brain do what it knows it can and come back to the tricky stuff later.

6) you don't have to write anything in order

you don't have to write a story exactly start to finish. you can jump between any scene you'd like and find out how to connect it to a different scene another time. this kinda ties into the last tip in the sense that you gotta let your brain do what it knows. if you only know the beginning and the end then write those first and figure out the rest as you go. if you need to edit either one of the previous things then that's okay. there's no shame in changing things around, it's just how creating things go. sometimes change is needed

7) writing prompts

for new writers, i like to tell them to find a prompt online to write a story for before they start their own. using a prompt someone else made keeps your brain from getting overwhelmed, allowing you to focus more on finding a writing style that works best for you. using writing prompts also lets your brain find ways to contribute to a story without having it make everything while also figuring out how to put it on paper. it's easy to overwhelm the brain, so let it get used to writing before you start creating your own ideas. (this is also something i advise to people who experience burnout or just cant think of anything to write. your brain just needs a break from creating ideas right now, go and find a prompt for it)

8) word count

listen to me because this is so important; ignore the word count. you need to focus on learning, not how much you're writing. it doesn't matter if you only wrote 50 words when other people have fics well over 50k. ignore it. you are learning, you'll get there eventually. if you focus too much on how much you're writing you're going to stress yourself out and ultimately drive yourself away from ever writing again. treat word counts as milestones. start with 50, then 100, then 150, then 200, etc. let yourself work towards it slowly rather than push yourself too hard right out the gate. you can't expect to draw the mona lisa the first time you put a pencil to a paper, so don't expect to write thousands of words the first time you write a story. it'll take time, and that's perfectly okay.

9) analyze the shit out of your characters

this is easier when writing fanfiction, but take a few hours to learn your characters. find the content they're in and hyper-focus on what they're doing. pay attention to their speech patterns, their body language, their relationships with others, etc. if they're not in a scene, try to imagine they are and what'd they do and/or say if they were. it'll help out with keeping them in character when writing

10) if you get to a point where you can't write anymore even when using brackets; stop writing for the day

we have our limits. you will get to a point where you can't get another word down and that's okay. it doesn't matter if you've only written a handful of words, close your program and wait until you feel motivation hit you again. if you keep trying to force yourself to write when you just can't then you're going to burn yourself out. the most probable reason for this is writer's block, which means you need to focus on other things for a while. give your brain time to recollect itself. it's annoying, i know, but it's better for you if you just let your brain do what it needs to. it knows how to take care of itself, so let it.

i also have a tag i use whenever i give tips, so you can check those out as well to see if anything helps! it's just writing tips

#if these end up not helping you that is okay #everyone is different #what works for me wont always work for you #mess around with it until something does work #just remember not to push yourself too hard #learning takes time. don't rush it #writing things #writing asks #writing tips #anon #anonymous #anon ask

[evilhorse]

If a person avoided everyone who was different from him, he’d avoid everyone

#captain america #steve rogers #the falcon #falcon #sam wilson #everyone is different #let’s stay together #poor cap #steve englehart #sal buscema #marvel comics #comics #70s comics

[chevron-misc]

Hey friendly reminder to resist the urge to think in black and white

Seeing the recent science about ssri's not being as effective as people think scares me. Not because I'm particularly attached to old information, but because I KNOW people are gonna read it as 'ssri's don't work'

Your doctor will talk about the percent chances with you. They tend to bring up success rate even if you don't ask

Ssri's are still varyingly effective for some people

I am some people

They make my life not just survivable, but vibrant

Thank you

#everyone is different #ssri #depression #literacy #media literacy

[mulderscully]

the obsession some of the rwrb fandom has abt firstprince using or not using tongue on screen is so odd bc... i am such a huge romcom fan and i don't think i've seen very many romantic comedy kiss/love scenes that include much tongue? i assume it must be difficult to film that correctly and like.... controversial but tongue kissing can be lowkey gross if you do it wrong there i said it and even if when it's not kissing is great without tongue too.

#like the spit scene in disobedience spit scene genuinely made me wanna gag #but ik some ppl LOVED it #the jennifer's body one is good but it's so on the edge of being gross lol #everyone is different #byt rwrb is not that kind of movie. it's a romcom #ik we never rly get those but lmfao #rwrb

[perpetualnovelboyfriend]

man not to throw a pity party on main but more than a few author acquaintances are using now to shout out how many books they've written this year and I'm sitting here still struggling to write the last two chapters of the same one I was supposed to finish 2 years ago

feels bad man

#EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT #AND THEIR LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE DIFFERENT #AND THEIR PROCESSES ARE DIFFERENT #I just yearn for the days I was faster #would like to do that again someday...

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

#better person #pure intentions #who you are #remembered #pain #pain is inevitable #understanding #what you are #feelings #what i feel #why i am like this #overcome #overcoming #expectations #reality #disappointed #everyone is different #acceptance #proud of myself #respect #proud of who I am #quotes #words #life lessons #wisdom #inspirational words #growth #healing #self knowledge

[the-one-and-only-teddybear]

If you don't enjoy it and it's not helping you. Don't do it.

#rp channel #otabek altin #life advice #it's just not worth the tears #everyone is different

[1p2p-heta-imagines]

In the 2pItaly yandere headcanons , you said he goes into states where he isn't conscious of what he's doing , can you explain what you meant because I'm a little confused ? Thank you:)

Of course! In my headcanons, 2p N. Italy is mentally ill, something I've expanded on a little here and there.

To clarify for others, a headcanon was his brothers have a sort of tracker on him to monitor him in case he goes into a state where he's not exactly conscious or aware of what he's doing.

Paranoid schizophrenia is the main thing I talk about him having and sometimes when he's hallucinating or delusional, he will just run off. He may believe people around him are unsafe, that something/someone is out to get him, that he's being watched, etc. so he will run off and not realise he's ended up somewhere he's never been before

Another one is PTSD which can cause dissociation so sometimes he'll dissociate for however long and not remember anything of that time. In these states, he can also just end up wandering off.

Because of these, his brothers thought it best to be able to keep track of him when they may both be busy. They always have the knowledge of where he is and it helps keep him safe.

#2p #Hetalia #2p Hetalia #2p Italy #2p Hetalia Headcanons #2p Headcanons #2ptalia Headcanons #2ptalia #This is all based on my experiences with dissociation and psychosis by the way!! #Yours may look different and that doesn't make it any less real #Everyone is different

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Autistic Experience

Autisticality

#autism #actually autistic #autism awareness month #autism acceptence month #autism experience #personal experiences #everyone is different #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #actually neurodivergent #feel free to share/reblog #Autisticality (facebook)

[meet-me-behindthemall12]

TW: eating disorders

can we talk about body image for a minute? i feel like we don’t realize the progress that people put into work on themselves until we put it side by side.

this is just an example (because i’m a swiftie and she’s famous so it’s easy to find pictures), but this:

turned into this:

people may not see your progress now. but it’s happening. jensen mcrae once said “you are worthy of love, you are worthy of all that you need.”

if you are trying your best, you are getting somewhere

remember that.

#taylor swift #taylornation #taylor #i love you taylor #taylor swift debut #body image #treat your body how it needs to be treated #everyone is different #shake hands with yourself and say hi #because you need to know yourself to improve yourself #you can do it #you can face this #you’re on your own kid

[patience-and-positivity]

Where you are in life does not define who you are in life. 

#positivity #pma #everyone is different #go at your own pace

[disneysooner]

I’ve been on a Mickey Mouse kick lately, and rewatched Runaway Brain. I, personally, love it! It’s got the right amount of comedy and horror that I can handle. Mickey is his typical comical heroic self. Where it is controversial with most fans is seeing Mickey get “possessed” by Julius, but it’s not even possession; it’s brain swapping. I think, despite the mixed reviews on it, it brings back elements of some of the old black and white cartoons that deal with mad scientists and scary things.

#my post #poll #disney #mickey mouse #minnie mouse #julius #cartoon #short #runaway brain #my opinion #everyone is different

[bookingfangirl]

So it’s time for me to go on a little rant. And I don’t know who needs to hear this but: YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIKE EVERYTHING YOUR FRIENDS DO. (Also disclaimer we are NOT SHAMING ANYBODY in this, just my thoughts). So like a few weeks ago I was talking with my friends and we were talking about having a Halloween party. So one of my friends (the one who’s house we would have gone to) asked me how I would feel if we watched a horror movie. Now, I hate horror, like basically everything about it. I don’t like gory horror, or psychological horror, or any other kind. My friends know this (again, no shaming anybody or making anyone feel guilty) but you know they always want to check if you’ve  changed your mind. And we did actually have a great talk about horror and maybe why I didn’t like it, as well as alternatives if it got too scary, but I left feeling very unsure, and said maybe I could try? But here’s the thing: I have tried. I’ve tried watching horror movies a few times, and every time, I just hate it, like, it doesn’t work for me. So basically what I’m trying to say is: you don’t need to like the same things as everybody else, nor do you need to justify these dislikes. In fact, it’s probably better that your friend group doesn’t all like the same things, like think of how boring that would be! You wouldn’t learn about anything new or exciting! And I know it’s hard to realize that you might be pushing something onto someone else that maybe makes them feel uncomfortable, hell, I’ve done it too! We probably all have. But the moral of the story is that you should try and realize when you might be doing that and accept that not everyone enjoys the things you do. So yeah. That's it I guess. Bye.

#everyone is different #and that's a good thing

[just-your-average-tangerine]

This is off from what most people are talking about in this discussion but...

I do find it funny that people assume that going on t is going to make you lose your hair. That's not always the case. Its genetic. I have one parent who's hair is thinning and was fully grey by age 30. It's my mother.

Just looking at hair, my father died at 64 with a full head of thick dark hair. My mother's hair is thinning, she's had bald spots since her 30s, and has had fully grey hair my entire life. I gotta say, I like my odds being on t.

#similar thing for weight gain as well #like yeah i have gained weight being on t #still wear the same size clothes #still look feel and am perfectly healthy #in fact if i lose weight i look bad #i look deathly ill at what is considered a 'healthy weight' #im like 40 pounds over the 'ideal weight' for ny height #meanwhile if i lose more than abiut 10 pounds people start thinking im sick #everyone is different #op