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beau-is-here · 2 months
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Why has Husk never stood up for himself, especially when uncomfortable over Angel's advances?
Well, what if it's because of the very deer who owns his soul.
(TW FOR SLIGHT SA/ABUSE REFERENCES, MENTIONS OF BEING DRUGGED) (ITS ANGEL DUST)
ALRIGHT YALL, BEAU IS BACK WITH ANOTHER ANALYSIS. I'm so excited to be writing a Husk-centric one, he's one of my favorite characters!
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So, we all know Angel likes to flirt, and this is mostly because of the way he copes with his own situation. Husk makes it very prominent about his discomfort towards these gestures, as he's the main victim of Angel's fake flirting.
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While he shows his discomfort, however, he never actually tells Angel to stop. All he does is push him away, weather that is an annoyed reaction or literally pushing him away. He never sets boundaries, or even says no to him.
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This all changes when Charlie introduces the concept of boundaries to Husk, as she had crossed Angel's earlier with the Valentino situation. While Husk seems annoyed about her remark, he takes it to Husk.
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When Husk talks to Angel after saving him from being drugged at a club, we notice him setting boundaries for the first time, saying that Angel is always "pushing [his] boundaries". He also uses the same language he learns from Charlie earlier with the boundaries talk.
But why does Husk never set boundaries before this? Because he can not.
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Husk is on a leash, meaning he has to take every order from his boss, or he could lose his life. He can't say no.
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And Alastor's treatment only reinforces how not only hopeless he is, but how powerless he is over his own life. He can not back away from Alastor's grasp, and it makes him feel like he has no choice on how others treat him, especially with Angel Dust.
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I wonder who's situation this remind me of?
But it makes sense that one person struggling with boundary issues is the one to hurt someone else struggling with boundary issues.
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But when Husk opens up about his boundaries, it makes both parties feel better. Husk feels more in control of his life, having the ability to say no. Angel dust feels in control of his life as well, having the respect to not have to essentially sell himself to feel respected, as boundaries are in place to respect all involved.
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Because he is willing to open up about his boundaries, it actually makes Husk feel more comfortable around Angel Dust, as he knows Angel's remarks will only be that of light hearted rather than sexualizing (to an uncomfortable degree). This is why Angel and Husk are able to become so close; as the trust formed between them allows them to open up to each other. This is a healthy relationship. Romantic or not, HuskerDust has really gone a long way for the best!
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sunny-boooo · 4 months
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I feel like I have to warn everyone now because saw some people talking about it already.
BRUNIM IS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH OTHER SHIPPS BESIDES BRUNEVER.
He's friends with Forever for a long time and doesn't like people shipping his cubito with other people, it's against his bounderies. I'm saying this because there are people shipping him with Q!B4d, pls don't do that.
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theghoulboysblog · 4 months
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Something I appreciate VERY dearly about Shane and Ryan’s friendship is their constant show and respect of personal boundaries.
I think my favorite example of this is how when Shane will put a hand on Ryan’s shoulder, like he often does, sometimes Ryan will respond with a very straightforward, “Don’t touch me.”
Shane always immediately removes his hand. He doesn’t get upset. He doesn’t ignore him. He doesn’t accuse Ryan of being rude because he isn’t sugarcoating his boundaries.
His respecting of Ryan’s needs, and vice versa Ryan’s respecting of Shane’s needs, is something very rare and really nice to see :)
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jasperlovesstarss · 1 month
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Multiverse!Wally is a minor btw... He's fucking 17 guys, do better.
Posting boundaries if this happens again.
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I will not…I repeat WILL NOT interact with you if you don’t have your age in your bio
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purplehillwrites · 7 months
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Just because you can feel someone's suffering doesn't mean you're entitled to fix things for them. It doesn't mean you've to suffer through it for them. You can be kind and still let them handle it by themselves. Loving someone doesn't mean you've to carrying their trauma on your head. I'm not saying don't go helping around, but first prioritise your mental health. Okay?
Vaish~
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roryintheir90s · 8 months
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I AM HAPPY TO ANNOUNCE THEYRE NOT BROTHERS AFTER ALL!!!
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Still, all the incest jokes made me feel very weird and icky, so pls do not send asks about "Fungi husbands". But everyone else is welcomed to enjoy the ship and its ok!!! And perfectly moral.
But still, it makes me icky so pls respect my boundaries and not send ask about nlsmp Jimmy x scott. ALL THE OVER UNIVERSES/SERIES OF FLOWER HUSBANDS ARE OK! AND I ENCOURAGE PUTTING ANYTHING ABOUT THEM IN MY INBOX!!! 💕💕💕
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brandyy0moss · 1 year
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HERMITS BOUNDERIES ON SELLING FANART
Gonna update this as I go, working on selling stickers of the hermits and I’m struggling to find their boundaries so what ever I find will be piled in here for anyone else wondering, please feel free to help (please ahh, also please back up with a screenshot or link)
✅- They have said it’s fine
❌- They have stated it’s not okay
❌🤔- I’ve heard they’ve said yes or no but can’t find the clip/ screenshot, best not to just incase
- Goodtimeswithscar ✅
Yet to find the stream link to him saying he’s okay with fanart being sold but I remember watching it
- Bdubs ❌
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- Grian
- Mumbo
- Doc ✅
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- Xisuma ❌🤔
- Ijevin
- Etho
- Ren
- Hypno
- Joe
- Cleo
- Zed
- Pearl
- Gem
- False
- Cub
- Impulse ❌🤔
- Stress
- Iskall
- Tango tek
- Vintage beef
- Xbcrafted
- Keralis
- Welsknight
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mycptsdstory · 2 years
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Something I learned recently; it's okay to disappoint people, especially when they don't respect your boundaries and your feelings.
Remember; know your worth and know your value.
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sonderlilies · 6 months
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i need to know the boundaries of all qsmp members about fanfiction. well i only knew some who came from drm smp, but i'm not too sure about the other people. i need to know what they think of fanfiction, especially latino american and french people
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desired-reality · 7 months
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Name: Fluxuates depending on what prounouns I'm currently using. Alexandra on more feminine days, Alexander on more masculine days, and Alex on more neutral days.
Nicknames: Anything works but I love space, nature, or special intrest themed nicknames. If your going to use gendered nicknames please ask my prounouns first.
Age: I don't fell safe saying my age on here beacuse some people are really freaky, but I will say that I am above 18.
Special Intrests: Anything to do with the positive side of LGBTQIA+, Nature, witchy things, Psychology, Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children, what real life monsters would look like, My Hero Academia, FNAF (Exspecily security breah), shifting.
What types of posts will I Write, reblog, or like: Most likely something to do with shifting. It could be a fanfic that gave me a idea for my script, shifting motivation, random pictures, ect.
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Gender: Genderfluid
Prounouns: Switches between She/Her, She/ They, They/Them, He/They, He/Him, She/They/ He, She/Her, It/it's, and mirror prounouns.
Sexuality: omnisexual, Panromantic, Demirose, Polyamorous
Dating Status: Current not dating anyone
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Asks: Everone is welcome to send asks as long as you don't go against my DNI or my boundaries. So feel free to send me anything ranging from a picture of your cat to a deep poem of your choice.
DM: Ummmm, this one is a bit tricky. It all really depends on the circumstances. Like your lonely and think I'd make a good freind? Absaloutly you can message me. You want to tell me something but are really scared to put it in a ask? Of course you can, as long as It doesn't go against my bounderies. But If your gonna flirt just no, absaloutly not.
Touching: Only If we are really close. I am autistic and even the though of someone I'm not close with touching me makes my entire body cringe
Flirting: Absaloutly not. I am Demi-aroace (meaning I need a strong emotional connection to be romantically or sexually attracted to anyone) so I don't feel very comfortable with flirting. Soooo yeah, Absaloutly no flirting.
DNI: Basic DNI criteria (Homophobic, Racist, cringe culture, ect). I don't have a super detailed DNI but I do block freely. Oh and any Anti-shifters that interact will be instantly blocked.
Note: If your a minor do NOT scroll through my likes, as I will have some NSFW things in there. If any of my posts have NSFW things I'll tag them #Alex's NSFW, so if your a minor or just don't wanna see it you can block those tags.
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plushictales · 18 days
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Our boundaries
Here are boundaries for what you can and can't do with Plushic
Okay
Fanart. We would love to see fanart you guys draw!
Headcanons. Just as long as it's not too contradicting to canon!
Art use. Give credit when using art for non-comerical use!
Ships. Go ahead, but don't make illegal ships!
Not Okay
Nsfw. Please just don't.
Don't use official art for comerical use
If you have any questions don't be afraid to reach out! It's better to be safe then sorry!
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Things I wish I had known before I started writing
✧˚ ༘ ⋆。˚✐﹏﹏﹏﹏˚。⋆ ༘ ˚✧
Set boundaries.
If you don't want people to know what you're working on, they don't have to!
You don't have to let them read it just because they asked.
Only give what you want to, and only do it because you want to.
Sober Up Sunday 31/03/24
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Dear child even if boundaries seems impossible to you and you continue to be people pleaser
but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve boundaries and people who violate your boundaries r the rightful persons
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manic-pixi-dreamworld · 2 months
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Night check!💕
7:30pm EST
What a crazy ass Tuesday. Work was nuts but the weather was GORGEOUS!
Had an amazing ride tonight and now just winding down for the night.
3 days until the weekend!!
**i don’t mind x rated pictures. That’s what my submission box is for. But please keep in mind that I do not send x rated pictures. I don’t owe you a sexual conversation. I appreciate all your love and support but consent is still needed**
Remember
You are loved
You are wanted
Drink your water
Take your meds
Be kind to yourself 
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akiartswithmemes · 3 months
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Also you guys can ask me or the puppets questions about my apcolypse au, but don't expect me to always make drawings for them. I will make drawings/comic in response to questions but not a lot right now because I haven't got everyones designs done.
You can also ask Neko-ki questions or ask questions about Neko-ki, and you can ask my Welcome Home oc questions.
Apocolypse au characters and their powers:
Norman and Mason (brothers): Demons
Junebug and Janebug (sisters): Shapeshifters
Lenard and Lenny (cousins): Has psychic abilities
Lilliana and Lillian (Lillian is her aunt): Vampires
George and Greg (Greg is Georges dad): Has fire abilities (they can throw fire balls at enemies, blast it like a flame thrower, basically a mix of Bakugo and Dabi from mha. Can make stuff explode even)
Gordon: Runs the studio and is the head repairman. (His character remains the same)
Ricky, Pearl, Ray, Goblette, The Pups, The 3 hand puppets, and Arnold remain the same as they were.
IMPORTANT NOTE:
Do not ask the apocolypse au, my oc, or Neko-ki anything NSFW related.
Also, Neko-ki is Aroace, so DO NOT be weird. And don't get any funny ideas about my oc either. Its literally my Welcome Home sona so that will make me uncomfortable.
Also I'm fine with fanart, Just don't be problematic is all I'm asking.
Well, covers all that!
Can't wait to see your funny asks/questions.
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