You’ve heard of Narc abuse
now get ready for HPD abuse 🤩🤩
I’m waiting for the day someone says that so I can go ballistic missile on them. Idk I find it funny that there’s a term for abuse where the abuser is just self-centered(Narc abuse) but not one for where the abuser is attention seeking and needs constant apprise to have self esteem that can lead to inappropriate behavior like hmmm kinda odd tbh
if ppl go say “borderline” abuse and “narc” abuse then why isn’t there terms like that for all personality disorders like DPD PPD ASPD HPD ScPD STPD (help I can’t remember any of the others) as a lot of times they tend to overlap and ppl get diagnosed with more then one like *why*
maybe bc most ppl don’t know that there are multiple personality disorders instead of just BPD and NPD idk guys
anygays, PSA there’s more than 2 personality disorders and by useing “narc” abuse and “borderline” abuse you are hurting all of them even if you didn’t know they existed, all the more reason to not use a name of a disorder to characterize abuse, it’s the same as using Autistic and Psychopath as an insult 😃😃
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Listen, this is not meant to be anti-recovery or whatever, but just like physical health does not remove value from people, same for mental health. People don’t owe you healthy behaviors to be a valuable person worth keeping safe. This includes, btw, unhealthy people with scary symptoms.
We can hold people accountable for their actions but we also need to ensure that all forms of health and wellness and unhealth and unwellness (I know it’s illness) are taken care of and supported. The goal is harm reduction, not perfection.
And I should add, a KEY point of this (other than these people being people and we should be doing better by each other by default) is that as we’re seeing bills and bills get passed to define how much bodily autonomy you’re allowed (they’re trying really hard for none!), anything you do will eventually get defined as mentally or physically unhealthy and you need to be restrained.
There’s still a lot of shame and stigma and demonization and even punitive, shaming responses towards people with mental illnesses. 10 times so when it’s a demonized disorder or scary disorder or whatever exists. And the focus needs to be on providing support for them. Even if we don’t like them as people. Because they’re still people and people need safe spaces and the less we keep trying to force people to do our idea of recovery before we give them kindness and compassion, the harder it’ll be for anyone who Wants to go through the long, arduous journey of recovery.
Not to mention, what’s beneficial for YOUR recovery might literally drive another person into an early grave if you tried to put it on them. “This isn’t healthy”, “you’re just retraumatizing yourself”, etc. all may very well be true but in the end, you’ll have to pull up your big kid pants and say “their mental health recovery journey is not [like] mine and that’s okay”. Because like, the beautiful thing about minding your own business is that you’re not responsible for everyone’s health.
We can want healthy for others but in lieu of knowing everything in the world about someone’s life journey to recovery, let’s settle for informed consent and harm reduction and genuine, honestly compassionate education.
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(going off anon for this; any public or private responses welcome)
traumatized mixed pd/pdnos (ppd + bpd + hpd + npd + avpd + dpd) culture is just...being so fucking done.
you're too histrionic to go without attention from others, but you're too avoidant to fully accept it. you're too narcissistic to not think you're entitled to a better life, but you're too borderline to even know what you want that life to be. you're too dependent to be alone, but you're too paranoid to trust anyone fully in a relationship.
and THEN add the fact you've been abused to the point of developing said pds, and mix in the fact that people have abused you for being clustered (including other clustered individuals)...now you just feel like a psychologically immobile and emotionally volatile husk of a person.
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