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flashy-mf · 3 months
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narcitism · 2 months
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my abuser had brown hair im a victim of brunette abuse :(
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anotheraspdrager · 8 months
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"my ex was a narcissist!" and it's just a random dude who can't take accountability because patriarchy
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euthanarexia · 10 days
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someone posted a meme in a FB group about reading up on the mental health disorders your friends and family struggle with so i mentioned reading up on NPD from actual people and sources and not random pop psychology graphics on IG and suddenly “NPD is different” and “people with the disorder don’t want help” and other bs. you can’t pretend to care about mental health and then exclude disorders you don’t find acceptable you twat
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maegamists · 2 months
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woke up in the middle of the night mumbling something about how npd supply is basically "getting your narcussy slonked" and i don't think i've mentally recovered from that yet
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narcpocalypse · 2 months
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I want to be charismatic and hot and sexy but I'm so awkward that idk how to take compliments. I could be like "oh thank you darling ♥️" but I'm like "hehe :3" man what the FUUUUCK! Narcissism work HARDERRRRRRRR!!!!!
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clusterblood · 5 months
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black holes are very npd I base it solely on the feeling of a hole inside which could never be filled and it just takes takes takes and its never enough
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valcaira · 1 year
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Every person with NPD deserves respect, comfort and accommodation. Yes, even "malignant narcissists". Yes, even those who are abusive. NPD stems from childhood trauma and even *those* narcissists you don't like deserve their trauma to be recognized and talked about. Narcissists with ASPD deserve to be loved and comforted. Narcissists with HPD deserve to be loved and comforted. Narcissists with BPD deserve to be loved and comforted. Narcissist with multiple cluster disorders deserve to be loved and comforted. Narcissists who are not self-aware about their narcissism deserve to be loved and comforted. You deserve kindness.
I hear you. I see you. Your trauma and pain are valid and your brain developed a way to deal with that. All I wanted is to be loved. You cannot call yourself a "mental health advocate" and not advocate for people with stigmatized disorders such as NPD. You cannot call yourself a mental health advocate and in the same breath demonize those with "evil disorders". You cannot call yourself a mental health advocate if you only support a specific set of cluster disorders. You cannot call yourself a mental health advocate if you actully believe in "narcissistic abuse" and armchair diagnose your abuser.
Narcissists are not inherently evil. We are hurt people, carrying old scars, pain and trauma just like everybody else. We deserve kindness.
To the narcissist reading this: I love you. You deserve every bit of comfort and kindness in the world. I see you and I appreciate you.
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On the topic of NPD and "narcissistic abuse".
So, I've been a victim of a few abusive relationships. I've been starved, guilt tripped, gaslit (to the point I STILL have trouble figuring out if I'm right about something that has been confirmed several times.) And out of the few people I was hurt by, do you know how many of them were diagnosed narcissists?
One. Just one. Though, the others were autistic. Hell, even severely depressed! But I'm not out here advocating against "autistic abuse." That sounds pretty ableist, right?
So what gives you the right to do that to people who are also struggling? How would you feel if a psychiatrist or therapist told you that you were evil or could not be helped due to a disorder. How would you feel if when trying to figure yourself out and going through the symptoms, all you find are articles upon articles of how you're inherently abusive and no one should love you or give you any attention?
If someone is abusing you, it is not BECAUSE they are a narcissist. It's not BECAUSE they have a disorder you seem as uncouth or scary. And you're not wrong for being upset or angry about your abuse. You deserve to feel your feelings!!!
But when you start shooting down your fellows in struggling with mental illness, you drag us all down. You make the people you claim to care for feel unsafe.
Do better. Be better to people. Encourage people to get help if you notice dangerous or hurtful behavior. You can be hurt, but don't let your actions further hurt others and perpetuate the cycle.
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thebeesbox · 10 months
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Day 44 of Pride Flags Drawn as Foxes: NPD flag
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narcitism · 2 months
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reblog to kiss a narcissist on the mouth (with passion)
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thecandyispoisoned · 2 years
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Excuse my lack of response, you just said something that my brain decided is an attack now I hate you until further notice and I'd rather not talk to you because if I do I might say something hurtful and I'm trying to convince myself that I'm a good person
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anotheraspdrager · 1 year
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I know we're always saying this, but I have something to add about how empathy has nothing to do with morals, and it's actually dangerous to perpetuate the idea that if you lack empathy, guilt or regret you're gonna have a harder time behaving well.
I've seen empaths do shitty things while feeling guilty and then repeat the same mistakes, and I'm not even talking about small careless mistakes but things that ruin another person's life. I've seen empaths defend rapists, I've seen empaths abuse their children, I've seen empaths manipulate, lie, all sorts of it. And I'm sure you've seen it too, prisons are full of empaths yet they like to pretend that "those aren't real empaths, they're psychopaths deep down, they're narcissists, they're dark empaths", whatever excuse they can come up with to separate themselves from the monsters who do wrong.
This is actually dangerous and the reason why so many, empaths or not, do shitty things and lay a veil on their faults, thinking they don't have to worry about their own actions because they're standing on the right side of the line that divides good and evil.
Hold yourself accountable, give up on scapegoats and excuses, we're not the lie you tell yourself to sleep better at night and the real monster to fight is the one that's never looked in a mirror, so face it.
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mischiefmanifold · 2 months
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periodic reminder to not use the term "narc abuse truther" because the origins of "<term> truther" are antisemitic!
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nothing0fnothing · 5 months
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The difference between narcissism and NPD. For anyone who was curious including @sad-cinnamongirl
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faehalfwit · 10 months
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If you call yourself an empath with you whole chest I hope you know believing that you understand others emotions and take regular offense to others actions towards you…… you may actually be a narc in denial. That’s a delusion of self righteousness. Symptom number one you fucking idiots
Narc abuse isn’t real
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