#npd thoughts

[anotheraspdrager]

"my ex was a narcissist!" and it's just a random dude who can't take accountability because patriarchy

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[npdvelvette]

accurate depiction of me

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[clusterrune]

Narc Supply

a list of things that could be a narc supply! things pw npd find give them a narc high.

explaining a narc supply - masterpost - compliment generator

Personalized Praise

compliments that are personal to the person theyre directed towards

compliments that include facts or interests

compliments that are more than just the generic "i like (your appearance)"

praises about a persons skillset, created content, something they put even the slightest effort into

praises for help of any kind

complimenting something theyre good at and/or passionate about

praises for being knowledgeable about a topic

these can be very different depending on the person, some like the usual "good job im proud of you" and some prefer very high title praises like "youre a god/royal!"

Attachment / Emotional Feedback

some gain a high when they get certain reactions out of people

hate asks, love confessions

when someone has some sort of feelings towards them it helps them feel wanted and/or at the center of someones focus/attention

some prefer positive over negative feedback, some see negative feedback like hate mail as a sign they've reached popularity of some sort, some are neutral.

some narcs find people gaining an attachment to them as a supply

Break The Record

some narcs see reaching a goal as a supply

this can be reaching a new high score on a came

beating their own records

or beating other people's scores

getting ahead in a competition, even if it wasnt a competition to begin with, beating that goal they set can give them a high

Comforted

some might look for comfort media

listening to music or watching something they find comfort in

art or fanart they find comforting

comfort characters

all can help recover from a crash in a soothing way.

Perceive Me

people telling them how theyre perceived as an individual

especially if its in detail and can contain praise

knowing how one is perceived either by strangers or those theyre close with, can be someones supply

a narc supply can be anything, ranging from anonymous hate to being told someone's proud of you, to being given a little affection and even something akin to being worshiped or feared and it can be more than one of these at a time.

feel free to share any resources, tips or anything that works for you that i have not yet listed!

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[clusterblood]

black holes are very npd I base it solely on the feeling of a hole inside which could never be filled and it just takes takes takes and its never enough

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[unholy-angel]

something that impress me is how some pwNPD can argue with ableists using FACTS and explaining with a non agressive tone whitout getting fucking mad cause if it was me seeing some bitch around here saying "narcissist people are abusive!!! if youre not abusive youre not narcissist" i would claim to myself the word ABUSIVE and be the WORST to them

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[rachelcommitscrimes]

i bet someone could say “narcissists actually evolved from dolphins and that’s why they enjoy belittling and harming people below them” and at least three people would believe it

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[foolishnpd]

i throw up a little every time i get ignored

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[chaos-in-one]

I wish all narcissistic abuse blogs a very shut the fuck up and stop being ableist pieces of shit

Narcissistic abuse is not real and never will be

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[myaspdnpdnotes]

A friend (now no longer) drove me home the other day and the conversation revealed he believes people with personality disorders ~change their voices~ when their ~other personality~ comes out

Let me tell you I almost put his head through the steering wheel

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[venusfaierie]

the cluster b urge to repeatedly slam their head into a wall

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[anotheraspdrager]

you'll never convince me that empathy's a real thing, what happens is you see a person in a bad situation and imagine being in their place so you put yourself in a bad mood too, you're not "absorbing or sharing their emotions" you're just making their bad situation about you and assuming they feel the same way as your imaginary self in your imaginary scenario, and you may get it right sometimes but without any guarantee exactly because there's no actual connection between the two emotional states

edit: check the comments before replying thx

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[npdvelvette]

egotypicals will get upset pwnpd often have superiority complexes, but will go around talking about us as if we’re subhuman monsters, implying they see us as below them and are superior? ok girl

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[clusterrune]

stop calling every self-centered, self-serving, self-absorbed, manipulative, cold and apathetic person you meet/know a narcissist.

npd is a disorder. not something you can apply to every person you dont like or who is hurtful.

if you were to live with a condition that people only associate specific stigmatized negative traits to and only thought of those traits when they heard about your condition and hated you for it, you'd be upset and hurt by the misinformation and misunderstanding too. especially if it prevented you from getting the help and support you needed. thats what happens to us, to many people with all kinds of conditions.

people associate those things with us and immediately apply our term to anyone with those traits and deem them unworthy of help, making it harder for us to be deemed worthy of the help we need.

use different descriptors, theres tonnes of them.

Narcissus didn't live his life, stare at his reflection and have a flower named after him just for a term based off his name to be used in vain.

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[acidkeylime]

I know there's already an NPD flag, but I'll be honest...some of its color symbology and language feel both stigmatizing and yet also too lax. If you'll hear me out, I'll explain my version's changes.

I like that some of the colors on the original are picked off of the narcissus (daffodil), so I reincorporated that and added the green of the leaves for growth and recovery instead.

Something about the black strip being support for people with NPD felt...dark, sad, and generally like it added to this idea that were are a dark mark on the population. Instead, I made the white strip for this as a way to say...I want to wipe the slate clean on how others see us so we can be really supported. Additionally, the black, red, orange gradient kinda looked like raw meat. Just felt too violent. We aren't inherently violent.

Finally, I changed the verbiage of "normalization of symptoms" to "destigmatization of symptoms" as I feel the distinction is a healthier way for us to view our of symptoms.

We are struggling with bad coping mechanisms that DO need to be correct, but are misunderstood and need to be destigmatized.

Lastly, the overall more childlike palette as a whole represents trauma stemming from childhood and how suffering from this PD often feels like being thrown back that childhood pain and never learning safe coping mechanisms.

Thank you for reading!

I also previously made a comic about the comorbidity of personality disorders with autism. Though it only briefly mentions my NPD/NPD traits, I still think it's important to add here:

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[unholy-angel]

cw: SEX

do you guys ever wanted to fuck themselves? like genuinely feel attracted for yourself... is that a npd thing? or i am batshit insane

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[dodgeryy]

I don't think people understand that the baseline feeling of somebody w NPD is crippling self hatred, doubt, and inadequacy. Like narcissists don't do all the things trying to get supply to confirm a belief they have it's to stave off the literally life threatening self esteem problems. Any interruption of your source of confidence whether it be a sport, or a physical characteristic, or the admiration of a specific person your feelings of validity DISSAPATE AND IT SUCKS. Thus the crash.

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