I want to be charismatic and hot and sexy but I'm so awkward that idk how to take compliments. I could be like "oh thank you darling ♥️" but I'm like "hehe :3" man what the FUUUUCK! Narcissism work HARDERRRRRRRR!!!!!
anyway heres why narc abuse support groups are harmful
main point ; there would be aloooott less abusive narcissists if there were resources and ways for us to seek help, however, when you search up "npd recovery" you get shit like "HOW TO KILL A NARCISSIST!", "recovering from narc abuse". not "how to cope with npd symptoms". there are resources for you. there are only resources for you. not for us. and, if there are any resources for us, our mental state is fucking destroyed looking for them. if you see that millions of people want you dead, while trying to get help, its not gonna fucking end well for you.
therapy is an option ; but not always. infact, there are alot of therapists who refuse to even see you because of the whole "narcs are abusive!!!!" thing. but, not only that, therapy may not be an option for alot of reasons. have you considered the fact that it costs money? what about people that are still in a toxic environment, and cant go? people who cant find a therapist nearby, or for a reasonable cost, or a therapist they feel works well for them? people with busy schedules and cant plan sit down appointments? not everyone can seek help, or have the energy to. sometimes your only option is the internet.
if you want narcissists to be less abusive, change the fucking word you use to describe your abuse and stop acting like we're all demons. this is a lose lose situation we're still "abusive" towards you and we cant fucking get help.
Me and my wife just made some of the best pretzels I've ever had in my life. They were so soft, with the perfect salt/butter ratio. And they were really big. And I'm very proud of us. Now tell me I did a good job please /j
TBH the best way to flesh out a character (which works for me) is to put them in two interview settings. One where they have to tell the truth no matter what and one where they can say whatever they're comfortable with. One will show their depth and the other will show how they want to be perceived
HEY GUYS!! In reference to this post, I made a document with interview questions! Thank you so much for being inspired by my idea. It means the world to me. I hope you find this helpful :33