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a-sip-of-milo · 5 months
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I love people with npd so much. I’m sorry that world is so ableist. I’m sorry that you can’t be anywhere without hearing the word ‘narcissism’ or ‘npd’ used in a negative light. I’m sorry that there isn’t anywhere near enough support.
I’m so sorry that you can’t win. It must be so suffocating and aggravating, living in a world where it feels like everybody hates you. You deserve better.
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anotheraspdrager · 7 months
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"my ex was a narcissist!" and it's just a random dude who can't take accountability because patriarchy
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anpaaaaa · 3 months
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“pwNPD matter! you’re valid!” ok but if someone displays clear narcissistic traits to you are you normal about that. can you separate yourself from the conversation and acknowledge that even if they don’t have NPD, it’s ableist to make fun of, mock, or otherwise degrade someone for being narcissistic.
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elskescape-slate · 1 month
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I need to learn to balance this:
Not caring
Caring too much
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transfemgirldick · 10 months
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jsyk everytime you call someone you dont like a narcissist you have to pay every actual narcissist and pwNPD $1000
if you call anyone you dont like or is "weird" a psychopath or schizo you have to pay every psychotic and schizophrenic person $1000
if you call any emotional person bipolar you have to pay all actual bipolar people $1000
if you call any off-putting or "rude" person a sociopath you have to pay all pwASPD $1000
also if you call yourself or someone else OCD because you/they like organization or cleaning or whatever then you have to pay all pwOCD $1000
stop stigmatizing disorders and mental illnesses just because someone is different and also dont use words from disorders and mental illnesses that dont actually apply to you just cuz you wanna be quirky. its annoying
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hey fellow pwNPD i have a question. do you guys lack sympathy, empathy, or both (or neither)? i find that even when i can put myself in other people’s shoes so to speak, sometimes i just don’t care lmfao. like i have absolutely no sympathy and i feel apathetic. wondering if any other fellow narcissists can relate.
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thecandyispoisoned · 2 years
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Excuse my lack of response, you just said something that my brain decided is an attack now I hate you until further notice and I'd rather not talk to you because if I do I might say something hurtful and I'm trying to convince myself that I'm a good person
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psychopathicnarc · 2 years
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locriian · 2 years
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A little treat for the cluster Bs
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unholy-angel · 2 months
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cw: SEX
do you guys ever wanted to fuck themselves? like genuinely feel attracted for yourself... is that a npd thing? or i am batshit insane
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I feel like there is a big misconception about masking in the community, especially in the younger circles.
When you look up resources on ASPD/NPD, you are mostly hit with people being like "psychopaths ARE PRETENDING TO BE SOMEONE COMPLETELY ELSE but when you are with them THE MONSTER COMES OUT".
I feel like that thing subconsciously went into the minds of people with those disorders, especially if you are self-diagnosed and have to rely on resources you find on the internet and in books.
Masking is not carefully picking out a personality and then acting every time you meet another person. Of course, it could look like that, but those cases are rare and definitely never kept up consistently because it's so exhausting. Can it be fun to do on a night out where you don't plan on keeping in contact with anyone? Sure. But constantly, you just won't manage that, especially if you are more extroverted than introverted or if you have many social interactions for other reasons.
It's also not masking if you are acting different at work, around children, around your friends or around your closest people. That's completely natural, everyone does this, even people who do not have a cluster B disorder.
Masking looks more like covering up negative symptoms of your disorder. If I really don't give a shit about that persons relative dying, then I will obviously not tell them that. Masking is covering up the lack of empathy, sympathy, impulsive thoughts, violent thoughts, anything people might consider as "immoral". It's more knowing what to keep to yourself than actually making up being another person.
I feel like some people feel some sort of pressure on them to make their masking game perfect, even though it's really not that deep. You can show people who you are. You can show them your passions, what you love, what your dreams are. Maybe don't tell them if your passion is seeing people's guts falling out, but you have so many positive attributes too, you don't need to hide that. I'm not talking about masking of autistic people, just about masking in cluster B personality disorders, as I am not autistic and can't talk about that.
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narckaveh · 8 months
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heyy! asking a question to ALL NARCISSISTS!
any reblogs adding of your experience is helpful!
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anotheraspdrager · 6 months
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you'll never convince me that empathy's a real thing, what happens is you see a person in a bad situation and imagine being in their place so you put yourself in a bad mood too, you're not "absorbing or sharing their emotions" you're just making their bad situation about you and assuming they feel the same way as your imaginary self in your imaginary scenario, and you may get it right sometimes but without any guarantee exactly because there's no actual connection between the two emotional states
edit: check the comments before replying thx
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myaspdnpdnotes · 28 days
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A friend (now no longer) drove me home the other day and the conversation revealed he believes people with personality disorders ~change their voices~ when their ~other personality~ comes out
Let me tell you I almost put his head through the steering wheel
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elskescape-slate · 9 months
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Of COURSE I have a praise kink, I have NPD.
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Hate having npd bc tell me why im agonizingly jealous of my best friend bc her fucking CAT likes her more than me
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