#not healed but better

[desultory-suggestions]

You have to stop ruining things for yourself preemptively because you believe they’ll fail anyway. Give yourself a chance to succeed.

#forcing failure now will not prevent the pain of it #give yourself a chance to see a better outcome #suggestions #recovery #positivity #self love #mental health #self care #ed recovery #love #goals #life goals #daily life #hope #hopcore #believe in yourself #healing #study motivation #studyblr

[the-jesus-pill]

You’ve got to forgive yourself for being traumatized and needing to learn how to function again. 

Recovery isn’t always nightmares and depression, it’s forgetting to eat, being scared of what others might see as completely normal things, it’s getting random panic attacks, not knowing how to take care of yourself, not knowing how to live like an adult, even if you’re twenty, thirty, forty, fifty, of feeling like you’re failing to function in a world where everyone seems to have their shit together. 

If you need help, ask for it. Go to forums and ask for advice. Take advantage of community resources. Buy pre-sliced veggies and fruits, eat instant meals if you can’t cook for yourself today. Hire someone. Ask a neighbor for a favor. Buy any item you think might make life easier, even if you feel like you aren’t ‘disabled’ enough to have it. 

Some of the depression posts (ie open your windows, take a shower, go outside, call a friend) are really helpful but they’re not always enough. I’ve found advice for spoonies, people with chronic pain or other disabilities have the best tips because they know what it’s like to be bedridden, out of energy, stuck in a brain fog. 

You may never return back to the energy you had when you were younger and you might always need to use crutches to help you through life. It’s the same with medication. 

Trauma is a real thing that happens to you, it physically alters your brain and it’s alright to have lasting scars. 

You’re not broken, your life is not over and you can still be happy. 

It’s not your fault.

#felix speaks #trauma #recovery #deconversion #ex cult #ex religious #ptsd #cptsd #healing #disabled #actually traumatized #spoonies #things i need to remind myself with too #it sucks to have to come to terms with the fact #but youll be so much better off once you stop denying yourself the help you need #also re: buying items meant for the disabled #do it! #you are not taking resources away #if you need it you need it #and the more in demand these items are the better theyll be made in the future

[sketchy--akechi]

apply cold water to burned area

#persona 5 #persona 5 royal #p5r #akechi goro #goro akechi #niijima sae #sae niijima #liz art #hah! you better have BURN HEAL!

[sunlitsoil]

there is always tomorrow

#lovecore #hopecore #webweaving #the presence of love is beautiful in itself #you got this #self care #self love #recovery #healing #hopepunk #recovery is not linear it is okay to have bad days you have the entirety of your life to have a better day #i wish anyone reading this a good life #i love you #you are loved #and i hope you will find happiness in the small things #i’ve been struggling a lot recently but i always remind myself the good set in store for me and look up places in the city i’ll move to #and it motivates me a bunch so i hope u all find things to strive towards mwah

[thepeacefulgarden]

You are worthy, you are enough, and you matter. No person or circumstance can ever change that or take that away from you. ❤️

#you matter #trauma #healing #recovery #the world is a better place with you in it #the world is a better place because of you #don't give up #you are enough #you are worthy #it wasn't your fault #nope not even a little bit

[hinata-boke]

akaashi-kun's weakness #1

#my art #haikyuu #akaashi #bokuto #bokuaka #drawing them actually makes my day better #healing activity

[blighted-elf]

Baldur's Gate 3 - Karlach 2/?

#Baldur's Gate #Baldur's Gate 3 #BG3 #Karlach #Tiefling #Barbarian #Karlach Romance #Larian Studios #vgedit #dailygaming #dailyvideogames #videogamewomen #gamingladiesedit #gamingedit #BG3 spoilers #Blighted Gifs #This dialogue changes slightly depending if you heal up/short rest in between convos or not! But I liked this one better

[spam-extemporal]

Dcxdp where Danny has been working with a hero team (did Bruce adopt him? Did he help the teen titans and got told to join them? Idk) for less than a year, maybe they knew eachother for longer, but Danny has been living with them for some months.

Now, I imagined this as a "Danny has to flee to a different dimension after a giw attack/reveal gone wrong" but it can work with other scenarios, the important thing is, death days are important for a ghost's wellbeing, but nobody knows/remembers Danny's deathday or that it's important to commemorate the dead. Maybe he hasn't told anyone yet cause he doesn't want to be a bother, or doesn't trust them enough yet.

So Danny takes the matter on his own hands, each year he goes to a quiet corner of the local graveyard, where he has a piece of marble and a small vase, he usually buys some flowers for his memorial grave and makes some fudge as an offering.

This year wasn't gonna be different, he told his team/family that he was gonna spend the day out, he chose an elegant but comfortable outfit, made some fudge, and saved it on the fridge with a note that said "phantom, do not eat".

The next part might work better with a young hero team, cause despite the note, someone took a bite of the fudge for breakfast.

Danny clearly gets mad, they didn't know, but they just ate an offering, a great offense to the dead it was offered to.

It all ends in a big fight, Danny doesn't want to admit that it was an offering for himself (it just hurts to admit that nobody remembers his death), and the other person thinks he's just having a tantrum over some fudge, like, c'mon, they can make you some if it's SO important to you 😒

And I don't know how to end it cause it came to me while falling asleep and don't remember more T-T

#i know there was a thing where Danny's fraid bonds shattered and he just runs away while the team is like #what just happened why do i feel like my family just died #want them to go running to find phantom and when they finally find the little makeshift grave they get so sad #and danny is nowhere to be found #either cause he has to go to the zone to heal or is too weak or sad and hid on the artic or something #when they finally find him there's tearful apologies and promises to not only do better. but improve communication so - #- this doesn't happen again #dcxdp #dcxdp prompt #dcxdp crossover #WOKE UP CRYING CAUSE OF THIS AJSHSHHSHZJA

[1mm4d13]

Mothra better survive this movie for once

#SHE LIVED MY BBY GIRL LIVED FOR ONCE #godzilla #gojira #mothra #mosura #best girl #kaiju #monsterverse #gxk #godzilla x kong: the new empire #they should eep #I like the 2014 dorsals for MV Goji better #bite me #I sometimes like to think that everything the fandom has done with Godzilla has helped him and japan really heal from their shared tragedies

[noxcheshire]

So I saw a few posts describing how the Pit’s in Jason’s body kinda acted on its own accord when spotting Danny “baby ghost” Phantom/Fenton and how they then co-parent with a half dead “baby” teenager.

But I raise YOU the idea that the Pits is already parenting Jason Todd.

When the Pits take over it’s the simple response of a Mama Bear going feral on some humans for making their little baby upset.

Jason disappointed by Batman?

The Pits snarl and rage at the man that made baby sad!

Jason disgusted at the idea of another Robin lined up for death?

The Pits howl and claw through the skin to fix the situation by beating the humans up so they can’t die!

Jason vulnerable and lost by the lack of acceptance in his return as Red Hood?

The Pits screech, biting furiously into the humans that had caused the baby to feel un-included in their games!

No one understands the reason for the Lazarus Pit’s in Jason’s body to constantly be acting up, that is until Danny comes into the picture and is like, “So your ghost parent is always watching you too, huh?” In reference to his own ghost parent (Clockwork) that likes to watch through his little tv’s on what Danny gets up to and sends a multitude of sticky notes like a distant helicopter mom.

#dpxdc #dp x dc #dc x dp #dcxdp #danny phantom #dp x dc crossover #danny fenton #dp x dc prompt #jason todd #The Pits have adopted Jason as their ghost baby #look if you throw a whole ass child into some waters to ‘fix’ then you better believe this pool of green is gonna take notice #it took notice and inserted itself into healing Jason #and also made itself a parent #Pits: a baby as gift? mine now #Pits: WHO UPSET MY BABY?! 😠 #Jason: man it’s getting harder to control the pits every day #Danny: same hat bud #clockwork: that is my little baby and to make him my little baby he had to die #clockwork: BUT HERE ME OUT #The Pits when noticing Danny: …. second baby? #clockwork: I do not accept co-parenting with some ghost water #The Pits: FUCK YOU THATS MY BABY NOW #Jason and Danny are now ghost siblings #these are the rules #Danny is vibing cause he’s kinda used to the crazy of ghost parent at this point

[sillyfairygarden]

take a few cleos with you on your journey ^-^

#cleo in little outfits. nature healed #thellos art corner #zombiecleo fanart #hermitcraft #mcyt #hermitcraft fanart #i was going to fully colour the decked out one but. eh the sketch was better than the lineart @_@

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

I want it back / I drag its dead weight forward.

#Better drawn mdzs #mdzs #wei wuxian #lan wangji #digital art #This was a style experimentation doodle that took on a life of its own. #In a way it is a great example of 'beautiful failure'. The original goal was to try a pure black and white contrast piece. #Which I very much failed at doing. Not quite ready for that! However what this turned into is something I like a lot! #Different but in a way that really pushed me as an artist. A little less simple; a little more proportional. #I was also recently thinking about LWJ's grieving that we only catch glimpses of. #LWJ grieved his first love for 13 years. His love that was never reciprocated. #He chose to dedicate his heart to that mourning and most painfully of all - he did so knowing there was no end to that grief. #Wei Wuxian comes back to life in MDZS but that is an exception. Not the expectation. #He was dead. Not missing. Not 'maybe in hiding'. He was dead and his spirit unreachable. #Jiang Cheng went forwards with denial but LWJ takes that grief on. He copes by continuing to carry the weight with him. #Let me be clear. Neither are healthy approaches. It is a way to cope but it does not mean that is healing or healthy. #Grief is loved transformed but it is also about endurance and letting go. Grief can change you. You can also change your grief. #It isn't a good or evil thing to experience. It is just an experience.

[positivelypositivethoughts]

It’s okay to cry

#it gets better #healingjourney #self healing #healing #self worth #self care #it’s okay #positive #positive life #positive quotes #strength positive #self love #loveyourself #body positive #positivity #happy #know your value #know your worth

[saltpepperbeard]

hugs ed hugs ed hugs ed hugs ed hug—

#OFMD #Our Flag Means Death #OFMD Season 2 #Edward Teach #Mary Read #Anne Bonny #Murder Wives #Edit #ofmdedit #ofmd gifs #ofmdgifs #ofmdblog #ofmdsource #ofmdaily #REALIZED I HAVEN'T //GIF'D// GIF'D IN A MOMENT #and what better way to get back into it than hugging ed repeatedly y'know #having so many Thoughts And Feelings about him being like #FRESHLY out of the gravy basket #FRESHLY out of deeming himself unlovable and essentially a lost cause #and then he comes back to not only the love of his life but his FRIENDS too #people who are genuinely happy to see him #LIKKKKEEEEE THAT REALLY HAS ME FEELING SOME SORT OF WAY!!! #also i love Arm #getting hugged like that by ed/taika would Heal Me i think

[thepeacefulgarden]

#you're doing better than you think #give yourself credit #productivity #growth #progress #healing #recovery #grief #trauma #spoons #chronic illness #self compassion #mental health #you matter #doing your best

[jkvjimin]

light of my life 🤍 for @kimtaegis [cr. namuspromised]

#jimin #park jimin #pjm #bts #btsedit #btsgif #gif #jiminedit #pjmdaily #userkelli #usersky #annietrack #userdimple #raplineuser #rjshope #tuserandi #useremmeline #usermaggie #dailybts #he makes me feel so much better just to look at his pretty face #he has healing powers 🥺 angel baby i love him so #hi annie <3 i was thinking about you while making these 💌 hope you are doing well my love. sending you all the good wishes!