call me a bluetooth earbud the way i repeatedly fail to make connections with the readily available persons waiting to pair around me
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Dispite what narc abuse truthers will have you believe, most abusers can feel empathy, they just dehumanize the people they abused.
The vast majority of abuser do not have ASPD or NPD. They just don't see you as 100% human. They dehumanize you.
Yes having ASPD or NPD may influence how they go about it but that doesn't mean it is the root caused.
Or do you think people with ASPD and/or NPD are immune to the patarachy, racism, queerphobia, capitalism and all the other systems which drive people to abuse and dehumanize others?
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Question: Is there as many problems with using 'anti-social' when one really means 'asocial', as using like 'narcissist abuse' when meaning 'emotional/mental abuse', or 'intrusive thoughts' when 'meaning impulsive' thoughts? (/gen)
I personally never use anti-social outside of discussions about the disorder, and I know a lot of people who feel the same way.
^^ I don't like the last one but feel it should be included anyway.
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Incorrect MASH quote but so totally Charles!
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Or maybe there is so much inner life, it’s unnecessary to get it from the people around you.
— Sheila Heti, Alphabetical Diaries (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, February 6, 2024)
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If humans are "social creatures" then why are that many of us so bad at this? Seems like a design flaw to me.
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