#and fuck purity culture

[waambles]

SCARY QUEER PERSON!!!

Feels good to be back 😈 and I’m DONE CENSORING MYSELF. LONG LIVE QUEER FREEDOM AND JOY!! ☀️☀️☀️

#The It #lgbtq #queer #queer man #fuck social norms lmao #and fuck purity culture #and fuck CENSORSHIP #I’m DONE censoring myself! #live your life! #anarchist #leather pride #antiswaz #genderfuck #genderqueer #narcan saves lives #harm reduction #flagging #pink triangle #demon #demon art #trans artist

[tiredyke]

every time queer discourse surges on this site everyone is so quick to jump to “it was actually the evil lesbians who divided us” because y’all heard the term “political lesbian” and never bothered to figure out what that meant

#‘political lesbians’ were and are predominantly STRAIGHT WOMEN #and a good chunk are bi #what don’t you understand about these women thinking lesbianism is a CHOICE? that it’s only used by women as a reaction to the patriarchy? #like lesbians can’t possibly like women and not men for any reason that isn’t some deep-seated hatred for men? #they all think lesbianism is dirty and impure and here you people are saying that this is PROGRESSIVE #and that they actually think that lesbianism is some golden standard for its purity???? you guys are so fucking stupid oh my god #you go on and on about learning your queer history until it comes to lesbians and then you’re perfectly happy rewriting our culture #and narrative #wtf is wrong with you people #and y’all braindead mfs use this to act like men are actually oppressed by the meanie dykes #i hate y’all #but none of y’all actually give a shit about lesbians so i guess im yelling into a void #lesbophobia #top posts #neon talks #LOL at the fucking idiot who reblogged this and tagged it ‘misandry’ not sure how you got that from my post but i hope your day sucks <3

[toytulini]

listen im ace and im pro kink at pride and whatever, but the way some of yall are wording your posts in response to the backlash against it is uh. really taking me back to the ace shitcourse era.

yall know theres nothing wrong with being a "virgin", right? that its not inherently shameful to have not had sex, to never have sex, even if youre not ace, even if you do want to have sex someday, like, its fine that you haven't had sex?

maybe if your problem is that theyre trying to police your behavior and shame you for expressing your sexuality, you can say that? instead of resorting to "haha stupid virgin gets no bitches" like my god. do you not hear how fucking regressive that attitude is? i know, i know, youre "joking".

get a better joke

#toy txt post #god im going to regret this post im gonna regret it so much i can feel it in my bones #let it flop..........pls #internalize my message let it sink in and understand what i am saying and then let the post flop #i say. knowing the ppl who need to see such a message are the ones who will make me regret this post and regrwt not having #1 million bajillion disclaimers #virgin is in quotes bc its a bullshit made up stupid purity culture concept anyway and quite frankly i hate even seeing the word #disclaimer: the previous sentence is not me saying that it is a slur for asexuals. it is me a single individual saying this specific word #grosses me out to read and see everywhere when its a stupid bullshit binary made up or at least historically largely used #to shame largely women and i dont know why we're still using it in 2023 #and ive just been. seeing such an uptick in this whole like. attitude? lately and like #im ace im minorly sex repulsed. mostly about anything sex at me bad. other adults sex at each other consensually? go wild #i like to think im pretty chill about it. i try to be. i think its fine ig to be like 'my meat is huge i fuck so much so good' #like okay not my thing but good for you. love that for you #but then some of yall have started turning it back around back to. 'haha your meat so small and shriveled you get no bitches' #'haha stupid incel virgin' like okay. didnt realize we all went back to fucking. middle school but okay #god im gonna run out of tine to get ready for my thing writing this stupid post UGH evil #but like idk we've kinda circled back to being like haha being a virgin still is stupid and silly and shameful #and if im quite honest. i do think the acecourse played a part in that bc i felt like we were making good progress in like #hey guys is fine to not have sex ever if you dont want to its fine to not want sex its fine #and then aphobes went fucking rabid on us and splintered and destroyed online communities all over but especially on tumblr #and so many aces went back in the closet we stopped talking about it we stopped spreading awareness and now this stupid goddamn like #and now this stupid bullshit attitude is back where its like funny to call someone a virgin as an insult but like no bro trust me its okay #its okay for me to do it bc im a hot queer person with huge meat instead of a cisstraight frat bro with huge meat #? like you know the issue was the behavior right? not the fact that it was straight dudes saying it? its bc the thing being said was shitty? #you know you can dunk on the puritan bitches trying to police your behavior at pride without getting us as collateral damage right #stop making me read that stupid ugly ass word ur not cool or funny #whatever #if you come on to this post to start shit i will not only block you but as many of your mutuals and followers as i can find. i will scroll #i will block this entire fucking website if i need to do not test me. i am exhausted and the acecourse ate up all my tolerance in 2015.

[dolls-self-ships]

just saw someone on a self shipping post say to not use the word "obsessed" to describe their feelings for their f/o bc it's harmful to those with ocd and as someone with severe ocd please shut the fuck up and go outside oh my god

#tbh this is why i dont interact with the selfship community that often bc so many of you need to touch grass #like im serious #i love self shipping dgmw but holy fuck some of you its like walking on eggshells #'dni if you ship with abusers or problematic characters!!!' like huh???? wha?????? #im no proshipper like i dont like p*dos either but #not wanting people that ship with villains is like. #... youre blocking out like a huge chunk of the community babe #the purity culture in the selfship community is something else

[silvermoon424]

I will never be a content creator. The microscope those people live under is insane. It’s like nobody is ever allowed to mess up.

I was just reading this thread started by a leftist content creator asking people about a time when they felt let down by a creator they liked, and the comments were such a mixed bag. There was a lot of genuine criticism but then you’d also get comments like “ABC said this one kinda questionable thing one time, it shocked me so much and I lost all my respect for them. I couldn’t in good conscience keep supporting them after they had one questionable take.”

Fuck the alt-right pipeline and creators who never learn from their mistakes but progressives also need to stop being so fucking judgmental. People are going to mess up, you need to let them learn and grow instead of demanding perfection at all times.

#rant #purity culture #fuck purity culture

[lostmf]

By @desnos

#sadnees #tw depressing thoughts #depressing shit #i'm sad #tw depressing stuff #depressing life #childhood trauma #quotes #poetic #childhood #truamacore #generational truama #purity culture #childhood ptsd #living with ptsd #tw: sucidal thoughts #tw ptsd #tw selfhate #self h@rm #this is a cry for help #mentally drained #mentally fucked #ptsd recovery #complex ptsd #ptsd #tw cptsd #childhood truama #child abuse #abuse cw #tw abuse

[ineffectualdemon]

Someone just equated fucking your friends to incest to me

Friends aren't biologically related to you!

It is literally not incest!

#incest tw #purity culture #they literally called it perverted #because i said its fine to fuck your friends

[thepeacefulgarden]

Numbers that don't define your worth:

The number of people you have or haven't slept with.

The number on the scale.

The height of your heels.

The length of your dress, pants, shorts, or skirt.

The depth of your neckline.

The width of your waistline.

The measurements of various body parts.

Your BMI.

Your fasting glucose, cholesterol, A1C, or any other labs.

The number of children you've had.

How many of those children are boys.

How many relationships you've been in.

How many times you've been married.

How many days you've been sober.

The number of trophies on your shelf.

Your income.

Your credit score.

How many extracurriculars you're involved in.

The number of likes you have on whatever content you post.

The number of followers you have on social media.

The number of friends you have in real life.

How many parties you get invited to.

Your age.

How much weight you can lift bench press.

How many push-ups, sit-ups, chin-ups, etc. you can do.

Your height.

The numbers on your clothing tags.

The number of degrees and certificates you have.

The number of houses you own.

The number of hours you work each week.

Your GPA.

#you are enough #you are worthy #purity culture #fuck diet culture #your body is not a moral failing #self compassion #self care #mental health #stop the glorification of busy #work #career #school #relationships

[craycraybluejay]

"I don't care about shipcourse, I touch grass hurr durr"

But you do realize that antis are part of a far right push towards wider censorship policies in actual real life. Of actual real art. Right? Right??????

You touch grass but do you ever want to touch a piece of non-corporate-approved not cookie cutter white christian media again? You ever read a book that has been banned and think "well jeez it would suck if I lived in a time when I would get arrested for this."

THE TIME IS HERE. THE PUSH IS NOW. ARTISTS OF ALL SORTS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH FANFICTION OR SHIPPING HAVE BEEN SPEAKING OUT AND WARNING YOU ABOUT THIS FOR AGES. IT IS NOT A "CHRONICALLY ONLINE" STANCE TO THINK CENSORSHIP IS BAD AND ACTIVELY DANGEROUS TO EVERY SINGLE PERSON WHO CANNOT BUY THEIR WAY OUT OF JAIL. THE NAZIS HAD A WHOLE THING ABOUT "GOOD MORALLY PURE ART" AND "BAD MORALLY DEGENERATE ART" TOO. THEY BURNED RECORDS OF QUEER CLINICS. THEY CENSORED ANY NEWS THAT WASN'T WITH THEIR AGENDA. DOES THAT REMIND YOU OF ANYTHING DOES IT.

#moms for liberty #anti anti #these are the same groups #i'll say it again #antis and extremist book banning groups like m4l are the same people #anti censorship #fuck censorship #fuck purity culture #this is not just a fanfiction issue this is a human rights and freedoms issue #and even if it were somehow completely exclusive to fanfiction it would STILL BE VERY FUCKING BAD #how dismal must your worldview be where censorship based on regurgitated fascist ideals is totally normal and okay

[fandom-hoarder]

Stop fucking saying CP. 'Child porn' is not a thing. That's a harmful, outdated term that implies a child can consent. A child cannot consent. Sexually explicit material that exploits REAL children is CSEM (child sexual exploitation material) or CSAM (child sexual abuse material).

Sexually explicit FICTION is not CSEM or CSAM -- it does not exploit real people of any age to create. That's because it's fiction. Reading it also does not exploit a real person, of any age. It might affect the person that chose to read it, in an emotional/distressing way, and that may feel like harm. But it is not the same as the creator causing you harm maliciously. Dealing with coming across things that distress us is something we all have to learn when we grow up.

Reading or writing underage sexually explicit fiction doesn't make a person a pedophile or a predator. (A lot of you don't seem to actually KNOW what a pedophile is, at that. Frustrating. Words MEAN THINGS.) It's not evidence of being one, or having these desires, either. Yes, I mean even when the fiction portrays things that are horrific IRL. Yes, I mean even when something that would be horrible IRL is treated as romantic and consensual in fiction. And yes, I mean even the stuff that squicks you personally.

When you (general) throw terms like this around incorrectly, loosely, or vengefully, you actually do harm by watering down the meaning of words that describe actual, exploitative, illegal, and terrible real life actions. You do harm by making undue accusations and wasting time and resources that should've been spent elsewhere. You affect real people.

Sometimes people write from their own childhood experiences. Some people just have a fucking imagination for how a situation might play out under certain circumstances. Some people look at two characters and their history and fill in the blanks with all the twists and turns they see lurking in the shadows. Some people have a really fucked up idea they want to explore IN FICTION.

People can have their own squicks and boundaries about it, and that's fine. There's certainly fictional underage material that squicks me, even though I write and read tons of underage fiction. This is what tags, summaries, the back button, and the delete from history button are for.

Thought crime is not a thing. Quit equating it with real life.

#anti purity culture #anti using words incorrectly to the point they have no fucking meaning #sick of fucking seeing that label and the OTHER phrase slung around like a weapon or a handful of shit #as if using the term 'cp' or 'kp' doesn't make you look like a victim blamer or one of those really outdated comedians #me.txt #words mean things #thought crime #thought crime doesn't exist

[duaghterofstories]

What if Alastor’s deal, the one that Husk was talking about, is with Charlie. Maybe it’s not even a real deal? What if they met when he was human and they both became obsessed with each other. After he died, he tried to find an in with his princess and she assumed he went to Heaven.

There is a leash, a metaphorical one, that binds him to her. One he loves and adores, that he uses to follow her around. He always knows where she is and what she’s feeling. He is always there, waiting for her to see him properly, to actually take his soul in a deal.

Anyway, I’m writing a fanfic about this, so keep an eye out.

#charlastor #charlie x alastor #alastor x charlie #radiobelle #charlie magne #hazbin ships #hazbin hotel #comship #proshipper safe #proshippers please interact #proshippers are welcome #pro ship #anti anti #antis do not interact #antis dni #antis fuck off #anti purity culture #ship and let ship #fanfic #fanfic ideas #hazbin hotel fanfic #hazbin hotel fanfiction

[clearancecreedwatersurvival]

Kink discourse is so fucking wacky to me. It is just roleplay. It’s a game. It’s make believe. Please calm down. People who play dnd don’t actually want to kill other people with swords, either, since this is apparently hard to distinguish. People who watch horror movies are not secretly serial killers waiting to strike. Watching game of thrones didn’t make people fuck their siblings. Are you listening to me.

#yes this is is about the fucking aita post #it’s so ridiculous I can’t get over it #someone in the comments tried to do the ‘being into cnc kink is a moral failing’ routine #like bud. come on. #kink discourse #purity culture #moralizing fiction #caitie speaks

[illnessfaker]

being a sexual person isn't a bad thing. having sex isn't a bad thing. having sex frequently isn't a bad thing. if you genuinely think someone engaging in a lot of sexual behavior/activity whether it's watching porn or actually having sex is this debased activity that has an impact on someone's logical functioning ("horny brainrot" or whatever you wanna call it), you're espousing reactionary beliefs around sexuality oft endorsed by the likes of conservative catholics. that's it. that's what you're doing.

#op #sexuality #site culture #turning off rb's because i don't feel like dealing w/ any more discourse stemming from this post i'm Tired. #if you're rb'ing this and have 'anti-purity culture' in your descrip consider staying the fuck away from me

[zykamiliah]

My fucking confession to that fucking blog I won't waste my time submitting bc really what's even the point of talking to someone who doesn't want to open their minds and understand is that y'all came out of reading and experiencing svsss not having learnt anything.

When written within the bounds of the original genre, this kind of character was extremely difficult to handle. You could say he was scum, but he was also pitiful. But if you tried to acknowledge his pathos, his ruthlessness was real too. Characters that were both scummy and tragic always drew aggro, and they were a hotbed for wank, leading comments sections to devolve into massive flame wars. Better to hack him down into a formulaic asshole and let the protagonist step on him. Easier to write, and the readers would find it satisfying as well. (Chapter 19: Shen Jiu)

this is why writers can't write complex villains, bc you all with your moral purity takes can't handle it. bravo, you've proved mxtx right.

some of you get soooooo twisted trying to defend SJ you flatten his character and make him into a parody of himself.

some of you are so wrapped in the pity contest of "who suffered the most" to determine who has the moral highground that you don't get that you can't pit a character's pain against another character's pain. abuse is abuse is abuse. QJL was abusive for three years, SJ killed him. SJ was abusive for aprox. 5-7 years, Bingge tortured him AND killed him. And killed everyone associated to him. Somewhere down the line, I bet that in real PIDW verse someone will try to take out Bingge for all the suffering he caused. the point is that they BOTH did SHITTY THINGS, they were BOTH abusive because they DIDN'T RECEIVE ANY LOVE IN THEIR LIVES after they were abandoned. both shen jiu and bingge are scummy and tragic. BOTH OF THEM. and because of the abuse and trauma they suffered, they both had awful coping mechanisms that entailed taking out their pain on people who didn't deserve it.

and that's the whole fucking point!!! they're deliciously complex characters. they were born from the fucked-up union between the cycle of abuse and toxic masculinity. they are simultaneously constructions and deconstructions of the Villain Character. they are profoundly human as well, because they showcase the darkness of the human experience, what happens when a person transforms their pain into a weapon to hurt others.

and y'all are arguing over who is innocent? get out.

#svsss #svsss meta #zykamiliah-svsss #shen jiu #luo bingge #bingge #luo binghe #and don't get me started on the whole virgin thing #as if sj being a virgin or not is ever made clear #we don't fucking know that's the issue #we can only speculate #(take a shot every time mxtx leaves something unexplained-- you'll be drunk in half an hour) #regardless treating sj being a virgin as a get out of jail card is hilariously stupid #get your purity culture takes out of the svsss tag please they contribute nothing to the discussion

[aroxbetchio]

yknow some ppl really need to stop pretending that they’re better than others because they can acknowledge nonsexual qualities abt someone. sexual attraction isn’t a bad thing. it doesn’t make you a bad person. like cmon dude.

#aroallo #purity culture #purity culture bs #fuck purity culture #elliot’s posts 🐍 #aromantic allosexual #aspec #aspec discourse #aspec discussions #aspec community #lgbtqia #aro #aromantic #i feel like some ppl are going to get mad at me for tagging this as lgbtq and aro but idc #aroallos are a very valid part of the community

[coockie8]

I saw someone on twitter claim that lolicon/shotacon and other adjacent type tropes only exist because pedophiles know they can't rape children, so they just draw it instead.

And I am not even remotely joking when I ask, if that were 100% factual and not a blatant strawman; how is that a bad thing?

How is someone with a mental illness choosing to cope with their desires through artwork instead of going out and raping a real, living child a bad thing?

Look me in the eyes and explain it like I'm 5 how intentionally going out of your way to avoid hurting a person because you know it would be wrong is bad.

#just anti things #anti bs #purity culture #proship #at this point I want to say I'd respect an anti more who just blatantly admitted they only care about not having to see what they dislike #but I have met antis who admit that and I 100% do *not* respect that #'cause the only options here are you're a fucking idiot puritan who genuinely believes cartoons are equivalent to people #or you're a blatant fascist #and neither of those options are *good* :/