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AITA for saying that wishing on someone's death is bad regardless?

So I'm in this semi-large Discord server (3 friend groups that merged into one) and it has a channel for positive news people have received, scholarships or cute pet photos and stuff like that. And a few hours ago this person I haven't spoken much to posted in all caps (spoiled and tagged, but still in the POSITIVE NEWS CHANNEL) that her rapist had killed himself. Obviously rape is bad, but I feel like bringing up a topic like that and celebrating is terrible regardless? Because no one deserves to die and celebrating SUICIDE of all things is bad? I felt like i shouldn't have to explain it but I flagged a mod in the channel asking them to delete it but they told me that she's allowed to cope however she wants but I feel like celebrating SUICIEDE isn't a like that should ever be crossed??? AITA?? I feel like I'm the only sane person in this server now

#its fine to celebrate the death of someone who hurt you like that but #it feels like the wrong place and channel for it

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AITA for jerkin' it to Goya's Black Paintings?

Emojis for convenience and humor: 🎨🖼🍆💦

I know someone's gonna yell bait about this but idc, like, what? Do you want proof? Video evidence? Grow up.

So I (30x) really like Goya's Black Paintings. Like, Saturn Devouring His Son, Duel with Cudgels, A Pilgrimage to San Isidro. I think they're hypnotic, beautiful, evocative. They make me feel emotions I can't quite explain properly.

As the title says, sometimes I beat my meat to them. Whatever. It's not really about horniness. But the intent doesn't matter.

Recently (in a discussion about sexuality in art, I promise it was relevant, similar sentiments were being shared) I mentioned to my partner (33nb) that I do this. They were pretty taken aback.

Apparently, they find this 'gross' and 'kind of dodgy' because Goya's black paintings were never intended to be shared with a wider audience. They were art that he did not mean to share, painted on the walls of his house near the end of his life. They say it seems like the work is too personal to jerk off to, that it seems invasive or like a violation.

I don't think it's a big deal. The guy is dead, it's not like his ghost knows what I'm doing. It's a good thing to consider, but I don't think it ultimately matters, ethically.

So, I guess AITA for this?

#op you are so rad #nta

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Maybe I’m weird, and maybe it’s just that tumblr isn’t one community but lots of little ones. But I have to say it gives me a bit of whiplash to post to my friends about how people can have mental health issues that are severe enough that makes interacting with them weird and scary, and get support and “that was understandably rough for you, we love you” and then to peruse my dash and see things like “if a disorder has a stigmatized name, we should be advocating that it not be allowed into the DSM at all. No one is actually scary, that’s just ableism.”

…No? Some illnesses do predispose people to do scary things?

Doesn’t mean they’re not people, but man. I really get the vibe on this hellsite sometimes that there’s a subset of users who has no idea what unsafe means unless the unsafe person is a cop.

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I want to give a bitejob. Where I make you cum by ONLY using teeth on your dick…. No lips no saliva and it takes about 4 hours and a lot of mental fortitude

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Parents really post stuff like this online and wonder why their kids don't trust them

#kill them

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sure yeah im a trans man a tboy a transmasc a self made man blah blah boypussy whatever. are you capable of just calling me a man? or do you have to make sure everyone knows im trans and therefore not deserving of the title of just 'man'?

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Not brushing your teeth??

In THIS economy???

#anouther advice #anouther resources

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i hate when i send someone a meme in another language and they're like "uhm... translate? 😒" fucker i sent you a meme where 90% of the words have an english cognate and/or you don't need to know what they're saying to find it funny. can you at least TRY

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Me: I hate gossip

Also me:

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why is trying to make a new friend so embarrassing. hi. me again. asking for your attention once more even though i am literally just some random person to you. it's because i want to be not just a random person to you. please understand

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i love the word snuffbait. like you're begging me to kill you just by existing lol

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“I think everything in life is art. What you do. How you dress. The way you love someone, and how you talk. Your smile and your personality. What you believe in, and all your dreams. The way you drink your tea, How you decorate your home. Or party. Your grocery list. The food you make. How your writing looks. And the way you feel. Life is art.”

— Helena Bonham Carter

#and you know what ISN'T ART? #ROBOTS REGURGITATIONS !!! :DDDDDD

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So do you, like, like bugs, just not in a sexual context? Because your limits post says no bugs but you’ve reblogged bugs from me.

some bugs r ok like butterflies but in general i dislike them. basically "i reblog what im sometimes ok with but pls dont personally send them to me/pls tag them so i can filter them if possible"

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You think Andrew and Ashley fucked on their mom's grave

there is absolutely no doubt in my mind they do it at least once a year and have zero regard for how fucked up everything is afterwards. ashley holds onto the tombstone to better ride andrew so hard that it fuckin breaks. dirt everywhere. ashley makes andrew clean her for days. possibly with his tongue

#anouther inspiration