i’m the one oppressing straight people in fandom btw . when someone complains about people being too mean and unfair to m/f shippers they’re talking about me
When a lesbian artist is like boldly lesbian and everyone is like 'omg bi icon, wait maybe she not REALLY a lesbian she sang about a boy a few times' I'm just... world explosion. Chappell Roan and Renée Rapp are lesbians and y'all are just gonna have to cope
whenever there is talk about forgiving and letting sexual abusers into ur community and giving them a chance I become flabbergasted until I remember that not everyone lived with a pedophile for 20+ years of their life :/
a terf? that's someone who hates men, right? transmisogyny? yeah we experience that too, it's a flavor of misandry I assure you. feminism? it's been good and bad at the same time, I wanna say! too many times it left men behind. patriarchy? yeah it sucks. it's like 5 rich people who force men not to cry and hide their emotions. and oppresses women who are also complicit in it as mothers I guess.